My wife makes more than me and has for a while. We share everything. There is one bank account. We've been married for 23 years and have been together for 26. It's more about the relationship and who we are to each other. That money is really not shit, it's just a tool to take care of our kids and ourselves. Focusing on that money shit is how people lose their relationships, If a muhfucka is with you because you can take care of them, what's going to happen when it flips and they have to take care of you?