Could you maintain a friendship with a fine woman you arent fuckin

[Deuterion]

I think the biggest difference between your friends and mine would be, that we could be out with them & their dude and have no problems. Cats are just laid back that way where we are.
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No the biggest difference between your female friends and mine is that I'm fucking all of mine. I go out to dinner with them, watch movies, football, go to comedy shows, Six Flags Magic Mountain, and do all kinds of fun shit but WE ARE FUCKING. I don't hang out with Women I do not share an intimate relationship with and I don't hang out with Women and their Men unless the Man is my homeboy and then it would simply be me hanging with the homie.

Word, everyones not like me and they might not be lonely at all. I don't know everybody and their personalities so of course I wouldn't know.

If you don't know everything stop speaking in absolutes.

I don't use female friends to get chicks, there's no problem pulling out here, you being born & raised in LA County know this. What I said was I noticed the attention we get when we're out with them. You don't have chicks you can just chill and be cool with, and that's great. I don't have any expectations from my homegirls. My reasons for keeping homegirls is to stay informed about functions and networking & just meeting new people and having good times. I like to keep my options and opportunities open and available.

I do have chicks I can chill and be cool with but I FUCK THEM.

They keep me informed about functions but I FUCK THEM.

I network through them but I FUCK THEM.

I have good times with them but I FUCK THEM.

It's simple.

 

[2 ONE 3]

No the biggest difference between your female friends and mine is that I'm fucking all of mine. I go out to dinner with them, watch movies, football, go to comedy shows, Six Flags Magic Mountain, and do all kinds of fun shit but WE ARE FUCKING. I don't hang out with Women I do not share an intimate relationship with and I don't hang out with Women and their Men unless the Man is my homeboy and then it would simply be me hanging with the homie.



If you don't know everything then stop speaking in absolutes.

BTW I do have chicks I can chill and be cool with but I FUCK THEM.

They keep me informed about functions but I FUCK THEM.

I network through them but I FUCK THEM.

I have good times with them but I FUCK THEM.

It's simple.

Good for you

In my experiences when sex gets involved feelings and emotions usually change as well. And most times I'd rather remain cool and pull separate work, opposed to fucking my friends & have feelings get tangled. The female friends I have actually smashed start off cool, but then want more as time goes on, And I'm good off dealing with that shit again.

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[2 ONE 3]

No the biggest difference between your female friends and mine is that I'm fucking all of mine. I go out to dinner with them, watch movies, football, go to comedy shows, Six Flags Magic Mountain, and do all kinds of fun shit but WE ARE FUCKING. I don't hang out with Women I do not share an intimate relationship with and I don't hang out with Women and their Men unless the Man is my homeboy and then it would simply be me hanging with the homie.



If you don't know everything then stop speaking in absolutes.

BTW I do have chicks I can chill and be cool with but I FUCK THEM.

They keep me informed about functions but I FUCK THEM.

I network through them but I FUCK THEM.

I have good times with them but I FUCK THEM.

It's simple.

Good for you

In my experiences when sex gets involved feelings and emotions usually change as well. And most times I'd rather remain cool and pull separate work, opposed to fucking my friends & have feelings get tangled. The female friends I have actually smashed start off cool, but then want more as time goes on, And I'm good off dealing with that shit again. It's simple

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[Deuterion]

Good for you

In my experiences when sex gets involved feelings and emotions usually change as well. And most times I'd rather remain cool and pull separate work, opposed to fucking my friends & have feelings get tangled. The female friends I have actually smashed start off cool, but then want more as time goes on, And I'm good off dealing with that shit again. It's simple

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This is very true and the nature of the beast. I let them know from the gate what it is going to be and as grown women they can accept or not.

 

[2 ONE 3]

This is very true and the nature of the beast. I let them know from the gate what it is going to be and as grown women they can accept or not.

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[Understand My Story]

I've carried on a strictly platonic relationship with a very beautiful woman for the past 17 years. When we were teens I thought about fucking but I also thought about fucking every female that I came into contact with at that time. She saw me through some terrible times and I wouldnt think of soiling our relationship just to add another notch on my belt. It's funny but she embodies all the chracteristics that I want in a woman but I can never see myself crossing that line, her friendship means the world to me.

