The natural musicianship of Africans
How old are you and did you love there alone?Not true for me. I wasn't necessarily trying to connect with my roots... I was fleeing the US to any port in a storm. Belize has been home to Black people since the slave trade, a port for the slaves brought by England. It was British Honduras then and until not terribly long ago. So you are correct, if someone is seeking his actual homeland Africa is a likely choice, but keep in mind Nzinga, not all Black people are proven to be from Africa. Black people have been scattered around the world since the birth of recorded history. I have been to a short list of countries in Africa and as much as I'd love to keep visiting new countries there, they are all seemingly the same as far as being hard on the senses. Africa as I experienced it is LOUD, the traffic is roadway anarchy, people drive crazy and fast too, giving the continent the highest highway death rate in the world. The market places are always chaotic, and loud. Dude, I'm not young anymore, and I| appreciate serenity, peace and quiet and that's easy to find here in Belize but oh so elusive in the African countries I've been to. I guess you could go out into the sticks and find peace but the one time I tried that at Elizabeth park in Uganda, I almost got eaten by a pack of Hyenas. No thanks.
pushing 60, not sure about the "love there alone" question. Rephrase?How old are you and did you love there alone?
Move*pushing 60, not sure about the "love there alone" question. Rephrase?
No I met my wife in a sleepy little place called Nottingham in the UK .... stayed there awhile but they've effectively kicked me out of England (long story) but I knew I didn't want to return to the US ... trump had just got elected .... so we decided to go to Belize. My Spanish is fairly good, but the wife struggles with the language so Belize being the only English speaking country in South or Central America won out. I, at the time, wanted to go to either Ghana or Uganda, but the wife hates even visiting Africa. I will concede that Africa can be very hard on the senses. It's mostly LOUD, dirty, chaotic, the traffic is a dangerous nightmare and the wife loves to make fun of, and imitate her nemeses, African women, and their deep husky voices. My wife is not the friendliest person. Matter of fact, she's a complete fucking, bitch ass cunt! As it turns out, Belize is beginning to grind on my nerves now as well. It's a nice place to kill a year or two, but forever? Naw! I'm considering Colombia, with or without the wife, but who the fuck knows where I'll be in a year. In most cases I end up anywhere except where I had planned to be.Move*
InterestingNo I met my wife in a sleepy little place called Nottingham in the UK .... stayed there awhile but they've effectively kicked me out of England (long story) but I knew I didn't want to return to the US ... trump had just got elected .... so we decided to go to Belize. My Spanish is fairly good, but the wife struggles with the language so Belize being the only English speaking country in South or Central America won out. I, at the time, wanted to go to either Ghana or Uganda, but the wife hates even visiting Africa. I will concede that Africa can be very hard on the senses. It's mostly LOUD, dirty, chaotic, the traffic is a dangerous nightmare and the wife loves to make fun of, and imitate her nemeses, African women, and their deep husky voices. My wife is not the friendliest person. Matter of fact, she's a complete fucking, bitch ass cunt! As it turns out, Belize is beginning to grind on my nerves now as well. It's a nice place to kill a year or two, but forever? Naw! I'm considering Colombia, with or without the wife, but who the fuck knows where I'll be in a year. In most cases I end up anywhere except where I had planned to be.
Early retirement, never been wealthy but was much closer to it till I married this asshole I'm chained to. Truth is, travel is CHEAP if you know what you're doing. Except for Africa. Africa is expensive to travel no matter how you do it. European travel can be sinfully inexpensive.Interesting
Are you retired? Independently wealthy?
Columbia made me appreciate the US more. Cartagena anyway
Damn bro, she that bad?Early retirement, never been wealthy but was much closer to it till I married this asshole I'm chained to. Truth is, travel is CHEAP if you know what you're doing. Except for Africa. Africa is expensive to travel no matter how you do it. European travel can be sinfully inexpensive.
Me and the wife riding tour boat down Thames river in London... She giving me a tour of the UK when I first arrived. Good sites and views except for my shitty cam work....Damn bro, she that bad?
Thanks for answering the questions honestly.
Me and the wife riding tour boat down Thames river in London... She giving me a tour of the UK when I first arrived. Good sites and views except for my shitty cam work....
