BGOL Dilemma: BGOL Is Dead

[playahaitian]

You think it’s time to settle down.

You’re a successful Black man running your own business your work schedule is irregular at best and you have had difficulty finding the right woman.

You been invited to speak at a Black Business Networking Conference and decide to attend. You get a great response and the networking should prove profitable.

One notice a young lady shyly standing to the side by the window...

You introduce yourself and she says she was really impressed and invites you to dinner because she has questions about getting started.

You accept.

She is smart positive enthusiastic and focused, this is a women you know you can share your life with…

After months of dating you realize you are in love. Your family and friends are very happy for you both.

You propose she accepts but no specific date is set yet…

One afternoon she asks if you could get her some music from Prince and you tell her you can get her ALL his records…

And a couple books on business plans she was looking for...

She laughs gives you a big kiss and says go head. You log on to BGOL and start searching and have a few windows open. She sees a very explicit pic and is shocked and actually laughs…You tell her its just a site where you get some of your stuff from no biggie. She laughs and says don’t do that sh*t on my laptop and walks away finishing her wine.

Awhile later during a conversation she says that when you two get your own place she would appreciate if you don’t go to those kind of sites at home.

She isn’t a prude but she doesn’t like you looking at that stuff and she should be able to satisfy any need sexually much better then porn.

She couldn’t marry someone who NEEDED or WANTED to look at the stuff.

WHAT DO YOU DO?!?!!?​

 

[cooliojones]

There will be more where she came from. If she can't accept that (BGOL), what else is next? That means she doesn't trust you... that you don't always come for the porn, but for other reasons.

It's a red flag. It's only been a couple of months. I need a ride or die so she can step.

But she is fine tho!

 

[Onpoint]

Disable sigs and use BGOL at work!

Or the old..... Wait till she's at work or sleep tactic!

 

[WestIndianArchie]

damn. fine. she is starting to make house rules in advance so once you move in together bruh

lol@ you trying to impress her with ALL his records…And a couple books on business plans she was looking for. i feel ya dilemma because if she is wife-up worthy then where do you draw the line. maybe its just a conversation that needs to be had about what you would appreciate as well, but maybe you would appreciate it if she became a little more open minded about seeking and finding information. explain to her that on the google machine, somethings are found in forums. but damn, maybe it's best you just dont let her know about bgol. she'll be all in ya shit. What's the first rule of BGOL ?

lol

 

[Naha-Nago]

There will be more where she came from. If she can't accept that (BGOL), what else is next? That means she doesn't trust you... that you don't always come for the porn, but for other reasons.

It's a red flag. It's only been a couple of months. I need a ride or die so she can step.

But she is fine tho!

I AM THE PRIZE


"...I can find/get a woman who wants to be loved, who wants money, who wants security, who wants to call me every fucking 15 minutes. Where is she going to go find love? SHE CAN'T, she can find dick and then HOPE it turns into love....the love of man is a gift wrapped up in a decision made by that man who CHOOSES to love her; that's why women go crazy, cause its the only thing they can't get IT MUST BE GIVEN."- Patrice O'Neal.


As long as a man has his shit together in all aspects of his life (money, goals, health, social graces) there will always be a woman jockeying to be a part of his life.

She'll be missed, but I ain't given up BGOL for nobody!


*two cents*

 

[tallblacknyc]

bitch u remember dat position i put u in last nite dat made u cum 5 times well i learned dat from bgol... u want to cum like dat often?? than u better embrace dat shit, love dat shit, become part of dat shit..porn is kama sutra in motion u remember dat missy..now for making me have such an outburst u need to come over here and suck dis skin off dis dick in fact go peep a streaming head vid thread cause i want u to suck my dick like dat 2nite..the end

 

[black again]

Waiittttt a second...

So ya tell me a brutha got his stuff together, biz money, power, respect....and ya show her ya wanna get wit her, but THEN she gonna try to call shots?

