No doubt.
I'm usually captured by a personality trait myself. The way she walks with confidence, maybe a certain poignancy in her logic. Of course, I'd be lying if I didn't speak on looks, it is just that looks aren't enough to keep me around. Sex ain't neither...
And unfortunately for me, the most important thing, is what takes the longest, sometimes...lol...to weed out...and that is character. I definitely agree with what I believe to understand of what you have written, and I think there is a subtle difference between "personality" and "character".
A person can have the most enlightening charm, and humble attitude, but be a habitual liar. Another one could be loud and obnoxious, but they could be extremely loyal. Farrakhan said that Hitler was,"...wickedly great...". I hope I'm making myself clear here...been a long night...lol...and probably too weary to discuss semantics at length...
You know what, I've seen, and done(lol), some strange things on BGOL. And have read through some of the most garbled "english" one could read through. There was "something" about this thread...
I agree with you and would add, and I've been known for oversights in judgment and reading way too much into a post, and I'm not trying to offend, but possibly, there is a comparison to self in those images...who knows...
The OP has yet to own up to this...