For men who love sistas...

[onyxfemme]

so criminals can't be smart? some of yall people defy logic

**Disclaimer-I am about to channel a section of my spirit that is rarely seen and normally hidden for good reason**

You dumb fuck! Who said anything about criminals??? I stated that I like really big men, someone asked have I dated thugs and my answer was "I have never dated a thug in my life, only clean cut football players and brainy guys". All criminals are not thugs, just like all BITCHES are not women (figure that out in your spare time). If you must know long before I met my husband he completed 4 years in prison. And he is far from a thug, but he will act "thug like" if a mother phucka disrespects me or our children. He is a big, clean cut, successful, husband & father. So while you are talking about some of "ya'll" defy logic, get your facts straight and actually read the TOPIC comments before you try to post your random bullshit.


**Ending Note- For the record; I have seen his posts which are typically negative, attention whoring act of bitchdom. Ya'll know me, I never respond to negative shit. But fuck it, a sister is pms-ing and hasnt had sex since the 23rd..**

Back to my sexy-freakish self-Sister Femme-You looking real nice in your avi!!

 

[DiamondDeuce]

Everyone is entitled to have a preference.
Why would a woman object to what complexion a man prefers?

Women openly say that they won't date men under 6ft. Which is personal preference.

So why worry if a man says that he will only date lighter complexion women?

 

[bigirl]

 

[onyxfemme]

with all that said, you would still let me hit.

 

[onyxfemme]

i'll have you snorting coke.

Awwww your so cute, you are really trying arent you? You arent use to a woman like me. But go ahead, keep on. What else would you have me doing? Go on, I know you can come w/ something better than that

 

[AlexandMorgan]

Actually i found that if the woman has a nice shape that matters more to me than her complexion. A nice figure can pull you in but a bad personality will push you away.

 

[bigirl]

i'll have you snorting coke.

what is your obsession with coke? make a new years resolution to stop fucking with white devil poisons. please.

 

[ajc921]

when i was 17,18. i used to be into all that complexions stuff...but as i got older..sexy is sexy....lightskinned or darkskined if you are a good looking woman, it does not matter what your complexion is.....

 

[onyxfemme]

what is your obsession with coke? make a new years resolution to stop fucking with white devil poisons. please.

Ooooh so this isnt anything new w/ him?? Shoot! I thought he was being original w/ me!

 

[bigirl]

Ooooh so this isnt anything new w/ him?? Shoot! I thought he was being original w/ me!

a few days ago he told me he would lace my spliff with coke. i told him i would beat his scunt til he cries.

 

[femmenoire]

a few days ago he told me he would lace my spliff with coke. i told him i would beat his scunt til he cries.

LOL @ scunt.

You are tickling me to death today. Thank you.

 

[bigirl]

LOL @ scunt.

You are tickling me to death today. Thank you.

you are most welcome

 

[crawfu]

As long as she's a black woman, it's all good.

When I first started dating, I leaned heavily to women with light complexions. As I went deeper through college, I just got to this point where I just fell in love with smooth, coal black skin and a certain type of caramel complexion. Now, skin tone is striclty, for me, a fetish feature. I am attracted to any light, brown or black complexion. It would be idiotic for me to sum up a woman based strictly on hue.

However, I am more cognisant of women that are darker because I am just a pervert when it comes to, I cannot belive I am saying this, darker vaginal lips and darker anus on already dark or caramel skin. Don't ask why something that trivial looks good enough to eat. I could not begin to explain it. I am just being brutally honest. It is purely primal at this point.

As a white man that only likes black women, I have to agree with both on this, if she's black and good looking, I'll be interested, if she has darker lips, I'll be going nuts for it... Never been interested in anything other than black women, I'm married to a black woman, and all of my girlfriends are black. Each of my gf's tried to give me a key to their place after our first time together...

 

[crawfu]

The only reason I scoff is because what is being said here, and what actually happens in the real world are two totally different things. We all know that lighter women get the preference, I hate that that is true, but it is. No one will come out and say, I love lightskinned women better because is a touchy subject with a lot of women of color.

I can't say that I have a preference for light or dark, but the only women I have been with have all been dark... It just seems to have worked out that way. I know some damn fine light skinned women, but haven't been able to get in a relationship with any of them.

 

[dadamaja]

like i said b4 it doesnt matter ill take that blue bitch off xmen,as long as shes attractive and a good personality

 

[Izayoi]

like i said b4 it doesnt matter ill take that blue bitch off xmen,as long as shes attractive and a good personality

 

[femmenoire]

like i said b4 it doesnt matter ill take that blue bitch off xmen,as long as shes attractive and a good personality

 

[LeroyDibiase]

like i said b4 it doesnt matter ill take that blue bitch off xmen,as long as shes attractive and a good personality

Uh, that's a man.

 

[DiamondDeuce]

Uh, that's a man.

ugh no its not. The blue bitch he is referring to.

who is really

 

[Legrand]

I Love My Sisters Of All Skin Tones But I Must Say That I Have A Preference For Middle Brown Or Darker Toned Women.
I Am Actually Guilty Of Actually Seeing A Beautiful Light skinned Woman And Saying That She Would Be More Attractive If She Was'nt So Light.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

ugh no its not. The blue bitch he is referring to.

who is really

HAHA. I thought he was talking about Beast.

