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Can anyone answer this question?

Most of the responses in this thread are by the male BGOL members.

If you wanted a female oriented board that isn't overrun by male boardmembers and with active female participation, then you are SOL.
 
Not sure if this was said before, but I really remember the female bashing on this side of the board start to happen when femme became less and less active with her posting...it was like the men were just lurking until there was an opening, and then...BAM!

Also, it tends to be the same women sticking up for each other and posting over here, so there is only so much those four or five women can do in terms of "holding up" (i.e., coming back at them, etc.) to all the animosity that comes from some of the bashers...
 
LoneStar29 said:
:hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm:I'm not even gonna bother with you ... PERIOD ... in this thread or any other ... I don't care if anybody else thinks you're nice or whatever ... personally ... I dislike you THE MOST out of any other person on BGOL ... this type of assumptive bullshit that you're posting here is what is going to make me go back to that emotional poster I was a couple weeks ago ... but I will not ... I'm gonna be cool ... and leave this thread ... actually log off of BGOL completely ... and come back when I have calmed down with a cooler head and address the people I care to have mature discussions with
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Woah sis Dale is not a bad person I don't overstand the negativity towards him. :confused::confused:
 
bigirl said:
and furthermore I have not replied here before this becuase many of the afformentioned people have come in this thread doing the same thing in "subtle" or not so subtle ways.


some of you know exactly what you are doing and don't think I ain't hip :hmm:
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Stop beating around the fucking bush. You never hold your tongue before, why are you all shy and coy now?? "They know who they are..;);)" SAY NAMES.

[flash]http://youtube.com/v/vucPGTAQvGI[/flash]

And then back it up. WITH QUOTES

[flash]http://youtube.com/v/qTxMJCxptwU[/flash]
 
LeroyDibiase said:
Stop beating around the fucking bush. You never hold your tongue before, why are you all shy and coy now?? "They know who they are..;);)" SAY NAMES.

[flash]http://youtube.com/v/vucPGTAQvGI[/flash]

And then back it up. WITH QUOTES

[flash]http://youtube.com/v/qTxMJCxptwU[/flash]
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I ain't even trying to do all that work. Its fucking obvious. Just click any thread on the first 2 pages of the board :smh:
 
LeroyDibiase said:
AKA Lemme throw shit against the wall and see what sticks.
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you are just being the troublemaking scunt that you love to be. you know damn well its true. when i feel like c&ping all those plethora of quotes it will take up an entire page for the one post and hurt your eyes too. anyway this thread is for the ladies so run along now....
 
bigirl said:
you are just being the troublemaking scunt that you love to be. you know damn well its true. when i feel like c&ping all those plethora of quotes it will take up an entire page for the one post and hurt your eyes too. anyway this thread is for the ladies so run along now....
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There you go with the names, you never learn. First off, AIN'T SHIT for the ladies. This is your first post.

bigirl said:
How and why is it that the woman haters seem to have taken over this forum too? Can anyone answer this? How did this happen? Why is it allowed to continue? Anyone?
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I don't see nothing in this motherfucker that says ladies only. Matter of fact, it says ANYONE. All I'm saying is that if you're gonna throw around an argument like that YOU need to back it up with proof. And since you don't have any, I'm gonna say you're full of it.
 
bigirl said:
How and why is it that the woman haters seem to have taken over this forum too? Can anyone answer this? How did this happen? Why is it allowed to continue? Anyone?
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man you must be a newbie, the woman hatin on here is obnoxious, even though I would regulate it too a few...

you should see the way they dogged mouse, here is a cute little honey willing to represent, and ninjas hatin because she wont

be there personal fantasy or something, they just cant give props and keep it movin..

but I really think its just a few........ and it gets checked but mostly ignored because its not worth the time
 
Mrfreddygoodbud said:
man you must be a newbie, the woman hatin on here is obnoxious, even though I would regulate it too a few...

you should see the way they dogged mouse, here is a cute little honey willing to represent, and ninjas hatin because she wont

be there personal fantasy or something, they just cant give props and keep it movin..

but I really think its just a few........ and it gets checked but mostly ignored because its not worth the time
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this is SOL not BGOL :hmm:
 
LoneStar29 said:
No disrespect to you 3 ladies but like I already said I don't care who likes him or not on here ... personally I think he's a jerk:hmm:
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Offtopic. Lonestar, I applaude you for how you have been handling things recently. I have seen a change in how you react and handle different things that are being said to you on here,especially when they are disrespectful.I am trying to change that myself but I realize it is very hard and it will take time. Just know you are appreciated sis, regardless of what goes on;)
 
