Dating Red Flags: How to recognize a crazy person before its too late!

[Izayoi]

This came up in Onslaughts thread. What are some clear signs that your new man or woman is coo coo for coco puffs that YOU chose to ignore but wish you had paid attention to later

I'll add my 2 cents in a minute.

Here's a few things I've observed. Can apply to men or women but for Blu and Ons think crazy females.

Someone with NO friends of the same sex. Not even one- that's usually a sure sign of a crazy bish especially. A woman that hates all other woman is going to hate any woman who competes with her time for a man, his mother, his sister, his little niece, the lady in front of him getting gas, crazy, crazy, crazy.

Someone who acts nice one on one, but you notice a mercurial change in his or her personality when out in public. Is she sweet and catering to you, but rude and mouthy to everybody else...crazy!So often we want to believe that maybe we are special and bring out that persons better qualities- NO!

Someone that monopolizes your time. It can start small.."I thought you were going to call me at 12:00, it's 12:05 now what happened?"...and then the shit escalates from there.

 

[thetipisthick]

comments about your kids

comments about money this one chick told me she got robbed on xmas eve in broad daylight and couldn't get her kids any presents when i called her so i left her alone

 

[OnSlaught]

This came up in Onslaughts thread. What are some clear signs that your new man or woman is coo coo for coco puffs that YOU chose to ignore but wish you had paid attention to later

I'll add my 2 cents in a minute

Arigato Sempai

comments about your kids

comments about money this one chick told me she got robbed on xmas eve in broad daylight and couldn't get her kids any presents when i called her so i left her alone

 

[Izayoi]

I updated my first post. This should be interesting because I KNOW almost everybody can look back and say, "Damn I shoulda known when X happened that bish/ninja was crazy!"

Isudemo, Onslaught-sama!

 

[thetipisthick]

Arigato Sempai

Man she was lying that chick was trying to hit me up for 20 dollars for her tracphone the day i met her

 

[Blu Diablo]

Someone with NO friends of the same sex. Not even one- that's usually a sure sign of a crazy bish especially. A woman that hates all other woman is going to hate any woman who competes with her time for a man, his mother, his sister, his little niece, the lady in front of him getting gas, crazy, crazy, crazy.

Someone who acts nice one on one, but you notice a mercurial change in his or her personality when out in public. Is she sweet and catering to you, but rude and mouthy to everybody else...crazy!So often we want to believe that maybe we are special and bring out that persons better qualities- NO!

Someone that monopolizes your time. It can start small.."I thought you were going to call me at 12:00, it's 12:05 now what happened?"...and then the shit escalates from there.

I have dated these women.

 

[femmenoire]

incessant phone calling

and jealousy about every little thing.

I nip that shit in the bud the second, if not the first incident. I don't believe in giving dudes a 3rd at bat, so no strikeouts. I have very little tolerance for such things.

 

[Izayoi]

incessant phone calling

and jealousy about every little thing.

I nip that shit in the bud the second, if not the first incident. I don't believe in giving dudes a 3rd at bat, so no strikeouts. I have very little tolerance for such things.

Yes Femme the phone calls especially when they call back to back in 10-30 minute intervals and ask "What are you doing?"...CRAZY.

 

[OnSlaught]

Man she was lying that chick was trying to hit me up for 20 dollars for her tracphone the day i met her

It was just the way you worded it...it was a little vague is all. I believe you though...

I have dated these women.

I have too twin, I have too....

incessant phone calling

and jealousy about every little thing.

I nip that shit in the bud the second, if not the first incident. I don't believe in giving dudes a 3rd at bat, so no strikeouts. I have very little tolerance for such things.

You might just be moody and very picky is all! JUST KIDDIN'! Yeah, that psycho callin' shit is on another level. However, some people drive others to go there, which I don't think is the case if that person is someone you just met!

Yes Femme the phone calls especially when they call back to back in 10-30 minute intervals and ask "What are you doing?"...CRAZY.

Yup, psycho!

 

[thetipisthick]

how about someone telling you they love you a week after you start dating?

 

[OnSlaught]

how about someone telling you they love you a week after you start dating?

Yeah, that's grounds to run...run fast, very, very fast!

 

[thetipisthick]

I gave a coworker a birthday card and her boyfriend called me up at work and wanted to fight it is hard to get crazier than that

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

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[OnSlaught]

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Yeah, people that are self-proclaimed crazy usually don't have much to say huh? You know I kid girl!

Here's one, people that tell you how they really are, and then when you have a problem with that they flip on your ass...