If you should return don't miss eating at the Blues Kitchen in Brixton.... damn near ate myself to death in there, plus they have a bar and live bands. Ramekin mac and cheese is a don't miss. I'm never going back to the UK cause their immigration desk treats me like shit, but I will sorely miss that place. They don't fuck around.Been to London...only saw Tower Records LOL
One other is JRC Global Buffet .... my wife took me there and it freaked me out. It's like 12 huge buffets in one. The place is enormous and has 12 different buffet serving areas that you can mix and match. There is a amerikkkan food area, British area, Indian area, Asian area, Italian area, Mexican, and more, and every area alone is as big as a normal buffet in the US. You'll be eating and going from station to station for 2 or 3 hours. And the price was reasonable! My wife brought me some Yorkshire pudding in there, .... thought I'd be getting some kind of pudding, LOL. Live and learn. People rag on British food, but I damn near split my gut in the UK. Damn good eats everywhere we went!Been to London...only saw Tower Records LOL
Take your ass to Africa and offer your wisdom. Take on the caretake of a village. Buy books, educate, help grow the people and they will take care of you in the end. I am trying to get over there before my youth runs out. Go home dude, go home.No I met my wife in a sleepy little place called Nottingham in the UK .... stayed there awhile but they've effectively kicked me out of England (long story) but I knew I didn't want to return to the US ... trump had just got elected .... so we decided to go to Belize. My Spanish is fairly good, but the wife struggles with the language so Belize being the only English speaking country in South or Central America won out. I, at the time, wanted to go to either Ghana or Uganda, but the wife hates even visiting Africa. I will concede that Africa can be very hard on the senses. It's mostly LOUD, dirty, chaotic, the traffic is a dangerous nightmare and the wife loves to make fun of, and imitate her nemeses, African women, and their deep husky voices. My wife is not the friendliest person. Matter of fact, she's a complete fucking, bitch ass cunt! As it turns out, Belize is beginning to grind on my nerves now as well. It's a nice place to kill a year or two, but forever? Naw! I'm considering Colombia, with or without the wife, but who the fuck knows where I'll be in a year. In most cases I end up anywhere except where I had planned to be.
I did sooooo much already for the children of the head porters at Agbogbloshie in Ghana. Spent hundreds on school supplies and general stuff. Those kids are poorer than poor. But you can also fuck around helping the poor till you become one of them! I've mentioned here before about the things I've done in Cayo Belize feeding the hungry. No, if I died today, I'm comfortable in the knowledge that I have given more to the world than it ever gave me. Africa is a pretty fucked up place to be! Don't let Nzinga or anybody else kid you. There are great things about Africa, but sleeping under nets and not going out at dusk for fear of Malaria, all the other crazy diseases, the craziness you see almost daily in the streets as there is no such thing as mental health medicine in most of Africa. Damn goats clogging the sidewalks in damn downtown Accra! Crazy ass superstitious Africans with their stupidity .... I had a driver tell me he runs over stray dogs on purpose cause they bring bad spiritual energy to the community. Just dumb shit. Once you get to Zambia and anyplace South of there you have a 20% HIV infection rate, plus Ebola and a litany of other diseases to worry about. Shit!Take your ass to Africa and offer your wisdom. Take on the caretake of a village. Buy books, educate, help grow the people and they will take care of you in the end. I am trying to get over there before my youth runs out. Go home dude, go home.
Bruh, I hear you. I will find out soon. I am about to start that journey. Peace.I did sooooo much already for the children of the head porters at Agbogbloshie in Ghana. Spent hundreds on school supplies and general stuff. Those kids are poorer than poor. But you can also fuck around helping the poor till you become one of them! I've mentioned here before about the things I've done in Cayo Belize feeding the hungry. No, if I died today, I'm comfortable in the knowledge that I have given more to the world than it ever gave me. Africa is a pretty fucked up place to be! Don't let Nzinga or anybody else kid you. There are great things about Africa, but sleeping under nets and not going out at dusk for fear of Malaria, all the other crazy diseases, the craziness you see almost daily in the streets as there is no such thing as mental health medicine in most of Africa. Damn goats clogging the sidewalks in damn downtown Accra! Crazy ass superstitious Africans with their stupidity .... I had a driver tell me he runs over stray dogs on purpose cause they bring bad spiritual energy to the community. Just dumb shit. Once you get to Zambia and anyplace South of there you have a 20% HIV infection rate, plus Ebola and a litany of other diseases to worry about. Shit!
