About her & Who she's looking for
When I turned 40 almost a year ago that came with an excitement to live a full life and love as deeply as I can. Maybe on some level it was a wakeup call that this wonderful life doesn't last forever and so for that reason I now value my time more than ever.
About Me and a little information about who I'm looking for:
I am blunt to a fault and prefer honest straight communication. I believe a rich life is one that includes helping others and doing community service on a regular basis. If your conversation is consumed with personal pronouns we probably will not connect well. I enjoy conversation with depth and substance about a broad range of topics and that doesn't include the latest club or when you can come to my house. My ideal match would have experience in long term committed relationships and understand the challenges and also rewards of working together to build a strong bond. He would also be a strong spiritual leader first in his own life as demonstrated by some form of commitment to spiritual growth. In addition to that he would be well integrated emotionally, physically, and psychologically with the ability to have difficult conversations about tough topics and in the inevitable conflicts that come up in relationships. Overall I am an optimist so I also would need to be with someone who shares my belief that the glass is always half FULL. I LOVE life and I love to love so I would appreciate someone who knows how to give and receive love. I believe the best relationships come from 2 people who have a lot to SHARE and GIVE versus looking externally to be completed.
Intellectual Foreplay
Last thing to give you insight into my conversation....I'm currently reading a book titled "Intellectual Foreplay" and the entire premise is to be clear about who you are and clear about what is in alignment with what you want to create in your life in a relationship. Great questions that lead to great conversations with depth which I find to be very attractive.
Reasons you should NOT wink, email, or "favorite" me because there is no future:
* You're looking to fill one of your date nights in the large rotation of women you're dating
* You've missed some of your 12 step meetings due to any number of addictions(alcohol, drugs,gambling) and you're trying to use match to solve your problems
*You have a history of being rude to women(hanging up the phone, verbal assaults, yelling)
*If GOD is a word/concept you're struggling with I'm not trying to convince you. I'ts NON-negotiable to me that I believe in God and if you don't God be with you but you can't be with me.
*If you don't value family relationships we can't be an island together
* I spent 2 years after my divorce not dating anyone so that I would have a HEALTHY skill set to bring to the table so I'm not interested in being your emotional crutch or dumpin
B.S. and MS in Chemical Engineering with a minor in Nutrition
Currently starting my own Life Coaching Business and writing my first book which I hope to publish by the end of this year or Spring 2012
then be quiet and submissive for a white boy. Yall know the type. Props for the sista though having her shit together.
