I don't think so. Some may actually think like her also. Things have changed generationally when it comes to race relations and interactions to a degree. For example, white women have traditionally been taboo for a black man. Forbidden fruit. Black men could get hanged for looking at a white woman, or looking like they thinking of looking at a white woman. Traditionally, after a certain age, black boys who grew up with or around white families often were not allowed in the house, especially if the family had daughters.
Black women on the other hand, have had to fight off the unwanted advances of white men. Hispanic women are often maids now, but black women used to be the maids. They were involved with the white families, saw the marriage and family life up close. They saw the white men who beat their wives. Who were alcoholics. Who cheated. Who put on a genteel face in public but was mean as hell or vulgar behind doors. Who had problems. Their wives sometimes confided in them about their financial or marriage problems. They had to clean up after them like any other man Their clothes still stink if dirty. They still eat, drink, sweat, fart, and live just like we do. They saw up close and personal that their lives may be different to a certain degree, especially as it came to wealth, but not necessarily better. White men were not seen as the saviors or a way out. The lifestyle, better neighborhood, better education, better job, maybe, but not the man himself.
My mom used to do "day work". In fact one of my sisters is still very good friends with the daughter of a woman she used to work for. The common wisdom was always a man is a man is a man. White, black or other it made no difference. Now one thing we did get as a result of that which was a benefit, is that being introduced to a more upper class so to speak, was the technology, and convenience/luxury factor. We grew up with dish washers, compactors, etc. things that other homes of families we interacted with (at that time) didn't necessarily have. The benefit that black women got from those situations was knowledge to increase or benefit their families, not a desire to steal away with a white man.
Now days even though children are more diverse in choosing friends and stuff, there has been some what of a separation. We don't really have black people interacting and seeing white life up close and personal like that where they are somewhat part of the scenery as their lives play out. When that relationship is not there there are some who think the grass is greener, or that a white spouse will be without problems or baggage, and that is never going to be the case. A white man is never going to be the "promised land" or problem free. People who think like that, and there are those who do, we've seen it around here when it comes to white women, are going to be in for a rude awakening. But when the familiarity isn't there, then the mind is free to invent all these fantasies and scenarios where a white spouse would make their lives better.
