Child support goes from $276 to $660 after job loss

this system is ridiculously fucked up. unfortunately, for all of us fathers, we'll have to pay something. its just an inevitable fact. now as a good father i dont mind having to pay to take care of my children. after all, its not their fault they're in this world and above all else, they're just kids!!

but i think the real question is, what can we do specifically to ensure that we get a fair deal when it comes to child support amounts? yea sure everyone says just get a lawyer or whatever. but that in itself is expensive and then you pretty much leave everything in their hands. i'm about action. i like to be hands on with my problems so i know everything is being done correctly. but like someone else posted earlier, i refuse to just roll over and let the courts and some greedy bitch dictate what the hell i'm going to pay while i go home to some drafty shack and cans of beans and rice as my main staple of life. so gentleman i ask again....what can we do??

the courts simply dont care...the only way this will change is if white men get up in arms about it...but its partly their fault for letting the feminist movement get outta hand
 
this system is ridiculously fucked up. unfortunately, for all of us fathers, we'll have to pay something. its just an inevitable fact. now as a good father i dont mind having to pay to take care of my children. after all, its not their fault they're in this world and above all else, they're just kids!!

but i think the real question is, what can we do specifically to ensure that we get a fair deal when it comes to child support amounts? yea sure everyone says just get a lawyer or whatever. but that in itself is expensive and then you pretty much leave everything in their hands. i'm about action. i like to be hands on with my problems so i know everything is being done correctly. but like someone else posted earlier, i refuse to just roll over and let the courts and some greedy bitch dictate what the hell i'm going to pay while i go home to some drafty shack and cans of beans and rice as my main staple of life. so gentleman i ask again....what can we do??
I think as men we need to come together and at least start protesting some of this bullshit. I hear rumblings of a mens right's movement but i have not seen much in the way of action.:smh:
 
that's some crazy shit. i got a partna now that's been laid off & lost his car & his home. dude has been going from one temp job to the next, from one shelter to another. by the time he finds a new gig, he's back on their (child support) radar.
ol' boy gotten so far behind that within a week of employment, sheriffs have came, & locked his ass up, now he's out of a job again. the cycle continues

DAMN THAT IS SAD ITS LIKE HE CANT WIN FOR LOSING, I WONDERED HOW IN THESE STRUGGLING TIMES HOW SOME MEN CAN CONTINUE TO PAY THE CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE LAID OFF FOR NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN, AND THEY THINK LOCKING HIM UP IS GONNA MAKE THE SITUATION ANY BETTER, DAMN SHAME,
 
It's called the "Expectation of Income." If you are earning a certain amount of income based on your education and jobs experience when the child support order is filed; the child support amount expected with rarely go down.

This article only affects those who are LOCKED into child support payments before of a previous order.

If you are currently involved in a child support proceeding - You can avoid the "Expectation of Income" by filing for a exemptions based on your financial disclosure form.

It's not about the court caring or not - It's about invoking your rights.
 
I think as men we need to come together and at least start protesting some of this bullshit. I hear rumblings of a mens right's movement but i have not seen much in the way of action.:smh:

Seems to me more Ninjas are accepting of this sytem and figure it's part of life and roll over...
 
I think as men we need to come together and at least start protesting some of this bullshit. I hear rumblings of a mens right's movement but i have not seen much in the way of action.:smh:

Most men do not complain. Most men don't share the pain of their problems because they thinks it's just their own.

I complained. I shared my pain. Now the city of NYC pays me a good sum of money for their incorrect actions and I have custody of my kids.

Invoke your rights and send letters to your reps and follow up.
 
fuk ur ****** asshole

this system is ridiculously fucked up. unfortunately, for all of us fathers, we'll have to pay something. its just an inevitable fact. now as a good father i dont mind having to pay to take care of my children. after all, its not their fault they're in this world and above all else, they're just kids!!

but i think the real question is, what can we do specifically to ensure that we get a fair deal when it comes to child support amounts? yea sure everyone says just get a lawyer or whatever. but that in itself is expensive and then you pretty much leave everything in their hands. i'm about action. i like to be hands on with my problems so i know everything is being done correctly. but like someone else posted earlier, i refuse to just roll over and let the courts and some greedy bitch dictate what the hell i'm going to pay while i go home to some drafty shack and cans of beans and rice as my main staple of life. so gentleman i ask again....what can we do??
Cosign the system is fucked up. What we can do write to our new president Obama .
 
