Most people don’t question anything? It’s always good to question any form of information presented to you. It is also good to find out how did the person that told you the information, received his:her information and so on...
Conversation 1...
John: Shannon is spending all of her mother’s money because she is not working.
Mike: Shannon should be ashamed of herself because she is over 45 years old
Conversation 2..
John: Shannon is spending all of her mother’s money because she is not workin
Mike: How do you know Shannon is spending all of her mother’s money? Did you talk to the mother? Did Shannon get a job recently? Etc...
Sadly, majority of people use conversation 1, when communicating..
Conversation 1...
John: Shannon is spending all of her mother’s money because she is not working.
Mike: Shannon should be ashamed of herself because she is over 45 years old
Conversation 2..
John: Shannon is spending all of her mother’s money because she is not workin
Mike: How do you know Shannon is spending all of her mother’s money? Did you talk to the mother? Did Shannon get a job recently? Etc...
Sadly, majority of people use conversation 1, when communicating..
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