Could you marry a sista that has a child with a CAC?

This book right here will make most blackmen not get involve with blackwomen who have been in a long term relationship with a whiteman that produce a child.

Pieces of a puzzle : the one thing Black females will not talk about

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No! Fuckin white daddy becoming to the house to pickup the damn kid, and I'm chillin with my boys in the house. They turn around and look at me like "who the fuck is that". I don't want no mother fuckin drama.
 
Peace,

What's the point of this question? Is it relavent to your current situation or you're just bored sitting around the house conjuring up random asinine questions? Either way, who the fucks cares. You don't make intimate decisions like this based off of what random Internet pussy posters say.

If you choose not to be with a good woman (based on your own description of her) simply because she was with a white guy, then in my humble opinion you have issues.

However, it's quite fine to say I'm not ready or willing to emotionally invest my time in being with and/or raising a child that's not mine.

I love how you talked all that shit but proceeded to answer this "asinine" question just like everyone else.
 
Peace,

Anyway, quiet as it's kept, many sisters would procreate with a cac if their circumstances were different. Not as many black women are ideologically opposed to being with a white man as you think.

Having said that, I couldn't do it. I'll be damned if I'm raising a white man's child.
 
Yall fuck black women who either fucked white dudes or still fucking them...

It's 2017
Kids or not...

What diff does it make...
 
Yall fuck black women who either fucked white dudes or still fucking them...

It's 2017
Kids or not...

What diff does it make...
You will be going around, and every one can see that
your kid is not your kind. Never mind her ass, but what
does it say about you?
 
No. When the issue of race comes up during a news story, or even when social issues pop up, will you be comfortable enough to speak your mind around the kid? I know I would. If, or when I say something about whites, or have to explain to the kid what a "cac" is, that relationship with the child may not be the best. You can say watch what you say, but it's like cursing around kids. Sooner or later, an F-bomb will slip out. However you may feel about Dwight, he's still their father, and if he's still in the kid's life, there's love there on both sides, and that kid may not like your views on Dwight. My friend has a daughter with a white chick, who moved back to Arkansas. On his daughter's FB page, she was holding a confederate flag and talking about embracing both sides of her heritage. Bruh was fucking livid, but what could he do?

Thank you
 
Every body makes mistakes:dunno:

And it depends on how light skinned the kid is. Can't be walking around the house and have one of those weird albino looking mixed kids jumping out at me.
I have had relatives who were 100% black who were sometimes more
yellow than a half cac...That is not the issue. In Southern Africa, almost
all of us, are in some proportion Khoisan; you can tell when the yellowness
is due Khoisanness, and when it is due to cacness; it is the latter condition
I do not want to be part of.
 
Does anyone remember when this fool was my avatar

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And I used to exalt her and her music everyday....


One day I found out that her ass had a half cac
kid, and that was it..Well, I know how Africans
think; at age 43 going 44, she is not married;
and the reason is simply because Africans will
NOT entertain this sort of nonsense...
 
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I don't even want to touch a black woman who's had any kind of sex with a CAC. BUT... given the times we live in, that is something I admittedly have to get over.

To answer the thread's question, no, I will not seriously entertain a black woman with a mixed race (black/white) child for any reason, sex, dating and definitely not marriage.
 
No she can't be considered. Marriage is a political decision. It tells everyone what team you're on.

Marriage means something different to everyone. Identity, stability, connections, companionship, consistent sex, merged assets, love, the family lifestyle, all or any of the aforementioned and then some. The only team it implies is the family itself.

The only time I'll talk down on interracial marriage is if either or both partners tied the knot and had kids without accepting the struggle. The white half has to understand that they just put a target on their back. The Black half just increased the size of the target they were already born with. Not only does your partner have to be worth it, you need to have strategies to deal with police, landlords, employers, banks, relatives and so forth.
 
You will be going around, and every one can see that
your kid is not your kind. Never mind her ass, but what
does it say about you?

I never gave a fuck nor will I ever about what anyone who has an asshole thinks about me

It's not the kids fault...

It says a lot about me...it lets people know I still don't give a fuck about what they think or say about me
 
Does anyone remember when this fool was my avatar

FufbRmhY.jpeg


And I used to exalt her and her music everyday....


One day I found out that her ass had a half cac
kid, and that was it..Well, I know how Africans
thinks, and at age 43 going 44, she is not married;
and the reason is simply because Africans will NOT
entertain this sort of nonsense...

Damn... that's surface
 
Thanks yall...some good points were brought up.

Off GP i'll share my situation. Recently a mother at my son's school mentioned hooking me up with a woman. Now this mother is gorgeous,well established, educated and works in advocacy for underprivileged. She hyped up her friend and said she thought we would be good together. She mentioned her friend has a son from a previous marriage and that she is on good terms with her ex. When i got home I googled her friend and see she was married to a CAC too. Now personally i'm very black conscious and found that in the past, women who are married to CACs have totally different views than me. I instantly thought of writing her off but figured I was jumping the gun and curious what yall thought.
 
This book right here will make most blackmen not get involve with blackwomen who have been in a long term relationship with a whiteman that produce a child.

Pieces of a puzzle : the one thing Black females will not talk about

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Great post.Gonna check that book out.Never heard of it.
 
Peace,

No. When the issue of race comes up during a news story, or even when social issues pop up, will you be comfortable enough to speak your mind around the kid? I know I would. If, or when I say something about whites, or have to explain to the kid what a "cac" is, that relationship with the child may not be the best. You can say watch what you say, but it's like cursing around kids. Sooner or later, an F-bomb will slip out. However you may feel about Dwight, he's still their father, and if he's still in the kid's life, there's love there on both sides, and that kid may not like your views on Dwight. My friend has a daughter with a white chick, who moved back to Arkansas. On his daughter's FB page, she was holding a confederate flag and talking about embracing both sides of her heritage. Bruh was fucking livid, but what could he do?

Great reply that I almost missed. I'm glad Nzinga's nutty ass quoted it.
 
Imma keep it real and many of you ain't gon like it

They only time I seen dudes who have an issue with black women dating, fucking or having kids with a white dudes is when they aren't in a better position than the white dude.

If mfs only knew how it look for a black man to be with a sister who has been with white men...it makes the white dudes look like shit and reinstate the black man is the superior man...because 99% of mfs think all white dude black women get with have money. So it breaks things down on another level for them. Mfs be like damn...that isn't what I see on tv or social media.

Plus you are looked at as black Moses...you bring another one of our sisters back home as looked at in many of the woke sisters eyes and her family eyes.

It was always a competition thing for me. I dated them who was either divorced from them or had kids by them. I batted 1000% in that game...i made every last one of them get emotional during sex and cry...wannna know why..because they miss that black man...they miss that power...strength and that soul up on them. This miss talking how we talk behind closed doors about shit black people talk about. But last and most importantly they miss that long rod stroking that pussy soul....see women have 2 souls...body and then they have a pussy soul..that dick make them believe and surrender....if you ever made any woman cry during sex....

You seek out all pussy souls and make them believers
 
are you broke or disabled?

there are plenty of women without children
No, Im grown. Are you 18? Because not many bitches in my age range don't have kids. Now I guess I could find plenty if I started dating young hoes :dunno:
 
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