Child support is not a joke

The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her. :smh:

Must have a shitty lawyer, because if amount of support will decrease by at least $100.00 in Texas at least, you go to court and get a reduction. Unless they can prove that your are intentionally under employing yourself....
 
Bruh, you see how much he's bringing home.....?

$3K for him might as well be $10K for the average mfkr
On some real shit, if someone can't come up with 3k broken up in payments ur not qualified to be out here fucking bitches. Be the same niggas out here with every pair of new Jordan's LOL.
 
My friend it doesn't work like that. Trust me, Whoever had primary custody is going to get the support payments... My brother has his daughter every weekend and still pays 1300 month.

I had a family member paying child support for a child that chose to live with him after the child turned 16.
 
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For the lil amount that he makes....he's getting gutted.
It's likely that when he was court ordered to pay it (when it was significantly less)....he didnt do it.
Now those back payments are being garnished.
The arrears are a beast. Too many guys don’t pay attention until they’re cooked.
 
One thing I can't stand is a men crying about child support. We know it's unfair and we as men will always get fucked. It's a cycle that will never change. It's almost like getting mad because the sky is blue and the grass is green. Is it unfair, 100%. But it ain't ever gonna change lol.
With that being said, its important that you get visitation or some form of custody so you not just equating your child to paying the bill. If you have to go to court to fight for getting time with your child, do that and make it plain and clear.
 
I honestly thank God that I could make it through those early younger Man years without seeding up a woman I wasn't considering being in a long-term relationship. Lord knows, on several occasions, I relied on what I thought was a masterful pull-out game!!! I've witnessed friends undergo some tragic financial circumstances and real mental health shyt behind their children while being royally fuked over by the government and child support!!!
 
The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her. :smh:

So should the mother struggle by herself? Should the child eat air? Be serious. If he's that desperate he can apply for a reduction.
 
My baby owns a gang of property and businesses, yet still has me paying child support. All because I didn't wanna be with her and left cause she's a bitch. Women will have you paying money no matter how good of a father you are. I got my kids every weekend and still do. I even got her other kid that wasnt my daughter just because she would cry when I came to get my kids. Dad wasn't in her life. You think the bitch respected that? Only thing you're right about is men need to make better decisions with who they have kids with. Unfortunately, there are way more trifling women than good women in this world.

This. One of my homies BM tried to use her grandparents address (they live in DC) when his son turned 18 and was going off to college so he could continue paying child support while his son was in school....That's the law in DC, but in Maryland, where she resides, once the kid turns 18 you don't have to pay....

Trifling ass bitch...Man he hired a lawyer and the child support folks denied her address change....Had to go out for drinks after that victory...lol
 
I've told this story before, but my cousin was working for a temp agency. The CS folks raped his first check, and the temp agency advised him to quit, because, in their words, "If this is what they're going to be taking from you, you're going to be working for free, and we don't want you to do that."

Damn...
 
I've switched jobs and gotten an increase in pay. Didnt even bring it up. :smh:

Best move...I got a homeboy that did the same...Got a new job in Maryland and didn't post that shit anywhere on Facebook or anyone his BM knew...

The amount he was paying for his daughter paid his BM's mortage down in Greensboro, NC....
 
There's a gang of Captain Obvious niggas in here. You're not adding anything to the conversation. With all due and undue respect. If you've never had to deal with the family court system, respectfully, shut all the way the fuck up. Seriously.
 
In NY, you would have to request a modification hearing/review. Also, you have to request that the garnishment is stopped upon your child turning 21. It doesn't halt automatically. It took me 6+ months of weekly calls to finally get them to stop taking $.
My friend it doesn't work like that. Trust me, Whoever had primary custody is going to get the support payments... My brother has his daughter every weekend and still pays 1300 month.
same here:angry:
 
This. One of my homies BM tried to use her grandparents address (they live in DC) when his son turned 18 and was going off to college so he could continue paying child support while his son was in school....That's the law in DC, but in Maryland, where she resides, once the kid turns 18 you don't have to pay....

Trifling ass bitch...Man he hired a lawyer and the child support folks denied her address change....Had to go out for drinks after that victory...lol
NC has this law as well. I'm very familiar. Glad it worked out for him though. I know a dude that took Child support out on himself so she couldn't say that he never paid anything. You really learn about people when there's money involved. One of the attorneys I went to when I was going through my mess told me that "she will attempt to use your child as a pawn, a sword, and a shield". he was absolutely correct
 
The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her. :smh:
I used to be a child support officer waaaaaay back in the day. I used to advise men to

1) Don't say shit about increase in pay or new job
2) Get Joint Custody by any means necessary
3) NO MONEY OUTSIDE OF WHAT'S ORDERED
4) KEEP EVERY FREAKING PAYMENT RECEIPT
5) STAY THE FUCK OFF SOCIAL MEDIA BECAUSE THEY WILL GO SEE WHAT YOU ARE DOING. IF YOU MENTION A NEW JOB THEY WILL RAISE THE RATES AND WOMEN ARE SPITEFUL ABD WILL LIGHT YOUR ASS UP IF THEY SEE YOU WITH A NEW BROAD.

I really learned how stupid some of us can be working there :smh:
 
Back in the day my sons mom put me on child support but had them take me off it 2 months later.
For some reason she was having fears of being crippled.
 
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