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The Most Scandalous shit A Family Member has done to you

Nothing as scandalous as what I've been reading, but....

Have a cousin who was having a hard time back in Michigan. He had got caught up in some shit and wound up with about a dozen or so buck shot embedded in his shoulder. He was pleading with me to help him get a fresh start here in Bmore. I warned him not to come down here with any shenanigans.
Well I was blind and should have seen the signs. One day while downtown we dipped in the restroom and I smelled a crazy smoke smell. He immediately identified it as crack. I just chalked it up to him being more street savvy then me. But then shit started getting missing.
One day I noticed my camcorder was gone. Another day I couldn't find a Discman. The final straw came when I was holding some heat for some associates and I came home one evening to find one of them gone along with him. When he finally showed back up, I was like just give it back no questions asked because you know those don't belong to me. He acted dumb at first and then told me some bullshit story about taking one out to show off and some niggas took it from him. How the fuck is somebody going to "take" an assault rifle from you? He sold that shit for drugs. I put him out and put him on notice that I didn't have his back when my boys came. Family or no family, fuck him.
My dude served him up a proper ass whooping but let him live out of respect for me and I told him he had to leave town and not to go to my mothers crib either.
So this nigga got me one last time. Pleaded with me to take him to the bus station and kick it with him until his bus left. When I got home, I found that all of my shines was gone AND brand new leather jacket. Fucked me over good.
No good deed goes unpunished. :smh:
 
masterzeek07 said:
My cuz caught a dope case....told on all his family including me..1 cuz got 13 years I got probation being it was my first case for selling a gram of bullshit ass soft to an undercover he had chillingg at his house on several occasions talking bout its his neighbor
This nigga is worst than a stranger...trust is a m f er u can't trust no one
That's the lessons I learned from that shit..oh yea them pigs was raiding the house like I was the man armed to the teeth ..if it was not real it would be funny
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overlooked this post.

same shit here, my shit was nowhere near that serious in actuality, part of the reason i was able to get it down to manageable time. WAY overblown. total waste of county/state/federal money and time.
 
I got a few to pick from, but one that really pissed me off is my Mom worked so much over time to get me a TV, and a Supernintendo for Christmas...I went into town to my aunts house over the weekend...went out to play with my other friends and came back only to find my book bag emptied out....her son, my "cousin" sold my supernintendo, controller and all my games for 20 fuckin dollars...worst of all he was an adult i looked up to:smh:
 
when i was 5 years old my family moved to Memphis and we stayed with my grandparents until my dad could get our house fixed up for us to live in.

my uncle was in his bedroom one day and told me to come to him.

he handed a lit joint to me and said "puff on it".

i wouldnt hold it so he put it up to my mouth and said puff on it.

i told him i didnt know what he meant.

he said do this, then sucked in air through his mouth.

so i did it.

i didnt know about the concept of inhaling smoke so swallowed it.

this motherfucker was trying to get a 5 year old high.

that shit burned all the way down my throat, into my stomach...and yes it was HELL coming out. i ran screaming and crying right to my grandmother.

well all hell broke loose. he caught it from EVERYBODY in my family, from my grandmother to my other uncles to my aunts to my brother to my moms and dad.

that following weekend we moved out, the house wasn't finished but we made do until it was.

dude was actually mad at me for getting him into so much trouble. he would say slick shit to me when no one else was around, or fuck up my toys when i had to stay there when my parents were away.

it would come up ever so often and each time he lied and told a different reason for why he did that, ranging from i was acting like i was interested in it so he was trying to show me i wouldnt like it, to he was half sleep and thought he was dreaming. :hmm:

man one time he jumped up in my face when i was grown...i just laughed and told him to sit his ass down before i reminded him i wasnt 5 any more.

he sat down quick too.

