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Andeyhollawho

Andeyhollawho

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Ok I'm pissed. :angry:

At women. :angry: Not all women but you know...

I have a girl that I talk to. I won't say she is my girlfriend but me and her are headed in that direction. I guess. :rolleyes: I have an ex-girlfriend. Me and her had a pretty bad break-up because what I wanted out of a relationship and what she wanted was completely different.

Background Info - Skip this if you want...
If I'm in love with a woman then I am in love with you and there isn't shit I wouldn't do for you. I consider you to be my best friend and I enjoy being around you. The problem with her was that she didn't really love me but she didn't want me to be with anybody else in my opinion. So she would just push my ass to the side until I said I'm leaving and then she all up on me. So I just didn't tell her I was leaving the last time and found me somebody new. I told her and she got mad and said that I should have gave here another chance but she never had time for me and really treated me like shit so I didn't feel bad about it

BUT I LOVED HER!!! I really did and we were friends for a while so she knows me and that's why I kept giving her chances. She knew me well enough to know what she could get away with and keep me. She also knows me well enough to know what I REALLY want in a woman.
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So long ass story kind of shorter...I moved on and I'm trying to be happy now and guess who has decided she wants me back! :angry: And guess who is pushing all of the buttons and trying to draw me back in.

Why the hell is it that AFTER you leave a woman they want to do all of the right things to get you back that they should have done to keep you in the first damn place. :angry: She looking like "the one" again and I'm really not serious about the girl I am with now but I think she is getting that way about me. I don't want to fuck that up over this girl when I know what she about.

I told her if she loved me she would let me be happy and of course she says that she is ready to do that now. :hmm:

I'm throwed. Rant over. :smh:
 
Dear Abby

Andey better not bring his ass back to the lion's den after making this thread or its feeding time. What kinda lion ask for relationship advice? He will be ripped to pieces if he ever comes in a 2 mile radius of the den.


Yours truly Mcguyver

Den killer extraordinaire :)
 
mcguyver said:
Dear Abby

Andey better not bring his ass back to the lion's den after making this thread or its feeding time. What kinda lion ask for relationship advice? He will be ripped to pieces if he ever comes in a 2 mile radius of the den.


Yours truly Mcguyver

Den killer extraordinaire :)
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Dear Mickey,
I am asking for advice on pussy...not relationships. But you have to get pussy to understand not wanting it from a girl sometimes.

So in closing my friend I say get pussy first then we can talk.

Your friend,
Andeyholla "and get pussy unlike you know" who :D

J/k...sort of! :lol:
 
Andeyhollawho said:
Dear Mickey,
I am asking for advice on pussy...not relationships. But you have to get pussy to understand not wanting it from a girl sometimes.

So in closing my friend I say get pussy first then we can talk.

Your friend,
Andeyholla "and get pussy unlike you know" who :D

J/k...sort of! :lol:
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man i feel ya on this relationship shit..... I'm really thinking about going back in my "nightly" relationship act....

:lol::lol::lol:@this shit...
 
Andeyhollawho said:
Dear Mickey,
I am asking for advice on pussy...not relationships. But you have to get pussy to understand not wanting it from a girl sometimes.

So in closing my friend I say get pussy first then we can talk.

Your friend,
Andeyholla "and get pussy unlike you know" who :D

J/k...sort of! :lol:
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:lol:@ mickey

The pussy you getting should come with a troubleshooting guide or FAQ sheet.
 
mcguyver said:
:lol:@ mickey

The pussy you getting should come with a troubleshooting guide or FAQ sheet.
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You right! :lol:

See I don't want to fuck my ex like for real but she always been like Kryptonite to me! :lol:

I'm trying to understand why women do this shit and fuck with our mind. Especially when they KNOW they just going to fuck it up for us. She don't want me but she swoop in just when I get comfortable and throw that Sexy Scorpio Snapback in my face and fuck me all up! :eek:

They know son! They know! :angry:

:smh:
 
This shit ain't whiny by the way is it! :lol:

Ol girl had me in a fucked up place and I had to vent a little. :yes:

OK this shit is whiny but fuck it. It's on here now! :lol:
 
There's an old saying, "You never miss your water till your well runs dry." Women are like that at times. I think women get jealous of you being happy with someone else rather than with them. Some can be so vengeful as to fight to get you back and after you sever your new relationship then dump you again.

So my suggestion is stay where your happiest. If you were the one who screwed up would she be as anxious to take you back if she had someone? NO!
 
To be real with you about your question....you answered your own question. You stated that in your opinion she really did not love you. That she only perused you when she thought you were leaving. She is using you. Just like how men keep women close just so they can continue to sleep with them. She is doing pretty much the something. I am not sure if it is just the sex she is after but I assume it is your company,sex, and time.

Basically she has the best of both worlds. She has a good brotha that has very good qualities but she does not have to commit. What she is doing is writing you blank checks that you have not been able to cash yet. How long are you going to allow her to continue to borrow your time without being able to cash out.

Based off what you told us she has written enough blank checks. She should not be afforded to borrow anymore of your time. Her relationship credit has exhausted. Just like how banks and lenders do with people with bad credit and make them prepay or put down a deposit...you do the same. For her to talk to you she needs to put down a relationship deposit...meaning she has to play by your rules until she is considered worthy.

Messing with her will have you missing out on really good people.
 
Thanks everybody for the feedback. I wrote this yesterday because I was a little pissed off because ol' girl (ex) showed up over here on some "Hey can you help me with this" shit and ended up on some "Come fuck me now I want you back so bad" shit. :smh:

She been working up to it for about a month or so now. Being nice and calling to say silly shit and wanting to go to lunch. I fell for the shit but I really thought I was in control of the shit until yesterday. That was my fault. And then after I wouldn't fuck her she had the audacity to come at me with this "I've changed and you know it. Otherwise you wouldn't have accepted my calls and taken me to lunch" shit. I was trying to be friends with a old friend not reconfirm a fucked up relationship. :smh:

I won't lie and say ol' girl ain't BAD...but she also BAD for me so big head trump little one on this one. :yes: I'm not that stupid. At least I don't think? :rolleyes:
 
Move on.

My situation is similar but probably a lot worst as far as the type of shit that my ex put me through.

Life is too short, so if the new chick makes you happy then see what it is to be with her.

Your ex will soon be in a club, bitter as shit and wishing that she would have kept you around while singing Beyonces song.

I'm assuming "Vick Country" means Atlanta so I bet she is really kicking herself because competition has to be crazy out here for a woman looking for a decent man.
 
Do not go back, Andey! She had her shot, time to move on to someone else who's as serious as you are. Start 2009 with someone new.
 
Andeyhollawho said:
"Hey can you help me with this" shit and ended up on some "Come fuck me now I want you back so bad" shit. :smh:

She been working up to it for about a month or so now. Being nice and calling to say silly shit and wanting to go to lunch. And then after I wouldn't fuck her she had the audacity to come at me with this "I've changed and you know it. Otherwise you wouldn't have accepted my calls and taken me to lunch" shit. :smh:
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sumthin about these line got me thinkin it aint ova

quick tip buy a recorder and record every convo u two have make sure to implicate her and exonerate yourself in the convos ("i dont kno y u still after me when i told u i love my girl im with and im not interested in fuckin with u" should suffice ).
that way if she eva approaches ya girl on sum "i jus fucked ya man last nite shit " u ready AAAALLLLWWWAAAYYYS COVER YOUR ASS HOMIE
 

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