Dude Busted His Girl Cheating - Thoughts? What Would You Do?
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At least him and the dude kept it 100. That's all that matters in the end. Much respect brothas
LOve that aspect, I hope it spreads,
but that drama on whom it belongs...
brothers gonna work it out!!!
Big
shout out to
Chuck D
yup. as usual and right on time dudes swear that they have never been emotional behind a chick. when you are young u just figuring it out. once you get older and know the game its easier to walk away.
but bgol full of super pimps with cold ass game.
At least him and the dude kept it 100. That's all that matters in the end. Much respect brothas
well ...if the other dude would have really kept it 100 he would have said.. damn you got a man? i'ma let y'all handle that I'm out...
call me tomorrow DOE!
i can't be walking with no bitch and her man is crying behind us....
Damn, son should have recorded the initial confrontation so he had his confirmation that she didn't give a fuck one way or the other and then went home and boxed her shit up for her. Nothing to talk about at that point
Dude got his feelings hurt, Chris might be crazy as fuck but his song rang true "Dees hoes ain't loyal".
Lol@the comments.
Threads like this always bring out the heart broken niggas.
Look....we all have our limits.....get our emotions "tapped", and not necessarily about some relationship shit. But obviously a lot of you havent learned from your mistakes. Cause yall still up in here applauding emotional approaches.
I applaud the Brotha for not going at the other Brotha. But as the shit rolled along he started getting emotional. Sounded like he was about to cry.
Girl: "Bye Gangbanger"
Siiiiiighhhhh
When some dudes find out that theyre one of many options ...they cant handle it. You think youre providing everything that she wants...dick, conversation, extra shit...but theres always other voids.
Monogamy is something thats forced...imho..not natural. Sometimes you get tired and bored and want to play a little. Thats why u need to have conversations....PRIOR to letting your emotions go.
Quick observation....
Bitch had glittery shoes on. Looked like she was at a nice spot. The other OLDER Brotha looked like he was one of her sponsors. The Gangbanga shouldve instead found a way to get some of that OLDER Brothas money out ol girl..instead of putting his feelings into the situation.
Either play your role as one of her options.......or move on to someone that youre more compatible with. But never make yourself vulnerable by getting emotional.
Threads like this always bring out the heart broken niggas.
Look....we all have our limits.....get our emotions "tapped", and not necessarily about some relationship shit. But obviously a lot of you havent learned from your mistakes. Cause yall still up in here applauding emotional approaches.
I applaud the Brotha for not going at the other Brotha. But as the shit rolled along he started getting emotional. Sounded like he was about to cry.
Girl: "Bye Gangbanger"
Siiiiiighhhhh
When some dudes find out that theyre one of many options ...they cant handle it. You think youre providing everything that she wants...dick, conversation, extra shit...but theres always other voids.
Monogamy is something thats forced...imho..not natural. Sometimes you get tired and bored and want to play a little. Thats why u need to have conversations....PRIOR to letting your emotions go.
Quick observation....
Bitch had glittery shoes on. Looked like she was at a nice spot. The other OLDER Brotha looked like he was one of her sponsors. The Gangbanga shouldve instead found a way to get some of that OLDER Brothas money out ol girl..instead of putting his feelings into the situation.
Either play your role as one of her options.......or move on to someone that youre more compatible with. But never make yourself vulnerable by getting emotional.
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dope joint!! ..i really must start listening to fab, cant even remember why I didn't check for his music before.
ain't never seen master and commander...I wanna see that shit now
interesting comparison
Lol@the comments.
Threads like this always bring out the heart broken niggas.
Look....we all have our limits.....get our emotions "tapped", and not necessarily about some relationship shit. But obviously a lot of you havent learned from your mistakes. Cause yall still up in here applauding emotional approaches.
I applaud the Brotha for not going at the other Brotha. But as the shit rolled along he started getting emotional. Sounded like he was about to cry.