What world is this? There are HUNDREDS....no, THOUSANDS of women who already do MUCH WORSE than have a man lookin at porn! Look at some of those reality shows...basketball wives...they KNOW their men are fuckin around, but put up with it...WHY?
The plush ass lifestyle they live.

If ya a decent dood, take care of home and ya woman NICELY, if ya still have to sneak to look at porn, there's something wrong...

 

[Naha-Nago]

Waiittttt a second...

So ya tell me a brutha got his stuff together, biz money, power, respect....and ya show her ya wanna get wit her, but THEN she gonna try to call shots?

What world is this? There are HUNDREDS....no, THOUSANDS of women who already do MUCH WORSE than have a man lookin at porn! Look at some of those reality shows...basketball wives...they KNOW their men are fuckin around, but put up with it...WHY?
The plush ass lifestyle they live.

If ya a decent dood, take care of home and ya woman NICELY, if ya still have to sneak to look at porn, there's something wrong...

Boom.


I AM THE PRIZE.


*two cents*

 

[Mr.Chuckles]

Easy stop logging on to bgol ................but if we ever get on bad terms just know i would have paid for a lifetime subscription

 

[onyxmodels]

I AM THE PRIZE


"...I can find/get a woman who wants to be loved, who wants money, who wants security, who wants to call me every fucking 15 minutes. Where is she going to go find love? SHE CAN'T, she can find dick and then HOPE it turns into love....the love of man is a gift wrapped up in a decision made by that man who CHOOSES to love her; that's why women go crazy, cause its the only thing they can't get IT MUST BE GIVEN."- Patrice O'Neal.


As long as a man has his shit together in all aspects of his life (money, goals, health, social graces) there will always be a woman jockey to be a part of his life.

She'll be missed, but I ain't given up BGOL for nobody!


*two cents*

truth.

 

[peterlongshort]

Just like that! Ain't no bitch gonna ever tell me what I can and cannot read!

 

[Lexx Diamond]

Just like that! Ain't no bitch gonna ever tell me what I can and cannot read!

My nigga^^^

 

[darth frosty]

Just like that! Ain't no bitch gonna ever tell me what I can and cannot read!

DAYYYAAAMMMMMMM!!!!

I aint saying you should hit a woman...but I understand

 

[godofwine]

All of these insecure women and porn. I don't get it. "I forbid you to watch porn" I don't come to BGOL for porn. THere isn't much porn left since most of y'all stream. I got to other sites for porn, so like someone said, disable sigs and roll on.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

continue to log on to bgol

 

[Lexx Diamond]

DAYYYAAAMMMMMMM!!!!

I aint saying you should hit a woman...but I understand

 

[wiZe]

Just like that! Ain't no bitch gonna ever tell me what I can and cannot read!

Man, it looks like Lawrence Fishburne released a lot of real personal frustration with that slap.

 

[tallblacknyc]

Man, it looks like Lawrence Fishburne released a lot of real personal frustration with that slap.

nigga screamed montana when he did it

 

[cmac105]

My wife is cool with me looking at BGOL. It's no biggie to her. I can see if BGOL is where a dude can hook up with a chick but it ain't that type of party so it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

 

[twiggy]

Hey it happened I said fuck no stop being so insecure- plus this is where i got every single program you asked for.

Do you wanna pay retail for the new windows?
Oh I see you're enjoying the latest ios months before it comes out...

just chill. I ain't like I'm following these hoes on instagram.

but i do on twitter though!!!

 

[Coldchi]

sometimes my wife gets taken aback by some of the sigs she sees on here.....lol, but she still doesn't let that stop her from goin to the music and movie board to download what she wants. she realized what type of board it was when she seen me on it and i let her know what was up. she has no problem wit it. and if she did......i'd be like listen.........nigga i paid $10.

