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BGOL Men 35+: Do you have a long time best friend?
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Y’all respect the niggas who get shot, I respect the shooters. #rocla..
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This.
What we had in common when I was younger no longer exists. I still talk with them, or stop by when Im in town, but none of them are close enough to depend on or even ask for a favor (and vice versa). I lost my true best friend of 30+ years in Feb. 2019 to cancer. These days I just have acquaintances.
I have several that I've known since high school, so that's over 20 years there easily.
One that I knew since middle school but he passed 7 years ago.
However, the guy I call my brother, I've known him since we were in the 3rd grade. We're both 42 now. That's over 30 years of friendship. We grew up together, hangout 2 or 3 times a month, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask.
One that I knew since middle school but he passed 7 years ago.
However, the guy I call my brother, I've known him since we were in the 3rd grade. We're both 42 now. That's over 30 years of friendship. We grew up together, hangout 2 or 3 times a month, and if I need anything all I have to do is ask.
Hey I had a wonderful childhood growing up..
but as you PROPERLY mature, you tend to see people
for who they are, and not what you want them to be..
and although I understand why people do what they do..
Im one of the rarest muthafuckas out here, that would never
ever sell out, nobody for NO amount of money... family and friends..
I found out... there are folks out there that will kill their kind loving
mother, for a better lifestyle..
there are people that would wipe out their whole families, for shiney
monkey shit, that stays here when they pass..
that I find disgusting and thats one of the main reasons I roll dolo,
besides the fact I love my own company..
I love my own company so much, I feel guilty about it...like
do I really deserve this much happiness..
yea..
Yea I DO
but as you PROPERLY mature, you tend to see people
for who they are, and not what you want them to be..
and although I understand why people do what they do..
Im one of the rarest muthafuckas out here, that would never
ever sell out, nobody for NO amount of money... family and friends..
I found out... there are folks out there that will kill their kind loving
mother, for a better lifestyle..
there are people that would wipe out their whole families, for shiney
monkey shit, that stays here when they pass..
that I find disgusting and thats one of the main reasons I roll dolo,
besides the fact I love my own company..
I love my own company so much, I feel guilty about it...like
do I really deserve this much happiness..
yea..
Yea I DO
stay strong bro!
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Sometimes everyone THINKS you were friends.
I did for 28 years until Trump. Them that shit ended without me even knowing it. Sad shit. Same year my other BF of 24 years passed from an aortic aneurysm. Life was trash that year, 2021 can suck a bunch of herpes outbreak dicks
Several day ones( go back to single digits in age even b4 preschool).. 2 best friends 1a1b.. 1 I known since we was like 3 and 4 and the other for about 26+ yrs.. than I got 1 of my boys who I been real cool with for about 10 yrs.. than lot of other childhood friends and people I’m cool with… than there’s the chicks
Damn man I'm sorry.
Life is so strange... I been chilling with this woman lately and things are starting to heat up to the point we're close to being exclusive.
Funny thing is I've known this chic all my life. Just as long as I've known my brother, she was there also. We were all in the same 3rd grade class and although she moved around a lot when she came back we'd end up in the same class again or have classes together.
We was always cool with each other, always talking, laughing, had a lot in common... but because of who we ran with in grade school us together didn't make sense to the people around us so we kept things light. Now, all these years later, we still got the same vibes when we're together except we're grown and don't care about the opinions of others.
It's a few people that we went to school with that we've bumped into while out and they've all said how unexpected us together is. We just laugh and go about our business...
I appreciate it. Keep it real I’m still fucked up about losing both of em in the same year,m. I don’t know if it will ever not fuck me up. Thx again
I used too....my oldest homies are dead now, 2024 and 2007...the ones from college and the crib also died...the older u get the more seem to pass away...thankful to still be here breathing
I can definitely understand and you're very welcome.
Man sometime's life's just hard and unfair.
Know exactly what you talking about.. kinda started hating the month of June cause lost 2 of my childhood/best friends back to back yrs 2004 and 2005.. one was 25 the other 22 both freak accidents.. since than lost about 5 other childhood friends/neighbors that month.. I still have sporadic dreams multiple times a yr of my boy/childhood friend that died in 05.. still probably 1 of the biggest felt deaths in my life
Feel you on that, for real
Man. My wife occasionally wakes me up tellin me I was crying in my sleep, and it’s everytime bro visits in my dreams. Every single time. I didn’t even know u could cry on yo sleep. I fasholy woke up a few times mid bawl like wtf am I crying for, them I remember me and broke was talkin in a dream. It just hurts a different kinda way indeed. In sorry for your losses as well
Indeed gd I appreciate it again
Yes, 1 he's a year older than me. He's the brother I never had.
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