I TOTALLY respect that. I can't complain about my situation though. I'm good here.
Child support ain't no joke...
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Look you sound kind of young, so all I can say is be smart, and try fucking women who was raised by proper family structure and has family values..
My wife has 7 sisters and who are all married and non of them got divorced.. Well actually one, who husband died and she is getting married next month..
But then again she is Trini and their values where she's from is different from here...
If you got a good woman, thank your lucky stars and appreciate the little bullshit you have to go through keeping her, trust me there are a whole lot of worse things in life you could be going through...
And there is nothing wrong with being a real man, to a real woman!
I'll be 38 in July
So many of us have no idea of what parenting is about. If we embraced our duty and responsibility to our children as parents, there would be less need to have the courts intervene. Our children must be born out of love. If it wasn't planned between the two parties involved, it can only be a mistake once. Anything more than that is irresponsible.
The fact that she puts up with my silly ass makes her a good woman!
We both started with nothing, and built this together. Love is not what's keeping us together. We genuinely LIKE each other. That's the MOST overlooked thing in a relationship. Loving someone doesn't mean you want to be around them.
Bruh, that ain't sheeeeeit, I feel no sorrow for that little bit of money. Yeah, fuck him
This is true, because today I see so many young males with such low self-esteem that they try to make up for it with sex.. And like you said the first woman who lets the fuck them raw or bust in their mouth they catch real feelings, many times these guys want to get her knocked up so they can have a hold on to that pussy..
But as soon as they realize it was a trap, they want out of the shit..
This is why I say simping is at an all time high and turning men into simps and fags will only destroy us even more as a people..
You should really wait till you grow up and start getting pussy, before you comment.
This could go down with any type of bitch. Bums or otherwise.
It's Saturday and Imma take the bait .....it's 2017 we are atleast three generations in when it comes to this system and white supremacy that you use as a way to dodge the bigger issue;Self responsibility which is something that we need to take a hold of that again because we have a whole generation of black men who refuse to take part in it until it's too late and things are set in concrete but that's another topic for another thread.
Simple put to answer your question....It takes 9 months for a baby to be born ,you if your a male you are dating the female for a year or two before she becomes pregnant with your child.Now you have 360 days to determined if a female is worthy of reproducing a child with and if she isn't for whatever reason now you have 360 days to evacuate,pullout,run like Day-Day and the option to never speak or see that female every again shall you live on this earth.
But if that's not the case,you were raw- dogging it and she's doesn't know what birth control is or what it looks like and become pregnant with a child that you know is yours and the relationship between you and her is as rocky as the rocky mountains,well you have two options take it to court or have the courts take it to you;you will have a much better chance taking it to court,where you can gain your parental rights while providing for that child,we know this now thanks to the crash-dummies before us but if she takes you to child support because you weren't being pro-active enough,dragging your feet,or out of spite you are at the mercy of WHITE SUPREMACY,BABY MOMMA,THE SYSTEM,CHILD SUPPORT or whatever else you want to call it.IN THE END YOU ARE GOING TO PAY,EITHER WAY......NOW AS AN ADULT YOU ARE FULLY AWARE OF THIS THING GOES,YOU'VE EXPERIENCED THIS,JUST MAKE SURE IT'S SOMETHING YOU DO NOT WANT TO REPEAT OR YOU ARE AT THE MERCY OF THE SYSTEM THE FURTHER YOU GO AND THE MORE YOU REPEAT THIS.
"(Condoms is a lot) cheaper than keeping her" as Johnnie Taylor used to sing and after he passed children were coming out the cracks fighting for a piece of the pie but their daddy blew most of it getting high sadly.
People never give themselves time to learn the person they are with. Seriously, the first 2 to 5 first of meeting a person, you're not going to know them. You're really not going to know them until you move in with them.
The fact that she puts up with my silly ass makes her a good woman!
Truth.
Love and hate roll together like cold and ice.
Liking someone determines if you can tolerate their flaws or not.
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That nigga sorry.
DIZZZAAM!!!! 40K A year?!! You better start rappin' again!! Look at what happened to Ice JJ Fish!!
First of all, you are committing the fallacy many young people fall into that is assuming that if the man is paying child support its due to some mistake he made or his lack of responsibility in his part..
Now I do acknowledge that simps are at an all time high, these days, so yes in many cases it can be the dumb ass male fault..
But anyone who knows me and heard me talk knows I have very little sympathy for simps...
My issue is that the system is also there to destroy good responsible men, many of them who get caught up in a good girl gone bad, or a situation where their woman gives in to the me first, selfishness that is poisoning many of our minds..
In this case your dream family can be used as a weapon of your own destruction..
For most black men, the choice in life has been to roll the dice hoping this never happens to them, as I explained before, self castration by deciding to become a grass eating non fucking guy, or simply to become gay...
I guess the later two you would deem being responsible, but for real men who actually love pussy, these are not real options...
Any woman who chooses to have a kid by a man who tells you strait out, he does not want to be in his life...
Is a super retarded, loser who does not give a fuck about her child (Everybody knows that a child without its father in his life is at a great disadvantage, so why subject your kids to those statistical probabilities)..
Punishing a man for his poor decisions is a lot different from punishing your child at the same time.. But of course these women are quick to say, they can raise the child by themself with out a man, but if the child turns out fucked up, its all of a sudden society fault, the piece of shit father fault, the school system fault, the white man fault, everybody under the blue moon fault except her failing to listen to the numbers that warned her not to have that child without a father...
That is not true, it's not out of the norm for men to get custody and the woman pay child support these days.
got a problem with my situation? Oh I get it.. you're under the unsumption that everyone makes 32k a year like you. Lol
I never said it was impossible for men to get coustody but I will say that its not the norm, nor does the court system usually follow the intent of the law rewarding coustidy to the best fit parent or joint custody when they are both capable..
Here is Judge Judy talking about the issue..
But I suspect most wont even look at this video, because its so much easier to remain blissfully ignorant to the fact, barking the same old dumb shit over and over again...
This is the underlining problem to this whole mess..
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No, that seems a bit extreme. Btw, that's assumption.
Misleading and attention whoring.Dudes gotta get a second job...or stop going in raw.... 4 support payments.....Damn!
Full-time biweekly salaried employees are generally paid 80 hours each payday. He has a second before the month ends without any child support coming out.
Thats like saying I smoke crack and never got addicted...
Look I never saw the inside of a family court and I raised my only child, by myself until she was 13, with no child support, or any court ruling...
I was really smart and had a woman who wanted what was best for her.. And when she took over I also did it in my daughter's best interest..
But just because I dodged a bullet doesn't stop me from fighting for the rights of other children..
Because at the end of the day, this system destroys black children and black children, not just your own children are all of our future...
Doh!
I believe some states do.
Welp my friend, raised 4 productive children to adulthood with these two women, no drama, no child support and no court intervention.....
I think they mostly do that for state-sponsored women. It seems to be hard as fuck for a woman who isn't on assistance to get support enforced. Lawyers cost money. Then if she is working she has to take off time for court. All to find out he didn't show up and she has to come back.
The government is the one locking people up and taking their licenses in order to get their money back.
If a guy just switches jobs once he looks at his check and is like 
, it's on the woman to hire a lawyer and try to track him down. Government has it's own resources to get its bread back. What's funny is that two people can be broke but the government only criminalizes one of them.
I love hearing good stories like this, and deep in my heart I wish all black children could be as lucky as your kids, and I swear I will not stop until at least most of them have great parents.. To me its the only way we will survive the next 100 years...
