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Men if your SO lacked a sex drive because she was sick, would you leave her?

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What if she gained or lost a tremendous amount of weight do to a sickness?


What if lost her breasts to cancer? Would you leave? Or would you stay and find someone else?


What if she was disfigured in a terrible car accident like the first Mrs. McCain?


Is the love for your SO greater for your desire for sex and/or your level of attraction?
 
In Order To Stay With Someone You Must Have The Deepest Love And Compassion For Them. It Must Surpass The Physical Aspect Of Love.
When You Are With Someone Because You Are In Love With Them And Can't See Yourself Without Them By Your Side Then You Will Stick With Them If You Have To Spin That Bitch On Your Dick Because She Lost Her Arms And Legs.

If She Lost A Breast I Would Rub Lotion On It To Keep It From Getting Dry And Cracked.

A Car Accident I Would Stay With Her But Every Day When She Least Expects It I Would Sneak Up Behind Her And Say " Look Out ....bang"


Lol Just Kidding. I Would Love Her Through What Ever "we" Go Through.
 
Thick Johnson said:
If she truly loved you she wouldnt mind seeing you happy slamming dick up in another hoe.
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So if you lost your legs or had to take blood pressure medication and it made your dick permanently flaccid, would be ok for your SO to seek satisfaction elsewhere?
 
femmenoire said:
What if she gained or lost a tremendous amount of weight do to a sickness?


What if lost her breasts to cancer? Would you leave? Or would you stay and find someone else?


What if she was disfigured in a terrible car accident like the first Mrs. McCain?


Is the love for your SO greater for your desire for sex and/or your level of attraction?
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I've been with a Girl who has had Brian Surgery. Then Cancer. Lost all her hair and I stayed with her.
I'll always remember one of the things she told me. And I know many women lie. But TO THIS DAY, I believe her.

She told me if that she ever became unattractive due to her illness, That I could have sex with another woman. Because she knew I was there for her, just like when I had hard times.
That shit fucked me up.
I knew I wouldn't leave her just because life said FUCK YOU!. I'm not that type of guy, but the sincerity in her face when she said that, made me ***.
I never did cheat on her because it never got that bad.
Today she's in remission and we are still good friends.

But naw. I don't love casually so when I do, I DO.

Now Fuckin casually.. that's another matter.
 
my ex gfs

1st) busted knee, had meniscus and acl removed, couldn't do impact sports or
be on her knees for long.....:) went from kick boxing to barely able to walk
for long.

2nd) surgery 1-2x a year for fibriods/cysts finally had a total Hysterectomy

3rd) ^^ same as above with endometriosis thrown in.

I stayed with all till their mental well being became to negative for me to stay around.
These were all professional women, who couldn't deal with their conditions effectively.
i.e. thinking no guy would want them, they were broken, no good etc.
So their thinking led them to being withdrawn, depressed etc. I'm there as a friend, but
thats it.

i'm going to stay as long as the commitment and desire is there from the female.
 
No that's about as low as you can get. To leave someone that has become ill? That's when they need you most. No way! Because it could be me next month, year, whenever you just don't do crap like that.
 
These are good questions. And I have to admit if it were my wife? No I wouldn't leave even if she were injured down to being just and eyeball and cried all day. But none the less, let's ask the great question. Would she leave you if something like that happened to you? Some of these bitches are niggas too!
 
Can't believed you opened this door....It all depends on how deep the feeling is. If I was sticking around only because of your looks.....no. If it was deeper than that, and the love was based on a deeper reserve of feeling and commonality, I don't think I would leave. I can't say that I wouldn't cheat, but I wouldn't leave.
 
It's all about love. What you're putting out there is what you will get back and some. No I wouldn't turn my back if something of this nature were to happen. You have to give it all out to add to the universe. At the end of the day if you can say I did the best I could then that's what matters.
 
It is hard to predict what you will do in a crisis situation but if you have real and genuine feelings for your significant other then you will step up to the plate.

Living without sex:hmm: if you are in the prime of your life is a difficult thing but making a lifetime commitment to someone is another as well.

Very few people know how they will react when faced with adversity and the only true answers you will get will be from those people who have faced these situations before.

I never been in that situation and while i would like to say that i would i can not definitively predict how i will react unless i am placed in a situation like that.
 
I don't believe men would be faithful personally which is why I'd give my blessing to have someone on the side. But I would be upset if he saw someone without my knowledge or used the opportunity to be a ho.
 
AlexandMorgan said:
It is hard to predict what you will do in a crisis situation but if you have real and genuine feelings for your significant other then you will step up to the plate.

Living without sex:hmm: if you are in the prime of your life is a difficult thing but making a lifetime commitment to someone is another as well.

Very few people know how they will react when faced with adversity and the only true answers you will get will be from those people who have faced these situations before.

