Say she was beautiful,smart,had a decent job and great to be around. But she used to be married to a CAC and has a child with him. Could you marry her?
Could you marry a sista that has a child with a CAC?
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wouldn't bother me as long as he recognized that he wasn.t numero uno in the picture anymore and that I"M the head rooster in the coop now!!!!
I wouldn't marry a woman with a child.
..........and this is why "baby daddies" and the new dude stay fighting each other. Like nigga you ain't "numero uno". If dude still around then he's still biological daddy and been in that kid life longer than you. Just play your part and help raise the child. That "rah rah" shit is for the birds. That kid don't care who the "head rooster" is. Ego shit.
I figured this would be the first response in the thread.
I hear what ur saying but you kinda missed my point...which I might not have but should have elaborated more clearly....a lot of baby daddies try to flex....get back in the picture....was never around but try to be always around when another is in the picture now full time....and the head rooster part isn't for whether or not the kid bares.....more for piece of mind....baby daddies can be/tend to be a royal pain in the ass, bringing undue stress into the relationship for all involved.....been there, done that, got the t-shirt!!!!
Reading the thread title, I was thinking the same, till I...made the first reply!!!
Oh. My bad fam. I get it now. I'm with you on that one.
smh ...at the pretzel bending fool that gave this....a good discussion thread....1 star.......BAAAMMM....5 STARS.....probably one of those "Meek Mill" postin' mofos!!! 
Somebody else 5 star this shit to bring it past 3 stars now!!!
Somebody else 5 star this shit to bring it past 3 stars now!!!
How is it "ego shit" wanting to be certain boundaries are drawn and insuring the ex isnt some obsessed overbearing prick who hasnt accepted reality and moved on with his life?
But to answer OP question... probably not. There would have to be alot of exceptions present for me to get that far involved with that chick.
Do you have a child?
Misunderstanding.
What's the point of this question? Is it relavent to your current situation or you're just bored sitting around the house conjuring up random asinine questions? Either way, who the fucks cares. You don't make intimate decisions like this based off of what random Internet pussy posters say.
If you choose not to be with a good woman (based on your own description of her) simply because she was with a white guy, then in my humble opinion you have issues.
However, it's quite fine to say I'm not ready or willing to emotionally invest my time in being with and/or raising a child that's not mine.
No.
Black women who date white men most likely have nothing in common with me.
Black women who date white men most likely have nothing in common with me.
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Hell Naw! Mine is a house of Islam! I am a student of the Honorable Elijah Muhammad! I ain't fuckin with nor am harboring any goddam bedwenches in my bedroom and i ain't harboring no half devils in my house, which is ran by the teachings of the Honorable Elijah Muhammad! 
The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us against this nonsense and The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us that superior men would NEVER marry a woman that has a child with another MAN let ALONE a bedwenchin coon who has birthed a child by a cac devil!
The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us against this nonsense and The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us that superior men would NEVER marry a woman that has a child with another MAN let ALONE a bedwenchin coon who has birthed a child by a cac devil!
Nope
...love is a byproduct of your values, I know enough to pass.
...love is a byproduct of your values, I know enough to pass.
No and I'll tell you way
Her being married to that cac she adopted his views and we all know all cacs are racist one way or another so now that she ain't with the cac no more she wants to come back to the black side and mess with a brotha? Nah b any black women marrying a cac is a fuckin wench
Her being married to that cac she adopted his views and we all know all cacs are racist one way or another so now that she ain't with the cac no more she wants to come back to the black side and mess with a brotha? Nah b any black women marrying a cac is a fuckin wench
How is it any different from if she had a baby by a black, latino or asian man? I know plenty of black women who have dated across the racial spectrum and their values and persona remained unchanged no matter who they were dating. Same with brothers dating different types of women. You love who you love. Some of y'all are some real hypocrites complaining bout racism and not liking to be stereotyped but do the exact same thing
U aint getting married then.
Marry a woman because she is right for you.
This.
you have a good point, as a black man I wouldn't want to get serious with that kind of chick in general. I already have a high bar set for women with kids.
My only thing is if being married to the white dude woke her up to the struggle of blacks. I'm very pro black empowerment in my out look, if she had come to this point of view I could get down with her I guess
also I have to throw in not all whites are bad, I have male family members that have married white, more due to location than selling out. i don't know the inner workings of their marriage and child raring, but it's good to see a white mom, with mixed kids, giving them natural black hair styles, using coconut oil etc in their hair, giving the black dolls etc . So lets say the women OP mentioned was married in a situation like this, and not the usual negro bed whench she could also be considered
No she can't be considered. Marriage is a political decision. It tells everyone what team you're on.
No
It's already tough marrying a woman with kids, let alone lil half peckawood kids. I'll be looking like a cuckold. Bullet and shit. At least if they was fully black I could almost pass them off as mine. lol
Those the kind of decisions you gotta make when you take on those packaged deals. Only way I might could do it is if I already had kids of my own I was bringing in also.
Those the kind of decisions you gotta make when you take on those packaged deals. Only way I might could do it is if I already had kids of my own I was bringing in also.
No. When the issue of race comes up during a news story, or even when social issues pop up, will you be comfortable enough to speak your mind around the kid? I know I would. If, or when I say something about whites, or have to explain to the kid what a "cac" is, that relationship with the child may not be the best. You can say watch what you say, but it's like cursing around kids. Sooner or later, an F-bomb will slip out. However you may feel about Dwight, he's still their father, and if he's still in the kid's life, there's love there on both sides, and that kid may not like your views on Dwight. My friend has a daughter with a white chick, who moved back to Arkansas. On his daughter's FB page, she was holding a confederate flag and talking about embracing both sides of her heritage. Bruh was fucking livid, but what could he do?
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Every body makes mistakes
And it depends on how light skinned the kid is. Can't be walking around the house and have one of those weird albino looking mixed kids jumping out at me.
And it depends on how light skinned the kid is. Can't be walking around the house and have one of those weird albino looking mixed kids jumping out at me.
Ah the kid gotta go w/ dad & if we accidentally get Prego I will allow you to fuck him one more time so we can get him to claim my crumb snatcher to
Man the only decent white folk I know are the red legs and they are more like us than anything else
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