Child support is not a joke
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They won’t change or reform it because it makes too much money for states
It’s a crying shame and actually illegal of you look at state statutes
It’s a crying shame and actually illegal of you look at state statutes
The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her.
Lol get a lawyer dumbdumb!
Who’s gonna pay for it?
The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her.
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Facts. Your gonna have to fight it in court which is a whole big situation
But he shouldn't have TOLD HER!
Who does that?
I've switched jobs and gotten an increase in pay. Didnt even bring it up.The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her.
The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her.
This doesn't sound right. In California, you can get support recalculated if your pay decreases and your custody percentage remains the same.
No reason to get married or have kids in this shitty country lol I feel sorry for the suckers.
This was in Ga.
I'm seeing that they can be recalculated in Georgia. It can take up to 6 months which is a very long time, but the clock starts when you file, so he can be credited the difference.
In NY, you would have to request a modification hearing/review. Also, you have to request that the garnishment is stopped upon your child turning 21. It doesn't halt automatically. It took me 6+ months of weekly calls to finally get them to stop taking $.
U can get a good lawyer for under 3k in a family court matter, they also except payment plans...
Lol yeah right, that shit ain't going to work...
My friend it doesn't work like that. Trust me, Whoever had primary custody is going to get the support payments... My brother has his daughter every weekend and still pays 1300 month.
Playing house,you're going to pay whether you're in the house or outside of the house.
It'll make a lot of men think before they start playing house,for most their middle age and just trying to work,have something but you can't forget about the babies.
I have several family that have went through this and it ends with the same results....YOU'RE GOING TO PAY NO MATTER WHAT but you can make it easier on yourself if you hire a lawyer,even if you can't afford it and have that lawyer go in there and clean up that mess.But before you even start that,first lose the attitude,anger or whatever issues you have and go in there with real things that you can keep up and do like visiting the child/children on one weekend a month instead of walking in there demanding shit you won't have time to do and that way she or the courts won't use that against you.
If the mother is getting any type of welfare,that's who you owe and they can only take but so much from you cause you didn't sign up for that shit,the bulk of that bill will fall on her.
Stop making babys or work the rest of your life just to feed the family.Don't be like another family member of mines that's 60+broke,can't get a license cause of support,don't have a bank account,is scared cause they could arrest him for back child support,working under the table or odd backbreaking jobs just to make ends meet and has a lot of fucking bad habits he can't shake cause his bad choices.....
It'll make a lot of men think before they start playing house,for most their middle age and just trying to work,have something but you can't forget about the babies.
I have several family that have went through this and it ends with the same results....YOU'RE GOING TO PAY NO MATTER WHAT but you can make it easier on yourself if you hire a lawyer,even if you can't afford it and have that lawyer go in there and clean up that mess.But before you even start that,first lose the attitude,anger or whatever issues you have and go in there with real things that you can keep up and do like visiting the child/children on one weekend a month instead of walking in there demanding shit you won't have time to do and that way she or the courts won't use that against you.
If the mother is getting any type of welfare,that's who you owe and they can only take but so much from you cause you didn't sign up for that shit,the bulk of that bill will fall on her.
Stop making babys or work the rest of your life just to feed the family.Don't be like another family member of mines that's 60+broke,can't get a license cause of support,don't have a bank account,is scared cause they could arrest him for back child support,working under the table or odd backbreaking jobs just to make ends meet and has a lot of fucking bad habits he can't shake cause his bad choices.....
Stop crying online and make better life choices.
He gotta hustle and make more money. The game is the game. We have too much knowledge about child support for dudes to still be crying over it.
You're gonna get fucked over. You'll never win. She's gonna use the money to take care of her (or a new dude) as well. Also the judge don't care if you, as the man, can't afford to live.
You're gonna get fucked over. You'll never win. She's gonna use the money to take care of her (or a new dude) as well. Also the judge don't care if you, as the man, can't afford to live.
One thing I can't stand is a men crying about child support. We know it's unfair and we as men will always get fucked. It's a cycle that will never change. It's almost like getting mad because the sky is blue and the grass is green. Is it unfair, 100%. But it ain't ever gonna change lol.
Some dudes need to make better choices with their baby mamas. Also some dudes just need to step up sometimes a lot of baby mamas would not put child support on you if you do right by them and the baby, but as soon as something goes left, that’s it is done. I know back in the days I could have been caught up in a lot of shit with some of the women I dated. I actually broke up relationships because I didn’t want any kids at the time.
Must be different in each state. But bro should not be paying that much for what he makes. He should go get it readjusted. They will do that here, just not multiple times if you keep changing up incomes. Also, there is no way your guy should have paid more just for a Christmas bonus. He must have been making more salary as well. I myself haven't gone back to have my oldest daughter(20) removed from support. Here if you have kids by the same woman, it's all one case. When the child turns 18 and isn't going to college, it still doesn't automatically come off. You have to actually go to court. And I make so much more than I did when support was set for her, it would go up anyways just for my 11 year old. Shits a dirty game.The part that pisses me off is when you get a raise, they'll increase it. If you get a cut in pay, they won't decrease it, and they'll tell you to get a 2nd job. It happened to 2 guys a I know. One dude got his shit increased after his BM told the folks that he got a sizeable Xmas bonus. Don't know why he felt the need to mention that shit to her.
He said they added that bonus to his "yearly salary".
Bruh, you see how much he's bringing home.....?
$3K for him might as well be $10K for the average mfkr
My baby moms owns a gang of property and businesses, yet still has me paying child support. All because I didn't wanna be with her and left cause she's a bitch. Women will have you paying money no matter how good of a father you are. I got my kids every weekend and still do. I even got her other kid that wasnt my daughter just because she would cry when I came to get my kids. Dad wasn't in her life. You think the bitch respected that? Only thing you're right about is men need to make better decisions with who they have kids with. Unfortunately, there are way more trifling women than good women in this world.
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I would have argued that the bonus may not come every year. Just sounds crazy to me.
A bonus is not guaranteed income.....
They fluctuate each year......
Should've made him pay a one off bonus payment at most.....
Because now they can recalculate his yearly income and next year's payments will increase
I agree, but he should've just kept his damn mouth shut. I'm assuming he told her about it, because how else could she have found out?
Yep, this is why I say you have to be careful on who you have a baby with because the trifling bullshit. You could easily spot once you get past the big ass. Trust me I have plenty of close calls when I was younger. There was one or two women that I wish I did had children from because they was sweet and nice but you know you know.
I've told this story before, but my cousin was working for a temp agency. The CS folks raped his first check, and the temp agency advised him to quit, because, in their words, "If this is what they're going to be taking from you, you're going to be working for free, and we don't want you to do that."
Too bad fucking has consequences...., but she did have a nice ass, though.
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