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Yeah, people that are self-proclaimed crazy usually don't have much to say huh? You know I kid girl!

Here's one, people that tell you how they really are, and then when you have a problem with that they flip on your ass...

I can't say I know about that.

But to Izayoi's red flag about not having female friends.I didn't have them for a long time and I wasn't crazy and I didn't compete with other females in my boyfriends life. I have 3 female friends now(lol) and the rest are my female cousins. I just grew up around alot of guys so that was who I was comfortable with

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

how about someone telling you they love you a week after you start dating?

Or when you are talking to someone on IM and you have to sign in Invisible so they won't know you are online. I have done that in the past

 

[thetipisthick]

Or when you are talking to someone on IM and you have to sign in Invisible so they won't know you are online. I have done that in the past

My father dated this lady and she called him and asked what he was doing and he said nothing and she said she might drop by. He got his keys and jacket and was gonna roll out and she was parked out front

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

My father dated this lady and she called him and asked what he was doing and he said nothing and she said she might drop by. He got his keys and jacket and was gonna roll out and she was parked out front

Funny stuff.

Also when people constantly stare at you,it makes me feel so damn uncomfortable and when you ask them what they are looking at they say "nothing".You turn your head and they start staring again.

 

[Blu Diablo]

Funny stuff.

Also when people constantly stare at you,it makes me feel so damn uncomfortable and when you ask them what they are looking at they say "nothing".You turn your head and they start staring again.

I've seen ya pic, you are attractive, this WILL repeatedly happen to you.

 

[MCP]

Oh dear,

Thanks for this tips, previously I've dated women who come under these catagories. Glad I jumped ship.

 

[thetipisthick]

Oh dear,

Thanks for this tips, previously I've dated women who come under these catagories. Glad I jumped ship.

Hell Dexter you flew all the way to France to kill your last girlfriend



P.S. One way you might tell is if they use a serial killer as their avatar

 

[DaleMabry]

Here's a simple one.

Are most of her road dawgs crazy? Are their stories crazy?


Not like "oh we got so wasted and peed by that car."

More like "we got so wasted and stole a car"


Not like "remember that boy we both messed with at the same time"

More like "remember when we got that boy to mess with another boy"


Not "man we got blowed off of space cake in Amsterdam"

More like "chile, we did ex and coke all weekend in Miami"


Birds of a feather yo. It won't letcha down.

 

[smoove2k6]

Yes Femme the phone calls especially when they call back to back in 10-30 minute intervals and ask "What are you doing?"...CRAZY.

Or the ones that call you on your home phone and ask you where you at?

one chick told me she wished she could cut my dick off and keep it with her, (needless to say i was dressed, out the door, and on 285 north before she finished the sentence.

had another chick take some clothes that i left at her place, put pillows inside them and acted like it was me. When i seen that, i didnt even ask, i just ran.

meet this one chick, Knew her for about a week, banged her once, told her i had to go out of town on business (i did) came home and found her sitting in her car across the street from my house, after the neighbors informed me that she had been sitting there for a little over 40 hours, had to file a restraining order. (That one just scared the hell out of me)

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Or the ones that call you on your home phone and ask you where you at?

one chick told me she wished she could cut my dick off and keep it with her, (needless to say i was dressed, out the door, and on 285 north before she finished the sentence.

had another chick take some clothes that i left at her place, put pillows inside them and acted like it was me. When i seen that, i didnt even ask, i just ran.

meet this one chick, Knew her for about a week, banged her once, told her i had to go out of town on business (i did) came home and found her sitting in her car across the street from my house, after the neighbors informed me that she had been sitting there for a little over 40 hours, had to file a restraining order. (That one just scared the hell out of me)

WOW

 

[Adam Knows]

I've seen ya pic, you are attractive, this WILL repeatedly happen to you.

it will....

gawd as good as she looks on that pic it doesn't do her true justice in the least

 

[Blu Diablo]

it will....

gawd as good as she looks on that pic it doesn't do her true justice in the least

Yessirrrr....Haven't been bless to see her in person but Sexy Scorpio is indeed fine. *and thus ends my lavishing of cyber compliments in her direction for the day*

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

it will....

gawd as good as she looks on that pic it doesn't do her true justice in the least

Yessirrrr....Haven't been bless to see her in person but Sexy Scorpio is indeed fine. *and thus ends my lavishing of cyber compliments in her direction for the day*

Thanks ya'll. But I am not talking about on the street. I am talking about on dates,and I have seen some women do it to men.