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I think as men we need to come together and at least start protesting some of this bullshit. I hear rumblings of a mens right's movement but i have not seen much in the way of action.:smh:

First off - You have to understand the court system first. Most NON-CUSTODIAL parents have many different options when they first went to family court regarding child support.

If they left the financial disclosure form (federal provision) blank - They basically told the court - I am ok with PAYING whatever you want me to pay.

If a non-custodial parent failed to vacate a default order of child support - 30 days after the order was issued - They basically told the court - I am ok with PAYING whatever you want me to pay.

If a they left did not filed for a downward modification after 7 business days of their job termination/layoff - They basically told the court - I am cool with paying that old amount.

I was a family court advocate for low income families for years and I went through the system myself - 75% of the time - Ppl just did not read and did whatever the fuck they wanted and then get upset later on when it bites them in the ass.

The family court system DOES need to change and there are plenty of "movements" and groups working on it. You have to construct a solid argument with proof of real cases of ppl's rights being violated to get things to change.

Invoke your rights!
 
Many of those who are not caught up in this Bullshit can Never understand

tebriel69 we'll have to pay something. its just an inevitable fact.

what can we do specifically to ensure that we get a fair deal when it comes to child support amounts?

You can Never get a Fair Deal from The Child Support Courts

And Something will happen to this crap in the next few years

SomeBody, Like the person in that Newspaper is going to start to get a LOT of attention. This will hit the MSM and they will make it a big deal till something happens.

So many people know its wrong.
My Mother was on a cruise last year talking to another vacationer ( white woman ) and when they got around to talking about their sons, The white woman got into a rant about how the Family courts was after her son and he was trying his best etc. Soon, most everyone in the lounge got into it and starting telling their story's.

So, Don't think no one knows, it just has not hit the media big yet, But the wrong person will get jerked and it will go large.
( well, I hope so )

Maybe the economic downturn will help bring this out into the open.

'Cause this is really a drag on everyone
And by Everyone, I really mean everyone, not just the Mother, Father and the kids. This hurts the Grandparents, aunts, uncles, Everyone.
This hurts someone with the next big world changing idea. Cause they can not move forward with this monkey on their back.
 
Many of those who are not caught up in this Bullshit can Never understand



You can Never get a Fair Deal from The Child Support Courts

And Something will happen to this crap in the next few years

SomeBody, Like the person in that Newspaper is going to start to get a LOT of attention. This will hit the MSM and they will make it a big deal till something happens.

So many people know its wrong.
My Mother was on a cruise last year talking to another vacationer ( white woman ) and when they got around to talking about their sons, The white woman got into a rant about how the Family courts was after her son and he was trying his best etc. Soon, most everyone in the lounge got into it and starting telling their story's.

So, Don't think no one knows, it just has not hit the media big yet, But the wrong person will get jerked and it will go large.
( well, I hope so )

Maybe the economic downturn will help bring this out into the open.

'Cause this is really a drag on everyone
And by Everyone, I really mean everyone, not just the Mother, Father and the kids. This hurts the Grandparents, aunts, uncles, Everyone.
This hurts someone with the next big world changing idea. Cause they can not move forward with this monkey on their back.

amen!!:yes::yes:
 
If I recall, marriage aint got shit to do with it...All I can say is strap up and watch who you fuck...........also, a weird thing about the recession is, less people are getting divorced and tryna make shit work......I guess thats good and bad depending how u look at it

I wonder how many are just not getting a divorce but are still breaking up.
 
