Had to explain to some females why some men cheat or leave, was I wrong?

If a Man is successful, holding down the fort, always coming home

when he is not making, and dedicating the weekends and holidays

to his wife/children... and taking care of her so she has no wants or needs..

then shed be stupid to do any other thing but her ROLE....
That's impossible

Once you satisfy a woman's wants she will always want more. Those wants continue to escalate until you can't deliver. Then she'll want a new man.

you could drown a woman in a swimming pool and with her dying breath she'll complain you didn't give her enough water.
 
No.
The end is not the same.
Have they tried:
- Talking to each other?
- Couples counseling?
- Individual professional counseling?
- Speaking to their minister?
- Seeking marital advice from a licensed therapist?
- Agree to a trial separation?

If you love & are truly devoted to your spouse, shouldn't you at least try one (if not all) of these things before betraying the person you claim to love...?

I'm just sayin'... :dunno:
Again if all those have failed or she refused to do those things or even apply them and the husband leaves then what? He's still the bad guy huh
 
Same type of mentality, oh if you don't let me search thru you're phone whenever I want you're hiding something
 
I'll never understand why people are involved with a partner they feel a "need" to cheat on. :confused:

I mean; why get married in the 1st place, if you still actively pursue "extracurricular activities"...?:dunno:

It's simple. As a man you have to throw down and satisfy her in the bedroom every time she asks.

Too tired? Do it anyway or she'll find someone else

Too busy? Do it anyway or she'll find someone else.

Not into her new fetish? Do it anyway or she'll find someone else

Lost your job, got diagnosed with cancer, just found out your father died? Do it anyway or she'll find someone else

Did all of that but she still didn't cum? Pack your bags now. This is not your home anymore.

Did you cum before her? Forget the bags. Grab your pants and RUN before she hits you with a candlestick.

And don't drive away. That's her car now. Even if y'all have two.
 
A man will cheat because he wants to, especially if given the opportunity.

We don’t need a reason, many give themselves excuses to but the bottom line is that you wanted to.
 
Again if all those have failed or she refused to do those things or even apply them and the husband leaves then what? He's still the bad guy huh
So then, the answer to the problems in their marriage "lies between another woman's thighs...?"
- As opposed to making the situation worse.

Could it be your friend's wife's actions are a result of her discovering that he stepped out on her previously...?:dunno:
 
So then, the answer to the problems in their marriage "lies between another woman's thighs...?"
- As opposed to making the situation worse.

Could it be your friend's wife's actions are a result of her discovering that he stepped out on her previously...?:dunno:
I'm saying if he leaves without cheating, you're automatically assuming he cheats/cheated that's also to say maybe she showed things as well. It's allot of finger pointing without resolution. Accountability must be had on both ends, it's not always the man's fault
 
A man will cheat because he wants to, especially if given the opportunity.

We don’t need a reason, many give themselves excuses to but the bottom line is that you wanted to.
Exactly.
Dudes are trying to blame someone else for their own actions. And then when he's paying alimony & child support he can't afford, he becomes one of those redpill mofos who blame women for their problems. :smh:
 
I'm saying if he leaves without cheating, you're automatically assuming he cheats/cheated that's also to say maybe she showed things as well. It's allot of finger pointing without resolution. Accountability must be had on both ends, it's not always the man's fault
No.
You created this thread because you're "explaining" to women why your friend stepped out on his wife.

You set the parameters bub. You can't just change them to fit a new narrative...:dunno:
 
Exactly.
Dudes are trying to blame someone else for their own actions. And then when he's paying alimony & child support he can't afford, he becomes one of those redpill mofos who blame women for their problems. :smh:

Yeah man they're blaming and they'll continue to blame someone else because it makes them feel better.

Everything could be going great and a man will cheat, and it's because the opportunity presented itself or he simply wanted to.
 
No.
You created this thread because you're "explaining" to women why your friend stepped out on his wife.

You set the parameters bub. You can't just change them to fit a new narrative...:dunno:
Negative I said I was explaining why some men cheat or leave re-read the title and op
 
Again, agreeing with y'all on some points, but if a man decides to leave without having cheated or without cheating at all, it's still his fault because he didn't try hard enough?
 
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Let me say this, women cheat more than men do but they are smart and sneaky not getting caught doing it.

Men cheat for various reasons when he isn't getting things from his women at home that he could easily with another women.