SEXY_SCORPIO said:
Offtopic. Lonestar, I applaude you for how you have been handling things recently. I have seen a change in how you react and handle different things that are being said to you on here,especially when they are disrespectful.I am trying to change that myself but I realize it is very hard and it will take time. Just know you are appreciated sis, regardless of what goes on;)
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:)You made my day ... thank you:)
 
Below is the worst woman hating thread I've ever read on BGOL ... every motherly issue having girl hating little boy hit up this thread ... this is also where a few of my words became misinterpreted and I was ATTACKED like I'd never been before(only one man on there understood what I was saying and expressed that to me kindly) ... that thread is also the reason why I started the "Ladies how do you ..." thread(which may have started off this whole war of the sexes we've been having on SOL lately)... and with the helpful tips and hints I received in there I have learned to cool out cuz some people(no matter how beloved they may be by others)will jump at the first chance to belittle another ... some people are blunt about it and others mask it with this whole "reasoned criticism" bullshit:hmm:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=243063
 
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LoneStar29 said:
Below is the worst woman hating thread I've ever read on BGOL ... every motherly issue having girl hating little boy hit up this thread ... this is also where a few of my words became misinterpreted and I was ATTACKED like I'd never been before(only one man on there understood what I was saying and expressed that to me kindly) ... that thread is also the reason why I started the "Ladies how do you ..." thread(which may have started off this whole war of the sexes we've been having on SOL lately)... and with the helpful tips and hints I received in there I have learned to cool out cuz some people(no matter how beloved they may be by others)will jump at the first chance to belittle another ... some people are blunt about it and others mask it with this whole "reasoned criticism" bullshit:hmm:

http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=243063
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Lonestar, you ever think about reading the thread title before you actually put your .02 cents into it???:confused: You walked right into the lion's den expectin' on them to feed off of milk and not flesh and bones. It clearly marked that it was dealing with women being the problem, and then you go and post about you hatin' your baby's dad and how your son resembles him in some way's you don't particularly care for, and then expect to be embraced? Come on. I've peeped more than a few of your responses and reactions to other's comments and posts...you respond mostly off of pure emotion with no forethought. Just take a look around before you set up shop is all I'm sayin'...
 
femmenoire said:
Most of the responses in this thread are by the male BGOL members.

If you wanted a female oriented board that isn't overrun by male boardmembers and with active female participation, then you are SOL.
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:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

I can't be the only one that sees the irony in that statement by Femme...
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 
OnSlaught said:
Lonestar, you ever think about reading the thread title before you actually put your .02 cents into it???:confused: You walked right into the lion's den expectin' on them to feed off of milk and not flesh and bones. It clearly marked that it was dealing with women being the problem, and then you go and post about you hatin' your baby's dad and how your son resembles him in some way's you don't particularly care for, and then expect to be embraced? Come on. I've peeped more than a few of your responses and reactions to other's comments and posts...you respond mostly off of pure emotion with no forethought. Just take a look around before you set up shop is all I'm sayin'...
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Alright well I guess I set myself up ... however ... how many threads have been started directed to the ladies and you men chime in??? All of them that's how many:rolleyes: So I don't think it was that big of a deal for me to chime into a mens topic:dunno: And regardless of that that doesn't excuse the behaviour of some of those men that out of sheer frusturation with their babymother/wife/mother whoever started taking their anger out on me ... they twisted around my words to suit their attack ... you are saying I respond emotionally without forethough ... but what do you call their reactions to me:confused:Starting any sentence off directed to a woman with the word "bitch" shows their lack of respect for females in general and I'm not going to be made to feel like this is my fault or I deserved it in anyway:smh:
 
LoneStar29 said:
:hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm::hmm:I'm not even gonna bother with you ... PERIOD ... in this thread or any other ... I don't care if anybody else thinks you're nice or whatever ... personally ... I dislike you THE MOST out of any other person on BGOL ... this type of assumptive bullshit that you're posting here is what is going to make me go back to that emotional poster I was a couple weeks ago ... but I will not ... I'm gonna be cool ... and leave this thread ... actually log off of BGOL completely ... and come back when I have calmed down with a cooler head and address the people I care to have mature discussions with
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You are entitled to your opinion. Im not the kind of person that feels bad about not being liked for standing on a principle.

I obviously hit a nerve or hurt your feelings, and sis, that was not my intent. What was my intent is to get you to think about the implication of what you posted in that thread.

Like I said before, I didn't call you out your name or attack your character. What I don't get down with is some of the disrespectful slurs hurled your way in that thread, for the record.

I even told you I hoped I was wrong and that the shoe doesn't fit. But I made (what I felt was) a valid point based on your post, and I can't apologize for being honest or critical.

