Should Married Men Have Game?????

[Zero]

i think some of you have game confused,,, many people think game is saying a few corny lines to a woman so she will sleep with you,,, that's not what game is at all

game is the art of what, when, why & how to react to a woman,,, or not to react at all,,, game is like management,,, you can be honest with a woman, and still have game

That's EXACTLY what a lot of cats and YOUNGER females think it is and expect it to be. Go to any club and listen to the lame shit being spit all around you and the dizzy females that respond to it.

 

[thetruth]

Nah dog, the cat I used to tell that to was notorious for talking himself out of pussy he already had on lock. It applied to him and applies to a lot of cats. Sometimes the best thing a cat can do is shut the fuck up because you CAN talk your way out of shit talking sideways and dumb. You can tell by the way they post that there are personalities on BGOL that have probably talked their way OUT of more pussy than they have actually had in their lives, hell, some of these cats have probably managed to talk their way out of damn near every opportunity they have ever had. Me personally, I stopped giving a shit YEARS ago and females are strangely attracted to that attitude. Matter of fact, I took a serious uptick damn near the day I stopped caring and stopped trying to tell females what they wanted to hear. Sex is cool, but like I said, the shit just doesn't hold the same value in my life as it did when I was a youngster so the shit I'm willing to say or do to get it is SEVERELY limited.

And to be real, the caliber of female that will even fuck with you when you are real about shit improves 1000%. Game recognizes game. I'm walking "chicken head repellent" at this stage in my life. Even my wife's homegirls that got some lingering chickenhead in them hate being around my ass because they know how real I will get with them if need be. I can gauge whether a female is about shit by whether she can deal with me and some of my "realer" homeboys. The ones that run scared or get defensive ALWAYS seem to be the ones you really don't want to fuck with anyway.

not caring and being honest with yourself and others is attractive to females because most of them 'say' they don't like BS or are tired of it. so it works. UNFORNATELY A LOT OF CATS ARE NOT THAT COMFORTABLE IN THEIR OWN SKIN. WHICH IS SOMETHING I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND

 

[Zero]

not caring and being honest with yourself and others is attractive to females because most of them 'say' they don't like BS or are tired of it. so it works. UNFORNATELY A LOT OF CATS ARE NOT THAT COMFORTABLE IN THEIR OWN SKIN. WHICH IS SOMETHING I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND

You know dog, what Max Dawg said is true, if a female wants you, she wants you and if she doesn't, she doesn't. Cats put to much effort into trying to get with females that don't want them. Everybody has a price, but cats should have a limit to what they will pay (emotionally, financially and simply in invested time). Cats LOOSE comfort in their own skin by chasing the wrong females too damn long killing their confidence. Cats go after the attention whoring chick at the club that is looking for a certain type of cat (a baller, a celebrity, a hustler, etc.) and then get upset when she chooses the type of cat she was looking for in the first place. Instead of looking for the RIGHT female, they spend too much time chasing the WRONG bitch and sometimes (if their luck is REALLY fucked up, they actually win and WIFE the WRONG BITCH). Any simp shit they did to get her, they then have to do TENFOLD to keep her once she is "wife". You approach a female from a position of confidence and power and you can't loose, you approach her form a position of subservience and powerlessness and you can't win.

Funny thing is, the female that may be your worst nightmare as wifey may be the perfect wife to the next man (and vice versa). I gotta a homeboy that LOVES beefing and drama with his lady, they seem to get off on that shit. Me, I'm a laid back dude, so I married a female that was laid back as well. If we switched wives, I'd HATE his lady and he'd HATE mine, but we both got what we wanted.

