Men..help me understand

[Commish]

lets say u just met a woman recently...why do some of yall get upset/offended when a woman tells you she isn't comfotable having u come over yet

I never understood this...its not like u cant come over...just not right now

I think it depends on when you tell a man about your comfort level of him visiting your home. Of course, if you just met someone and went out a few times, then he should be understanding about not being able to come over to your house, however, if you two have been dating for a month or two and you still have reservations about inviting him over to your house, then I can see him feeling a certain way about it. It really depends on the level of rapport, attraction and whatever else that is keeping you two to deal with each other.

Some women use a risk averse type approach to dating which may prevent her from making a true connection with men. The best thing for you to do is let your intentions be know up front and let a man that you are interested in know that you want to get to a certain comfort level before taking things to the house. It doesn't have to be said on the first date, but definitely after a few dates and see how he reacts. That way if he decides to continue dealing with you, then there will be no confusion. You may very well have a drastic change of comfort, especially if the chemistry is strong between you two. If not, then maybe you are not into him enough and may want to friend zone him or better yet leave him alone.

Someone who likes you, respects you and mature will work with you(for a finite period of time). Just deal with men who is on your level and have fun.

 

[code_pirahna]

I mean i get yall trying to fuck but damn not tonite doesnt mean no like how some men act



Its like yall get real deep in ur feelings about this

Dont matter if money was spent

are you saying you don t want him to know where you live?

or you don t want to sleep with him yet?

 

[MrBee]

Two reasons:

1. Niggas be thirsty yo...
2. Your whorish sisterhood make you the exception to the rule..

 

[kogalee_mohammed]

Last time a woman told me she wasn't ready for me to come over, I was still staying at my mama house.

Then that means that this was last week. Get off yo ass, gets youse a jobs and gets yose ass outs yose dams momma house, nigga!

 

[kogalee_mohammed]

God I hope this turns into a fight. This shit would be funny as fuck!! I can see it now. [emoji38]

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Why don't you jump in the fight?

That would be even funnier.

You being a straight man is even funnier than that. Faggot ass.

 

[kogalee_mohammed]

Word. That's how you're supposed to do it really.

I wouldn't say that she's delusional. All women aren't hoes, nor should they trust dudes that they meet because niggas are lunatics and rapists.

My thing is, I know I'm neither, but I'm not waiting no weeks to go to her crib. I've waited before when i was younger and never even end up smelling the pussy.

Hoes couldn't come to my house even when I was single and living alone tho. It took me two bad experiences to cut that shit out.

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I would say that you are just as delusional as she is. You still wait and you still gets no pussy that is prolly why you turned moist 5 yiss ago. It took you having bad experiences to finally consider giving up cock suckin. Gay bastid.

 

[DeSiRe]

My phone need to ring today, and yo number need to show up

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Pimp talk?

Stephanie got you on some bullshit. Go find you a dude in a tshirt and sandals at Cafe Brazil.

Lol not sure i follow

I think it depends on when you tell a man about your comfort level of him visiting your home. Of course, if you just met someone and went out a few times, then he should be understanding about not being able to come over to your house, however, if you two have been dating for a month or two and you still have reservations about inviting him over to your house, then I can see him feeling a certain way about it. It really depends on the level of rapport, attraction and whatever else that is keeping you two to deal with each other.

Some women use a risk averse type approach to dating which may prevent her from making a true connection with men. The best thing for you to do is let your intentions be know up front and let a man that you are interested in know that you want to get to a certain comfort level before taking things to the house. It doesn't have to be said on the first date, but definitely after a few dates and see how he reacts. That way if he decides to continue dealing with you, then there will be no confusion. You may very well have a drastic change of comfort, especially if the chemistry is strong between you two. If not, then maybe you are not into him enough and may want to friend zone him or better yet leave him alone.

Someone who likes you, respects you and mature will work with you(for a finite period of time). Just deal with men who is on your level and have fun.

Thanks sugar

are you saying you don t want him to know where you live?

or you don t want to sleep with him yet?

I dont want him to be able to find me if i have to activate my fall back game...didnt have a chance to see if he had stalker tendencies

Two reasons:

1. Niggas be thirsty yo...
2. Your whorish sisterhood make you the exception to the rule..

Lol

 

[The Untouchable GDFOLKS]

I would say that you are just as delusional as she is. You still wait and you still gets no pussy that is prolly why you turned moist 5 yiss ago. It took you having bad experiences to finally consider giving up cock suckin. Gay bastid.

Roasted that fag early!

 

[Naha-Nago]

A woman needs to understand that most men know you got a maintenance dude smashing it on the low until you come up on a simp to wife or cuff. We know that you aint going months or years without dick even if you're single. So we KNOW somebody getting up in that ass that isn't putting in half the hustle we are to get to know you. So, if you aren't comfortable with my stepping inside your front door, don't be so comfortable eating the food or letting me cop New Edition tickets. Consider your home/pussy my wallet and make the comfort levels equal. I value my money, job, effort and self just as much as you, so don't let me extend, exert or spend when you are on the fence. Wait to go out with me when you're sure.

This....

Most men over 30 with even a smidget of game have either been the maintenance cat, or has a boy that eat off that.

That knowledge changes things...

* two cents *

 

[knightmelodic]

People out they lane. Man upset cause he's used to hittin' quick, you perplexed cause you don't give it up quick alla time. Blame them chicks gave it to him real quick. Or better yet, take a look at the kind of man in that kind of lane.

 

[Naha-Nago]

"If she'on fuck on the first night, won't be a second"

Timing is everything!

Don't give out the vibe that it "can" happen, then renege. I call that "playing hokey pokey with the pussy".

Seriously, who got time to waste? If you waste my time on the first day/date, why would I give you another opportunity to waste MORE of my time?

And it's not a "just wanna fuck" thing either. It's an "adult" thing, adults fuck. If you got a lot of stipulations on the pussy, well just let me know when your pussy pass through congress. My point is... it ain't that fucking serious. If we like each other we fuck.

Lemme ask you this....
If you fucked him and it don't work out, what do you lose?

Pussy is one of the few things you can give away and still retain ownership of.
And miss me with that "soul ties" shit, use condoms & won't nobody be tied.

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This too.

* two cents *

 

[J.E.T.S]

I would say that you are just as delusional as she is. You still wait and you still gets no pussy that is prolly why you turned moist 5 yiss ago. It took you having bad experiences to finally consider giving up cock suckin. Gay bastid. [emoji14]uke:

Why don't you jump in the fight?

That would be even funnier.

You being a straight man is even funnier than that. Faggot ass.

Shut up rob.

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[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

People out they lane. Man upset cause he's used to hittin' quick, you perplexed cause you don't give it up quick alla time. Blame them chicks gave it to him real quick. Or better yet, take a look at the kind of man in that kind of lane.

THIS.

More than anything i've read so far in this thread....

 

[mailboxpimp]

mailboxpimp: pleeeease!!!! I just wanna paint your toes!!!!! just 5 minutes!

i dnt do nails
I know it sucks to be in the bitch ass trick niggaah box! Continue to trick hard

Rob wanna use Cosmetology to get in the Crib. I Browse.

ive gotten a lot of pussy doing house calls for brow waxing & brazilian waxing! cosmetology works well! can you get any pussy @ your cube or on a house call / delivery? i doubt it!