I can tell you that as a parent (I in fact already said this) I emphathize with your annoyance at someone you don't know making any kind of judgments about how you raise your child, and you seem to be a decent girl. (You've certainly got a nice body for one, LOL.) But as you saw for yourself, a lot of men have issues with being subjected to that kind of dynamic from their moms. I'm sure women who grew up like Jenna Jameson, with a single dad whose inability to not let his feelings for her mom affect his parenting, feel that way too.

So if it fit even just a little, and made you watch yourself a little more carefully so your son isn't given any extra baggage that might slow him down later in life, it was worth you thinking I'm a sum'bitch.

Just off of giving dudes a chance to share their pain about going through that themselves, it was worth it. (Absent the "bitch" stuff, which was a bit far.)

And you have an open invite to have any kind of follow up convo via PM if you choose--hostile or otherwise. If not, thats fine too.
 
DaleMabry said:
You are entitled to your opinion. Im not the kind of person that feels bad about not being liked for standing on a principle.

I obviously hit a nerve or hurt your feelings, and sis, that was not my intent. What was my intent is to get you to think about the implication of what you posted in that thread.

Like I said before, I didn't call you out your name or attack your character. What I don't get down with is some of the disrespectful slurs hurled your way in that thread, for the record.

I even told you I hoped I was wrong and that the shoe doesn't fit. But I made (what I felt was) a valid point based on your post, and I can't apologize for being honest or critical.

I can tell you that as a parent (I in fact already said this) I emphathize with your annoyance at someone you don't know making any kind of judgments about how you raise your child, and you seem to be a decent girl. (You've certainly got a nice body for one, LOL.) But as you saw for yourself, a lot of men have issues with being subjected to that kind of dynamic from their moms. I'm sure women who grew up like Jenna Jameson, with a single dad whose inability to not let his feelings for her mom affect his parenting, feel that way too.

So if it fit even just a little, and made you watch yourself a little more carefully so your son isn't given any extra baggage that might slow him down later in life, it was worth you thinking I'm a sum'bitch.

Just off of giving dudes a chance to share their pain about going through that themselves, it was worth it. (Absent the "bitch" stuff, which was a bit far.)

And you have an open invite to have any kind of follow up convo via PM if you choose--hostile or otherwise. If not, thats fine too.
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No need for a PM since in your original post you already put the whole situation out there anyways:rolleyes:

My problem with you is that no matter how many times I've said "no I didn't mean it like that" or "no you misunderstood" you keep insisting that I do treat my son that way

Yeah you've said "I hope you're not like that" and "if the shoe doesn't fit I apologize" ... but you've also said "it is not fair to burden your child with any undue hostility or bias due to him reflecting his father's nature" and "if it fit even just a little, and made you watch yourself a little more carefully so your son isn't given any extra baggage that might slow him down later in life, it was worth you thinking I'm a sum'bitch":confused::confused::confused: You keep saying you don't mean to insult me but at the same time you insult me:confused::confused::confused: ... at least with those other disrespectful boys calling me a "bitch" and shit I know exactly where I stand with them ... you are giving me mixed signals as far as I'm concerned

If you only knew half of what I go through with my sons dad and all that I have sacrifced to keep my sons father in his life you would eat these words "I see you are still salty about the whole thing, but if that makes you more careful about not letting your unresolved feelings towards your ex influence your relationship with your son, its worth it IMHO":hmm:
 
^^^ For the record, you say you don't do it, then cool.

Dont read follow up posts reviewing the original discussion to mean "oh no I insist, you DO treat the boy that way."

I dont even know you to insist such a thing. All I know is what you posted, you're from T.Dot, and your ass looks great in fishnets.

You're taking the whole thing way too personal. Which is understandable, but there it is.

Anyway.

Squashed? :D
 
I agree with both sides....

First I am a female that comes here and I do more reading and laughing than posting. I agree with Da Don on the fact that yes some people do get offended and take it to heart when some people disagree with them and when you add more than one guy who is "board-loved" it feels like more like an attack than a simple disagreement and that happens all the time.

But I definitely agree with the females that say there is women bashing goinng o n in this forum. No one here can say it isn't. I'm not going to go through post but generally pick a post and you will see it. There is more men than women here and the women have a tendency to get over-talked and pushed aside on there opinions and thats just going to happen on a male-led board.

We don't know each other past our screen names on here but why do you think more females are afraid to post here or post pictures and things like that. From fear of being made fun of and hate for no reason a lot of the times. And then when you have guys who do tag team and lead most of the threads, its hard to go against them.

It's a reality of it happening and its going to happen.
 
DaleMabry said:
^^^ For the record, you say you don't do it, then cool.

Dont read follow up posts reviewing the original discussion to mean "oh no I insist, you DO treat the boy that way."

I dont even know you to insist such a thing. All I know is what you posted, you're from T.Dot, and your ass looks great in fishnets.

