Could you marry a sista that has a child with a CAC?

[Osca Lee]

Man black people are sooo confused, this is one of the reasons we are in the condition we're in. I don't care to elaborate any more. I will say this tho, reading through the comments the main problem I see is we don't have a code about anything, everybody has a different definition of what marriage is and what it represents, it will be a longggggg time before we get out of this condition. Everyone ask themselves this question, how often do you see a white man marry a white woman who was married to a black guy and has a kid by a black guy?

It happens all over...just because you don't see it doesn't mean it isn't happening. We are not in the condition we are in because black women having kids by white men....its deeper than just that...

The only code we need to learn is spread the wealth among other blacks by using using others like they do us...

I feel you tho...i just see thing on a diff level

 

[BeltBuckle25]

I was talking to a white woman about abortion in a group and she said she was against it

After the group left I talked to her by herself and she said that she had had 3 already. I asked her why and she told me that her mother told her that no decent white man wants a woman with kids.

Marrying a woman with kids is completely out of the question for me. No need to deal with a baby daddy and it shows her irresponsibility by not getting married first. If she was married and he died is a different situation. Black dudes self esteem is so low we are willing to accept any woman in any situation and that is detrimental to our society, especially a white one. It's stupid and sickening logic as well as our condition.

 

[Nzinga]

I never gave a fuck nor will I ever about what anyone who has an asshole thinks about me

It's not the kids fault...

It says a lot about me...it lets people know I still don't give a fuck about what they think or say about me

I was told that a cac would not date a white woman who had been with
a black man for fear that he would not be able to satisfy her////

 

[BeltBuckle25]

I was told that a cac would not date a white woman who had been with
a black man for fear that he would not be able to satisfy her////

lol I've heard that too

 

[Nzinga]

lol I've heard that too

I was told this by a cac woman who was interested in, and was so sure she had, me. When she
realised that I was not interested, she told me to my face, in the breakroom at TI where I was
working then, that "I am a white woman, I am tall, blue-eyed and blonde-haired; I can get
any black man I want"... Shortly after that, she moved to another FAB in the same compound,
and she would be openly hostile whenever I met her...

 

[lazarus]

As a matter of fact, I'm about to ask my girl to marry me this easter


I chose to focus on career first and have fun
till i was ready to settle down. Most of my ex's are now married
none of them had kids when we dated.

how long have you've been dating the woman you're with? Sounds like you been out the game for a few.
I get why young cats say no kids but the reality is most men 30+ already have kids them damn selves. It comes off hypocritical. Talking about I don't get with women with kids and they have two baby mommas.

 

[lazarus]

Man black people are sooo confused, this is one of the reasons we are in the condition we're in. I don't care to elaborate any more. I will say this tho, reading through the comments the main problem I see is we don't have a code about anything, everybody has a different definition of what marriage is and what it represents, it will be a longggggg time before we get out of this condition. Everyone ask themselves this question, how often do you see a white man marry a white woman who was married to a black guy and has a kid by a black guy?

depends if he can lace up like lonzo ball.

 

[BeltBuckle25]

how long have you've been dating the woman you're with? Sounds like you been out the game for a few.
I get why young cats say no kids but the reality is most men 30+ already have kids them damn selves. It comes off hypocritical. Talking about I don't get with women with kids and they have two baby mommas.

Bro a man of means can have 30 kids and still pull the baddest women in the spot and marry her. A woman with 30 kids and money still ain't getting a man of means to marry her, am I lying? I ain't saying it's right or wrong just saying how it is.

 

[Osca Lee]

I was told this by a cac woman who was interested in, and was so sure she had, me. When she
realised that I was not interested, she told me to my face, in the breakroom at TI where I was
working then, that "I am a white woman, I am tall, blue-eyed and blonde-haired; I can get
any black man I want"... Shortly after that, she moved to another FAB in the same compound,
and she would be openly hostile whenever I met her...

Ok so let me get this straight...you had conversation with the white woman to the point she revealed to you that she had feelings for you....