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When you have the family courts fucking shit so badly, yeah, it do

Its well known how unfair the family courts are to most well informed men, so bad, they are refusing to get married, have kids, or just get a women from another country and build a family from there

Texas last year collected 2 billion.......and thats with a B, in child support, and most of that came from low income men, men working menial jobs, unmarried and such

Informed men are wising up to the scam, and have been for a long time

How are you going to pay $300 for child support, but the woman gets only $80?

The state is the pimp, the woman is the ho, and the, whose paying is the john, and women just keep falling for the prostitute role, only to get pennies out of it

Uh no. The state takes NO money from child support unless the bitch was on Welfare, then they take what she got from Welfare. That is fair. There is no "profit" turned on child support.

First off - You have to understand the court system first. Most NON-CUSTODIAL parents have many different options when they first went to family court regarding child support.

If they left the financial disclosure form (federal provision) blank - They basically told the court - I am ok with PAYING whatever you want me to pay.

If a non-custodial parent failed to vacate a default order of child support - 30 days after the order was issued - They basically told the court - I am ok with PAYING whatever you want me to pay.

If a they left did not filed for a downward modification after 7 business days of their job termination/layoff - They basically told the court - I am cool with paying that old amount.

I was a family court advocate for low income families for years and I went through the system myself - 75% of the time - Ppl just did not read and did whatever the fuck they wanted and then get upset later on when it bites them in the ass.

The family court system DOES need to change and there are plenty of "movements" and groups working on it. You have to construct a solid argument with proof of real cases of ppl's rights being violated to get things to change.

Invoke your rights!

Soulja Boy Tell Em.
 
Based on what he's capable of making

1. Boeing gets an order for 50 737 airplanes with bonuses for everyone if finished before a certain date. Goto court after near the end of that and the family courts will say Pay so much, Afterward orders are slow and you are making nowhere near what you was. The courts say you were making 3K a week, PAY or lose the privilege to drive

2. Colt firearms: You have been making M16's & bullets for the past 6 years, the war have been good to you. You have been working 70 hours a week for the past six years. The war ends ! Colt says we can no longer keep so many people. Now you are at Burger King, The courts say you were making 2K a week, PAY or goto Jail

3. Your company is getting an inspection in six months.( This Inspection comes once every four years ) So, Unlimited Overtime to all. For six months you put in 70 hours a week. Goto court afterward, even almost a year later ! 'Cause they want to see last year's Tax return plus your latest payslip. Your support payment will be based on the highest amount. Sorry !

Life is a Wave. There is NO WAY to say that you will ALWAYs be riding High !.
One year you can be Way up and the next year you can be down. A few years later You can be back on top again.

But with Child Support, When you slip even a little. It becomes a monkey on your back that does it's VERY best to hold you down.
 
Many of those who are not caught up in this Bullshit can Never understand



You can Never get a Fair Deal from The Child Support Courts

And Something will happen to this crap in the next few years

SomeBody, Like the person in that Newspaper is going to start to get a LOT of attention. This will hit the MSM and they will make it a big deal till something happens.

So many people know its wrong.
My Mother was on a cruise last year talking to another vacationer ( white woman ) and when they got around to talking about their sons, The white woman got into a rant about how the Family courts was after her son and he was trying his best etc. Soon, most everyone in the lounge got into it and starting telling their story's.

So, Don't think no one knows, it just has not hit the media big yet, But the wrong person will get jerked and it will go large.
( well, I hope so )

Maybe the economic downturn will help bring this out into the open.

'Cause this is really a drag on everyone
And by Everyone, I really mean everyone, not just the Mother, Father and the kids. This hurts the Grandparents, aunts, uncles, Everyone.
This hurts someone with the next big world changing idea. Cause they can not move forward with this monkey on their back.

PREACH.
 
First off - You have to understand the court system first. Most NON-CUSTODIAL parents have many different options when they first went to family court regarding child support.

If they left the financial disclosure form (federal provision) blank - They basically told the court - I am ok with PAYING whatever you want me to pay.