I'm in the US right now. Had to return for some surgery that couldn't be done in Belize. You don't want surgery in Belize anyway, trust me! Even Belizeans who have a few nickels get their surgery in Guatemala City or Mexico. (Most of Africa is no better, BTW) I had the surgery weeks ago, all went well, but I remain stateside because of the Thrombosis risk of high altitude flying in the first 3 months after invasive surgery. The isolation has allowed me the opportunity to deep think through some things concerning my future, and weigh the pros and cons of returning to a really shitty marriage to a really shitty person in a country that has devolved, due to Covid, into a really shitty quagmire. I'm considering other places to resume my life, and for the moment, at least, Sri Lanka is looking quite interesting. Don't be surprised if I start reporting conditions from there in some months. Just gotta let this Covid issue get a bit more in hand. Take some (educated, well researched) risks, bro.. People who never wander outside of their comfort zone tend to live safe, but shitty, boring lives. No thanks.Bruh, I hear you. I will find out soon. I am about to start that journey. Peace.
Bruh, when I was young, I was all over the U.S. because of sports. Also some when I was teaching at the university, but I have been outside of the U.S. one time, and that was to Canada. I have dreamed of living somewhere in Africa every since I was about 5 or 6 years old. I am 50 now. I lot of shit has held me back. My wife is holding me back right now, but I am about to say fuck it and head on out. I had a good taste of money a few months ago to have a nice start in Ghana, but I invested in a property. Hopefully, this next year will bring me the money I need to break camp. You are right, it is high time I get my ass out of here and see other parts of the world. Hell, I might get over there and want to come back, but I don't think so. I want to be apart of this renaissance that is happening on the continent. I want to help make it a better place so the rest of us in the diaspora will come home. Safe travels, bruh.I'm in the US right now. Had to return for some surgery that couldn't be done in Belize. You don't want surgery in Belize anyway, trust me! Even Belizeans who have a few nickels get their surgery in Guatemala City or Mexico. (Most of Africa is no better, BTW) I had the surgery weeks ago, all went well, but I remain stateside because of the Thrombosis risk of high altitude flying in the first 3 months after invasive surgery. The isolation has allowed me the opportunity to deep think through some things concerning my future, and weigh the pros and cons of returning to a really shitty marriage to a really shitty person in a country that has devolved, due to Covid, into a really shitty quagmire. I'm considering other places to resume my life, and for the moment, at least, Sri Lanka is looking quite interesting. Don't be surprised if I start reporting conditions from there in some months. Just gotta let this Covid issue get a bit more in hand. Take some (educated, well researched) risks, bro.. People who never wander outside of their comfort zone tend to live safe, but shitty, boring lives. No thanks.
Prepare yourself! You're in for the mindfuck of a lifetime. I don't know if you were outside the circle, or conversely, a chick magnet in your youth, BUT, in most of Africa you will likely enjoy the attention of women like you've never known. I was anything but popular in high school. And in college I was co-editor of the student newspaper, on the chess and debate team and the top ping-pong player.... oh that really fetches the admiration of the chicks! LOL .... So being treated by women as if I were some kind of fucking rock star was surreal to me. By and large in most of Africa you'll be able to pull ANY single woman you want! ANY. Take your U.S. swag with you, dress and smell like you mean it, and make sure any woman of possible interest hears your voice so they'll know for sure you're from the U.S. or the U.K. and not a fellow African. Nigerian guys are known across the continent for having a somewhat similar swag as U.S. Blacks. And women across Africa love to hate them, while STILL simultaneously dropping their drawers to the floors for them! Even if you're not there to have a romantic fling, it's still flattering to get sexual energy and attention from hot chicks half your age. Now let's keep it real, of course they're trolling for a better life, but when you do the math, aren't the women in the U.S. and U.K. usually seeking the same?Bruh, when I was young, I was all over the U.S. because of sports. Also some when I was teaching at the university, but I have been outside of the U.S. one time, and that was to Canada. I have dreamed of living somewhere in Africa every since I was about 5 or 6 years old. I am 50 now. I lot of shit has held me back. My wife is holding me back right now, but I am about to say fuck it and head on out. I had a good taste of money a few months ago to have a nice start in Ghana, but I invested in a property. Hopefully, this next year will bring me the money I need to break camp. You are right, it is high time I get my ass out of here and see other parts of the world. Hell, I might get over there and want to come back, but I don't think so. I want to be apart of this renaissance that is happening on the continent. I want to help make it a better place so the rest of us in the diaspora will come home. Safe travels, bruh.
What's the conversion rate?
Wow, that is a lot of house for so little.