Black Men.............Stop apologizing for shit you are not responsible for

[Laughing Man]

blackmenvent + boycottblackmen = future fags and dykes of America

So brother speaking about the fuck up state of black america are fags, man kill that fucking noise

You may know some single mother that are dedicated and whatnot, but thats not the majority

About 70% of our black kids come out of wedlock, and nobody finds anything wrong with that?

How do you explain all these dumb females who consentingly make babies by loser ass men, but abdicate all responsibility for making them with such men

Why should a single man, who made it this far without making any mistake want to deal with that, you sound like you on some shaming bullshit, just like these losers who say real men date women with multiple kids out of wedlock

I am sick of people making excuses for this shit, we are going down a downward path, and people still dont seem to get it

Whats it going to take to change?

 

[HarlemPerv]

I fully co-sign this... When they bring up the bad examples... be on the same shit these females say "They ain't talking about me!"

 

[Zero]

So brother speaking about the fuck up state of black america are fags, man kill that fucking noise

You may know some single mother that are dedicated and whatnot, but thats not the majority

About 70% of our black kids come out of wedlock, and nobody finds anything wrong with that?

How do you explain all these dumb females who consentingly make babies by loser ass men, but abdicate all responsibility for making them with such men

Why should a single man, who made it this far without making any mistake want to deal with that, you sound like you on some shaming bullshit, just like these losers who say real men date women with multiple kids out of wedlock

I am sick of people making excuses for this shit, we are going down a downward path, and people still dont seem to get it

Whats it going to take to change?

Like I said bruh, the shit goes both ways.

 

[Theo_Huxtable]

I know too many black women that choose the obviously wrong men to fuck with. I had a female friend that had a choice. Either pick the 26 year old man that has 7 kids by different women that obviously is a no good boy or the young man that works hard for a living with no kids and solid fundamentals and all (no not me)...guess who she's baby momma #8 with.



Men need to be more responsible but ultimately women make the choice and are the ones that have to live with it, not us.​

 

[the flash]

amen

 

[primal]

I ain't gettin' all in to the battle of the sexes . I have heard a brother admit to bein' wrong cause he knows a flaw in thought or ideals doesn't make him a bad person . Just wrong in thought or ideal . Women see they thoughts and ideals as them . So for them to admit they wrong is for them to think they R bad as a person .... I think LAWNMOWERMAN said it better . But to move on and improve women have to admit to there part . Nothing is more equal than that ...............

 

[LSN]

I don't owe anybody any apologies...I don't apologize for the degenerates of my race/gender conversely many of the people listed below don't owe anyone any 'thanks' because there's a good chance that their condition is 'owed' to a Black man (father, husband, brother, uncle, etc.) not being there for them...

*I have yet to see some Black woman--married or single--of wealth, power, publicity or prestige offer an apology to the Black men that they have wronged, stepped on, seduced, or stepped over in their quest to 'discover' themselves, 'empower' themselves, get an 'education' or 'enrich' themselves on their way 'up';

*I have yet to see some of our young Black boys offer an apology to their fathers, uncles, or other elders for not heeding their advice, prayers, or counsel, in their quest to become Rap stars, jailbirds, or high school, or college dropouts;

*I have yet to see some of our young Black girls offer an apology to their fathers, uncles, or other elders for not heeding their advice, prayers, or counsel in their quest to become Hood rats, Rap video zombies, jailbirds, high school, or college drop outs;

*Lastly, I have yet to see some single parents of today offer an apology to their fathers, uncles, other elders, or the community at large for not marrying the father of their children, for not securing an education, nor for taking responsibility for their own households--regardless of their economic lot in life.

 

[blackmouth]

... I bet you think broadfs that get raped asked for it? and if 70% of blackwomen are single or have kids out of wedlock what % of blackmen are single or have kids out of wedlock?

men don't worry about being single or not. and i've NEVER heard ANY man say, "aw fuck, i'm single, with kids, and STILL un-married."

that shit is not male-based.