 

[femmenoire]

people who react with high rage for the littlest of things like not making a light before it turned red and throwing his own soda can at the window.



also be leery of men who ask this question more than a few times:

"So would you fuck him?"

RUN LADIES. That is a psycho waiting for a reason to flip the fuck out on you.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

people who react with high rage for the littlest of things like not making a light before it turned red and throwing his own soda can at the window.



also be leery of men who ask this question more than a few times:

"So would you fuck him?"

RUN LADIES. That is a psycho waiting for a reason to flip the fuck out on you.

Someone actually did that. Major, major anger issues

 

[Izayoi]

People that tell you how they really are, and then when you have a problem with that they flip on your ass...

But to Izayoi's red flag about not having female friends.I didn't have them for a long time and I wasn't crazy and I didn't compete with other females in my boyfriends life. I have 3 female friends now(lol) and the rest are my female cousins

Cousins count Sexy S Yeah, there's a small tom boy exemption but the key word is hate. There is a difference between a woman with your experience and one that starts off with a teeth suck and says "I don't really deal with other females, they can't be trusted." Crazy. Same for men. Men will not tolerate another ninjas foolishness if it aint no pussy in it for him, so if a dude doesn't have one good male friend there's usually a GOOD reason. I dated a guy like that once. He was really really attractive (pretty type) and at first I thought it was just random hate, but uh no he turned out to be the WORSE stalker in my dating history. It was a blizzard one winter, nobody could drive and even the buses were stranded- the ninja made some impromptu snowshoes and showed up at my house anyway!

My father dated this lady and she called him and asked what he was doing and he said nothing and she said she might drop by. He got his keys and jacket and was gonna roll out and she was parked out front:lol:

P.S. One way you might tell is if they use a serial killer as their avatar

Or the ones that call you on your home phone and ask you where you at?

one chick told me she wished she could cut my dick off and keep it with her, (needless to say i was dressed, out the door, and on 285 north before she finished the sentence.

had another chick take some clothes that i left at her place, put pillows inside them and acted like it was me. When i seen that, i didnt even ask, i just ran.

meet this one chick, Knew her for about a week, banged her once, told her i had to go out of town on business (i did) came home and found her sitting in her car across the street from my house, after the neighbors informed me that she had been sitting there for a little over 40 hours, had to file a restraining order. (That one just scared the hell out of me)

Wow! You did the right thing filing that order sir. It wasn't going to get any better!

 

[femmenoire]

Or the ones that call you on your home phone and ask you where you at?

one chick told me she wished she could cut my dick off and keep it with her, (needless to say i was dressed, out the door, and on 285 north before she finished the sentence.

had another chick take some clothes that i left at her place, put pillows inside them and acted like it was me. When i seen that, i didnt even ask, i just ran.

meet this one chick, Knew her for about a week, banged her once, told her i had to go out of town on business (i did) came home and found her sitting in her car across the street from my house, after the neighbors informed me that she had been sitting there for a little over 40 hours, had to file a restraining order. (That one just scared the hell out of me)

Damn that's psycho.

You be puttin' it on em huh?

 

[Iron]

how about someone telling you they love you a week after you start dating?

That's happened to me.

 

[thismybgolname]

Waking up and seeing somebody staring at you in the middle of the night and not saying shit on multiple occasions.

I've had a few girls tell me that if they couldn't have me then no one would, two of them (one i'm still with one, my baby momma, crazy ass told me that she would catch me on fire with a candle while i'm sleep because she knows i'm a heavy sleeper) actually told them how they would take me out and make it look like an accident.

A girl that expects for me to hit them is normally an indicator that she is off her fucking rocker.

Basic convo, if she thinks it's funny how she has fucked up multiple people that have messed her over it's a wrap.

Chicks poppin up over my house without calling or anything and trying to come in like it's understood she has it like that.

Whenever I ask somebody what their best dish is and she tells me some bullshit with any type of red pasta sauce.

I've never had a girl make a pillow of me with my clothes but I have had chicks steal my underwear and followed by her cousins (baby momma again).

 

[Adam Knows]

Waking up and seeing somebody staring at you in the middle of the night and not saying shit on multiple occasions.

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A girl that expects for me to hit them is normally an indicator that she is off her fucking rocker.

yeah.....

ran into those two situations...

first one she was like she likes watching me sleep


then the other case, several women expected for me to clock on them i leave them alone real quick.....

 

[Bigmario23]

My most recent red flag encounter:

"Come through and chill...my baby daddy we ain't together but
I'm letting him stay in my guest room till he get his place
next month"

Ok .......so I'll play the pawn in her attempt to make this man jealous

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