This confuses me. You say she has all the qualities you want and has seen you through some terrible times and ya'll have made it through damn near two decades. Unless one or both of you is already taken, why not cross that line? I think that the only way a relationship can truly work in the long-term is if the two people or close friends as well as lovers. You already got one down, why not have the whole thing?

 

[mofo112]

Man... i did for 5 years... still wish i didn't fuck till this day. We was all we had.. cheap nut fucked the whole shit up.

 

[mailboxpimp]

ive met all types of women arching eyebrows...... ive worked with /for quite a few models..hair stylist, fellow make-up artist, product reps, & some celebrity...... my professionalism & ability to see past the beauty ( tits & ass ) ( i also see them looking like, some men dont get to see that or notice it or what was done....)& just see the person has helped me out a lot.... over a period of time..... to be able to just BE friends with hot ass women..... the only reason they fuck wit the gay dudes is cause the dont want no pussy.... they feel safer....& there is no misunderstandings about what the relationship is..... a friendship..... dont get me wrong... a friend of mines that is a singer..she on alot of house music comp joints.... after years of being best friends.... been there for her thru all of her crazy ass relationships... she been there for me wit all of mine... i really thought we were just really good "friends"....... she tells me one day how she was in love wit me & all this shit.......... it felt like my cousin asking me to fuck..... i felt like she used me & misrepresented herself the entire time we knew each other which was almost 7 yrs..... had to go back and apologize to both of my girlfriends..... that told me that she was trying to do/be more that what i wanted her to be... i stopped fucking wit her for a min...... like a yr or 2...... we still cool...time fixed everything....

 

[jwilliam85]

That is not a fact by any stretch of the imagination, especially for me. I don't want to generalize, but in my experience 99% of women who just wanted to be friends with me didn't really want friendship, they wanted a person to summon when they wanted an issue to disappear. They wanted all the benefits of me being their Man but didn't want to provide any of the benefits of them being my Woman. Women know I'm smart so if it isn't a call about how to put songs on the iPod, it's a call about how to fix a computer, or they need a ride, or they need someone to talk to...fuck that...don't call my phone. You see, Women exhibit a different kind of energy and vibe to me that doesn't allow me to hang out with them like I hang out with my homies. When I get around Women I can trust I feel relaxed, comfortable, and want to bond with them in a way only a Man and a Woman can. If she doesn't feel that same way then we have nothing to talk about because I will not suppress my instinct to satisfy anyone's wants. Yes, she may have fine friends but so the fuck what...I'll get my own Women...I'm fly as fuck and can make that happen.

Makes sense to me.

 

[Cock Head Jones]

I have 1 bad female friend that I would never think of getting with, just 1. Always cool as ice and got my back no matter what. She throws assists like John Stockton so its all good.

 

[SaKem]

Man... i did for 5 years... still wish i didn't fuck till this day. We was all we had.. cheap nut fucked the whole shit up.

I feel that way about a friend I ended up going out with. I wish I would've never ruined it. We felt like we just had to.

 

[tuckdog]

Yep. And I do.

Fine girls run in packs. As long as you stay cool you've always got chances to meet their friends and mix & mingle.

Real shit.

 

[bighurt2k7]

Some men really hate women. Such a lack of respect for them.

 

[PanzerBob]

I have a few female friends but would only do'em if it was offered and even then I'm not sure, their value as friends means more. SEX changes much in a relationship and to loose their council over some poontang..................Well!!

 

[swiftandsilent]

Sure, as long as she knows the rules. Don't ask me for shit that your man should be giving you. It's all good.

 

[marcvoi]

Yep. And I do.

Fine girls run in packs. As long as you stay cool you've always got chances to meet their friends and mix & mingle.

this is good reading here..........

 

[Cock Head Jones]

Yep. And I do.

Fine girls run in packs. As long as you stay cool you've always got chances to meet their friends and mix & mingle.