 

[Eva Hornae]

To me, married game fucks you up if you become single again because the "game" single females respond to is usually some simple-minded bullshit that a cat that has been married for any length of time no longer has patience for. Every cat I know that got divorced said there was an adjustment period because of this. I hate the fuck out of small talk and think that would kill me if I was single again. As a a married man, if I wanna fuck, I say "let's fuck", I don't have the patience to sit up in some dizzy hoes ear pumping small-talk nonsense for hours just for some pussy. My time is more valuable than that to me, but these females expect it. Married cats that have to game and beg their WIVES for sex are simps to me and should either be correcting that situation or making arrangement to make a permanent break from it. Since I won't game and beg my wife for shit, some arbitrary female has NO CHANCE IN HELL of getting "gamed" by me at this point. Cats call spending money simping, well my time is money as well.

Greatest thing I've learned in marriage (and wish I would have known as a single man) as far as sex goes is this...

Devalue the pussy. Push any value it has had to you in the past out of your mind. The less value the pussy has to you, the MORE value your shit will have to her.

Shit is like free trade with China...

What normally happens is that when a female is trying to get with you, she temporarily lowers the value of her "currency" so you can go on shopping sprees and whatnot. You get used to all of this cheap "product" coming your way and next thing you know, your whole pussy "economy" is dependent on this cheap product. You can't afford to produce your own supply of pussy anymore. Your locked in a pussy "trade deficit". All this deficit spending on pussy gives her power over you in other aspects of your life. Next thing you know, she owns you (like China owns us).

The way to avoid this is to devalue ALL pussy. If ALL pussy is of lesser value to you, you can go to the table and renegotiate the terms of your original free "pussy" trade agreement and avoid the deficit.

End result, you get more pussy at a fair and equitable price and don't have to sacrifice your economy in other areas (like SuperBowl parties and trips to Vegas with your boys).

Duly Bomboclaat noted!

 

[Eva Hornae]

newsflash:

WOMEN, WHEN UPON MEETING A MAN, DETERMINE IF SAID MAN WILL FUCK IN ABOUT 3-5 SECONDS.​

the only "game" that is laid down is HER allowing YOU to think you're getting somewhere-when she's decided if you'll get the pussy long ago.

i've seen more niccas talk their way OUT of pussy than into pussy.

my best advice:

1. introduce yourself to a woman like a man... respecting her, looking her right into the eyes, and letting her know THRU YOUR LOOKS, that you don't play games.

2. STFU and let her talk herself out of her panties.

pimps run "game." men practice patience.

and i see a bunch of niccas like the ones above ^^^^^ realizing that time is money: the same shit i been preaching to you young niccas for years.

I fucking hate you!

 

[Eva Hornae]

I used to tell my boy that all the time...

When a female sits down to "talk" to you, she isn't letting you talk your way INTO her bed, she's giving you a chance to talk your way OUT of it.

you men are catching on quickly! OMG!

 

[Eva Hornae]

You know dog, what Max Dawg said is true, if a female wants you, she wants you and if she doesn't, she doesn't. Cats put to much effort into trying to get with females that don't want them. Everybody has a price, but cats should have a limit to what they will pay (emotionally, financially and simply in invested time). Cats LOOSE comfort in their own skin by chasing the wrong females too damn long killing their confidence. Cats go after the attention whoring chick at the club that is looking for a certain type of cat (a baller, a celebrity, a hustler, etc.) and then get upset when she chooses the type of cat she was looking for in the first place. Instead of looking for the RIGHT female, they spend too much time chasing the WRONG bitch and sometimes (if their luck is REALLY fucked up, they actually win and WIFE the WRONG BITCH). Any simp shit they did to get her, they then have to do TENFOLD to keep her once she is "wife". You approach a female from a position of confidence and power and you can't loose, you approach her form a position of subservience and powerlessness and you can't win.

Funny thing is, the female that may be your worst nightmare as wifey may be the perfect wife to the next man (and vice versa). I gotta a homeboy that LOVES beefing and drama with his lady, they seem to get off on that shit. Me, I'm a laid back dude, so I married a female that was laid back as well. If we switched wives, I'd HATE his lady and he'd HATE mine, but we both got what we wanted.