:lol:
 
DaAssWatcher said:
Damn were yall on bad terms before that???Did you confront her about that shit or did you just let it be???
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We weren't speaking cause she accused me of stealing her wedding photo album. Think about that for a minute. The same photo album she has in her house, and been showing to friends and family for months. It was one of the custom ones, made storybook style that Apple does. After she had showed it off and loved on it, she told, not asked, TOLD me, I had to make her another one, because it had grammatical and punctuation errors in it. You'd have thought a nigga had her name spelled wrong or something, but new, this heffa was wanting, no contractions, so "you've" should be "you have". Being a good brother, you know my dumb ass ordered her a brand new one and changed all the contractions. $185 later, Apple ships a new one to her. She gets it, falls in love, and then cant find the old one. I must took it, too bad that bitch live in NY, and Im in FL. Thats why we wasn't speaking. I look back and lm like, is that shit even real?

When I confronted her about the reunion, she said, "well it wasn't really a reunion, just a get together" despite the fact that the hotel that it was hosted at took pics, and created a program called "__________ family reunion"

That shit got real ugly, family vs family, people took sides and shit. Took about 7years before that shit got even slightly civil. Even now. Im closer with my homeboys and their family than I am my own.
 
suntannedsuperman757 said:
When I was about 10, I had saved up close to $300 in money I had made via cutting grass, doing little odd jobs here and there, and gifts from family members. I had a lot of grand plans for that money. I kept it in a 'hiding spot' in my closet but I made sure to count it everyday to make sure I wasn't missing any. One day I came home from school and noticed my closet was left wide open and in ruins. As it turns out, my own mother had found my hiding spot and took all of my money! I confronted her about it and she went on a tangent about bills and about how I really owe her. Sure nowadays, I can somewhat see where she was comming from but my 10 year old mind was seriously fucked up about this. How could I trust anyone if I can't trust my own mother? I think subconsciously this could be the reason I will prolly never have any 'serious' relationship...
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No she fucked you and you owed her nothing. Its her fucking job as a parent to take care of you. She fucked you and you let her being your mother justify that shit when you got older.
 
suntannedsuperman757 said:
When I was about 10, I had saved up close to $300 in money I had made via cutting grass, doing little odd jobs here and there, and gifts from family members. I had a lot of grand plans for that money. I kept it in a 'hiding spot' in my closet but I made sure to count it everyday to make sure I wasn't missing any. One day I came home from school and noticed my closet was left wide open and in ruins. As it turns out, my own mother had found my hiding spot and took all of my money! I confronted her about it and she went on a tangent about bills and about how I really owe her. Sure nowadays, I can somewhat see where she was comming from but my 10 year old mind was seriously fucked up about this. How could I trust anyone if I can't trust my own mother? I think subconsciously this could be the reason I will prolly never have any 'serious' relationship...
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Naw dude...

Devilstrider said:
No she fucked you and you owed her nothing. Its her fucking job as a parent to take care of you. She fucked you and you let her being your mother justify that shit when you got older.
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...this here. That suppose to be your mother. I don't want you to have no real ill will towards your mom but that is not an understanding any child should comprehend. We as children don't owe parents anything but smiles, hugs, an "I Love You", good grades - all the shit you can't touch. My parents have asked to borrow my christmas/birthday money and I'd get it back with something extra. What your mother did is dirty, shameful, and makes me mad as a mom. I wish I would do something like that to my kids that they worked hard for, I'd cut off my own hand.
 
melonpecan said:
...this here. That suppose to be your mother. I don't want you to have no real ill will towards your mom but that is not an understanding any child should comprehend. We as children don't owe parents anything but smiles, hugs, an "I Love You", good grades - all the shit you can't touch. My parents have asked to borrow my christmas/birthday money and I'd get it back with something extra. What your mother did is dirty, shameful, and makes me mad as a mom. I wish I would do something like that to my kids that they worked hard for, I'd cut off my own hand.
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Exactly.
 
suntannedsuperman757 said:
When I was about 10, I had saved up close to $300 in money I had made via cutting grass, doing little odd jobs here and there, and gifts from family members. I had a lot of grand plans for that money. I kept it in a 'hiding spot' in my closet but I made sure to count it everyday to make sure I wasn't missing any. One day I came home from school and noticed my closet was left wide open and in ruins. As it turns out, my own mother had found my hiding spot and took all of my money! I confronted her about it and she went on a tangent about bills and about how I really owe her. Sure nowadays, I can somewhat see where she was comming from but my 10 year old mind was seriously fucked up about this. How could I trust anyone if I can't trust my own mother? I think subconsciously this could be the reason I will prolly never have any 'serious' relationship...
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Your moms sounds like a crack head. Bills=Willie down the street with that spider package :lol:
 
moblack said:
Your moms sounds like a crack head. Bills=Willie down the street with that spider package :lol:
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I dated a girl a few years ago who's dad used to steal money from her for drugs so that may be true. Sorry to say but his mom sounds like scum.
 
