Oh I don't know about that LI! Maybe I have been lucky but that hasn't been true for me at all. My sexual encounters have led to long looong term relationships save one (and even that man and I keep in touch pretty regularly by email on a very cool vibe). I'm saying, why can't you be a woman of quality that also likes to have sex and really owns her sexuality- meaning if I want and you want it and we have a good vibe, why does that make me not a worthy woman? I don't have sex to get a relationship. I have sex because I enjoy sex. Relationships develop outside the bedroom whether you have sex or not. I think that's a mistake women make equating sex with reeling in a man for a relationship. Completely separate things. Either you are building a relationship with a worthy person or you are not. Sex can interfere if you let it, but that's because people still hanging on to that madonna/whore complex. If a man can't respect that I enjoy sex , then I can't have a long term relationship with him anyway so I don't necessarily see sex as a barrier. It's a part of who we are and nothing to be ashamed of.
Hammercy!