....BENBRIZZLE, I've been following your debate with Miss Lead Luv since the beginning and I think she makes a lot of good points....ITS definitely cheating , regardless of the feelings involved....she's dead on when she says men and women are wired differently, and true women do a lot of things like men do in 2007, but it will be some years before things even out...couples are free to make there own rules but it seems to me you want to make rules to keep yourself comfortable...when 2 people state from the beginning that we're gonna keep our feelings out of it, it works sometimes, but feelings are hard to control sometimes, and you're bound to run into a bad situation down the road...no matter what you think, or how tight your GAME is, women control the situation, and when the day comes that she decides to cut it off, you gonna catch feelings (depending on how good the sex is of course) ..sooner or later it will sneak up on you and bite you or the other person in the ASS...just my .02 worth...