But once you found out the African singer had a baby by a white man you could no longer listen to her music and you took her pic down.

Look buddy...if you gonna keep it real then keep it real...how can you be 100% pro black and work for the white man and talk to white women long enough to find out she likes you.

I dont judge bro..your reality isnt mine..i don't have to work for people I hate because figured out long ago it doesn't make sense cause all people aren't the same.

Every time you and a few others post things I learn a lot about myself

 

[11_BRAVO]

No

 

[havelcok]

how long have you've been dating the woman you're with? Sounds like you been out the game for a few.
I get why young cats say no kids but the reality is most men 30+ already have kids them damn selves. It comes off hypocritical. Talking about I don't get with women with kids and they have two baby mommas.

I really dont know where you guys are

i know more me with kids than women

Seriously
I been out the game for just over a year

but before I met my current, I was dating professional women with no children
doctors, lawyers, teachers, students, nurses
lived in chicago, detroit and nyc the last few years....

I dont have kids, and have never felt that I missed out on a woman because i wont date any that have some

 

[brickwall92]

I really dont know where you guys are

i know more me with kids than women

Seriously
I been out the game for just over a year

but before I met my current, I was dating professional women with no children
doctors, lawyers, teachers, students, nurses
lived in chicago, detroit and nyc the last few years....

I dont have kids, and have never felt that I missed out on a woman because i wont date any that have some

You're a "professional" black man so easy for you..Much harder for us in blue collar fields ..Next to impossible

 

[havelcok]

You're a "professional" black man so easy for you..Much harder for us in blue collar fields ..Next to impossible

nah

some of the married docs in my circle are married to blue collar workers
One is married to an electrician, one works for MTA, one is a truck driver...

Infact the professional women are way easier to pull...trust me.
They do all those years of schooling, get to a certain age and start thinking of those eggs

you guys are really just settling...

 

[SKATTA]

Not going to work all these years,busting my ass,waking up early on snowy mornings to take care of some white man kid....cant believe a black men would even consider walking into a shit-uation like this.

for love right....

 

[pookie]

No.
Black women who date white men most likely have nothing in common with me.​

No and I'll tell you way

Her being married to that cac she adopted his views and we all know all cacs are racist one way or another so now that she ain't with the cac no more she wants to come back to the black side and mess with a brotha? Nah b any black women marrying a cac is a fuckin wench

No! most of black women who date white men, thinks they are so much better than everyone else. They have a warped mind on reality.

I agree with all the above...if i met her and just "heard" she dated crackas i highly doubt but might be able to still date. I'd try to tell myself maybe she just went out on a date with one just to see what it was like, BUT if she had gone as far as to marry and have a kid with a cracka the day i found out would be the last day i talked to her

Thanks yall...some good points were brought up.

Off GP i'll share my situation. Recently a mother at my son's school mentioned hooking me up with a woman. Now this mother is gorgeous,well established, educated and works in advocacy for underprivileged. She hyped up her friend and said she thought we would be good together. She mentioned her friend has a son from a previous marriage and that she is on good terms with her ex. When i got home I googled her friend and see she was married to a CAC too. Now personally i'm very black conscious and found that in the past, women who are married to CACs have totally different views than me. I instantly thought of writing her off but figured I was jumping the gun and curious what yall thought.

Yeah when i googled her and saw her all hugged up with a cracka i would told the woman trying to hook me up that she could forget about it and even would've told her why

 

[BGLR1212000]

High horse naive ass dudes. If you dont want a woman with kids so be it, but yalls excuses are pure trash.

 

[lazarus]

Bro a man of means can have 30 kids and still pull the baddest women in the spot and marry her. A woman with 30 kids and money still ain't getting a man of means to marry her, am I lying? I ain't saying it's right or wrong just saying how it is.

got it. so you wouldn't get with this?

or this

I FOLLOW YOU.