 

[playahaitian]

my wife is cool with me looking at bgol. It's no biggie to her. i can see if bgol is where a dude can hook up with a chick but it ain't that type of party so it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

uoeno

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Easy stop logging on to bgol ................but if we ever get on bad terms just know i would have paid for a lifetime subscription

Lotttttttttttttttttttt of shit talkin goin on in this thread and ignoring the original question. If you've already decided she's worth being with. If she's as fly and wonderful as all that? She'll be a good mate for a man who isn't addicted to porn as well. Dudes always want to believe they're Taittinger or Perriere Jouet when they're really Natural Light.

She won't be missing out on YOU. You've shown you're addicted to porn. You're dishonest, and you're not willing to compromise. Not qualities a woman should have in a man.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

All of these insecure women and porn. I don't get it. "I forbid you to watch porn" I don't come to BGOL for porn. THere isn't much porn left since most of y'all stream. I got to other sites for porn, so like someone said, disable sigs and roll on.

yea i'm on here to talk to black people...or at least people who say they're black and get interesting perspectives.

i can get porn from google

 

[playahaitian]

yea i'm on here to talk to black people...or at least people who say they're black and get interesting perspectives.

i can get porn from google

 

[Aromatic]

Disable sigs and use BGOL at work!

Or the old..... Wait till she's at work or sleep tactic!

Yup!!!

​

 

[mistajody]

sometimes my wife gets taken aback by some of the sigs she sees on here.....lol, but she still doesn't let that stop her from goin to the music and movie board to download what she wants. she realized what type of board it was when she seen me on it and i let her know what was up. she has no problem wit it. and if she did......i'd be like listen.........nigga i paid $10.

This!! The free music/movies shuts her tf up. She did ask "so you don't know that bitch in your avi" though?

I really don't though, she just got nice ass titties like my wife

 

[Dannyblueyes]

I would wait a few days and playfully ask her what her fantasy pornstar/stripper name would be. Then go on BGOL and immediately do a search on that name. You will probably find a picture like this

If she's that serious about it she probably has something to hide.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Yall love Patrice O'Neal and Flex.

Where yall daddies? ...

 

[GAMETHEORY]

You think it’s time to settle down.

You’re a successful Black man running your own business your work schedule is irregular at best and you have had difficulty finding the right woman.

You been invited to speak at a Black Business Networking Conference and decide to attend. You get a great response and the networking should prove profitable.

One notice a young lady shyly standing to the side by the window...

You introduce yourself and she says she was really impressed and invites you to dinner because she has questions about getting started.

You accept.

She is smart positive enthusiastic and focused, this is a women you know you can share your life with…After months of dating you realize you are in love. Your family and friends are very happy for you both.

You propose she accepts but no specific date is set yet…

One afternoon she asks if you could get her some music from Prince and you tell her you can get her ALL his records…And a couple books on business plans she was looking for...

She laughs gives you a big kiss and says go head. You log on to BGOL and start searching and have a few windows open. She sees a very explicit pic and is shocked and actually laughs…You tell her its just a site where you get some of your stuff from no biggie. She laughs and says don’t do that sh*t on my laptop and walks away finishing her wine.

Awhile later during a conversation she says that when you get your own place she would appreciate if you don’t go to those kind of sites at home.

She isn’t a prude but she doesn’t like you looking at that stuff and she should be able to satisfy any need sexually much better then porn. She couldn’t marry someone who NEEDED to look at the stuff.

WHAT DO YOU DO?!?!!?​

You know this doesnt bode well with some sections of this forum.

 

[furlough]

major flaw in the story


never log into bgizzle in front of your girl, or on her laptop

unless she already knows your username & password

 

[4 Dimensional]

Lol, I honest didn't know how the story was going to go.

I thought it was going to turn out with logging on bgol and seeing her homegrowns

 

[cashwhisperer]

....My girl sits beside me and reads bgol with me

 

[BDR]

What would I do? Lmaoooo

I will tell her for one this site isn't just a porn site but a site that covers every topic, free music books business plan talking shit and exposing racist.. Porn is secondary believe it or not

But I knew bgol before I met you... It stays if you don't like it well you know where the door is..

 

[nowayhozay101]

You're asking us to choose between love and bgol, a place full of broke no pussy getting simps?