Girl: "Bye Gangbanger"
Siiiiiighhhhh
When some dudes find out that theyre one of many options ...they cant handle it. You think youre providing everything that she wants...dick, conversation, extra shit...but theres always other voids.
Monogamy is something thats forced...imho..not natural. Sometimes you get tired and bored and want to play a little. Thats why u need to have conversations....PRIOR to letting your emotions go.
Quick observation....
Bitch had glittery shoes on. Looked like she was at a nice spot. The other OLDER Brotha looked like he was one of her sponsors. The Gangbanga shouldve instead found a way to get some of that OLDER Brothas money out ol girl..instead of putting his feelings into the situation.
Either play your role as one of her options.......or move on to someone that youre more compatible with. But never make yourself vulnerable by getting emotional.
Cut the bullshit, seriously.
Pimping chicks isn't always on someone's mind, ESPECIALLY if that's their girlfriend and someone they cared about enough to follow somewhere and record.
It's perfectly fine to experience emotions. If you ask me, it's LESS MASCULINE to pretend you don't, and it's weak as fuck honestly if a man is afraid to show emotions in front of other men. A strong motherfucker can show emotions and NO ONE is going to question him, because being able to openly show that shit is a sign of strength - there's some psychology for you. Now of course there's a limit, if you get emotional over every little thing, then you're just too much...but if it's appropriate, women LOVE that shit.
Different factors like age, length of relationship, how serious it was all come into play. Clearly we're finding out dude was with her a minute. Imagine if that was your down ass chick, and she had a moment of weakness, as we all do every now and then.
That shit hurts.
Anyone who says they've never been there, I'm actually really sorry for them because you've never cared about anyone enough. You're missing out on life...
I've been telling cats for years that Fab is super underrated. No clue why though, he's been in the game for a while now. I can't remember him ever being "the flavor of the moment" so maybe that's why the game hasn't chewed him up and spit him out yet.
That said, I wouldn't even know where to tell you to start... probably the soul tape series
He busted her before he even thought about following her.
He needs to control his emotions and do the opposite of what his head is telling him.
The best revenge is success.
Upgrade and move the fuck on.
It's obvious that she thinks she upgraded
Faithful as her options.
He needs to control his emotions and do the opposite of what his head is telling him.
The best revenge is success.
Upgrade and move the fuck on.
It's obvious that she thinks she upgraded
Faithful as her options.
...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Nothing breaks a chick heart more than you making progress and the people around her wondering wtf is wrong with her
Even her girlfriends want to set you up with other girlfriends
I was tryna remember the exact saying yesterday...living well is the best revenge
not even on some do it for her to see type shit...when cats truly do that shit for themselves 
Man bitches ain't shit, ol boy didn't leave her side either. I would been like bitch call me later, I'm not wit the drama....
That's cause the nigga was gonna smash that very day
I was tryna remember the exact saying yesterday...living well is the best revenge
I always say, take the lesson, leave the emotion.
Channel all that emotion into action towards some goal
Looking back you would thank her for leaving
I'm so glad you get it. They swear this hasn't or will never happen to them. When someone has cheated on you that you trusted...that shit hurts to the core.
Classic case of a man being more into his woman than she is into him. Never allow that balance of power to happen. I've been there, I've seen other guys in that situation and it all ends up the same way. You could see how she didn't think highly of him based on the disrespect she showed him. As others have said, she's done him a favour in the long run.
He busted her before he even thought about following her.
He needs to control his emotions and do the opposite of what his head is telling him.
The best revenge is success.
Upgrade and move the fuck on.
It's obvious that she thinks she upgraded
Faithful as her options.
