Single BW complains about Michelle Obama being too supportive of Barack

[BVF]

They don't care ... you have posters in here still talking about her like she is Black ... after today nobody can tell me that BGOL doesn't Black woman bash ... this aint love ... it's complete and total hatred

It wasn't black woman bashing...It was STUPID woman bashing....

But since you always complain about women being bashed around here then BITCH WHY ARE YOU STILL HANGING AROUND????

 

[LoneStar29]

So, I post an article about a woman, hating a positive black woman, and I still hate black women

Listen, I think you need to see someone about those insecurity issues you have

Because every time someone is critical of black women for the right reasons, you come in here with a cape and attitude and call it hate on all black women

And you seem to have an issue with the atmosphere of BGOL, but you continue to come back and feed off the drama, and you seek post like this, but shy away from others like this

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=390221&highlight=rick+santorum&page=3

So, lets stop with the victim role, deary, it gets quite old

Dawg are you fuckin' serious??????????

You read an article about a woman hating and before you did any sort of background check you AUTOMATICALLY ASSUMED that the hater was a Black woman but the problem is with me??????????????????????????????

All you said was "oh ... my bad" and didn't even change the title but the problem is with me?????????????????????????

You are continuing to allow the posters in this thread to be misled by the title but the problem is with me?????????????????????

I guarantee if the roles were reversed and it was a brotha wrongfully accused by a sista your big mouth would be first in there crying about how Oprah is poisoning our minds and throwing out garbage stats

Yo you're on some fuckin' bullshit ... NOW CHANGE THE GAT DAMN TITAL AND STFU ... hater

 

[Mr MajestiK]

So, I post an article about a woman, hating a positive black woman, and I still hate black women

Listen, I think you need to see someone about those insecurity issues you have

Because every time someone is critical of black women for the right reasons, you come in here with a cape and attitude and call it hate on all black women

And you seem to have an issue with the atmosphere of BGOL, but you continue to come back and feed off the drama, and you seek post like this, but shy away from others like this

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=390221&highlight=rick+santorum&page=3

So, lets stop with the victim role, deary, it gets quite old

Bro, just go back and edit the thread title.

Shit was misleading and is making it easier for the thread to be derailed yo.

Just look at the number of peeps that are still calling out black women even though it's been made quite clear that the author was actually white!

It was an honest error on your part that can be corrected so just get it done so we can move on without any further unnecessary distractions.

 

[Deacs]

They don't care ... you have posters in here still talking about her like she is Black ... after today nobody can tell me that BGOL doesn't Black woman bash ... this aint love ... it's complete and total hatred

I haven't bashed a Nubian woman or man yet.

Nubians are respectable and have respect for themselves
Nubians understand the need to react accordingly
Nubians understand that law is of equal balance, you give as you get

.... the others, I bash their ignorance with a bat.

There are 3 things I see in this thread

-They use one of my heroes picture to escape the need to read someone's accusations and ask for another's summary on the argument [that is the job of pimps, preachers, ministers, not Nubians]
-After the accusation is read, they don't look into the writer too see call their bullshit[cry fire in a club and watch the sheep run without smelling smoke]
-After the first two were not satisfied, they still proceed with the ignorance which the writer and those who published it attempted to do in the first place [watch the sheep trample themselves as they still don't smell the smoke]


You are right, this is not love, it is fear out of ignorance and anger against the wrong people. A Nubian woman never did this to you, they never committed a crime against you... the other did.

 

[Laughing Man]

Bro, just go back and edit the thread title.

Shit was misleading and is making it easier for the thread to be derailed yo.

I did, but so many people commented, it wont take

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

SHE IS WHITE YOU NON READING BASTARDS DAMN

 

[Deacs]

Laughing Man, don't argue either

You made a mistake and owned up to it with an apology.

You already said my bad after the truth is learned.

Let it die

 

[Mr MajestiK]

I did, but so many people commented, it wont take

Cool bro.

at least you tried and you have apologized so it's all good.

 

[LoneStar29]

Laughing Man, don't argue either

You made a mistake and owned up to it with an apology.

You already said my bad after the truth is learned.