 

[lazarus]

I really dont know where you guys are

i know more me with kids than women

Seriously
I been out the game for just over a year

but before I met my current, I was dating professional women with no children
doctors, lawyers, teachers, students, nurses
lived in chicago, detroit and nyc the last few years....

I dont have kids, and have never felt that I missed out on a woman because i wont date any that have some

that's funny because i won't get married anytime soon and you are marrying someone after meeting them for a year, yet you say everyone else is settling. Interesting. I just don't make definite decisions like that in choosing women. Life happens. How is she overall? Way too many other factors to consider.

 

[cokely_muhammad]

Yall fuck black women who either fucked white dudes or still fucking them...

It's 2017
Kids or not...

What diff does it make...

See this is the sign of a DUOOUUWWWMMB ass muthafucka ret chere! I am certain I have fucked many black women that were once fucked by white devils just as I have fucked white women who were also fucked by white devils. They were temporary pussy and now they are gone on in life, to fuck some other niggas and devils. But marrying a bitch that has a half devil child is a whole nuther ball game breh. The difference it makes is this you schtooput mothafukca! You dealin with a bedwench who has so much affinity and love for devils that she will procreate with them. Me personally I would never wife up a black bitch that has let a devil up in her body. And upon finding that shit out after marrying her, I would be divorcing that ho! I am not taking that child around my family, because I know what they would be thinking. Just like a white devil will never take a white woman that has a child with a black man, around his family. Because you KNOW what they would be thinking of that woman, that child and even HIM for that matter. There is a reason that the Honorable Elijah Muhammad told us back in 1930 to separate from these devils and do for self. Master Fard Muhammad has already taken the liberty of rapidly decreasing their birth rate along with rapidly increasing their death rates. Let Master Fard Muhammad fight this battle for us and get rid of this wicked beast and his devil spawn. But damned if I will have a bedwenchin coon laying up on my LAND, let alone my bed with her half devil child in my house of the Honorable Elijah Muhammad who has been teaching us that the white man is the devil since 1930!

 

[BeltBuckle25]

got it. so you wouldn't get with this?

or this

I FOLLOW YOU.

I'd beat but wife nope...if I'm a man of means what I need with Beyoncé....I can get a young Beyoncé with no kids. Now a broke dude would gladly get with Beyoncé....

 

[havelcok]

that's funny because i won't get married anytime soon and you are marrying someone after meeting them for a year, yet you say everyone else is settling. Interesting. I just don't make definite decisions like that in choosing women. Life happens. How is she overall? Way too many other factors to consider.

It might sound cliche but when you know you know

I have had my choice, had my fun

I have dated dimes, dated models, dated rich women, dated smart women
and always thought something was missing

till I met this one
and i knew I could not live with out her...

same culture, same people, same background and known her family for years...

I know i'm lucky to have her in my life.

 

[Duece]

Should've added a poll to this one!

 

[^SpiderMan^]

nah

some of the married docs in my circle are married to blue collar workers
One is married to an electrician, one works for MTA, one is a truck driver...

Infact the professional women are way easier to pull...trust me.
They do all those years of schooling, get to a certain age and start thinking of those eggs

you guys are really just settling...

These last few posts you remind me of me before I had my kid. Mid 30's no kids and wouldn't date any that had one. You are right that there are alot of professional women with no kids. Many spent years putting their personal lives to the side to achieve their career goals. You are also right that they are easier to pull. I actually see no issue with you saying you wouldn't date a woman with kids.

 

[Osca Lee]

