


Too much dead weight and baggage. She still thinks she's 20 yrs old. She's not as "GREAT" as she thinks she is. I would suggest she really take her own advice and live in freedom. Stop trying to control a potential mate.
Don't fall for the okie doke. The majority of these online chicks type the same ole' tired ass lines and cliches, but at the end of the day they get horny and wanna get laid just like you do.
And hell yeah, I'm smashing
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true.
My theory: attactive women that are on dating sites are SERIOUSLY damaged goods.
if she was such a catch a good man wouldve snatched her up a LOONG time ago.
their self esteem is in the gutter and the constant attention from thirsty men from a non-threatening source like a dating site feeds her shattered ego.
I'm impressed no one said "I have to see her ass first"
It's interesting to read the comments on a smash or pass, when a glimpse of their personality is given along with the pics.
I agree, she provided too much information. Less is more at times...Leave some things to the imagination and the "getting to know each other" process...
I stated this on that jofromtheno thread, when you hit your 30s there's no more "getting to know you for a lengthy amount of time" period. You should be able to get an accurate read on a person within minutes at that point. Her bio would have been revealed within 5 minutes of meeting her.
I'd fuck, and that's it.
Her profile reads like the typical standard black female. They will learn soon enough that their egos and especially their Jesus freak behavior is played out.
Her occupation has no bearing as to whether I would fuck.
i looked the URL and its from match.com
I know this is a pass or smash....but i am going to pass
based upon the shit she wrote, them panties are not dropping and she will get on your nerves really fucking quick. probably wouldn't make it past a few phone calls.
she is also one of those "thou not as holy as I" chicks meaning, she is judgmental of Christians who a she deems not on her level so even if you believe in GOD but havent been to church in a few months, your ass will be judged accordingly.
true.
My theory: attactive women that are on dating sites are SERIOUSLY damaged goods.
if she was such a catch a good man wouldve snatched her up a LOONG time ago.
their self esteem is in the gutter and the constant attention from thirsty men from a non-threatening source like a dating site feeds her shattered ego.
and she is trying too hard and trying to convice others she's so much on point.
shes studying to be a LIFE COACH but she cant get a good man?
bty, im smashing till the feds come knocking.
cuz i know JUST how to deal with a bitch like this..
Part of the thrill of receiving a gift is "unwrapping it" and "finding what is inside the box". The most exciting phase of a relationship(IMO) is finding out what someone is all about. She gave too much away too soon and possibly scared off a lot of potential guys with rhetoric, she may later regret. We are constantly changing and evolving and with the right man, she may have become more open minded and changed her stance on some issues. However, she messed up the possibility of meeting those guys, with all of that "goobly gook."
Question JD (no shade, or argument or judgement) What is your ideal kind of woman? You get at the hoodrat trash and single mothers and rightfully so, but it also seems like you give a hard time to someone who is fairly togethether. (granted her profile seems a little askew...)but what kind of woman would you not have a problem with?
Like I said, an individual who's been paying attention during life can find out what's in the box within 5 minutes. Most people aren't as unique as they think they are.
The women who have been near and dear to me have been:
Hot
Intelligent
atheists
Had hobbies
At first glance that list might not seem like much but keep in mind, over 85% of Black women in this country are xtians. Also, most don't have hobbies, and I'm talking about serious hobbies, not that 'I like to write' bullshit. The combination of traits I listed really does produce a different type of woman.
Unfortunately the African-American community suffers from a lack of variety in our women. The vast majority of you are pretty much the same. Either you're hoodrats, guilded hoodrats, or jofromtheno type blue blood chicks who have their act together but believe their degree is enough to compensate for their lack of depth.
You broads keep forgetting that men are wired differently than women. You're degrees and how much you earn means nothing to us (real men). We know how to fend for ourselves.
Her occupation has no bearing as to whether I would fuck.
true.
My theory: attactive women that are on dating sites are SERIOUSLY damaged goods.
if she was such a catch a good man wouldve snatched her up a LOONG time ago.
their self esteem is in the gutter and the constant attention from thirsty men from a non-threatening source like a dating site feeds her shattered ego.
and she is trying too hard and trying to convice others she's so much on point.
shes studying to be a LIFE COACH but she cant get a good man?
bty, im smashing till the feds come knocking.
cuz i know JUST how to deal with a bitch like this..
For a 50 year old yea but something tells me she got too much mouth and won't stay in the female position and might try to dominate a brothathen be quiet and submissive for a white boy. Yall know the type. Props for the sista though having her shit together.