^

this. you can tell some cats are running around thirsty as hell.

ole leg humpin ass nikkas need to relax.

 

[PanzerBob]

I have a few female friends but would only do'em if it was offered and even then I'm not sure, their value as friends means more. SEX changes much in a relationship and to loose their council over some poontang..................Well!!

 

[Deacs]

I have a few of them, a couple are good women and we see each other as if we are wrapped in plexiglass due to us being married

The whores are cool, but I know them, and although part of the circle, I keep them at the outer ring because I know their lack of values.

For the most part, they treat me as the sounding board as to why men do this and that. Hear their secrets and all their bullshit. It was difficult at first, but then I placed them in perspective, never go from sugar to shit, and if you have a good woman already, they would be considered shit after the fact.

 

[Cross]

This confuses me. You say she has all the qualities you want and has seen you through some terrible times and ya'll have made it through damn near two decades. Unless one or both of you is already taken, why not cross that line? I think that the only way a relationship can truly work in the long-term is if the two people or close friends as well as lovers. You already got one down, why not have the whole thing?

Its been so long that I think if there was an opportunity it has passed. We work great as friends, its at a point know that she's family. Also, I feared losing a great friend if things didnt work out.

 

[Cross]

I have 1 bad female friend that I would never think of getting with, just 1. Always cool as ice and got my back no matter what. She throws assists like John Stockton so its all good.

Exactly!!! Why fuck up a great relationship over a nut.

 

[Understand My Story]

Its been so long that I think if there was an opportunity it has passed. We work great as friends, its at a point know that she's family. Also, I feared losing a great friend if things didnt work out.

It's much easier to find a chick to fuck than it is to find a true friend. I'm don't want you to think that I am discrediting your relationship or saying you should just fuck for the sake of fucking. I'm saying that if you are both single and your are both looking for the same thing in terms of a relationship and you have already established yourselves over two decades in every area but sex its seems like she could be the one. In order to be friends as long as you guys have there has to be a certain level of compatibility that many marriages don't have. No disrepect though man, do you.

 

[2 ONE 3]

I have a few female friends but would only do'em if it was offered and even then I'm not sure, their value as friends means more. SEX changes much in a relationship and to loose their council over some poontang..................Well!!

It's much easier to find a chick to fuck than it is to find a true friend. I'm don't want you to think that I am discrediting your relationship or saying you should just fuck for the sake of fucking. I'm saying that if you are both single and your are both looking for the same thing in terms of a relationship and you have already established yourselves over two decades in every area but sex its seems like she could be the one. In order to be friends as long as you guys have there has to be a certain level of compatibility that many marriages don't have. No disrepect though man, do you.

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[Rossini]

You gotta have that 1 female friend that puts you down with all her friends

 

[christuckerassmokey]

You gotta have that 1 female friend that puts you down with all her friends

True statement.

 

[mailboxpimp]

True statement.

C/S

THESE NIGS IS THIRSTY!!!!!!!!!

 

[donwuan]

I have a few. It ain't hard I just don't see them in a sexual way. My homies swear I'm fucking them but the wife knows better. But I won't let my wife hang out with them. They cool but they crazy.

 

[Naha-Nago]

Platonic???Nope...If I'm messing with a chick and it's not in a bussiness or academic atmosphere there will be a sexual undertone.

A wolf is going to be a wolf.


*two cent*

 

[Naha-Nago]

No the biggest difference between your female friends and mine is that I'm fucking all of mine. I go out to dinner with them, watch movies, football, go to comedy shows, Six Flags Magic Mountain, and do all kinds of fun shit but WE ARE FUCKING. I don't hang out with Women I do not share an intimate relationship with and I don't hang out with Women and their Men unless the Man is my homeboy and then it would simply be me hanging with the homie.



If you don't know everything stop speaking in absolutes.



I do have chicks I can chill and be cool with but I FUCK THEM.

They keep me informed about functions but I FUCK THEM.

I network through them but I FUCK THEM.

I have good times with them but I FUCK THEM.

It's simple.