Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fucked?

[Lurker40]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Question 1:

MADE LOVE TO: 2
HAD SEX WITH: about 40
JUST FUCKED : 5​

Question 2:
The numbers don't mean much at all...anymore
The love number was my 1st Wife and the one that got away..

The sex number was a by product of my self esteem building in my teens/twentys. It made me feel better about myself knowing that young women were willing to give to me something that was precious to them.

Just fucked number are girls that i found out to be hoes after the fact. Ass is too easy to get to resort to the low hanging fruit (HOES)

I must also add I am alittle above average in looks...with mad verbal skills

 

[ladyscorpio]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

NEXT QUESTION:

how do your numbers make you feel about yourself?

are you okay with it?

do you feel inadequate or insecure because of "low numbers"

or do you feel theres something wrong if your numbers are too "high" or too "low"?

do high numbers make you feel you've accomplished something or does it not matter?

Numbers are just that numbers. I place no value on numbers. Experiences is what I see it as. Moments in my life that I chose to make my reality.
#'s do not make me who I am. I am as I am.

i have not answered the question because i have no idea about any numbers. i could give a fuck about numbers. i like memories.

thats it right there BG. I on the same page sista

I feel fine with everything I've done. Now I'm more mellow. Trying to find something, but I'm still not sure exactly what. Might be time to settle down again.

As long as you good with you nothing else really makes a difference.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Question 1:

MADE LOVE TO: 2
HAD SEX WITH: about 40
JUST FUCKED : 5​

Question 2:
The numbers don't mean much at all...anymore
The love number was my 1st Wife and the one that got away..

The sex number was a by product of my self esteem building in my teens/twentys. It made me feel better about myself knowing that young women were willing to give to me something that was precious to them.

Just fucked number are girls that i found out to be hoes after the fact. Ass is too easy to get to resort to the low hanging fruit (HOES)

I must also add I am alittle above average in looks...with mad verbal skills

you've had sex with 40 girlfriends or people you care about? it was highschool and by your own account you took something precious from them...but did you CARE about them?

 

[Lurker40]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Yes
I cared about each and everyone of those girls!!!

Things just faded overtime or OBE (ovecome by events) school out; summer over; families moving; etc....

I don't feel I TOOK anything from them...I never lied..never mislead...I was never vague so they could read in what they wanted...I was a very "nice guy" the type people want to take home during x-mas break and say look daddy I am dating a guy just like you!!! (my assesement not thier actual words)

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Yes
I cared about each and everyone of those girls!!!

Things just faded overtime or OBE (ovecome by events) school out; summer over; families moving; etc....

I don't feel I TOOK anything from them...I never lied..never mislead...I was never vague so they could read in what they wanted...I was a very "nice guy" the type people want to take home during x-mas break and say look daddy I am dating a guy just like you!!! (my assesement not thier actual words)

just wanted a bit of clarification..that was high number for having sex with people you care about...but okay..

also i noticed a bit of justifcation there: I must also add I am alittle above average in looks...with mad verbal skills

why'd you feel the need to add that?

 

[Lurker40]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

The verbal skills/looks comment explains the high number or sex parners...

most of us are driven by what we see (perception of reality) and hear (internalization of that reality)

I was good at both... ergo the higher number of girlfriends.



What was the initial thought that gernerated this question to begin with?

 

[UnoBetter2]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

MADE LOVE TO: 2
HAD SEX WITH: Not Sure
JUST FUCKED :0(thats mostly massage parlors and internet hookups)

 

[Duece]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Man the fuck is going on in these massage parlors.

 

[fourth_retired]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

whats the diff from sex and fuked?

sex = vaginal/anal/oral where as fuked is just vaginal?

yall peeps lost me.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

The verbal skills/looks comment explains the high number or sex parners...

most of us are driven by what we see (perception of reality) and hear (internalization of that reality)

I was good at both... ergo the higher number of girlfriends.



What was the initial thought that gernerated this question to begin with?

whenever I bring this kind of subject up i notice that men mostly feel the need to explain or justify their actions or find some way boast about their skill or proficiency with women.

I would never doubt that you had sex with 40 woman...i just question whether a teenager and young man who linked sexual conquest with self esteem could actual care for each and every one of them.

and you're right you didn't TAKE anything...but you said the gave you something that was precious to them (i'm going to assume virginity) what did you give them that was equally as precious?

and the girls you regard as hoes..did you not care for them BECAUSE they were too easy? because that number seems very low..

something seems off about that...

the ones you actually cared about is 40
the ones you couldn't care less for is 5

usually the one you care less for are the ones you run thru like toilet paper (hence the JUST FUCKING catogory is usually the highest number)

and the ones you actually care about you tend to be more careful and selective with.

your numbers are exactly the opposite.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Man the fuck is going on in these massage parlors.

happy endings..

