With a wife there are no warning signs, you know how many kats married women who had a good job, looked good, and seem to have ambition.. Then two kids later they are fat, bad attitude, don't want to fuck, don't keep themselves up especially knowing she has the system there as a safety net as soon as you fuck up..
Man I avoided shit like that all my life, and thank god I never had to go through that shit, but over the years I have see many of my boys fucked in that situation..
Shit is real and I know plenty of squares strung out of booze or drugs because of feeling trapped by the system..
If you avoided it, big up to you, but respect the brothers who are quietly struggling by this fucked up system and note we are not going to rise until the system is destroyed!!!