If a non-custodial parent failed to vacate a default order of child support - 30 days after the order was issued - They basically told the court - I am ok with PAYING whatever you want me to pay.

If a they left did not filed for a downward modification after 7 business days of their job termination/layoff - They basically told the court - I am cool with paying that old amount.

I was a family court advocate for low income families for years and I went through the system myself - 75% of the time - Ppl just did not read and did whatever the fuck they wanted and then get upset later on when it bites them in the ass.

The family court system DOES need to change and there are plenty of "movements" and groups working on it. You have to construct a solid argument with proof of real cases of ppl's rights being violated to get things to change.

Invoke your rights!

BULLSHIT CHILD SUPPORT SYSTEM DONT CARE ABOUT THE NON CUSTODIAL parent PERIOD! THE JUDGES DONT WANT TO HEAR NONE OF THAT SHIT.
 
Uh no. The state takes NO money from child support unless the bitch was on Welfare, then they take what she got from Welfare. That is fair. There is no "profit" turned on child support.



Soulja Boy Tell Em.
CHILD SUPPORT DOES MAKE A profit.
 
that's some crazy shit. i got a partna now that's been laid off & lost his car & his home. dude has been going from one temp job to the next, from one shelter to another. by the time he finds a new gig, he's back on their (child support) radar.
ol' boy gotten so far behind that within a week of employment, sheriffs have came, & locked his ass up, now he's out of a job again. the cycle continues

this the type of shit make a nigga cry. i'd seriously consider killing my bm if this happened to me.
 
Damn child support is fucked in the USA... I know in Canada you pay a percentage of what you make... for instance I am in Ontario and because I make between 45,000-60,000 I would pay only 416 a month for my ONE child... luckily I am the one with her and I did not sleep with some random whore so we never had all them types of issues...

Check the link to see what I am talking about... click the province and then go from there... http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/sup-pen/grl/pdftab.htm

 
This is why its important to vote... A lot of these crazy judges get voted in year after year..

This man caught a raw deal... :smh:
 
The state charges to collect payment and process it.

No it doesn't. The state doesn't even TAKE the money out. The COMPANY he works for does. THEY can charge up to 5 dollars to take it out. The state don't charge SHIT. If your company is telling you that, they are lying. This is what I mean by niggas being uneducated on the process.
 
Child Support don't play! I'm 26 now and my mom never saw one red cent from my dad after they divorced when I was three. After I turned 18 I guess that nigga though he was off the hook but somehow Child Support caught up with his ass and since I was about 24 my Mom's been getting back-pay checks on the regular... about $300, $400 a month lol!

see even though your dad is a fuck up this is the type of shit that is wrong...
yes your dad fucked up but why should your mother get paid for raising her own child???
I'm not sure of the circumstances but answer that question please.
 
I really despise the current way that child support is structured


anyways...for historical and cultural contrast take a look at the wanted list for the state of Louisiana I immediately noticed that the blacks are wanted for considerably lower amounts and there is a woman who owes almost a
100 thousand!!!
paste this after www---> dss.state.la.us/departments/ofs/LA_Most_Wanted_Pictures.html#Most_Wanted_A-B

tried my best not to link that damned state of la to this board
 
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this topic gives me hard feelings toward women. to the point where i feel ZERO sympathy for their asses when something happens to them..the courts and the police usually act on their behalf no questions asked. I pay child support too for my daughter. but, at least i can say i have been on my payments for yrs, and my situation is stable.
 
First of all i feel your plight. I am in a similiar situation but God has blessed me with the ability to pay my support. Documented by the GA Dept of HR. they take 1400 every two weeks and i am a little angry. I do not mind and will do my best to continue to meet the payments.( actually got reimbursed for overpaying) I just hate the fact that I pay 1400 dollars to a woman with a great job and good job security. I am leaving my job in February because \I was hit for the 5th time by and IED along the main supply route in the zone. The system had to come to this because there are so many dead beat dads. but this guy is getting the shaft. but I hope he is not to proud to take a job less than what he is used too. i take pride in knowing my kids are ok
 
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