Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fucked?

geechiedan

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BGOL Investor
BEFORE YOU ANSWER READ CAREFULLY!!

IF you defined sexual activity based on the EMOTIONAL CONTENT and those definitions were:

Make Love: In order to make love you have to be IN LOVE. Subsequently all sex with your lover is MAKING LOVE whether its a quickie in a broom closet at your job. A nooner. Or candle lights and soft music...its all MAKING LOVE with the person you're IN LOVE with.


Having Sex: With someone you care for BUT YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE WITH. Generally girlfriends and fuck buddies. You know..he/she's not husband/wife material but if they need a 5 spot or a place to crash you got their back.

Just Fuck: basically one night stands and hoes. Any person you don't care about or have any real intention of dealing with beyond sex.

Again if your in love then all aspects of sex is love making no matter how fast and dirty. And if you don't care about the person then its all fucking no matter how many candles and rose petals there are...you're just fucking..really SLOW.

PLEASE DON'T SAY SHIT LIKE "I FUCK MY WIFE IN THE MORNING AND MAKE LOVE TO HER IN THE EVENING"..thats NOT what I'm talking about.

Going by that...

ladies...HOW MANY MEN HAVE YOU:

MADE LOVE TO:
HAD SEX WITH:
JUST FUCKED :

fellas... How many woman have you:

MADE LOVE TO: 1
HAD SEX WITH: 2
JUST FUCKED : 15(thats mostly massage parlors and internet hookups)
 
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Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: my wife only
had sex with: 2
just fucked: :dunno: can't count that high
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: my wife only
had sex with: 2
just fucked: :dunno: can't count that high


pretty cloe to what my answer would be. Except I loved one other woman other than my wife.

That just fucked number is probably over the 130-140 mark. I was a wild man in my youth and immediately following my
separation from my wife.
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

i didn't do this for bragging purposes but to actually look at your sexual history from a certain perspective.


i posted this in the main section but it seemed like those guys egos wouldn't allow them to take it seriously...

so I deleted it and put it here for more serious answers..

thanx
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

i get the feeling that a lot of women are going to be afraid of being percieved as sluts or hoes if they answer the question...
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

i get the feeling that a lot of women are going to be afraid of being percieved as sluts or hoes if they answer the question...

On BGOL?!?!? No way!:smh:

:lol:
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

pretty cloe to what my answer would be. Except I loved one other woman other than my wife.

That just fucked number is probably over the 130-140 mark. I was a wild man in my youth and immediately following my
separation from my wife.

for clarification this would be PARTNERS not acts of sex...
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made Love: 2
Had Sex: 3
Just Fucked: 0
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made love to? 2

Fucked? Lost count.
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: 2
had sex: 3
just fucked: don't know
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: 1
sex: 4

and thats it
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

as i said earlier I posted this on BGOL and got silly evasive answers..

I also posted it on a predominately white board and not only got serious answers but they even modified the question by adding their age and when they became sexually active.

I hate to generalize but its starting to look like black men for the most part have really sensitive egos when it comes to sex and are really uncomfortable with subjects of a sexual nature where they're not supposed to brag or boast.

again SOL..thanx for taking it seriously..
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made Love:1
Sex With:4
Just Fucked:13
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made Love: 1
Sex: 2
Fucked: 7
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made Love 2
Had Sex 2
Fucked ??? (I think once you hit 25 you start losing count)
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

please state if you're a male or female


here's a response I got from a male on another board after a number of men posted explanations for "low numbers":

I have tried twice now to respond smartly to this and it ends up turning into defending myself.

Its the way we are raised, taught at a young age that sex with as many people as possible is what the mans man does. Sex with more than a handful of people makes a woman a whore. Therefore I see my limited number of partners as a reflection of me and it embarrasses me. Its a fucked up game but thats the way the rules are.

thats about as honest as I can get.
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made love to 1
Had Sex 1
Just fucked 4

Do not plan to make it past eight in all but a guy can only hope
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

as i said earlier I posted this on BGOL and got silly evasive answers..

I also posted it on a predominately white board and not only got serious answers but they even modified the question by adding their age and when they became sexually active.

I hate to generalize but its starting to look like black men for the most part have really sensitive egos when it comes to sex and are really uncomfortable with subjects of a sexual nature where they're not supposed to brag or boast.

again SOL..thanx for taking it seriously..
I also posted it on a predominately white board and not only got serious answers but they even modified the question by adding their age and when they became sexually active.

I am 37. I lost my virginity when I was 19, stayed with him for almost ten years and was faithful. After the break up, was celibant for aabout a year and a half then decided to get myself a fuck buddy. Had sex with my fuck buddy for about 6 months, until he moved out of state. Got somethng started with a co-worker that had been a long time friend and we always had a mutual attraction going on. We were fuck buddies for a few months then I called it quits cause we worked together and it was getting too weird. Got into a relationship, fell in love, stayed faithful. After a couple of years we split up for a few months and during that time I found myself a fuck buddy/distraction to try and get over him. Got back together with the man I loved was faithful again. Ended the relationship for good and went back to having sex with my same fuck buddy/distraction from the first time we broke up.

Made Love: 2
Had Sex: 3
Just Fucked: 0
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: 1
had sex: 2
just fucked: :dunno:
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: 1
had sex: 2
just fucked: :dunno:

whats there not to know? have you ever had sex with someone you didn't care about? a one night stand? prostitute?

if not then 0
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love to 1
fucked & sexed several
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

whats there not to know? have you ever had sex with someone you didn't care about? a one night stand? prostitute?

if not then 0


I have, I just don't have a # dear so :dunno: Not like I was cutting notches in the proverbial bed post know what I mean.







Peace
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

Made love - 1

Had sex < 30
Fucked < 100
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

NEXT QUESTION:

how do your numbers make you feel about yourself?

are you okay with it?

do you feel inadequate or insecure because of "low numbers"

or do you feel theres something wrong if your numbers are too "high" or too "low"?

do high numbers make you feel you've accomplished something or does it not matter?
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

NEXT QUESTION:

how do your numbers make you feel about yourself?

are you okay with it?

do you feel inadequate or insecure because of "low numbers"

or do you feel theres something wrong if your numbers are too "high" or too "low"?

do high numbers make you feel you've accomplished something or does it not matter?
i have not answered the question because i have no idea about any numbers. i could give a fuck about numbers. i like memories.
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

NEXT QUESTION:

how do your numbers make you feel about yourself?

are you okay with it?

do you feel inadequate or insecure because of "low numbers"

or do you feel theres something wrong if your numbers are too "high" or too "low"?

do high numbers make you feel you've accomplished something or does it not matter?

im proud, heck i didnt do them all in ONE NIGHT!

OMG!!! and you men say women ask alot of questions??? :hmm::smh::lol:
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

made love: 1
had sex with less than 10 more than 7
I aint never just fucked anybody with a good reason.
 
Re: Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fuck

NEXT QUESTION:

how do your numbers make you feel about yourself?

are you okay with it?

do you feel inadequate or insecure because of "low numbers"

or do you feel theres something wrong if your numbers are too "high" or too "low"?

do high numbers make you feel you've accomplished something or does it not matter?


I feel fine with everything I've done. Now I'm more mellow. Trying to find something, but I'm still not sure exactly what. Might be time to settle down again.
 
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