I don't recall anyone agreeing that black men shouldn't have to take responsibility
If you are a man and you get a girl pregnant and leave her, you are a piece of shit
There is no excuse for that
The problem is BLACK WOMEN are NOT taking ANY responsibility for their actions in procreating with these piece of shit guys
That's all I'm saying

ultimately, men don't get women pregnant. women ALLOW themselves to get pregnant by men.

So brother speaking about the fuck up state of black america are fags, man kill that fucking noise

You may know some single mother that are dedicated and whatnot, but thats not the majority

About 70% of our black kids come out of wedlock, and nobody finds anything wrong with that?

How do you explain all these dumb females who consentingly make babies by loser ass men, but abdicate all responsibility for making them with such men

Why should a single man, who made it this far without making any mistake want to deal with that, you sound like you on some shaming bullshit, just like these losers who say real men date women with multiple kids out of wedlock

I am sick of people making excuses for this shit, we are going down a downward path, and people still dont seem to get it

Whats it going to take to change?

yep. these types of females act like a man just came along, took some pussy (not rape) got her pregnant, and bounced out, and she had NO CONTROL over it... it was TOTALLY his decision and the baby is his fault.

 

[UnoBetter2]

 

[Drayonis]

So brother speaking about the fuck up state of black america are fags, man kill that fucking noise

You may know some single mother that are dedicated and whatnot, but thats not the majority

About 70% of our black kids come out of wedlock, and nobody finds anything wrong with that?

How do you explain all these dumb females who consentingly make babies by loser ass men, but abdicate all responsibility for making them with such men

Why should a single man, who made it this far without making any mistake want to deal with that, you sound like you on some shaming bullshit, just like these losers who say real men date women with multiple kids out of wedlock

I am sick of people making excuses for this shit, we are going down a downward path, and people still dont seem to get it

Whats it going to take to change?

PREACH brother PREACH! You are speaking the abject truth. the women on thedogyears.com message board don't want to hear this truth. They all think it's the mens fault they got pregnant. And even worse they are all depressed because it's next to impossible for a man to want to take them seriously after the fact!

 

[Adam Knows]

PREACH brother PREACH! You are speaking the abject truth. the women on thedogyears.com message board don't want to hear this truth. They all think it's the mens fault they got pregnant. And even worse they are all depressed because it's next to impossible for a man to want to take them seriously after the fact!

MAN WILL YOU GET OFF OF BGOL AND GO ACTIVATE MY ACCOUNT

 

[Pack Rat]

 

[Drayonis]

MAN WILL YOU GET OFF OF BGOL AND GO ACTIVATE MY ACCOUNT

Activated. But be careful with the "hate" on my board. My shit is not BGOL they are way more sensitive over there.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

I don't recall anyone agreeing that black men shouldn't have to take responsibility
If you are a man and you get a girl pregnant and leave her, you are a piece of shit
There is no excuse for that
The problem is BLACK WOMEN are NOT taking ANY responsibility for their actions in procreating with these piece of shit guys
That's all I'm saying

Peace,

I would say that they are, considering the fact that they're left to raise the children. A lot of you cats are too quick to fall into divisive gender wars.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

PREACH brother PREACH! You are speaking the abject truth. the women on thedogyears.com message board don't want to hear this truth. They all think it's the mens fault they got pregnant. And even worse they are all depressed because it's next to impossible for a man to want to take them seriously after the fact!

Peace,

I don't see why it's so difficult for cats to admit that both women and men are responsible for the regrettable decisions that they make. Why are so many of you brothers advocating the "shaming" of black women? Why can't you see that broken families are a blight on poorer black communities and EVERYONE bears responsibility for addressing the issue?

 

[XXXplosive]

Peace,

I would say that they are, considering the fact that they're left to raise the children. A lot of you cats are too quick to fall into divisive gender wars.