suntannedsuperman757 said:
Naw my mom aint no damn crackhead...she doesn't even smoke weed... She just (well at least at one point) a damn thief...
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Thieves steal for a reason and when they steal from their kids its a bad reason. It could be drugs, alcohol or gambling. Make it bad, she ransacked your shit and got mad when you asked her about it. No disrespect to your moms but when the words "You owe me" comes out a parents mouth something is wrong folk.
 
My uncle was one of those work/hustle niggas. Had a damn good 9 to 5, but he beat the block every night. Was pretty damn good at it too. Well he didn't have any sons so he pretty much raised me like I was his son. When he died one of his insurance policies was left to me as the beneficiary. My aunt forged my name and deposited the money into her account. Years later when she died, another one of my aunts found the paperwork and showed it to my mom who then told me about it. I was so damn mad, not just because of the amount, but because a aunt who I held in such high regard just flat out jacked me out of a lot of money.

Make it so bad, when my uncle died, my aunt bought me a 1985 Buick Regal, had it painted, threw some rims on it, had the motor rebuilt and gave me the money to put some sounds in it. I think all in all I maybe spent 10k on that car, I was happy as shit about that lil car. Not knowing that I should've had enough money to cash out a Lex and a furnished condo :smh:
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
Thieves steal for a reason and when they steal from their kids its a bad reason. It could be drugs, alcohol or gambling. Make it bad, she ransacked your shit and got mad when you asked her about it. No disrespect to your moms but when the words "You owe me" comes out a parents mouth something is wrong folk.
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Nah she never had a problem with any of the 3 (drugs, alochol, or gambling). I know we weren't in a good position at all at that point financially though. She was in college during that time so the household income was primarily based on my stepdad's shipyard gig. And even to this day, she has always been HORRIBLE at managing money. She is a pharmacist now caking well over $150K in a city where the cost of living is dirt cheap but she's not balling like she should be (but to give her the benefit of the doubt, my 2 youngest siblings are spoiled as hell). I really think her issue is she is just the epitome of selfish.
 
suntannedsuperman757 said:
Nah she never had a problem with any of the 3 (drugs, alochol, or gambling). I know we weren't in a good position at all at that point financially though. She was in college during that time so the household income was primarily based on my stepdad's shipyard gig. And even to this day, she has always been HORRIBLE at managing money. She is a pharmacist now caking well over $150K in a city where the cost of living is dirt cheap but she's not balling like she should be (but to give her the benefit of the doubt, my 2 youngest siblings are spoiled as hell). I really think her issue is she is just the epitome of selfish.
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I feel you but let me ask you this, where does the money go?

4North1Side2 said:
Sad stories.
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Man..shows you how ill some family can be.
 
I been with the same girl for 6 years now, about to have a child next month with her. Our parents just met each other this passed year. My step pops for whatever reason likes to text her pops and make up shit about me. The other day he told her pops I had a DUI and my court date was Jan.26 At first I was like :lol: because I don't even drink or smoke & I haven't had a run in with the police in 3-4 years. But then I seen how her pops really believes the shit and her calls her stressing her about it, mind you she 8 months pregnant :angry::angry::angry:

At first I was like fuck it my step pops been dead to me a while now, he got high blood pressure issues & still throws back his pork, beef & chicken no veggies & dude still drinks bottom shelf beers. I'm like if you don't give a fuck about your life then why should I right. I'm in a bad place because when my moms wants me to leave the baby over there "for the night" it's gonna break her heart when I say NO :smh: I don't trust them, especially with my child. I only see them 2-3 times out the year so I honestly believe that I don't know them.

