Men..help me understand
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lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet
I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now
how much he spent on dinner tho??
I mean i get yall trying to fuck but damn not tonite doesnt mean no like how some men act
Its like yall get real deep in ur feelings about this
Dont matter if money was spent
lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet
I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now
Question: You just noticed a major red flag. Why isnt that your clue to move on?
I get that...
This had happened to a few of my homegirls too
I wanna understand why its so offensive...like just cause u can get it off the muscle doesn't mean u wont get it
I can't speak for all men, but I don't have a problem with waiting if we just met.
Stop playin.............
if a dude getting upset about that he must be in a drought or something. especially if yall just started. might be a warning sign
Because we know you women fucking somebody else if it isn't us
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ya if dude is getting visibly upset over that either he has anger issues or childish as hell
Be honest, because its easy to come up
here and play the choir girl,
but no need to lie, its all homies now..
When you first met him?
where you
A. dressed like a lady?
or
B. In full thot wear?
here and play the choir girl,
but no need to lie, its all homies now..
When you first met him?
where you
A. dressed like a lady?
or
B. In full thot wear?
lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet
I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now
If you haven't known him long then you know the answer. He's just trying to fuck. He doesn't see you as relationship material, at least not yet.
I can understand him pestering you about it, hoping you'll give in. But if he loses interest in you because of it, and stops calling and dating you because of it, then you should move on.
i have a first date fuck rule
don't care where it happens
long as it does
don't care where it happens
long as it does
This ^^^^
Depends on your definition of "recently".. If you talking a month or two, then kick rocks..It a shortage out here in our favor.
If you are talking a few days or even with a couple weeks time frame, dude getting upset can pretty much be sum up in one of two scenarios:1. He thought you were an easy jump-off from the start, and had no intention of investing any meaningful time to get the pussy.
2. You are probably moments away from ending up at the station filling out a report as why you stabbed/shot dude, or talking to a counselor on a victim crisis line somewhere. All because you didn't heed the signs and invited an overly thursty cat in, even after he exposed himself to you.
Disclaimer -
Scenario #1 is more often than not brought on by mixed signals dude received from the female while at the club, bar, etc... vying for free drinks and a plate of hot wings, or that slutty "come fuck me" dress you were wearing when you gave him the digits.
Women complain when you try to spend time with them and complain when you don't.
lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet
I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now
If he gets upset or offended you probably need to move on. Case closed.
You are speaking on a population of men I don't associate with but Im assuming like a previous poster said. He either is young and or immature, or doesnt feel like you are worth waiting.....
I have the same thing happen because I don't allow women to even know where I live for a couple of months lol.....
Oh good gosh
Yalls answers...
Yalls answers...
lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet
I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now
Either your place is a disaster or you have a dude at home...either way...there's always room at my place.
I believe they call that a Thotfit.
He's either thirsty aka young.
egotistical - lack of patience implies he's not use to hearing no.
Or he's testing his muscle. - For some of us relationship is a game so if we don't get what we want we might flex a little see if you bend.
The real sharks know they don't have to bite every woman that puts her toe in the water.
egotistical - lack of patience implies he's not use to hearing no.
Or he's testing his muscle. - For some of us relationship is a game so if we don't get what we want we might flex a little see if you bend.
The real sharks know they don't have to bite every woman that puts her toe in the water.
Just move on if you don't like the way he acts Why put too much thought on it Some woman always make a simple situation so complex.
Why put too much thought on it Some woman always make a simple situation so complex.How do you have a pussy and not plan to use it?
Don't play games, like leading him on.
peace
Like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole (figuratively & literally).
Some of them same chicks will be later complaining about bitch assed niggas & whatnot yet they gave him some of themselves & that pussy knowing & feeling certain things
Some of us go through the opposite like courting a chick on the phone for a very long time or just wanting to come check her after knowing her for a good while then get some without even trying or knowing
I ain't never tell a chick that I just wanted to put the tip in but a chick damn sure told me that & it wasn't no one night stand neither.
Do what you gon do, homegirl.
We all have different models on what a successful 'relationship' is in the longrun along with what makes 'us' 'happy'
so
Its Your world & choices but every 'man' (or 'woman' for that matter) ain't 'built' 'the same'.
Just move on if you don't like the way he acts
Like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole (figuratively & literally).
Some of them same chicks will be later complaining about bitch assed niggas & whatnot yet they gave him some of themselves & that pussy knowing & feeling certain things
Some of us go through the opposite like courting a chick on the phone for a very long time or just wanting to come check her after knowing her for a good while then get some without even trying or knowing
I ain't never tell a chick that I just wanted to put the tip in but a chick damn sure told me that & it wasn't no one night stand neither.
Do what you gon do, homegirl.
We all have different models on what a successful 'relationship' is in the longrun along with what makes 'us' 'happy'
so
Its Your world & choices but every 'man' (or 'woman' for that matter) ain't 'built' 'the same'.
lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet
I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now
No problem with this at all, it keeps the "Clean Up Woman" in business.
Samantha says call her she lost your number in her old phone.