- stolen In my professional life I've seen so many white men especially vulnerable to this but across all races soo many base value and their self image in status and what they have instead who they are
Fuck w/that bitch vanity...preface by ShortyCumStain
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- stolen In my professional life I've seen so many white men especially vulnerable to this but across all races soo many base value and their self image in status and what they have instead who they are
Like my uncle playa potna Suga Free would say, "the G got to be in you, not just on ya"
I trusted her to maintain this. I ttrrrruuusssstteedddd heerrrrrrrrrrrrAppreciate these Jewels Fam!
Please share more!
preach!
if she wants you, she will make herself available to you.....
if she doesn't..no amount of game or execution will make her want you in the same visceral sense that she is probably checking for in another dude..
if she doesn't..no amount of game or execution will make her want you in the same visceral sense that she is probably checking for in another dude..
Ive been the other dude........
Ive been the guy who thought he could "convince" her with tight game,etc.....
if she is choosin then everything you say is funny, interesting,amazing,etc...no matter how wack it really is...
if she aint choosing than everything you say is wack, lame, boring,etc.....even if you explaining the origin of the universe to a bitch....
I was pulled to the side and told ,"like those who like you, they got to go for YOU! you should never have to try to win her over..."
and the rest is history..
...and triple fuck those who don't
like i say pay attention to how much energy she puts in on ya situation and what she does for you...the 1's that put the extra mile in keep them around... i rather have 5 bitches that's in to me than 20 broads that's not
lol..i respect your craft.. if i had that skillset i'd use that to my advantage to the next level.. being extra nice at cooking would save a nig a lot of bread, make a nig a lot of bread, have me networking like a motherfucker, plus bring in even more buns.. hell i'd use that way more than i should..bbq's multiple times a week during the summer having broads put up the money and bring more whores to the event..lord knew not to make me advance in certain categories cause i'd be next level sinful
... i can't even imagine a stripper bbq
That's the second and most important aspect of my Skittles rule that I forgot to expound on...
If the chick doesn't bring me a bag of skittles for whatever reason when we first meet, that is the last time I ever see her. No call, no text, no further contact...she's dead to me. It's psychological- if she can't produce a small token showcasing an initial investment beyond the bitch existing then she thinks that her presence is her presant and all she has to do concerning whatever relationship I have with her is exist. In her mind she THINKS she's more valuable and I am to entertain her at best, be used and tolerated at worst. I'm to do the heavy lifting...of her ego. It's a small gesture but very telling of where a chick's head is at concerning a man.
To quote Patrice O'Neal when it comes to dealing with women, "The only winning move IS NOT TO PLAY. Your happiness is the game. If the chick doesn't want to play your game [your happiness] THEN YOU DONT PLAY."
Another thing to do is to get them invested.
What I use to do when I was going to meet up with a chick-especially if it was for the first time- was to have her pick me up a bag of skittles.
Skittles.
See, woman are used to their presence being their presant so when you challenge them by asking them to bring something to the table it psychologically digs at them that they aren't enough in and of themselves- putting them in a situation to further prove their worth.
Also, women dont spend money on men just to spend money...if she comes out the pocket book for you she's going see good on that investment....even if it's just a bag of skittles.
Served me well.
*two cents*
Skittles. Served me well.
*two cents*
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lol yo us libras really are alike in ways more than a lil bit.. chicks use to be like you want me to get your half a chicken from the chinese spot lol it's like they was trained..my fave part use to be when they get so happy about hearing a food spot and wanted to take me there..they got enjoyment out of buying me shit and me enjoying it..juss like when they cook and i eat it..thanksgivin time 4get about bitch better make or find me a good sweet potatoe pie
That's the second and most important aspect of my Skittles rule that I forgot to expound on...
If the chick doesn't bring me a bag of skittles for whatever reason, that is the last time I ever see her. No call, no text, no further contact...she's dead to me. It's psychological- if she can't produce a small token of showcasing an initial investment beyond the bitch existing then she thinks that her presence is her presant and all she has to do concerning whatever relationship I have with her is exist. In her mind she THINKS she's more valuable and I am to entertain her at best, be used and tolerated at worst. I'm to do the heavy lifting...of her ego. It's a small gesture but very telling of where a chick's head is at concerning a man.
To quote Patrice O'Neal "The only winning move IS NOT TO PLAY. Your happiness is the game. If the chick doesn't want to play your game- your happiness- THEN YOU DONT PLAY."
Skittles. Served me well.
*two cents*
yeah, its dudes out here pulling all types of tricks trying to impress a chick that don't want them... wasting their time. Shit is embarrassing. Just move on before she realizes she can use you for everything you're worth.
This...
Be careful of what ROUTINE you give a woman.
Mayne a lot of game being dropped in this bitch!
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Yep. Setting a routine for the chick. Her being considerate becomes her routine.
When I was running full tilt I use to have chicks literally buy me flowers and candy on Valentine's day under the same vein. I'd purposefully refuse sex; "If you want to celebrate this day YOU GONNA GET ME SOMETHING cause this day isn't just about YOU.".
Conditioning. Like a poster said in this thread...you got to fuck her mind first.
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I'll be the first to admit that I'm a square and these gems that are being dropped are priceless, wish i could have read this like 18 years ago...lol
sometimes things happen when the universe sense you are ready to accept certain knowledge
And it's YOURS. unique to you. And there is a woman and several women out there who like your code.
Don't accept anything less.
^^^ this ^^^
Being a square is perfectly fine.
Being a simp is a problem.
Having women asking you to do boyfriend/husband type shit and refer to you as just your friend and you haven't known them since elementary school or are not blood relatives is a no no
Once you realize you're better off attracting who you are instead of who you're pretending to be life will be so much easier
Also,never assume other men have a code,honor amongst men is earned not given. Some men have no code and are indistinguishable from renegade hoes, who are their female equivalents.
Like a charm fam
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