Real Talk homey! Thanks!

 

[wutevabeotch]

To me, married game fucks you up if you become single again because the "game" single females respond to is usually some simple-minded bullshit that a cat that has been married for any length of time no longer has patience for. Every cat I know that got divorced said there was an adjustment period because of this. I hate the fuck out of small talk and think that would kill me if I was single again. As a a married man, if I wanna fuck, I say "let's fuck", I don't have the patience to sit up in some dizzy hoes ear pumping small-talk nonsense for hours just for some pussy. My time is more valuable than that to me, but these females expect it. Married cats that have to game and beg their WIVES for sex are simps to me and should either be correcting that situation or making arrangement to make a permanent break from it. Since I won't game and beg my wife for shit, some arbitrary female has NO CHANCE IN HELL of getting "gamed" by me at this point. Cats call spending money simping, well my time is money as well.

Greatest thing I've learned in marriage (and wish I would have known as a single man) as far as sex goes is this...

Devalue the pussy. Push any value it has had to you in the past out of your mind. The less value the pussy has to you, the MORE value your shit will have to her.

Shit is like free trade with China...

What normally happens is that when a female is trying to get with you, she temporarily lowers the value of her "currency" so you can go on shopping sprees and whatnot. You get used to all of this cheap "product" coming your way and next thing you know, your whole pussy "economy" is dependent on this cheap product. You can't afford to produce your own supply of pussy anymore. Your locked in a pussy "trade deficit". All this deficit spending on pussy gives her power over you in other aspects of your life. Next thing you know, she owns you (like China owns us).

The way to avoid this is to devalue ALL pussy. If ALL pussy is of lesser value to you, you can go to the table and renegotiate the terms of your original free "pussy" trade agreement and avoid the deficit.

End result, you get more pussy at a fair and equitable price and don't have to sacrifice your economy in other areas (like SuperBowl parties and trips to Vegas with your boys).

newsflash:

WOMEN, WHEN UPON MEETING A MAN, DETERMINE IF SAID MAN WILL FUCK IN ABOUT 3-5 SECONDS.​

the only "game" that is laid down is HER allowing YOU to think you're getting somewhere-when she's decided if you'll get the pussy long ago.

i've seen more niccas talk their way OUT of pussy than into pussy.

my best advice:

1. introduce yourself to a woman like a man... respecting her, looking her right into the eyes, and letting her know THRU YOUR LOOKS, that you don't play games.

2. STFU and let her talk herself out of her panties.

pimps run "game." men practice patience.

and i see a bunch of niccas like the ones above ^^^^^ realizing that time is money: the same shit i been preaching to you young niccas for years.

Nah dog, the cat I used to tell that to was notorious for talking himself out of pussy he already had on lock. It applied to him and applies to a lot of cats. Sometimes the best thing a cat can do is shut the fuck up because you CAN talk your way out of shit talking sideways and dumb. You can tell by the way they post that there are personalities on BGOL that have probably talked their way OUT of more pussy than they have actually had in their lives, hell, some of these cats have probably managed to talk their way out of damn near every opportunity they have ever had. Me personally, I stopped giving a shit YEARS ago and females are strangely attracted to that attitude. Matter of fact, I took a serious uptick damn near the day I stopped caring and stopped trying to tell females what they wanted to hear. Sex is cool, but like I said, the shit just doesn't hold the same value in my life as it did when I was a youngster so the shit I'm willing to say or do to get it is SEVERELY limited.

And to be real, the caliber of female that will even fuck with you when you are real about shit improves 1000%. Game recognizes game. I'm walking "chicken head repellent" at this stage in my life. Even my wife's homegirls that got some lingering chickenhead in them hate being around my ass because they know how real I will get with them if need be. I can gauge whether a female is about shit by whether she can deal with me and some of my "realer" homeboys. The ones that run scared or get defensive ALWAYS seem to be the ones you really don't want to fuck with anyway.

Yes!!!