Let it die

No no no no no no no ... this is much bigger than just saying sorry

His assumption goes to show where not only his mind but the minds of other posters in here are at ... they were very quick to bash when they thought it was a sista talking about "this is why Black women stay single" blahblahblah ... but as soon as it was noted (by someone else btw) that this wasn't a sista all of a sudden the tone in here changed ... THAT IS A FUCKIN' PROBLEM and if you don't see it then YOU ARE A PART OF THE FUCKIN' PROBLEM

If one of the sistas would have made this mistake all you hateful bastards would be in there with the swiftness calling the woman all sorts of names and physcologically profiling her "mistake"

You all are not only hateful but you are also hypocrits ... FUCK YA'LL straight up "brothas" my ass

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Laughing Man, don't argue either

You made a mistake and owned up to it with an apology.

You already said my bad after the truth is learned.

Let it die

Dude, it's already too late and the derailed train is rapidly gathering speed.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

i love my black women

 

[LoneStar29]

5 stars for the haters, assumers, hypocrits and just all around bastards

 

[Laughing Man]

No no no no no no no ... this is much bigger than just saying sorry

His assumption goes to show where not only his mind but the minds of other posters in here are at ... they were very quick to bash when they thought it was a sista talking about "this is why Black women stay single" blahblahblah ... but as soon as it was noted (by someone else btw) that this wasn't a sista all of a sudden the tone in here changed ... THAT IS A FUCKIN' PROBLEM and if you don't see it then YOU ARE A PART OF THE FUCKIN' PROBLEM

If one of the sistas would have made this mistake all you hateful bastards would be in there with the swiftness calling the woman all sorts of names and physcologically profiling her "mistake"

You all are not only hateful but you are also hypocrits ... FUCK YA'LL straight up "brothas" my ass

But where were you when we were talking about how the right was going at Michelle for dumb shit

And this was originally, as I thought by mistake bitter black females going after those who did it right

By persisting in this, you put yourselves on the side of not only the bitter feminist of all stripes, but the forever single black females who refuse to do it right and complain why they are in the shit they are in

I have much love for women like Michelle

But you going on a tangent of how this shows how brothers hate on black females, when we are all on a site praising the beauty of them, and be critical of the dumb shit they do.........

This shit is lame

Again, I apologize to the fam for my assumption, I will endeavor to do more research before posting an article

Its women like you that perpetuate the attitude you so think is persistent here on BGOL, and never comment on topics like this

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=388945&highlight=obama+nyc

When I see you comment on other topics aside from this, I can change that perception of mines, but, you keep going for the bait yourself and show yourself, oh well

 

[nyeleman]

White sociologists have been ripping the black family apart for over a century, before you dispute do your own research instead of disagreeing. The white feminist movement especially is part and parcel of the machine to destroy the black family. Their main aim is and has always been to neuter the black family

 

[Deacs]

No no no no no no no ... this is much bigger than just saying sorry

His assumption goes to show where not only his mind but the minds of other posters in here are at ... they were very quick to bash when they thought it was a sista talking about "this is why Black women stay single" blahblahblah ... but as soon as it was noted (by someone else btw) that this wasn't a sista all of a sudden the tone in here changed ... THAT IS A FUCKIN' PROBLEM and if you don't see it then YOU ARE A PART OF THE FUCKIN' PROBLEM

If one of the sistas would have made this mistake all you hateful bastards would be in there with the swiftness calling the woman all sorts of names and physcologically profiling her "mistake"

You all are not only hateful but you are also hypocrits ... FUCK YA'LL straight up "brothas" my ass

Ok, then with that being said...

What is it that you want?

You and I and others know that there are hating motherfuckers on this board. We all know that it is BGOL for black girl online which we post almost every race of women on the main page regardless of her color, fucked by dudes of any color because of course, we don't care if the enemy is fucking them like beasts in heat, like during slavery as the women are raped and men are chained to watch their defeat and impotent in their defense.

We know that people came to this thread the argue based on the title, and even when it was found out they still want to have this dialogue.

We know that not only there is female bashing, that there is male bashing, there is mutant bashing, and there is thug love here.