 

[Crown&Coke]

I dont care either way as long as she look good with what she got. I have seen good looking women that were dark skinned, brown skinned, and light just like I have seen ugly ones in all types of skin tones.

I do have a preference as far as body type tho. I like a woman with a nice ass proportionate to her body size. It doesnt have to be big as all hell but nice on her. I aint too picky when it comes to looks, I will take a decent 8 over a crazy 10 any day. Looks aint everything​

 

[lilsexii]

I've never had a preference, personally. Beauty is beauty - its all about the total package. I have a friend who swears that I prefer light skinned men because I've dated more of them, but I think that has to do with who approaches me too and light skinned men tend to like chocolate sistas...

 

[Raptor ES]

I have an ideal "perfect" woman fantasy.

She is very dark late 20's early 30's, professional, and well I wont get into the rest as its not relevant.

I have dated all kinds of women. 20 yr olds to almost 50. uneducated to a judge.

For me I dont think skin tone and body shape matter as much as the eyes and face along with what they bring to the table.

 

[deezchocnuts4ru]

Yo. Fuck all that complexion shit. Dimes come in all shades. What I look at most is "attitude." An average woman with a great attitude will win over a dime with a fucked up one every day. When you want a certain job, you research the company and try to learn the best way you can fit into the organization... do the same for a brotha. Get to know him. Don't force it, if its all good, he'll let you know. If not, keep it moving. Peace.

 

[JofromthaNO]

I'm actually reading a book by Marita Golden on the subject of the color complex in the African American community. What baffles me (and what Golden speaks of in her novel) is the discrimination that light skinned black women also receive due to their lighter hue. I find some of that same language being used here by some of the former posters. Many times, lighter skinned women get this perception from others that they think they are better than others and/or aren't black enough or down enough JUST BECAUSE of their skin tone. I feel like people, as an above poster said, need to stop giving these PC answers of , "oh, I only date dark skinned women now" because it doesn't make you a better black person just because you do

 

[bigirl]

Many times, lighter skinned women get this perception from others that they think they are better than others and/or aren't black enough or down enough JUST BECAUSE of their skin tone.

Yep. Every damn day.

 

[Izayoi]

I'm actually reading a book by Marita Golden on the subject of the color complex in the African American community. What baffles me (and what Golden speaks of in her novel) is the discrimination that light skinned black women also receive due to their lighter hue. I find some of that same language being used here by some of the former posters. Many times, lighter skinned women get this perception from others that they think they are better than others and/or aren't black enough or down enough JUST BECAUSE of their skin tone. I feel like people, as an above poster said, need to stop giving these PC answers of , "oh, I only date dark skinned women now" because it doesn't make you a better black person just because you do

Yes. I bought this up on another forum. One lady (darkskinned) implied that a lightskin woman was looking down on her . My question was "why do you think she was looking down on you because of her complexion and not just because she was a bitch?" Last time I checked, people with negative attitudes come in all hues but there seems to be a rush to judgement "oh she must think she cute" type thing if a woman is lighter in complexion.

It's reverse colorism and it's no more conducive to black unity than dark skin color bias.

 

[shanebp1978]

I saw a black burnt biscuit bottom today and nearly fell out my chair.​

 

[Izayoi]

I saw a black burnt biscuit bottom today and nearly fell out my chair.​

I always wanted to be black burn biscuit bottom complexioned. I near achieved it once with the help of suntan lotion and a dirty ass Atlantic city beach, but then I got sunburn.

 

[black again]

As a youngin, I dated ladies that looked like me..light bright. As I grew older, I was exposed to fine women of all shades of brown, and got more rhythm from darker women (dunno why..supposedly, I was outta style , then). People DO have preferences, and I guess mine is lighter colored, cuz they look like me, but I'm just as turned on by a blue-black lady as a high-yella one...I just want her to be attractive and in shape At this stage, I'm more interested in her personality, how we vibe.

 

[bigirl]

I always wanted to be black burn biscuit bottom complexioned. I near achieved it once with the help of suntan lotion and a dirty ass Atlantic city beach, but then I got sunburn.

I get that kinda color when I home and I don't get burned really only once diving conchs and I'm not sure why. Unfortunately I am not that color now I could damn near pass I look strange to myself.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I get that kinda color when I home and I don't get burned really only once diving conchs and I'm not sure why. Unfortunately I am not that color now I could damn near pass I look strange to myself.

You get burned going coochie-diving?

 

[Darrkman]

Do you really pay attention to complexions and do you have a preference for light skinned, brown skinned or dark skinned women?

Does it matter and if so, why? Or do you even know why?


And I guess it's not just limited to women...Do you women prefer a specific complexion over others. Do you absoluely refuse to date a light skinned or dark skinned man? Why?

I PREFER dark women with dreds but if you're a Black women you're ok in my book.

PS I married a dark women with dreds so I guess I stick by my convictions!!

 

[bigirl]

You get burned going coochie-diving?