BGOL Dilemma: BGOL Is Dead

[max-dawg]

I AM THE PRIZE

"...I can find/get a woman who wants to be loved, who wants money, who wants security, who wants to call me every fucking 15 minutes. Where is she going to go find love? SHE CAN'T, she can find dick and then HOPE it turns into love....the love of man is a gift wrapped up in a decision made by that man who CHOOSES to love her; that's why women go crazy, cause its the only thing they can't get IT MUST BE GIVEN."- Patrice O'Neal.


As long as a man has his shit together in all aspects of his life (money, goals, health, social graces) there will always be a woman jockey to be a part of his life.

She'll be missed, but I ain't given up BGOL for nobody!


*two cents*

this.

Waiittttt a second...

So ya tell me a brutha got his stuff together, biz money, power, respect....and ya show her ya wanna get wit her, but THEN she gonna try to call shots?

What world is this? There are HUNDREDS....no, THOUSANDS of women who already do MUCH WORSE than have a man lookin at porn! Look at some of those reality shows...basketball wives...they KNOW their men are fuckin around, but put up with it...WHY?
The plush ass lifestyle they live.

If ya a decent dood, take care of home and ya woman NICELY, if ya still have to sneak to look at porn, there's something wrong...

and this too.

Easy stop logging on to bgol ................but if we ever get on bad terms just know i would have paid for a lifetime subscription

you give up what you like based on her demands.

now, go try to tell her what to give up based on your demands.

next thing ya know, she's gonna be dressing you and telling you when and when not to speak in public.

testosterone is a lost art.


sidenote: my girl actually asks me when i'm gonna log-on so she can laugh at the shit on this site WITH me. Max doesn't play that jealousy bullshit, and she knows it.

 

[Mello Mello]

I AM THE PRIZE


"...I can find/get a woman who wants to be loved, who wants money, who wants security, who wants to call me every fucking 15 minutes. Where is she going to go find love? SHE CAN'T, she can find dick and then HOPE it turns into love....the love of man is a gift wrapped up in a decision made by that man who CHOOSES to love her; that's why women go crazy, cause its the only thing they can't get IT MUST BE GIVEN."- Patrice O'Neal.


As long as a man has his shit together in all aspects of his life (money, goals, health, social graces) there will always be a woman jockey to be a part of his life.

She'll be missed, but I ain't given up BGOL for nobody!


*two cents*

Waiittttt a second...

So ya tell me a brutha got his stuff together, biz money, power, respect....and ya show her ya wanna get wit her, but THEN she gonna try to call shots?

What world is this? There are HUNDREDS....no, THOUSANDS of women who already do MUCH WORSE than have a man lookin at porn! Look at some of those reality shows...basketball wives...they KNOW their men are fuckin around, but put up with it...WHY?
The plush ass lifestyle they live.

If ya a decent dood, take care of home and ya woman NICELY, if ya still have to sneak to look at porn, there's something wrong...

This

 

[TEN]

ill say first of all, honey dip, the first rule of BGOL
is we don't discuss BGOL. So I don't know what the
fuck youre talking about right now.

 

[playahaitian]

Lol, I honest didn't know how the story was going to go.

I thought it was going to turn out with logging on bgol and seeing her homegrowns

thank you...next week topic.

 

[playahaitian]

ill say first of all, honey dip, the first rule of BGOL
is we don't discuss BGOL. So I don't know what the
fuck youre talking about right now.

 

[WattDogs]

Lotttttttttttttttttttt of shit talkin goin on in this thread and ignoring the original question. If you've already decided she's worth being with. If she's as fly and wonderful as all that? She'll be a good mate for a man who isn't addicted to porn as well. Dudes always want to believe they're Taittinger or Perriere Jouet when they're really Natural Light.

She won't be missing out on YOU. You've shown you're addicted to porn. You're dishonest, and you're not willing to compromise. Not qualities a woman should have in a man.

It's something seriously the fuck wrong with you...you are filled with bitterness...you gonna go postal one day...you need to let go & let God....SMH....

 

[keone]

bitch u remember dat position i put u in last nite dat made u cum 5 times well i learned dat from bgol... u want to cum like dat often?? than u better embrace dat shit, love dat shit, become part of dat shit..porn is kama sutra in motion u remember dat missy..now for making me have such an outburst u need to come over here and suck dis skin off dis dick in fact go peep a streaming head vid thread cause i want u to suck my dick like dat 2nite..the end

 

[playahaitian]

RIP Prince.

 

[SamSneed]

Lol, I honest didn't know how the story was going to go.