I never been in that situation and while i would like to say that i would i can not definitively predict how i will react unless i am placed in a situation like that.
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Damn negro, get outta my head readin my thoughts:angry::lol:
That's exactly what I was gonna say..I'd like to think I'd do the right thing, but until a crisis is thrown at ya, you can't say how you'll react...c/s to the max!
 
femmenoire said:
I don't believe men would be faithful personally which is why I'd give my blessing to have someone on the side. But I would be upset if he saw someone without my knowledge or used the opportunity to be a ho.
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:hmm:

swiftandsilent said:
Hmmmm.....

I was not expecting that.....:eek:
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Read between the lines buddy.

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Love is unconditional. You don't love someone because of this that or the other. You love a person despite themselves. You love them just because you do. Feelings have YOU. You don't have feelings. That is to say, you can't help how you feel about a person. You can help how you REACT to the feeling but, that's about it. Sadly, it seems as though "true love" is scarce as hell these days.

It's hard to say if you would still stay with someone if they were disfigured. I know I wouldn't leave them. Your "significant other/wifey" is supposed to be your road dawg. Thick and thin, ride or die. Right?
 
What does that mean, Shane?

I stand by what I say.

Deception is what I cannot tolerate.

But I understand a man's needs. Just don't be sneaky about it.
 
femmenoire said:
What if she gained or lost a tremendous amount of weight do to a sickness?
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to a sickness? no i wouldn't leave. that's heartless

femmenoire said:
What if lost her breasts to cancer? Would you leave? Or would you stay and find someone else?
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naw i wouldn't leave. and as far as sex goes we have an understanding.

femmenoire said:
What if she was disfigured in a terrible car accident like the first Mrs. McCain?
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no

femmenoire said:
Is the love for your SO greater for your desire for sex and/or your level of attraction?
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desire for sex? no i don't think of it that way. level of attraction? yes.
 
femmenoire said:
I don't believe men would be faithful personally which is why I'd give my blessing to have someone on the side. But I would be upset if he saw someone without my knowledge or used the opportunity to be a ho.
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I had to read this twice. I didn't believe it the first time I saw it. :eek:

Forget "how" why would anyone want to establish a relationship with a woman who's approach towards the relationship is filled with so much doubt? That's unfair to the man. As a woman would you want your man to think about the (in this case) certainty of your cheating on him? :confused: Women do cheat too!

For relationships to develope and grow stronger there has to be mutual trust on both sides. Its difficult enough as it is for relationships to work. But I guarantee you the relationship will fail if either partner is expecting the other to cheat on them. That just can't happen. (What happens if he doesn't cheat do you end up disappointed? :rolleyes: )

Giving your blessings to having a side piece is not the answer and it won't ensure your relationship so why present the opportunity for unhappiness. If your mate TRULY cares they will be there for you. That's what relationships are about.
 
Mo-Better said:
I had to read this twice. I didn't believe it the first time I saw it. :eek:

Forget "how" why would anyone want to establish a relationship with a woman who's approach towards the relationship is filled with so much doubt? That's unfair to the man. As a woman would you want your man to think about the (in this case) certainty of your cheating on him? :confused: Women do cheat too!

For relationships to develope and grow stronger there has to be mutual trust on both sides. Its difficult enough as it is for relationships to work. But I guarantee you the relationship will fail if either partner is expecting the other to cheat on them. That just can't happen. (What happens if he doesn't cheat do you end up disappointed? :rolleyes: )

Giving your blessings to having a side piece is not the answer and it won't ensure your relationship so why present the opportunity for unhappiness. If your mate TRULY cares they will be there for you. That's what relationships are about.
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man shut the fuck up. sex is a basic need. if she can't give it, why not give her blessing for him to fulfill that need? you really want brownie points don't you?
 
damn Femm, this is heavy. Truthfully, for all my faults, I'm a loyal guy to someone who's been there for me, so although I'd have my "damn I wanna go moments," it'd be hard to just leave someone I care for and who cares for me ass out. If she did give her blessing to sex outside of our relationship, of course I'd jump on it. If not? Well...HNIC'll get his 10 bucks.
 
destrehan said:
man shut the fuck up. sex is a basic need. if she can't give it, why not give her blessing for him to fulfill that need? you really want brownie points don't you?
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When your name is Femmenoire you can address me, until then leave me the fuck alone! I know what basic needs are, let the lady (if she wishes) answer the question. You stay out of adult conversations. :hmm:
 
Mo-Better said:
When your name is Femmenoire you can address me, until then leave me the fuck alone! I know what basic needs are, let the lady (if she wishes) answer the question. You stay out of adult conversations. :hmm:
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nigga fuck you. panty waist ass clown. you frontin son, i see you.
 

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