One time he text her pops saying how I don't have a job. I bust out laughing when I heard because this guy doesn't even know I own my own business. :lol: :smh: :angry: :hmm:

Fuck-a-step-pops!!!
 
Skinnie Talls said:
I been with the same girl for 6 years now, about to have a child next month with her. Our parents just met each other this passed year. My step pops for whatever reason likes to text her pops and make up shit about me. The other day he told her pops I had a DUI and my court date was Jan.26 At first I was like :lol: because I don't even drink or smoke & I haven't had a run in with the police in 3-4 years. But then I seen how her pops really believes the shit and her calls her stressing her about it, mind you she 8 months pregnant :angry::angry::angry:

At first I was like fuck it my step pops been dead to me a while now, he got high blood pressure issues & still throws back his pork, beef & chicken no veggies & dude still drinks bottom shelf beers. I'm like if you don't give a fuck about your life then why should I right. I'm in a bad place because when my moms wants me to leave the baby over there "for the night" it's gonna break her heart when I say NO :smh: I don't trust them, especially with my child. I only see them 2-3 times out the year so I honestly believe that I don't know them.

One time he text her pops saying how I don't have a job. I bust out laughing when I heard because this guy doesn't even know I own my own business. :lol: :smh: :angry: :hmm:

Fuck-a-step-pops!!!
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what kinda jump to the other side tom foolery is that? What the fuck is he getting out that and does he even know that nigga like that?
 
hollywood cole sr. said:
what kinda jump to the other side tom foolery is that? What the fuck is he getting out that and does he even know that nigga like that?
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I don't take something that doesn't make sense and try & make it make sense, however he used to hate how his moms would go around and gossip family biz. I mean he HATED it & come to find out he turned out just like her.

The fact that he sending "Texts" was a red flag

The fact that they are made up lies, well I dunno know what the fuck that is.

No, he doesn't know her pops like that.

Only thing I can see is he is trying to sabotage or show me how to struggle or ... fuck it I don't know what it is. I'll be 30 this year this shit is beyond my comprehension. This guy is 55 on his TMZ shit hard. I haven't confronted him about it & I doubt I will. I think the cut off is much harsher & stronger because they will always wonder why.

As for my girl pops, I might take their side of the family to lunch on the 26th my alleged courtdate just to physically show them what kinda dick head my step pops is.
 
Skinnie Talls said:
I been with the same girl for 6 years now, about to have a child next month with her. Our parents just met each other this passed year. My step pops for whatever reason likes to text her pops and make up shit about me. The other day he told her pops I had a DUI and my court date was Jan.26 At first I was like :lol: because I don't even drink or smoke & I haven't had a run in with the police in 3-4 years. But then I seen how her pops really believes the shit and her calls her stressing her about it, mind you she 8 months pregnant :angry::angry::angry:

At first I was like fuck it my step pops been dead to me a while now, he got high blood pressure issues & still throws back his pork, beef & chicken no veggies & dude still drinks bottom shelf beers. I'm like if you don't give a fuck about your life then why should I right. I'm in a bad place because when my moms wants me to leave the baby over there "for the night" it's gonna break her heart when I say NO :smh: I don't trust them, especially with my child. I only see them 2-3 times out the year so I honestly believe that I don't know them.

One time he text her pops saying how I don't have a job. I bust out laughing when I heard because this guy doesn't even know I own my own business. :lol: :smh: :angry: :hmm:

Fuck-a-step-pops!!!
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so the origin of the beef with your step father is that he doesn't eat enough veggies?,,, wow
 
gameboy said:
so the orgin of the beef with your step father is that he doesn't eat enough veggies?,,, wow
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Kind of, not exactly though. I'm saying he has very savage morals and his health is hurting because of it. I can see it, he can see it but just chooses to keep on rolling. My thing is why continue to go to the doctor to see what wrong with you, then when they tell you the truth you just ignore it and then go back wondering why you have the same issues.

The man has no knowledge of self & I can't be around that aura & I damn sure don't want them giving lil tid bits of misinformation to my son.

Not a beef I just dont fuck with people like that and if they happen to be relatives oh well. My tolerance for mediocrity is very low.
 

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