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Aight fellas here's my problem, I met a chick I used to go to school with about 4 months ago. Shorty phat as shit cute face, big tits, phatass and all but there was always a small problem with her, she gained some weight from a prior pregnancy months ago. I came in this knowing she had a abortion early in the yr but I said fuck it. Im a pretty fit dude, I lift and run and I had her going with me atleast 2-3 times a week. But now she be acting like she don't wanna go, I'm like cmon nigga I ain't sign up to be with no fatties get it right get it tight.

Shorty has no care for what she eats and she sits all day at work so she basically burns next to nothing at work. I just met her moms and omg she is a fatty, but she's very sick with lupus and can't work so I figured that's why.

I want a family but I watched too many thick chicks get pregnant and become fat fucking slobs afterwards, I like her as a person and damn near love her but I know imma cheat if I'm not attracted to her physically.

Idk what the fuck to do, I don't wanna dip just because of something that may not happen. She got the total package, good career, good head on her shoulders, takes dick like a champ, and don't give a shit about my past. I just don't know fellas.:lol:
 
rwill784 said:
Lol u a fool
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Why be ashamed of admitting that this woman's got you emotionally vulnerable and reached your heart? Isn't being in love one of the best things that can happen to a human being?

Don't tell me you're so immature and so soft as a person that you fall for this "I gots ta be hard 24/7 b/s" that trapped so many of our fam into perpetual adolescence (and fills up the jails)

:hmm:
 
She's the total package until she gains weight, which may come trying to please you or giving you a child, stress can be a pound adder too. She's dealing with your past, but you're worried about her physical.

Let her go now and find someone that appeals you to you physically and hopefully that will keep you happy.
 
Phil Wood said:
ol' soft ass nigga...:lol::dance:
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THIS! NEGRO KEEP YOUR STANDARDS!! SHE'LL ALWAYS BEE IN YA BACK POCKET! I HAD A BITCH LIKE THAT AND I GREW TO HATE HER! STAY WIT YA GUT AND LET HER GO...IF U STILL WANNA HIT...U STILL CAN! TRUST ME! QUIT CAKIN NIGGA!:hmm:
 
DWBass said:
Move on bruh! She's obviously NOT your type! Why settle?
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^^Real Talk!
You may be crazy about her now but the things that drive you nuts now will only magnify through the years.
Separate your emotions from your dick, enjoy the pussy short term and move on.
Also, like the other fellas said....pushing her to exercise too will just have some other cat blowing in her ear in the long run telling her how perfect she is as is and tapping your pussy at the same time.
 
rwill784 said:
Aight fellas here's my problem, I met a chick I used to go to school with about 4 months ago. Shorty phat as shit cute face, big tits, phatass and all but there was always a small problem with her, she gained some weight from a prior pregnancy months ago. I came in this knowing she had a abortion early in the yr but I said fuck it. Im a pretty fit dude, I lift and run and I had her going with me atleast 2-3 times a week. But now she be acting like she don't wanna go, I'm like cmon nigga I ain't sign up to be with no fatties get it right get it tight.

Shorty has no care for what she eats and she sits all day at work so she basically burns next to nothing at work. I just met her moms and omg she is a fatty, but she's very sick with lupus and can't work so I figured that's why.

I want a family but I watched too many thick chicks get pregnant and become fat fucking slobs afterwards, I like her as a person and damn near love her but I know imma cheat if I'm not attracted to her physically.

Idk what the fuck to do, I don't wanna dip just because of something that may not happen. She got the total package, good career, good head on her shoulders, takes dick like a champ, and don't give a shit about my past. I just don't know fellas.:lol:
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You are a square and if you married her the marriage will fail.
 
Coldchi said:
go jogging with a piece of chicken strapped to your back...
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:lol:

:hmm: That's fucked up....

:lol:


Sorry, fam, but if she can't make her health a priority, especially when you're trying to make it a shared experience, it's downhill from here. What else doesn't she care about? The question you must ask yourself is can you live AND be faithful watching her slowly but surely gain weight far past your standards?
 
D Town Redd said:
Why be ashamed of admitting that this woman's got you emotionally vulnerable and reached your heart? Isn't being in love one of the best things that can happen to a human being?

Don't tell me you're so immature and so soft as a person that you fall for this "I gots ta be hard 24/7 b/s" that trapped so many of our fam into perpetual adolescence (and fills up the jails)

:hmm:
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What in the blue fuck are you babbling about man? I was laughing at his post cuz it wax funny. I never said I didn't care about the chick, if I didn't I would've been dipped.

Da fuck???
 
Dawg just bounce it only gets worser. She ain't never loosing that weight. Black American women don't exercise like that. It's about 500 thirsty nuckas in the cut
waiting to get at her too.
 
Echelon said:
:lol:

:hmm: That's fucked up....

:lol:


Sorry, fam, but if she can't make her health a priority, especially when you're trying to make it a shared experience, it's downhill from here. What else doesn't she care about? The question you must ask yourself is can you live AND be faithful watching her slowly but surely gain weight far past your standards?
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Yeah see that's another thing too, I got to the gym and eat better because Im a electrician, I am involved in physical labor everyday. My body is my tool, I gotta keep healthy or be one of these fat Cacs I see at work crying about their knees and backs and shit.

I definitely want my children's mom to be fit. I want us to be able to play with our kids at 40+ not be war watching them run around while we on our fat asses because our backs hurt too much to.
 
I've never been able to motivate a chic to do cardio & diet when she wasn't prepared to. Shit just doesn't work. I know it's hard but, save yourself the grief & end it.
 
You cant motivate somebody to work out that doesnt want to for themselves. If its that important to you, you gotta find a woman that already works out for herself and not to get a man or anything cuz those are the types that will keep working out after you get with them. ​
 
rwill784 said:
Yeah see that's another thing too, I got to the gym and eat better because Im a electrician, I am involved in physical labor everyday. My body is my tool, I gotta keep healthy or be one of these fat Cacs I see at work crying about their knees and backs and shit.

I definitely want my children's mom to be fit. I want us to be able to play with our kids at 40+ not be war watching them run around while we on our fat asses because our backs hurt too much to.
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You found reasons that you respect enough to allow them to be your motivators for pursuing good health. You're good. Unfortunately, if she has not yet found a reason to make a choice beneficial to her overall lifestyle, she probably won't barring some life changing catalyst. Your urging just won't do it.
 
DownSouthCharlestonBoy said:
You are on a message board taking personal advice on what to do with a fat Bitch you can't motivate. Sound like square to me.
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Says the nigga that goes out of his way to respond. Like I said nigga please, I don't do the internet squabbling.

If u got a problem with it then click that back button and kick rocks.
 
She had an abortion,4months,its to early to have a situation,dude.cut your loses and run.
 
have some damn standards leave her



thats whats wrong with alot of us we settle for shit. If you got your shit together then you get someone with there shit together.


If your fit why would u want a fat bitch im just saying
 
People will only do things for other people up to a certain point. If she really doesn't want to get in shape and she is doing it only to please you then she will never really be dedicated to losing weight. You will only be able to motivate her so much. She might honestly feel that if you love her enough you will overlook her being fat. What I have found is generally in life you cannot force someone to change they have to want to change for themselves not for you. If you determine she is just going to be overweight and it doesn't really bother her you might want to make her an ultimatum. At least be honest with her. Yes you will seem shallow but the truth is the truth so she won't like it but she will have to respect it.

BTW Asking this question here is difficult because most of these dudes are fat computer geek porn addicts so half of them hate fat chicks because they hate themselves and the other half love fat chicks because their moms are fat.
 

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