PREACH!!!

 

[blkdap_n_va]

Every man needs game. Game is for more than getting pussy.

Think about it.

Truth!!! A married man is a complete package. When I step on a scene with my wife it lets other broads know that Im established, stabled, and on point. It shows that i've obtained a level of worth that my lady has vowed to god to be with me for the rest of her days.

 

[alexw]

damn Zero is dropping that heat


I wish these brothers would listen to this real shit

 

[kpr1]

good shit being dropped in here.





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[Son ofa Drum]

This is the best thread I've read since being on BGOL.

 

[HarlemPerv]

This is some great advice in here. I have nothing to add, but I still want to give props where its due.

 

[destrehan]

Shit is like free trade with China...

What normally happens is that when a female is trying to get with you, she temporarily lowers the value of her "currency" so you can go on shopping sprees and whatnot. You get used to all of this cheap "product" coming your way and next thing you know, your whole pussy "economy" is dependent on this cheap product. You can't afford to produce your own supply of pussy anymore. Your locked in a pussy "trade deficit". All this deficit spending on pussy gives her power over you in other aspects of your life. Next thing you know, she owns you (like China owns us).

The way to avoid this is to devalue ALL pussy. If ALL pussy is of lesser value to you, you can go to the table and renegotiate the terms of your original free "pussy" trade agreement and avoid the deficit.

End result, you get more pussy at a fair and equitable price and don't have to sacrifice your economy in other areas (like SuperBowl parties and trips to Vegas with your boys).

this shit is goin into my permanent memory bank!!

 

[destrehan]

You could've taught those "cracka" slavemasters a thing or two. Treating black human beings as commodities for your personal satisfaction is something you both have in common.

i'd like to put a blow torch to you.

 

[keysersoze]

Zero is on some Yoda wisdom about game.

 

[destrehan]

Truth!!! A married man is a complete package. When I step on a scene with my wife it lets other broads know that Im established, stabled, and on point. It shows that i've obtained a level of worth that my lady has vowed to god to be with me for the rest of her days.

this is hogwash, sorry to be the one to tell you. it's ALOT of married and FUCKED UP muthafuckas out there.

 

[Oakland NUPE]

A HAPPILY married man whose wife ain't giving him grief has to let the single man's definition of "game" (meaning running bullshit just to get what you want) go because if you say some shit to your WIFE who is up in your grill daily, you will fuck around and get held to promises you may not want to keep. Best bet in a marriage is to be brutally honest. I'm straight up with my wife about everything and if she doesn't like it, she just has to get over it because I make sure my word is my bond. She asks me to do some shit I don't want to do, I tell her NO and let her know why and don't back down ever. If she asks me to do something I don't mind doing, I'll do it. "Game" in a marriage is a long term strategy, cats try that quick hit shit with their wives to pacify her short term and then catch grief long term because a female will come at you with the quickness on some "Remember when you told me in 1997 that we would...?" shit. A WIFE gotta be on your team full time, a jump-off gotta be on your team for a few hours to a few months at best, so you can pretty much say whatever you need to say to keep peace and get sex out of her.

I get criticized by cats because I've said that a wife has to be trained in a way (and NOT the other way around, which is what MOST cats do when they get married). Like Gene said, if you don't have the balls to tell your wife, "It's Sunday, hell nah I ain't hanging window treatments, the game is on.", then you got problems. A DOWN wife won't even ask you to do some shit like that. I had a homey bow out of the SUPERBOWL on me a couple of years ago because his wife wanted to go to some play that night. Damn show ran the entire weekend, but she INSISTED on Superbowl Sunday. To me, that was a test and dude failed MISERABLY. Dude is texting me the whole night asking me for updates and bitching about missing the game. Next thing you know, he's bowing out of the Final Four, NBA Finals, our annual "fellas weekend" (that like 4 or 5 of us have been doing for like 10 years) when all of the married cats would go to Vegas or someplace similar and just kick it for a weekend, fishing trips, golf outings and the entire time, dude complains "quietly" about the shit and lets it continue to happen. He let her run shit like this for almost a year before he snapped on her and ended up looking like the villian. He played a short term game and got short term results. You let your wife know up front from day one what her expectations should be and she'll get used to those expectations and learn to be happy within your comfort zone (females are actually better at adjusting and actually being happy in this situation than men, but men are always the ones trying to do the shit and it ALWAYS ends badly).

dAMN zERO....YOU ARE ON POINT!