We know that instead of reading, we CP it and ask others to do the same like it is cool

We know all of this and it will continue after they read my post and bypass it to continue their hate...

but you in your heart and words could stop it by one word at a time.

He is not going to bleed for this... he could always ignore the thread and never return. People could go thread to thread to call him out, but then he could go into lurker mode as I do when bullshit is too much to stomach.

but then he wrote this

I did, but so many people commented, it wont take

And if you delete it, all this would be for nothing, and the sentiment would still be there...

I know I'm wordy, but I will be me sometimes.

Be the bigger of men, hate the sin and correct it, and kill ignorance - Conspiracy Brother... before he was shot

 

[Deacs]

this is what I'm going to do to this thread... let me find out that brothers love their Nubian women... oh, here is one

i love my black women

 

[Deacs]

^ Nice quote...

'The only peaceful revolution was the negro revolution' - Malcolm X

Heavy...

It was, it hit me like an atom bomb when I heard it. It hit me harder that we literally stopped the peaceful revolution when they signed paper granting us innate rights... and still, no result

 

[SoopamanLuva]

They don't care ... you have posters in here still talking about her like she is Black ... after today nobody can tell me that BGOL doesn't Black woman bash ... this aint love ... it's complete and total hatred

read what i wrote on the first page. i said nothing about the color of this woman. my whole thing is, how can a wife, of any race, be too supportive?

that doesnt make sense

 

[Deacs]

Oh shit.............





Well, I'm just glad it wasn't a sista that wrote it

You too?

Me too

I'm glad this didn't get out of hand... imagine if it did?

~this was on page 2

 

[KingSE7EN]

Which is the reason they are Single Black Women.

Lonely single women need NOT critique happily married women

Precisely..../End of thread.

 

[LoneStar29]

But where were you when we were talking about how the right was going at Michelle for dumb shit

And this was originally, as I thought by mistake bitter black females going after those who did it right

By persisting in this, you put yourselves on the side of not only the bitter feminist of all stripes, but the forever single black females who refuse to do it right and complain why they are in the shit they are in

I have much love for women like Michelle

But you going on a tangent of how this shows how brothers hate on black females, when we are all on a site praising the beauty of them, and be critical of the dumb shit they do.........

This shit is lame

Again, I apologize to the fam for my assumption, I will endeavor to do more research before posting an article

Its women like you that perpetuate the attitude you so think is persistent here on BGOL, and never comment on topics like this

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=388945&highlight=obama+nyc

When I see you comment on other topics aside from this, I can change that perception of mines, but, you keep going for the bait yourself and show yourself, oh well

Man STFU ... you are trying to flip this on me and it's just not gonna work

Bottom line here is that YOU made a negative assumption that that hatin' ass female was Black when indeed she wasn't ... that is the bottom line ... THAT YOU ASSUMED ... that's it

The reason why I am on it so hard is cuz I KNOW if one of us sistas would have made this same mistake all hell woulda broke loose ... you especially would have been in there trying to analyze the mistake and blaming Oprah and the media and Tyra and pecan pies and whatever else you could think of

But when you make the mistake you think a simple "oh ... my bad" is ok???? FOH with that bullshit

Your mind has been just as corrupted ... maybe even more

And you as the OP haven't made one attemtpt to correct the men in here who STILL continue to assume this hate came from a Black woman

Ya'll can go back to hating again now ... I'll leave you be

But you are right ... I should focus some more energy in more positive threads and not bullshit ones like this

 

[Izayoi]

i love my black women

You and I and others know that there are hating motherfuckers on this board. We all know that it is BGOL for black girl online which we post almost every race of women on the main page regardless of her color, fucked by dudes of any color because of course, we don't care if the enemy is fucking them like beasts in heat, like during slavery as the women are raped and men are chained to watch their defeat and impotent in their defense.

We know that people came to this thread the argue based on the title, and even when it was found out they still want to have this dialogue.

We know that not only there is female bashing, that there is male bashing, there is mutant bashing, and there is thug love here.

We know that instead of reading, we CP it and ask others to do the same like it is cool

We know all of this and it will continue after they read my post and bypass it to continue their hate...

but you in your heart and words could stop it by one word at a time.

