Re: Parents On Bgol! How Do U Deal With Bad Kids That Dont Give A Fuck Without Beatin
I teach, and at one point, I would become upset and raise my voice in anger towards my students whenever they had discipline problems and it got me absolutely nowhere.
Now no matter what kind of dumb stupid shit thay may say or do, i remain calm and collected. When they realized that their dumb antics did not wotrk, guess what.... they stopped.
Your foster children sound like thay have problems that rational actions may not work with them possibly to to their previous experiences. I feel for you, you'd think that they would appreciate the fact that you took them in when others rejected them.
I don't think that physical punishment will work at a certain age, they, in my opinion have passed that age. You may have to identify what touches them the most. Hopefully they are able to communicate with you.