 

[96ST]

Every man needs game. Game is for more than getting pussy.

Think about it.

 

[primal]

the ultimate game = being TOTALLY honest with women at all times.

when you're totally & brutally honest with them, their level of respect will either get you LOTS of pussy or NO pussy.

sidepiece: max, we going out tonight?
max: nope. my girl wants me home with her tonight.
sidepiece: WTF, nicca... you ain't never got time for me.
max: you see me when you see me. i done already told you... i ain't leaving my girl. learn your role, play your role, or this shit is over. fuck it.
sidepiece: damn nicca... it's like that?
max: look, i gotta go. you KNOW i don't fuck around on weeknights this late. you wanna deal with me, you know the number. later.

when you don't play the games, they usually don't or will hesitate to play them cause they know you'll drop them.

but as i said, women know if they're gonna give you the pussy one day right after they meet you. the rest of the game most niccas think they're "spitting" is mostly bullshit to her.

as my barber says, "if you can make her laugh, you can make her cry."

CO-SIGN !!!!!!!!!

 

[max-dawg]

Nah dog, the cat I used to tell that to was notorious for talking himself out of pussy he already had on lock. It applied to him and applies to a lot of cats. Sometimes the best thing a cat can do is shut the fuck up because you CAN talk your way out of shit talking sideways and dumb. You can tell by the way they post that there are personalities on BGOL that have probably talked their way OUT of more pussy than they have actually had in their lives, hell, some of these cats have probably managed to talk their way out of damn near every opportunity they have ever had. Me personally, I stopped giving a shit YEARS ago and females are strangely attracted to that attitude. Matter of fact, I took a serious uptick damn near the day I stopped caring and stopped trying to tell females what they wanted to hear. Sex is cool, but like I said, the shit just doesn't hold the same value in my life as it did when I was a youngster so the shit I'm willing to say or do to get it is SEVERELY limited.

And to be real, the caliber of female that will even fuck with you when you are real about shit improves 1000%. Game recognizes game. I'm walking "chicken head repellent" at this stage in my life. Even my wife's homegirls that got some lingering chickenhead in them hate being around my ass because they know how real I will get with them if need be. I can gauge whether a female is about shit by whether she can deal with me and some of my "realer" homeboys. The ones that run scared or get defensive ALWAYS seem to be the ones you really don't want to fuck with anyway.

co-sign x 10000.

that's why i at all these niccas and how they talk shit about spitting "game."

 

[Zero]

co-sign x 10000.

that's why i at all these niccas and how they talk shit about spitting "game."

Dog, I went to this after hours spot one time and my boy picked up this stripper (I walked up to the stage while she danced and damn near passed out from the smell of her puss, but I digress, he was doing him). Anyway, this cat is in the back seat with this broad and I'm listening to him talk to her. Do you know what line this cat used...

This fool said...

Let your next choice be your best choice

Now maybe the two cats that have NOT seen "Pimps Up Hoes Down" didn't catch that shit, but I had to laugh my ass off in FRONT of dude for dropping that lame plagiarized bullshit.

He got that smelly ass, but, to be honest, any cat with a ride home would have. Dude actually was PROUD of that lame shit. Might be why dude STAYS with jobless, five kid by five baby-daddy having, illiterate, STANK PUSSY HAVING (literally, because I made the mistake of coming within 10 feet of her shit) females.

 

[Eva Hornae]

taking notes!