I am talking about responsibility BEFORE they end up pregnant
Why do y'all think becoming pregnant just happens by accident?
There are a series of steps and decisions required for a woman to get pregnant
But to hear some of y'all tell it, brothas are breaking into these sistas' homes, raping them, and then jumping out the window, leaving them pregnant
I've already stated that BOTH men and women are responsible
However, there's always one side that is more responsible than the other
And that side is the WOMAN

SHE decides who she wants to have sex with
SHE decides when to have sex
SHE decides whether to be on birth control or not
SHE decides whether to keep the baby or not after she becomes pregnant
SHE is the one that carries the baby for 9 months
SHE is the one that delivers the baby
SHE is the one that will have to take care of the baby because SHE chose a man who had no intentions of sticking around and being a father

The man decides whether to wear a condom or not, that's it
That's ONE contraceptive device for men
While there are TONS of contraceptive devices for women

 

[DAYNE]

I am talking about responsibility BEFORE they end up pregnant
Why do y'all think becoming pregnant just happens by accident?
There are a series of steps and decisions required for a woman to get pregnant
But to hear some of y'all tell it, brothas are breaking into these sistas' homes, raping them, and then jumping out the window, leaving them pregnant
I've already stated that BOTH men and women are responsible
However, there's always one side that is more responsible than the other
And that side is the WOMAN

SHE decides who she wants to have sex with
SHE decides when to have sex
SHE decides whether to be on birth control or not
SHE decides whether to keep the baby or not after she becomes pregnant
SHE is the one that carries the baby for 9 months
SHE is the one that delivers the baby
SHE is the one that will have to take care of the baby because SHE chose a man who had no intentions of sticking around and being a father

The man decides whether to wear a condom or not, that's it
That's ONE contraceptive device for men
While there are TONS of contraceptive devices for women

With all that power comes responsibility...

 

[BigUnc]

Peace,

I don't see why it's so difficult for cats to admit that both women and men are responsible for the regrettable decisions that they make. Why are so many of you brothers advocating the "shaming" of black women? Why can't you see that broken families are a blight on poorer black communities and EVERYONE bears responsibility for addressing the issue?

Short and to the point bruh. This is it in a nutshell. anybody not in agreement with this is a little boy or girl. I make no apologies for what I just said.

 

[Muttley]

Great read

 

[blackmouth]

I am talking about responsibility BEFORE they end up pregnant
Why do y'all think becoming pregnant just happens by accident?
There are a series of steps and decisions required for a woman to get pregnant
But to hear some of y'all tell it, brothas are breaking into these sistas' homes, raping them, and then jumping out the window, leaving them pregnant
I've already stated that BOTH men and women are responsible
However, there's always one side that is more responsible than the other
And that side is the WOMAN

SHE decides who she wants to have sex with
SHE decides when to have sex
SHE decides whether to be on birth control or not
SHE decides whether to keep the baby or not after she becomes pregnant
SHE is the one that carries the baby for 9 months
SHE is the one that delivers the baby
SHE is the one that will have to take care of the baby because SHE chose a man who had no intentions of sticking around and being a father

The man decides whether to wear a condom or not, that's it
That's ONE contraceptive device for men
While there are TONS of contraceptive devices for women

just joking XXX...

but about the highlighted text above: women are also in-control of whether or not the man has to wear a condom too.

i would NOT TOUCH ANY woman that let that decision be mine. why? if she's giving me the OPTION to wear a condom, how many other mufuckas is she giving the OPTION to?

why the rate of STD and HIV transmission is EXTREMELY high amongst black women is no longer a mystery to me; they are letting random, various nuccas skeet raw.

 

[actinanass]

ok im taking this man's advice....

Next time some militant bitch feels disrespected because I'm with someone with an lighter complexion than her, NO APOLOGIES.....

good post....

 

[Kazoo]

I'm not going to make this a man vs. woman thing because there is enough of that bullshit going around as it is.

WHAT I WILL SAY IS THIS...