So... what happens if the Dude she leaves a brother for is much more successful than the Dude she left
So... what happens if the Dude she leaves a brother for is much more successful than the Dude she left
oh well she was juss a segment in his life.. most relationships are juss segments in people life.. most people are short term thinkers and can't think big picture.. if most people actually sat back and observe their situation they would kno that the relationship their in is temporary
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So... what happens if the Dude she leaves a brother for is much more successful than the Dude she left
You are not supposed to know that shit unless you are tailing him or keeping up with her...... which is a no-no
You improve yourself and move on.
He could be successful and not love her as much as you and be fucking abusive.
So... what happens if the Dude she leaves a brother for is much more successful than the Dude she left
then consider it a fucking "draw" you simple muthafucka
I will never understand why some people expect men, especially Black men, to act above their human capabilities? So, dude was in his feelings over someone who was his girlfriend allegedly for 5 years and he is the one who is less than a man because he reacted a certain way when he caught his girlfriend cup caking with another man?
It is very easy to say what other people should say, do and feel when you are not involved in the relationship, but it is another thing to actually BE in the relationship which could have started much longer with more personal history. People love to ignore the nuances when it comes to things of this matter.
I personally got a lil annoyed with the gang references, but considering the source, maybe that was the only way he knew how to handle the situation at that moment.
Moral of the story is that no man is above getting emotional about shit that is important to him from time to time. I am sure there is much more to their situation than was presented in the video, so I will chalk it up as dude going through some shit that most HUMAN adults go through at some point in time during their adult lives.
Wouldn't surprise me if they already kissed and made up.
It is very easy to say what other people should say, do and feel when you are not involved in the relationship, but it is another thing to actually BE in the relationship which could have started much longer with more personal history. People love to ignore the nuances when it comes to things of this matter.
I personally got a lil annoyed with the gang references, but considering the source, maybe that was the only way he knew how to handle the situation at that moment.
Moral of the story is that no man is above getting emotional about shit that is important to him from time to time. I am sure there is much more to their situation than was presented in the video, so I will chalk it up as dude going through some shit that most HUMAN adults go through at some point in time during their adult lives.
Wouldn't surprise me if they already kissed and made up.
I never said it was wrong to get emotional. Emotions are a part of Human nature.
Im actually a sensitive/SUPER emotional guy myself. But at the same time my skin is super thick. So it takes a lot to really get me on 10. Imho......showing too much emotions makes you vulnerable to the vultures.
I know that if I allow myself to get too emotional and get knocked off my square...things can go real bad real fast. And in the process I might end up taking a life or losing my own life. Thats why i wouldnt approach things like the dude in that video. If i planned to seek revenge....i would rather play it cool for a while. Go sit alone and gather myself, then plan out my attack.
Recording a cheating mofo and putting them on blast over the internet is some lame shit. Especially if the person that youre putting on blast is attractive. Mofos are gonna see this chick cheating in that video and theyre still gonna try to holla. Why? Because niggas are suckas for a cute face and pussy. You see how confident she was when she told that other guy to follow her to the elevator??? He's gonna be her next victim.....if he gives his heart to her.
I bet this broad showed her grimy side a long time ago....but dude probably ignored the signs.
Men allow themselves to get played because they get fooled by their own egos (thinking theyre "the shit"), they get OVERLY mesmerized/thirsty for the dumb shit (pussy, cute face etc) and they ignore the truth (that a lot of bitches are lousy and they cheat just as much as Men).
These bitches got many voids and got options a,b, c and d to fill those voids. And just like Men that are playas...theyre not gonna settle down with one person until they get that playa shit out of their systems.
Finding "the one" takes time. Your have to investigate folks; learn about them inside and out. You should make a mofo put in work before you give them your heart. You shouldnt just give them your heart because they got some good pussy or dick.
But anyways....yall can keep sympathizing with these emotional dudes..but i wont. Youre supposed to live and learn. ...but a lot of these dudes aint learning.
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YOU AND ALEXW AND A FEW KEEPING IT REAL IN THIS MF
dude was hurt...but like he said he knew something was up that is why he came up there...
always listen to that inner dude telling you aye man..something aint right...
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