Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks dont

[DAYNE]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Niggahs love to chase college pussy, they get all they can get.
The women chase the niggahs thats barely going to school, but got full time jobs to afford the shyt they want.

Niggahs graduate and broads continue to date them fulltimers until they realize the bread aint enough, so all of a sudden the relationship is "going nowhere".

Broads are 30-35 and getting treated like shyt by college guy turned moneymaker because the clock is ticking. Broads get pissed cause dude wont take shyt, women turn into the "men aint shyt" monsters, and here we are.



Nah seriously white women view college as breeding grounds, something that sistas view a lil differently.

most bitches can't have their cake and it it too

 

[Chitownheadbusa]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

lol at this post.
ignorance!
stop with the BS generalizing dude.
message to the OP......
youre wrong my caucasoid freind!

I know plenty of Brothas and Sista's that got into serious relationships and got married to their "college freaks". i also know plenty of non-Black students that didnt get into relationships at all while in school. i dont know what college you went to, but at my college the white kids use to be fucking multiple people left and right..... mainly the white males and loose white females. and most of them never got married after they graduated.


considering the way this country is going.....
getting married or having kids could be a financial mistake.

thats why i dont feed into the BS media/Religion talk about how you should/need to get married. i know plenty of well rounded families that have both parents and very intelligent kids...and marriage never came into play. so to each his/her own. getting married wont mean shit if both adults are mentally lost. thats why most marriages, in all groups, end early...because people rush into it without thorough thinking & proper planning.

personally, just like many others, i wasnt in school looking for a future wife. i was there trying to take care of more serious bizness...like securing my financial future and not taking on someone else's drama & financial debt. just because u see a female graduating from college...that dont mean you have to hurry and scope her up because she's going places. i know plenty of college grads that are struggling like a MoFo.

like someone else said...when it comes to shit like this....stay out of other peoples bizness. DO YOU! its 2009, stop letting other DUMBFOUNDED PEOPLE dictate how you should live your life.

 

[DiamondDeuce]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

I've talked about this shit several times with my friends since we graduated college.

I think everyone's situation is different. But I think culture is the big difference. I went to Univ. of N.Carolina a campus of about 25,000+ and I mingled with all different races/ethnicities. During that time ASIAN families expected their children to find mate in college and settle down soon after. Most black families do not set that expectation level. Even the white folks were somewhat looking for mates. Sure they were drinking beer and acting like damn fools. But best believe by junior or senior year...them white folks were getting their acts together.

Mentality--
Black Dudes in college had the player mentality-- you tried to fuck as many girls as possible with total disregard for relationships. Again I went to a big white school. where the black population was about 2,500. So there may have been 1500 black females around campus at a given point. So you can see how that can cause problems in a small community of mates to choose from. There were plenty of "good sistas" that got overlooked...cuz all brothers wanted to was fuck and keep it moving.

Ok. Now a lot of sistas were not too much better than the dudes. The prettiest broads on campus were trying to snag a Basketball or Football player. Meaning the would let the athletes fuck easily...while requiring non-athlete males at the school to wine & dine I laugh everytime I got to homecoming and see one of those now lonely sistas who chased the athletes and turned so called "regular brothers" down.... whom now the regular brothers are "doctors and lawyers"
Outside of that some sistas did not want to "work and build" with brothers in college. A sista's excuse was that dudes that were already in the workforce were hollering at her. So when working dude or dope boy pulls up in a HOT WHIP and can spend money on a sista in college..... she does not want to fuck with niggas who are living in the dorm.

the whole dynamic with black females/males is fucked up. I wont even go into the college graduation rates for black males vs. females. To say that there are not enough black men graduating school for sistas to MATE with...

 

[TCapone]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

dude post your trannies and get banned already

nobody has serious relationships in college or immediately after

college is one huge fuckfest....and that shit lasts a yr or two after you leave

especially the white girls...those hoes are wild...one beer turns them into sluts


fuck outta here

c/s

All the ones I know who got married were usually option less, beta squares, & lames, & over half of them are divorced now while the other half are miserable!

Happy marriages usually works best when one dreams are achieved & that usually late 20's early 30's.

 

[Chitownheadbusa]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

Mentality--
Black Dudes in college had the player mentality-- you tried to fuck as many girls as possible with total disregard for relationships.

yeah
same at most of the schools i went to.
but i would be lieing if i said it was only Black guys.
my college was like 33% black 33% white and 33% everything else.

the main one's that were on that parting/chiling/im just fucking BS was mainly the Whites, both male & females, and Blacks, mostly guys and some females..but never just Blacks. a lot of the brothers i knew never wanted to party with the loose females..they were always on some ol "i gotta do my homework everynight" type shit.

the way the OP put it, he was making it like it was a BLACK ONLY ISSUE...but it really aint.


the main people i saw that were on that "lets get married" stuff were the one's that were taught to be that way and the students that havent been AMERICANIZED yet. what it really all boils down to is that individuals character......not the color of their skin.

 

[godofwine]

Re: Serios: why in the college level so many others get in relationships..but blacks

The neverending chasing of pussy instead of growing the fuck up.

He nailed it. Peep the term "game". That is all it is, games run trying to get sex. Guys call girls hoes for fucking them the first night when they are just as much of a hoe. Many Black people are scared to settle down. I don't know what they think they will be missing out on by staying single instead of getting married, but single life is dangerous with all of the STDs adn kids out of wedlock by people you wish you didn't have kids by.