I've been saying for the longest that this "personal responsibility" trend in the black community turned into self-hate YEARS ago. PERSONAL responsibility is ME taking responsibility for MY actions, IT IS NOT me taking responsibility for the actions of people I don't even know. That's why it pisses me off every time some cat posts an article about some dude carjacking an old lady in Oakland and some jackass in Detroit replies "WE need to do better". What the fuck does what some clown in Oakland does have to do with me?

I used to give cats that did this shit the benefit of the doubt that their hearts are in the right place, but I've reached the conclusion that their hearts are NOT in the right place. The shit is self-serving. Any negro that tells you WE need to do better is actually telling you YOU need to do better, he's not including himself in the statement at all. These brothers that ask me to join them in atoning for all the fatherless little black babies out there can eat a dick, MY LITTLE BLACK BABIES HAVE NEVER SEEN A DAY WITHOUT A DADDY.

MOST of us are doing our things, black folks act like if you aren't Oprah or Jigga you aren't shit. You don't have to be doing it big to be "doing the damn thing". FUCK anybody that tries to tell you what MOST black men are doing, including other black men because it's self defeating bullshit. I'll be damned if I'm gonna whip myself so whitey won't have to.

You want me to apologize, I'll do it right after I pull my foot out of your ass.

Preach Brother ,made me jump out my seat

 

[Kazoo]

Too many women throw personal responsibility for their BAD CHOICES
off on the entire MALE RACE

I dont know how many Women I've talked to that - bitch about MEN/BROTHERS - and after talking to them ,I ask how long were you with this NO-GOOD GUY ??? And they'll say 10 YEARS: or longer

I'm like what the fuck - "that on you baby - you put up with it ,you liked sometihng about that shit"

Dont expect some Captain to come in and right the wrongs you allowed

 

[actinanass]

I'm not going to make this a man vs. woman thing because there is enough of that bullshit going around as it is.

WHAT I WILL SAY IS THIS...

I've been saying for the longest that this "personal responsibility" trend in the black community turned into self-hate YEARS ago. PERSONAL responsibility is ME taking responsibility for MY actions, IT IS NOT me taking responsibility for the actions of people I don't even know. That's why it pisses me off every time some cat posts an article about some dude carjacking an old lady in Oakland and some jackass in Detroit replies "WE need to do better". What the fuck does what some clown in Oakland does have to do with me?

I used to give cats that did this shit the benefit of the doubt that their hearts are in the right place, but I've reached the conclusion that their hearts are NOT in the right place. The shit is self-serving. Any negro that tells you WE need to do better is actually telling you YOU need to do better, he's not including himself in the statement at all. These brothers that ask me to join them in atoning for all the fatherless little black babies out there can eat a dick, MY LITTLE BLACK BABIES HAVE NEVER SEEN A DAY WITHOUT A DADDY.

MOST of us are doing our things, black folks act like if you aren't Oprah or Jigga you aren't shit. You don't have to be doing it big to be "doing the damn thing". FUCK anybody that tries to tell you what MOST black men are doing, including other black men because it's self defeating bullshit. I'll be damned if I'm gonna whip myself so whitey won't have to.

You want me to apologize, I'll do it right after I pull my foot out of your ass.

realist post ive seen all month...

 

[Imhotep]

bump

 

[HarlemPerv]

I am talking about responsibility BEFORE they end up pregnant
Why do y'all think becoming pregnant just happens by accident?
There are a series of steps and decisions required for a woman to get pregnant
But to hear some of y'all tell it, brothas are breaking into these sistas' homes, raping them, and then jumping out the window, leaving them pregnant
I've already stated that BOTH men and women are responsible
However, there's always one side that is more responsible than the other
And that side is the WOMAN

SHE decides who she wants to have sex with
SHE decides when to have sex
SHE decides whether to be on birth control or not
SHE decides whether to keep the baby or not after she becomes pregnant
SHE is the one that carries the baby for 9 months
SHE is the one that delivers the baby
SHE is the one that will have to take care of the baby because SHE chose a man who had no intentions of sticking around and being a father

The man decides whether to wear a condom or not, that's it
That's ONE contraceptive device for men
While there are TONS of contraceptive devices for women