He is not going to bleed for this... he could always ignore the thread and never return. People could go thread to thread to call him out, but then he could go into lurker mode as I do when bullshit is too much to stomach.

Be the bigger of men, hate the sin and correct it, and kill ignorance

This thread is a classic example of how we as people react in ignorance (refusing to even read a few paragraphs let alone a book ) and interact with unnecessary aggression and disdain for one another every fucking chance we get. Pitiful.

Deacs trying to light up the darkness here today though. Listen.COMPREHEND.

 

[Deacs]

Thank you, that is all that is left in this thread to do. Throw some gas and light this bitch up

Now lets laugh at platform titty

Or Bill Maher in drag

Or Bill Maher finding out I said he was in drag for fee

or I bet my brother for cheesecake from Juniors and his Nikes that Bill was in drag starting shit and he lost

 

[Izayoi]

Thank you, that is all that is left in this thread to do. Throw some gas and light this bitch up

Now lets laugh at platform titty

Awww bless her heart .
Where was she going? smh

 

[Mr MajestiK]

Bringing this thread back to some semblance of order shouldn't be that hard especially when one bears in mind the overall animosity that just thrives beneath the surface of black-on-black relationships.

The fact remains that the author of this article had an agenda which was two fold in nature.

Firstly we'll look at the feminist mindset behind the article in itself.

The author kept on hammering on about the fact that Michelle Obama is a highly educated intellectual with professional credentials on par with those of her husband.

As far as the author is concerned, Michelle has willingly put her career on the back burner to give Barack an opportunity to keep doing what he's doing as regards being the POTUS.

Going by what the author is saying, you'd get the impression that Obama has forced Michelle into a subservient role so as to pursue his own career ambitions and in this, he has (in the eyes of the author) relegated Michelle to the level of 2nd class within their partnership.

To most feminists, this is not an acceptable juxtaposition of roles as far as they're concerned.

To most of them, a woman can do just as well as a man in this sort of situation but what the author fails or chooses not to recognize is the fact that it was Barack and not Michelle that was running for office.

In addition to this, she makes the same warped assumption that some of these militant feminists make as regards the true essence of marriage and what it means for both partners in the union.

A real marriage is based upon a more or less, symbiotic relationship between husband and wife with each partner playing a complimentary role to the other based upon love, respect and mutual affection.

Michelle has been (and still remains) supportive of her husbands mission because it enhances and empowers her as a woman and symbol of what can be achieved when a married couple work together towards the greater good of their union.

This in no way, makes Michelle Obama subservient towards her husband but actually makes her a co-partner in his overall success.

Anyone who thinks that Michelle Obama is just sitting back being a shrinking violet obviously has no real clue as to what married life is all about.

Michelle is the one person who Obama can really confide in when the chips are down and as such, she plays an invaluable role within the administration which cannot be overemphasized.

Secondly, there's the race issue.

There still remains a sizable number of whites (and some ignorant blacks and other ethnicities) who were quite happy with the status quo that obtained pre-Obama.

They're not happy with the fact that we now have a Black First Family residing within the most prestigious and powerful landmark on the planet because this challenges all of their preconceived notions and justifications for procrastination and acceptance of a lower status in life.

Prejudiced whites now find it a little bit harder to peddle their false doctrine of black inferiority in the face of Baracks success and the fact that he's married to a black woman serves as a symbol to the emotionally disenfranchised amongst us that it is indeed possible to find a good marriage partner of the same race to build a strong, viable family unit with.

Negative blacks as well as prejudiced whites hate this because they no longer have any cover of ignorance to hide beneath and shit scares them to death.

A lot of us have been conditioned to expect the worst from each other and this is clearly evidenced by the amount of vitriol and misdirection that usually plague many of our posts when subjects of this nature arise.

We collectively have to really start moving away from this self-hating and destructive way of interacting before it becomes to late and we need to do this fast.

As far as this thread goes, Laughing Man the thread starter, has recognized and apologized for his error with the thread title and that should be enough for any reasonable person. If there's a way that a mod can edit the title then that option should be explored.

As for the heads that are still dissing black women for no good reason, I'd respectfully request that you seize and desist.