I hate when people settled that they stop doing the things that brought them together and keep shit spicy along with staying consistent having sex.
 


Ive never understood why men are supposed to put up with the bs, willingly. Why, when and how is this ok? How did the norm become happily being a doorstep for a woman that has no control of her emotions?

Are these women allergic to EQ and accountability?

We are to blame. Somewhere along the line, men decided women were overgrown children only when they can benefit. When they couldn’t benefit, then we’re treated equal to men. That set up, actually gives women more power.

A woman can lie on a man about rape, and that man will serve a long sentence. That same woman can actually rape a child and do less than year. It’s an extreme example but….

Today, most believe their own hype….
 
Again, agreeing with y'all on some points, but if a man decides to leave without having cheated or without cheating at all, it's still his fault because he didn't try hard enough?
Not at all but that's what women like to say.

Most times a man be doing a lot while the women give minimum in return and no man wants that because he mines well just be single.
 
"In sickness and health. Forsaking all others..."

I'm sorry.
But I missed the part of marriage vows that proclaims sexual frustration or lust for other individuals are "acceptable" grounds to betray your spouse. Or for your spouse to betray you...?
:puzzled:
Do you have a vagina?
 
Why only address one part of both contribute to the problem
Because you used this thread to "explain" to women why a man will cheat.

When; in fact, all you've done at every opportunity is solely blame the woman for him cheating.

You've placed his dissatisfaction with the relationship and his infidelity solely on the woman.

Instead of holding him accountable for his own actions.

Even when I presented you with potentially viable alternatives to him cheating, you rejected all of them and repeatedly presented him as some kind of "wronged party".
:puzzled:
 
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How would you classify it then...?
- Desire.
- Revenge.
- Validation.
- Unfulfilled lust.
- Wish fulfillment.
- Passive aggressive codependency.

'Cuz it sounds very much like your friend's on the path to becoming yet another resentful "weekend father" with a bitter ex-wife and child support payments for children who won't understand why "daddy doesn't live here anymore" :smh:
Walter you have no dog in this convo because you have been balding since 2010 and you are a creepy white dude that never got any hoes.
No.
You created this thread because you're "explaining" to women why your friend stepped out on his wife.

You set the parameters bub. You can't just change them to fit a new narrative...:dunno:
BLUNT
Do you have a vagina?
NO blunt lives in low income housing, collects SSI and trolls a black board because he always envied black men.
 
Where the fcuk are you guys meeting these women that you can't have a conversation about shyt that is going on in a relationship? Why are you impregnating or marrying women that you can't talk about greivences that you have, that it goes straight to divorce? Funny people never see the shyt that they do in a relationship. It is always one sided: "I'm perfect, but that bytch of a wife of mine..."

Ya'll do nothing but fight when you're dating, but get her pregnant or ask her to marry you??? We have got to do better!
 
Why do I get the feeling that you've NEVER actually seen one, much less felt or tasted one...?

:puzzled:
You get that feeling because you’re an incel that doesn’t know what a naked woman looks like. I’m a 36 year old man with two kids and a wife. You’re a weirdo with bitchmade non realistic tendencies that thinks marriage is the same for everyone. You definitely are estrogen infused and feminine like a faggot or a bitch
 
You get that feeling because you’re an incel that doesn’t know what a naked woman looks like. I’m a 36 year old man with two kids and a wife. You’re a weirdo with bitchmade non realistic tendencies that thinks marriage is the same for everyone. You definitely are estrogen infused and feminine like a faggot or a bitch
Wow.
You married her despite both DNA tests proving you aren't the biological father of either child.

That's truly inspirational...:rolleyes:
 
Wow.
You married her despite both DNA tests proving you aren't the biological father of either child.

That's truly inspirational...:rolleyes:
Very corny Blunt like response

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What Women Should Know About How Men Choose Affair Partners — According To 400 Men​





I know it's kind of off subject and not on you personally, but Mayne, I was reading this shit-


According to the survey, 44 percent of men have cheated on a partner, and another 55 percent of men have at least thought about it.

Yep, you added that correctly. That’s literally 99 percent of men either cheating or contemplating cheating.

then later on, this here...

The survey revealed that 39 percent of women have cheated on a partner, and another 35 percent have at least thought about it. That doesn’t mean 74 percent of women are bad people — It means 74 percent of relationships aren't completely fulfilling.


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