You're taking the whole thing way too personal. Which is understandable, but there it is.

Anyway.

Squashed? :D
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I don't think you realize the strength in your words ... I had men quoting your words against me in threads that had nothing to do with that issue ... men calling me a bad mother cuz they read DaleMabry's post against me so it must be true:smh:I can't say I'm cool with it ... but I will move forward from it:hmm:
 
mzmillion said:
I agree with both sides....

First I am a female that comes here and I do more reading and laughing than posting. I agree with Da Don on the fact that yes some people do get offended and take it to heart when some people disagree with them and when you add more than one guy who is "board-loved" it feels like more like an attack than a simple disagreement and that happens all the time.

But I definitely agree with the females that say there is women bashing goinng o n in this forum. No one here can say it isn't. I'm not going to go through post but generally pick a post and you will see it. There is more men than women here and the women have a tendency to get over-talked and pushed aside on there opinions and thats just going to happen on a male-led board.

We don't know each other past our screen names on here but why do you think more females are afraid to post here or post pictures and things like that. From fear of being made fun of and hate for no reason a lot of the times. And then when you have guys who do tag team and lead most of the threads, its hard to go against them.

It's a reality of it happening and its going to happen.
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Thank you for sharing your views:)
 
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mzmillion said:
I agree with both sides....

First I am a female that comes here and I do more reading and laughing than posting. I agree with Da Don on the fact that yes some people do get offended and take it to heart when some people disagree with them and when you add more than one guy who is "board-loved" it feels like more like an attack than a simple disagreement and that happens all the time.

But I definitely agree with the females that say there is women bashing goinng o n in this forum. No one here can say it isn't. I'm not going to go through post but generally pick a post and you will see it. There is more men than women here and the women have a tendency to get over-talked and pushed aside on there opinions and thats just going to happen on a male-led board.

We don't know each other past our screen names on here but why do you think more females are afraid to post here or post pictures and things like that. From fear of being made fun of and hate for no reason a lot of the times. And then when you have guys who do tag team and lead most of the threads, its hard to go against them.

It's a reality of it happening and its going to happen.
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So true.
 
LoneStar29 said:
I don't think you realize the strength in your words ... I had men quoting your words against me in threads that had nothing to do with that issue ... men calling me a bad mother cuz they read DaleMabry's post against me so it must be true:smh:I can't say I'm cool with it ... but I will move forward from it:hmm:
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Hon I can't be responsible for how cats quote or spin what I say. I have absolutely no control over that, its a public forum.

I wasnt rallying some movement to indict your parenting skills, I was commenting on an ongoing discussion as we all often do on the board.

Furthermore I wasnt against you personally per se, I was against the behavior under discussion.

But yes, let's move on amicably, to quote 40 Y/O Virgin. We all learned something here. :D
 


SEXY_SCORPIO said:
Offtopic. Lonestar, I applaude you for how you have been handling things recently. I have seen a change in how you react and handle different things that are being said to you on here,especially when they are disrespectful.I am trying to change that myself but I realize it is very hard and it will take time. Just know you are appreciated sis, regardless of what goes on;)
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LoneStar29 said:
:)You made my day ... thank you:)
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All right ladies!!

Way to have each other's backside!! :yes: See , Lez all be friends! Way to spread the love ladies, how about some more . . . and be generous! Don't hold back!

​
 
LoneStar29 said:
Alright well I guess I set myself up ... however ... how many threads have been started directed to the ladies and you men chime in??? All of them that's how many:rolleyes: So I don't think it was that big of a deal for me to chime into a mens topic:dunno: And regardless of that that doesn't excuse the behaviour of some of those men that out of sheer frusturation with their babymother/wife/mother whoever started taking their anger out on me ... they twisted around my words to suit their attack ... you are saying I respond emotionally without forethough ... but what do you call their reactions to me:confused:Starting any sentence off directed to a woman with the word "bitch" shows their lack of respect for females in general and I'm not going to be made to feel like this is my fault or I deserved it in anyway:smh:
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So how do your actions have anything to deal with another individual's remarks or actions? You can't take responsibility for theirs, so why be concerned? You're the one who has to be concerned about your actions and remarks...you are the one in control of THAT, not anyone else's.

I'm not saying that they weren't out of line, however you want them to take notice of their actions and act somehow different then what they were informed to do, when the thread title specifically said that those actions were allowed. All I'm saying is that the back and forth banter could have been avoided.

Oh, and Yes, you are right that men do give their opinions far too often in threads geared specifically towards women's responses...and you would also be correct in tellin' us men to fuck off if we got off topic and didn't act accordingly as well. You guys just choose (for the most part) to act in a manicured way.
 

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