It's clear that the author of this article is white and as such, y'all are making yourselves look like idiots by continuously putting sistas in the frame when no foul has been committed in this instance.

For anyone else, it is what it is so carry on regardless as the spirit takes you.

Peace.

 

[Deacs]

Awww bless her heart .
Where was she going? smh

I'm trying to figure out if she can indeed see and what the dude was thinking when he took the picture

*this is why she hit my motherf**king car

 

[LoneStar29]

read what i wrote on the first page. i said nothing about the color of this woman. my whole thing is, how can a wife, of any race, be too supportive?

that doesnt make sense

Yes I know ... my initial post in here was c/sing you

I agree 100% ... no such thing as being too supportive IMO ... this just goes to show why she is still single (btw not all single women think like her ... there are some who look to the Obamas as inspiration ... especially Michelle ... she should be the #1 example for all women regardless of race as far as I'm concerned)

Thank you, that is all that is left in this thread to do. Throw some gas and light this bitch up

Now lets laugh at platform titty



Or Bill Maher in drag

There is a bigger principle behind this but since it seems I'm the only poster in here that sees or cares about that then I will leave it be as to not derail the thread any further

 

[darkninja7000]

Dude manned up and apologized. i dunno what more ya'll want from him.... self induced coma? exile? the point is he realized he was wrong in his assumption and sought to correct his mistake. unlike that brawd in the other thread about single fathers...............

 

[Deacs]

Bringing this thread back to some semblance of order shouldn't be that hard especially when one bears in mind the overall animosity that just thrives beneath the surface of black-on-black relationships.

The fact remains that the author of this article had an agenda which was two fold in nature.

Firstly we'll look at the feminist mindset behind the article in itself.

The author kept on hammering on about the fact that Michelle Obama is a highly educated intellectual with professional credentials on par with those of her husband.

As far as the author is concerned, Michelle has willingly put her career on the back burner to give Barack an opportunity to keep doing what he's doing as regards being the POTUS.

Going by what the author is saying, you'd get the impression that Obama has forced Michelle into a subservient role so as to pursue his own career ambitions and in this, he has (in the eyes of the author) relegated Michelle to the level of 2nd class within their partnership.

To most feminists, this is not an acceptable juxtaposition of roles as far as they're concerned.

To most of them, a woman can do just as well as a man in this sort of situation but what the author fails or chooses not to recognize is the fact that it was Barack and not Michelle that was running for office.

In addition to this, she makes the same warped assumption that some of these militant feminists make as regards the true essence of marriage and what it means for both partners in the union.

A real marriage is based upon a more or less, symbiotic relationship between husband and wife with each partner playing a complimentary role to the other based upon love, respect and mutual affection.

Michelle has been (and still remains) supportive of her husbands mission because it enhances and empowers her as a woman and symbol of what can be achieved when a married couple work together towards the greater good of their union.

This in no way, makes Michelle Obama subservient towards her husband but actually makes her a co-partner in his overall success.

Anyone who thinks that Michelle Obama is just sitting back being a shrinking violet obviously has no real clue as to what married life is all about.

Michelle is the one person who Obama can really confide in when the chips are down and as such, she plays an invaluable role within the administration which cannot be overemphasized.

Secondly, there's the race issue.

There still remains a sizable number of whites (and some ignorant blacks and other ethnicities) who were quite happy with the status quo that obtained pre-Obama.

They're not happy with the fact that we now have a Black First Family residing within the most prestigious and powerful landmark on the planet because this challenges all of their preconceived notions and justifications for procrastination and acceptance of a lower status in life.

Prejudiced whites now find it a little bit harder to peddle their false doctrine of black inferiority in the face of Baracks success and the fact that he's married to a black woman serves as a symbol to the emotionally disenfranchised amongst us that it is indeed possible to find a good marriage partner of the same race to build a strong, viable family unit with.

Negative blacks as well as prejudiced whites hate this because they no longer have any cover of ignorance to hide beneath and shit scares them to death.

A lot of us have been conditioned to expect the worst from each other and this is clearly evidenced by the amount of vitriol and misdirection that usually plague many of our posts when subjects of this nature arise.