See this is the sign of a DUOOUUWWWMMB ass muthafucka ret chere! I am certain I have fucked many black women that were once fucked by white devils just as I have fucked white women who were also fucked by white devils. They were temporary pussy and now they are gone on in life, to fuck some other niggas and devils. But marrying a bitch that has a half devil child is a whole nuther ball game breh. The difference it makes is this you schtooput mothafukca! You dealin with a bedwench who has so much affinity and love for devils that she will procreate with them. Me personally I would never wife up a black bitch that has let a devil up in her body. And upon finding that shit out after marrying her, I would be divorcing that ho! I am not taking that child around my family, because I know what they would be thinking. Just like a white devil will never take a white woman that has a child with a black man, around his family. Because you KNOW what they would be thinking of that woman, that child and even HIM for that matter. There is a reason that the Honorable Elijah Muhammad told us back in 1930 to separate from these devils and do for self. Master Fard Muhammad has already taken the liberty of rapidly decreasing their birth rate along with rapidly increasing their death rates. Let Master Fard Muhammad fight this battle for us and get rid of this wicked beast and his devil spawn. But damned if I will have a bedwenchin coon laying up on my LAND, let alone my bed with her half devil child in my house of the Honorable Elijah Muhammad who has been teaching us that the white man is the devil since 1930!

It's ok to disagree with me...

But at the same time there isn't any need to be disrespectful because i wasnt presented the same world you was given by your deity.

You see the world the way it has been presented to you.

Keep praying and following who you follow..

Even with all of that being said...i hope you and your family is in good health and living the great life

 

[lazarus]

I'd beat but wife nope...if I'm a man of means what I need with Beyoncé....I can get a young Beyoncé with no kids. Now a broke dude would gladly get with Beyoncé....

man of means lol. the chances of you accumulating wealth as much as beyonce is slim to none. You willing to pass on a beautiful woman and an empire because of a child that will be well taken care of whether you are there or not. You tripping.

 

[lazarus]

It might sound cliche but when you know you know

I have had my choice, had my fun

I have dated dimes, dated models, dated rich women, dated smart women
and always thought something was missing

till I met this one
and i knew I could not live with out her...

same culture, same people, same background and known her family for years...

I know i'm lucky to have her in my life.

hope it works out homie. that's good.

 

[BeltBuckle25]

man of means lol. the chances of you accumulating wealth as much as beyonce is slim to none. You willing to pass on a beautiful woman and an empire because of a child that will be well taken care of whether you are there or not. You tripping.

Would you rather be a rich person that's owned by someone or a business owner that's not necessarily rich but is well off?

 

[jasonblacc]

High horse naive ass dudes. If you dont want a woman with kids so be it, but yalls excuses are pure trash.

lol how the hell is it an excuse?

 

[simonmarcel]

I never had that dumb ass mindset that if a woman in her 30's doesn't have kids there is something wrong with her. I just assume she used condoms and birth control. I'm 37 and I've only dated one woman in my life that had a kid and that was 15 years ago. Every scenario that people talk about when dealing with a woman with kids happened. I live near DC and there are lots of women in their 30's(and pushing 40) that don't have kids. Not wanting to deal with kids doesn't mean you have to date teenagers. But I grew up in Baltimore and I remember being as young as 19 and people being surprised that I didn't have kids.

 

[SamSneed]

Raise It to hate cac lol

 

[BGLR1212000]

lol how the hell is it an excuse?

I mean the excuses for not wanting to date a woman with kids. Without quoting everybody I was just saying all the excuses sound like bullshit. Youll come out better just saying you dont want a woman with kids, and keep it at that.

 

[Louis Koo]

 

[brickwall92]

nah

some of the married docs in my circle are married to blue collar workers
One is married to an electrician, one works for MTA, one is a truck driver...

Infact the professional women are way easier to pull...trust me.
They do all those years of schooling, get to a certain age and start thinking of those eggs

you guys are really just settling...

Let me try again..Most blue collar guys are not in the same social settings to meet the professional women who don't have kids ...Not saying it doesn't happen ..It also depends on location ..You said MTA which is NYC ? Whole social culture up there

As for settling ? Not me I'm single ..These broads in my county got kids lol

 

[bajanbadman]

Man the only decent white folk I know are the red legs and they are more like us than anything else

lol that's a real bajan thing there!people more call them ecky beckies now.
but on my family being with white girls, it wasn't in barbados (92% black) much harder to find your own race in europe

 

[BlackStar6870]

I'm not marrying no black bitch that had kids by a damn white man the devil