I thought it was going to turn out with logging on bgol and seeing her homegrowns

Relationship would be over, say you get ocked. Then they find out its your gal, sideshow, tune, retreaded one gonna go ham

 

[SamSneed]

You're asking us to choose between love and bgol, a place full of broke no pussy getting simps?

Wooooohoooooo

 

[4 Dimensional]

Relationship would be over, say you get ocked. Then they find out its your gal, sideshow, tune, retreaded one gonna go ham

That would be tragic. But I'm sure kats would get a good laugh...

Lol

 

[SamSneed]

That would be tragic. But I'm sure kats would get a good laugh...

Lol

What if we had freakys bitch hg? Nothing but teef, I ain't tryin to see her rake a nigga dick

 

[LordSinister]

My wife asks me to go to BGOL to get her shit. Otherwise it was a no go for the marriage.

 

[playahaitian]

My wife asks me to go to BGOL to get her shit. Otherwise it was a no go for the marriage.

 

[playahaitian]

That would be tragic. But I'm sure kats would get a good laugh...

Lol

like all the threads...this REALLY happened.

From the man's point of view this wasn't a porn addiction thing

it was more of a power and trust thing.

He felt she was doing a TEST before the marriage.

And he simply could have LIED

but he felt why does he HAVE to do that?

He TOLD her he just hangs out and actually gets a lot of info and stuff for HER.

But to specifically restrict his behavior he felt was like either a TEST of some type of LEASH

Especially since it had in his eyes NO NEGATIVE EFFECT on their relationship or his life.

 

[knightmelodic]

If she looks like that standing by the window you should know from jump there's gonna be issues.

 

[sherminator]

This actually was an issue with a girl I was dating, I fucked up and logged on on her laptop and didn't delete the window, I logged out but she still saw the site, she was like I should satisfy you, why you looking at hella naked women, I'm like honestly I'm on there for the discourse and info, rarely am I in a pic thread too often, this was before @Jay_from_dade started his post of the finest skrippers and hood delights. So it was on some control thing I was like I love you but if I tell you this isn't about porn you have to believe me and I'm not trying to alter my personality or actions to a point over the Internet or social media, she had issues over that too but that's another topic. I get where she's coming from, you want the woman you love comfortable and to know her concerns are yours, but you also don't want a woman feeling like its ok to curtail your actions and censor you, but on the flip tip it is very grown up of you to not just shit on her concerns.


The reality of the situation is it split us, in hindsight it was principle, if i do this where does it end, but many a man has died or lost out on principle, we did end up getting back together, but we ended up splitting because of our issues many on her part it seemed insecurities, but maybe I could have worked harder to squash them, and I mean she was a beautiful woman, thick, natural hair, educated....I need a drink.....

Ultimately there is no right or wrong answer to this, it's not weak to submit to a woman you consider a wife or has wife potential, that's strength to do that, it's also not wrong to have your personal stance and not waver in the face of pressure, that takes maturity, and plenty people men included buckle under the pressure of women, or other outside factors. With that said,the same way it could be flipped on us, is this worth losing her, is this worth pushing a good man away ?

 

[J.E.T.S]

Wooooohoooooo

This gets me every time I swear

 

[darth frosty]

Ha funny this dilemma should pop back up.

With all the benefits we (and by extension our families) get from this site a girl would be stoopid to try and regulate a dude from coming here.

Prime example the thread on air fryers, went out and got one we've been using that thing everyday. My wife like you heard about this on your porn board? Good find!

I'm like hell yeah along with books movies and music

 

[DJCandle]

Give up BGOL???

 

[dHustla]

First thought: "Biiiiiiiihhhhh...... pssshhh"

2nd: "I'on know what ta tell you. Shid, BGOL raised me.."

 

[dHustla]

It's something seriously the fuck wrong with you...you are filled with bitterness...you gonna go postal one day...you need to let go & let God....SMH....

you right tho

 

[CPT Callamity]

Whatever.
I look at BGOL if she's here or not. If a woman decided to give me an ultimatum she's really not worth having.
Current chick I have sees me on here all the time, mostly just reading the articles. I seldom open up the bussitopen topics when she's in the room but she knows what it is and I told her as much. Once women start coming with ultimatums, that means I need to find someone more compliant.

 

[JofromthaNO]

What if it's your girl that won't give up BGOL? LOL.

On the real, my husband knows I find albums, etc. on here. He also knows I like looking at porn. He doesn't try to interfere with either...

 

[kain]

There can only be ONE boss in a relationship. If you are yielding to your woman, guess who is the boss.

 

[playahaitian]

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[playahaitian]

 

[MrSid]

12 years later , I am still on this site and she does not even bother her self about it .

She even knows the first rule of BGOL

 

[playahaitian]

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[playahaitian]

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