Do Black Men Know What They Want?
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With men it is all about motivation.
Simple answer no SOME of them don't know what they want. When they get what they ask for it's like "I wanted this now I got it what am I suppose to do "duh
We just want variety to be honest. Most of the time we don't wanna just be with one chic.
Excellent post!
There is no blanket answer to this question. It's a question that sets out to fail.
That is why I said it is about motivation. What you want changes over time and can change given any situation. You may not want to have children but considering the circumstances you may change your mind. Also, what does it mean knowing what you want? You really don't know if you want something until you get it. Up until that point it is some idea that floats around in your head that is not based on reality.
Ask a man at 19 what he wants (I guess in a woman/relationship) and you will most assuredly get a different answer than asking that man when he's 30.
Don't spend a second worrying about what Black men (or women) want. Worry about the one you're with and what they need. If you're not with one, worry about yourself and being the best person you can be.
Speaking for myself all I want to say and want to have is one woman to chart out our future together and follow the course we laid out to solve what ever trials and tribulations that comes up in our lives together with the end result being it's still about us. Agreeing not to try to change each other because we have initially accepted each other and trusted one another when we laid out our course for life together. Simply put from my life experiences I know I have to commit to my lady like if she feels I'm ignoring her by watching to much football or anything that interferes with our goals in life, Friends, families, Jobs, social habits etc, that clouds that goal that we agreed to it's up for abandonment.
People change. You just have to find someone who you want to change with. And be allowing of their change and vice versa.
People do change we all change with time. I can't speak for others but my taste in women (even friends) is continuously evolving. An ex from high school found that out some years ago trying to make a second go of it. Failed miserably!
But I think this applies to everyone. So the question is a fail as Dave stated.
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