spend some time in the public safety office or student counseling of a college / university with dorms-
you will begin to see its much more complex than that -
blatant clear cut harassment and assault is rare
I do wish more women would stop hiding when they have been assaulted and seek help -
but you can't ignore that date rape etc - is much more common and its like fog - nothing is clear about the stories, but the lower you go the more you see but you still can't see everything ...
then there are the times regret, offense or embarrassment morphs into rape
Women being raped or drugged then tell their friends but continue the relationship with the attacker or even start dating-
You would be surprised how many times stories like that come out during an assault or rape complaint on a campus...
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Look at this mess- the woman that went to HR about Matt Lauer was really in a long term affair with him... He and a few other people that knew about it swear it had to be consensual. She insists it was coerced (she was in fear of her career).
Matt is a rich white man and very protected, for example: Meredith Vieira put Matt on blast for having a bag full of sex toys...
so yesterday this came out
Matt Lauer did receive 'a shopping bag filled with sex toys,' claims therapist
http://www.foxnews.com/entertainmen...ag-filled-with-sex-toys-claims-therapist.html
Former “Today” show co-host Meredith Vieira joked about the time she went into Matt Lauer’s office and found “a huge bag of sex toys” in a resurfaced video from 2016 – and now a therapist is claiming she was the one who gave him the goods.
Dr. Laura Berman, who was a regular guest on the “Today” show, told Inside Edition Friday she reportedly gave the fallen TV journalist sex toys to help him spice up his troubled 19-year marriage with his wife, former model Annette Roque.
She claimed the 59-year-old sought advice when cameras weren’t rolling.
Employee morale at NBC news is reportedly low and a lot of current and former female employees are quietly defending Matt...
Matt's lawyers say they aren't letting NBC skip out on $20 mil - so guess what will happen when/ if team Matt starts to actively defend himself? putting out his side of the story? does the Kobe and starts throwing people under the bus?