damn - so this what the Oprah Winfrey / Tyler Perry generation looks like...
We're not teaching these boys to become responsible men - but instead are molding rationalizing, deflecting, equivocating fem-in-men.
I've gotten caught as a teen while doing nasty shit with the daughter of my mother's friend... I was punished not for the sex but for disrespecting another person's home- lesson learned - but awhile later my father sat me down and explained to me that a man is ultimately responsible for all of his actions... in this case avoid being in the "wrong" place at the worst possible time, by thinking the situation through, never just follow your dick expecting things will be OK. Serendipity is always temporary.
too many of y'all don't get it... maybe its because I'm from the carribean, but how can y'all defend a 16 y/o boy taking a shower with a girl IN HER FATHER'S HOUSE? and then walking out of the bathroom naked after the girl says "oh shit! my dad's in living-room!"
Look smashing is one thing, keep the pants on and the rest of your shit within arms reach with a definite exit / hiding plan. but this nigga was in the shower cup-caking and chatting while all his clothes are in a different room! If that boy has a father or older brother in his life they both failed him - he needed an ass whooping.
This shit is as bad as all this bullshit about bullying... just saw that clip of the View and all them bitches and football players coddling that pussy...