only reason to be cool as a youth is for the hoes. when you're 35, who gives a fuck about hoes? Grown man game - suits, boat shoes, slacks, nice watch. Time to be bawse. A woman in her late twenties wants to see stability, security, and maturity. By 35, you should have a good chunk in savings and your mind should be on the future, and investing. Let them kids play at the mall and stay in shape.