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

whats the diff from sex and fuked?

sex = vaginal/anal/oral where as fuked is just vaginal?

yall peeps lost me.

read the first post carefully

 

[Duece]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

happy endings..

guess I'll use my imagination on that one.

 

[Blu Diablo]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Hard to classify those numbers and I honestly stopped counting some time ago,but if I did it there's nothing to be ashamed of because you can't go back and undo any of it.

 

[Lurker40]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

whenever I bring this kind of subject up i notice that men mostly feel the need to explain or justify their actions or find some way boast about their skill or proficiency with women.

I would never doubt that you had sex with 40 woman...i just question whether a teenager and young man who linked sexual conquest with self esteem could actual care for each and every one of them.

and you're right you didn't TAKE anything...but you said the gave you something that was precious to them (i'm going to assume virginity) what did you give them that was equally as precious?

and the girls you regard as hoes..did you not care for them BECAUSE they were too easy? because that number seems very low..

something seems off about that...

the ones you actually cared about is 40
the ones you couldn't care less for is 5

usually the one you care less for are the ones you run thru like toilet paper (hence the JUST FUCKING catogory is usually the highest number)

and the ones you actually care about you tend to be more careful and selective with.

your numbers are exactly the opposite.

I will not claim to be any different from my bretheren here!!! I wanted props from my peers on my "girl getting skills!! I simply pursued it thru "quality girls"..the girlfriend types. I never slept with a girl I would not be willing to give a "wifey" label to! I was always willing to let my next "conquest be my last".

Their were virgins in that overall total but as a rule I avoided them because it can get really messy if it does not work out. As I got older I avoided them because their sexual skill set/experiance level was not compairable to mine. (Equallu yoked and all) I do not understand the apeal of taking verginity!! So no, that was not the thing for me. What I offered in return to all of my lovers was the potential for forever!! I value my time, energy and effort very highly. You can make more money but you can never reclaim a second once spent on someone!!

The girls I call hoes are oly labeled as such after the fact. I made mistakes in judging their character. It seems the ass was community property and I did not know ahead of time. Some hurt my little heart..others my pride

good discussion

 

[mk23666]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made Love To: 4
Had Sex With: 1
Just Fucked : 1

 

[sexylegz33]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

NEXT QUESTION:

how do your numbers make you feel about yourself?

are you okay with it?

do you feel inadequate or insecure because of "low numbers"

or do you feel theres something wrong if your numbers are too "high" or too "low"?

do high numbers make you feel you've accomplished something or does it not matter?

I'm fine with my numbers. I don't think it matters how high or how low. I know some people feel the higher the number the more experience. I don't think that is necessarily true. When you are in a long term, committed relationship I think you're more likely to explore different things with that partner because you are so comfortable with one another. Just my opinion. Either way, numbers don't impress me.

 

[sexylegz33]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

first and foremost you're supposed to fuck bitches while they're making love(morons fall in love).......secondly you can't get a chick to tell you(truthfully) how many niggas she done fucked even if you stick a gun in her face.

 

[black again]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

I knew this question was coming, soon. One night, years ago, I couldn't sleep and I started counting the women I had sex with..some people count sheep But I was wayyy up there, then. I'd be afraid to know the numbers now. and I think you had a question about how did you feel afterwards...sometimes, not too good. I almost felt like the sex was so good, I shoulda been saving that for somebody I cared about.
made love to: 3 or 4
sex (I don't see a distinction in the other 2 categories) only God knows..high 100's?..prolly less than 200.

 

[SinaminDelite]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

first and foremost you're supposed to fuck bitches while they're making love(morons fall in love).......secondly you can't get a chick to tell you(truthfully) how many niggas she done fucked even if you stick a gun in her face.

Ahhh, spoken like a true man, right? GTFOH

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: 2
just fucked:1
had sex: 1

 

[DaTakeOver]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Me, I made love to women who I was actually in love with, had sex with women who were just my friends (not all of my friends though), and fucked girls, who I just met and never seen again. Therefore, I pretty much done it all....made love, had sex and fucked.