We collectively have to really start moving away from this self-hating and destructive way of interacting before it becomes to late and we need to do this fast.

As far as this thread goes, Laughing Man the thread starter, has recognized and apologized for his error with the thread title and that should be enough for any reasonable person. If there's a way that a mod can edit the title then that option should be explored.

As for the heads that are still dissing black women for no good reason, I'd respectfully request that you seize and desist.

It's clear that the author of this article is white and as such, y'all are making yourselves look like idiots by continuously putting sistas in the frame when no foul has been committed in this instance.

For anyone else, it is what it is so carry on regardless as the spirit takes you.

Peace.

to add one note to this

The black power movement was gathering steam with both Nubian men and women together of like mind on same path with equality

It wasn't until the feminist movement created BY CACs that killed it by attempting to separate the women from our just cause.
and the CAC hippie sentimentalist who also attempted to integrate with our movement for their own enhancement.

don't let their ignorance defeat you.

 

[LoneStar29]

And these same Black women get angry and wonder why Black Men run down to Brazil & Dominican Republic & Latin America in general to find a better quality of woman! SMMFH!

*giggles*

*then holds tongue*

 

[Deacs]

Yes I know ... my initial post in here was c/sing you

I agree 100% ... no such thing as being too supportive IMO ... this just goes to show why she is still single (btw not all single women think like her ... there are some who look to the Obamas as inspiration ... especially Michelle ... she should be the #1 example for all women regardless of race as far as I'm concerned)



There is a bigger principle behind this but since it seems I'm the only poster in here that sees or cares about that then I will leave it be as to not derail the thread any further

No
Stay
She isn't you
You felt within your rights to defend your backyard
We all had cake and laughs
lets poke more holes in the CaCs writing
I found it humorous

Plus, everyone loves to watch a car crash and train wreck

at least I do

 

[darkninja7000]

Yes I know ... my initial post in here was c/sing you

I agree 100% ... no such thing as being too supportive IMO ... this just goes to show why she is still single (btw not all single women think like her ... there are some who look to the Obamas as inspiration ... especially Michelle ... she should be the #1 example for all women regardless of race as far as I'm concerned)



There is a bigger principle behind this but since it seems I'm the only poster in here that sees or cares about that then I will leave it be as to not derail the thread any further

there is a bigger principle... that I get. but why bust blood vessels? dick heads are gonna be dick heads. you cant change that. the point is he owned up to his mistake which is more than i can say for certain people. he could've spun off into a "but black woman this" or "black woman still" ...... to prove a point but he didn't. he sought to correct his error. it's not his fault that fucktards do not read or dont give a fuck and wanna hate sistas anyway.

 

[jblaque]

How is it possible that your wife is too supportive????

not making sense to me

c/s..................................

 

[Deacs]

And these same Black women get angry and wonder why Black Men run down to Brazil & Dominican Republic & Latin America in general to find a better quality of woman! SMMFH!

It wasn't for the beaches and drinks? or that they have money to do that?

I literally thought it was for the pictures to post on this board

Nubian women didn't write this, one defended her stance, all sorry for it, and I've been cracking jokes about it.

stay for some cake

 

[Mr MajestiK]

to add one note to this

The black power movement was gathering steam with both Nubian men and women together of like mind on same path with equality

It wasn't until the feminist movement created BY CACs that killed it by attempting to separate the women from our just cause.
and the CAC hippie sentimentalist who also attempted to integrate with our movement for their own enhancement.

don't let their ignorance defeat you.

At this point all that existential mumbo jumbo doesn't mean jack to me.

Ignorance is a mantle quickly worn by those who would rather hide beneath its shadow. (rather than examining the weakness within themselves)

The reality that we're dealing with here is the overwhelming animosity that masquerades as dialogue and debate on this board amongst us regardless of gender or political/religious affiliation.

As a people we should be able to suck it up and keep it moving after making whatever point we feel the need to make.

I don't drop commentary on here to be recognized or co-signed by anybody so I could really care less whether the points I make are appreciated or not.

And not everyone who claims to believe in black-on-black love is actually down for the cause. (No matter how sincere or earnest they may seem)

I just call it as I see it and let the chips fall where they may.