With that being said

Made love: 3
Had sex: 4
Fucked: 5

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

I knew this question was coming, soon. One night, years ago, I couldn't sleep and I started counting the women I had sex with..some people count sheep But I was wayyy up there, then. I'd be afraid to know the numbers now. and I think you had a question about how did you feel afterwards...sometimes, not too good. I almost felt like the sex was so good, I shoulda been saving that for somebody I cared about.
made love to: 3 or 4
sex (I don't see a distinction in the other 2 categories) only God knows..high 100's?..prolly less than 200.

remember the determining factor is the EMOTIONAL CONTENT behind the act....not the act itself..

don;t tell you can't see the difference between having sex with someone you care about like a girlfriend and having sex with say a prostitute...someone who is just basically a person you masturbated through.

the emotional content and context of those to acts are completely different.

thats what i'm getting at.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

I will not claim to be any different from my bretheren here!!! I wanted props from my peers on my "girl getting skills!! I simply pursued it thru "quality girls"..the girlfriend types. I never slept with a girl I would not be willing to give a "wifey" label to! I was always willing to let my next "conquest be my last".

Their were virgins in that overall total but as a rule I avoided them because it can get really messy if it does not work out. As I got older I avoided them because their sexual skill set/experiance level was not compairable to mine. (Equallu yoked and all) I do not understand the apeal of taking verginity!! So no, that was not the thing for me. What I offered in return to all of my lovers was the potential for forever!! I value my time, energy and effort very highly. You can make more money but you can never reclaim a second once spent on someone!!

The girls I call hoes are oly labeled as such after the fact. I made mistakes in judging their character. It seems the ass was community property and I did not know ahead of time. Some hurt my little heart..others my pride

good discussion

i'm not trying to harass you on it but i want to bring it into focus why you feel you cared about all 40 women you had sex with.
remember the criteria thats established for this question:

You MAKE LOVE with someone you IN LOVE with.
You HAVE SEX with someone you CARE ABOUT but are NOT in love with.
You FUCK someone you DON'T CARE ABOUT.

I get the feeling that deep down sex is probably more important to you than you want to admit and you have to justify having sex with so many women (who didn't do you wrong or dirty or acted slutty) by elevating them to a higher status in your mind.

you said: I never slept with a girl I would not be willing to give a "wifey" label to! But were you really willing to MARRY every one of those 40 women? Were you actually IN LOVE 40 times (the criteria i would assume you would need in order to wife a woman)?

Maybe you did care for all 40 (its possible) but you keep throwing little hints in your response that makes me question that.

 

[^SpiderMan^]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Cared about:15
Didn't really give a fuck about:Lost count

Man its sad when you really think about it...

 

[sizzlelater]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

for clarification this would be PARTNERS not acts of sex...

 

[black again]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

As someone once said..."If ya can't be with the one you want, then love the one you're with."

to me ...IMHO, there's only a difference between those I love ,and ALL others.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

As someone once said..."If ya can't be with the one you want, then love the one you're with."

to me ...IMHO, there's only a difference between those I love ,and ALL others.

whats your definition of love?

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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[black again]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

I love familial-y...(my new word)all others are in a separate category..in other words, if I LOVE ya, you're family..wife, son, daughter, mother, father, brother..I do WHATEVER, WHENEVER, HOWEVER, for ya...You're closest to my heart.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

I love familial-y...(my new word)all others are in a separate category..in other words, if I LOVE ya, you're family..wife, son, daughter, mother, father, brother..I do WHATEVER, WHENEVER, HOWEVER, for ya...You're closest to my heart.

I understand that..but think theres a difference between loving someone (familially) and being IN LOVE with someone.. i know you don't love you boys like you love your wife...

 

[smoove2k6]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

MADE LOVE TO: 2
HAD SEX WITH: 4
JUST FUCKED : Hold on, let me get a Scientific calculator

 

[black again]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Each entity is different..BUT, I have had some homies thar I've known 20..30 yrs longer than I've known some of the females that I've been in love with. My closest boys are like brothas, to me.

 

[geechiedan]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Each entity is different..BUT, I have had some homies thar I've known 20..30 yrs longer than I've known some of the females that I've been in love with. My closest boys are like brothas, to me.

okay...lets get off the men...we're talking about females you had sex with and the emotional content behind it.

don't tell you can't see the difference between having sex with someone you care about like a girlfriend and having sex with say a prostitute...someone who is just basically a person you masturbated through.

 

[OnSlaught]

Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made love:2
Had sex:6
Fucked:122, I think

Right now again...I'm gonna be celibate for a while. not sure how long, but for a while!