Ayesha Curry: My Breast Implants Were Botched!! (Details)
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"Steph ... your wife's complaining again ..."
Jesus. Is she were Lebron's wife, he'd be getting clowned into oblivion. It would have been a hard 16 years with her big ass mouth.
It seems like even if Steph was the perfect man (he may not be, but he seems like a dude who has his head on straight), Ayesha would still have these feelings. Nothing is enough for her, and she is quite unhappy inside. But this isn't Steph's fault. She has some growing and soul-searching to do.
Nobody's saying that she shouldn't have expressed that she needs attention, or got a bad boob job. The first problem is this isn't something for the world to hear. This is ideally what a therapist needs to hear, or at the bare minimum, a trusted female family member or female friend. The second problem is that she seems to say the worst things when her husband is in the middle of a stressful situation. If she really were a part of his "team", she wouldn't put her business out there, especially during such a critical time. Again, if she was talking with a therapist, none of this would come out, and she will have gotten help to deal with her feelings and problems.
What also bothered me about her Red Table comments last week is that she was bold enough to say these things in front of her mother-in-law (Steph's mother). I would hope that Steph's mother pulled her coat and said, "We have some things to discuss," which would include what not to say to the media, and would also include some grown woman talk about not doing anything to hurt her son, how to raise her self-esteem, and to give insight as to how fortunate Ayesha really is. Ayesha says she's a Christian; therefore, she needs to, as I said in a previous post, to have an "attitude of gratitude" and thank God for what she has, because nothing is promised - it can all be taken away from her in a heartbeat.
Nobody's saying that she shouldn't have expressed that she needs attention, or got a bad boob job. The first problem is this isn't something for the world to hear. This is ideally what a therapist needs to hear, or at the bare minimum, a trusted female family member or female friend. The second problem is that she seems to say the worst things when her husband is in the middle of a stressful situation. If she really were a part of his "team", she wouldn't put her business out there, especially during such a critical time. Again, if she was talking with a therapist, none of this would come out, and she will have gotten help to deal with her feelings and problems.
What also bothered me about her Red Table comments last week is that she was bold enough to say these things in front of her mother-in-law (Steph's mother). I would hope that Steph's mother pulled her coat and said, "We have some things to discuss," which would include what not to say to the media, and would also include some grown woman talk about not doing anything to hurt her son, how to raise her self-esteem, and to give insight as to how fortunate Ayesha really is. Ayesha says she's a Christian; therefore, she needs to, as I said in a previous post, to have an "attitude of gratitude" and thank God for what she has, because nothing is promised - it can all be taken away from her in a heartbeat.
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I was wondering if someone was going to consider the source.
Guess yall BGOL militants missed this part in the interview:
“My own community needs to embrace everyone better. Sometimes I feel like I’m too black for the white community, but I’m not black enough for my own community. That’s a hard thing to carry."
“My own community needs to embrace everyone better. Sometimes I feel like I’m too black for the white community, but I’m not black enough for my own community. That’s a hard thing to carry."
It is interesting. A woman makes a real comment about being insecure and not confident and the only thing that men can say is "shut up". So, a woman's role is to play the part of wifey and not actually be a real person? We all complain that people are fake, but then they say something real in public and they get dragged. Groupies getting at pro athletes isn't new, we all know that. A woman trying to protect herself and her family from THOTs and predatory women is a problem? I don't get it.
Also, from the comments on this post and many others, a lot of the brothers on BGOL actually seem to hate women. Or at least, hate a woman that "speaks out of turn". I know that most folks on here don't treat women like that in real life, so it is interesting to see it come out like this online. I get it, online is an outlet, but dang son the hate for some women on the board is real. Sounds like 4chan up in here sometimes. Do I agree with her media comments? Not all of them, no. Do I think she is saying some stuff that women actually feel? Yes. Do I think that she can be real and not get dragged so hard online? I would like to think so. Too much reaction culture.
Also, from the comments on this post and many others, a lot of the brothers on BGOL actually seem to hate women. Or at least, hate a woman that "speaks out of turn". I know that most folks on here don't treat women like that in real life, so it is interesting to see it come out like this online. I get it, online is an outlet, but dang son the hate for some women on the board is real. Sounds like 4chan up in here sometimes. Do I agree with her media comments? Not all of them, no. Do I think she is saying some stuff that women actually feel? Yes. Do I think that she can be real and not get dragged so hard online? I would like to think so. Too much reaction culture.
I missed it...but I'm not in the least bit surprised.
With all the shit going on with her, she may need to be hospitalized for a few days, with intensive therapy and medications, followed by intensive outpatient therapy and meds. She sounds like a walking time bomb who might actually harm herself.
Damn
She's just speaking her mind like nany other woman who are usually ignored. Only reason people care to repost what she says with such scrutiny is because she is the Black wife of a Black star. I hope she gets the help and support she needs from friends and family that will keep it private.
I have always found common sense is relative to intelligence and scruples.
I have always found common sense is relative to intelligence and scruples.
Not saying that at all. To put it where the goats can get it, it's simply that she's picking the wrong place to express her feelings. A therapist's office is the ideal venue to express these sentiments.
How she look younger now?
She done found her niche. I bet money this won't be the end
You might be on to something
How she look younger now?
They making that real money now.
Nah son. Magic Johnson admitted he cheated on Cookie and had HIV on live TV. Wilt Chamberlain said he had sex with over 10,000 women in a magazine article. R. Kelly said he couldn't read on live TV. If it's the right venue for them, it's the right venue for her.
This.com. Brah
Don't you think he already tried?
Why do yall care about this chick so much?
And before yall ask, I entered this thread hoping for pics of the titties.
And before yall ask, I entered this thread hoping for pics of the titties.
Hell nawl this won’t be it. Remember a couple years back, she was tweeting about the officiating in a game & folks jump on her about it. Chick talks too damn much...
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Don't got a lick of ass!
I think it depends on the person and the situation. With Magic, he had to tell people why he suddenly had to retire from the Lakers. Wilt didn't have to brag about all the women he was with. R. Kelly didn't have to say he couldn't read, but it had to come out so that his ass would be covered when asked in court why he didn't respond to that court order. Ayesha could have prevented being dragged through the mud if she had talked to a therapist about her problems, instead of opening up to the whole world.
My point was that a lot of people, specifically men, will air their dirty laundry in public. They all have faced some sort of backlash from it. And in almost every case it was something that they all could have said someone or a therapist in private. All magic just had to say was that he was retiring for a medical issue. He didn't have to detail that he had cheated on cookie. A. Curry put herself out there for it, so there's going to be some backlash. What I'm responding to is how much it seems so anti-woman and female hating on the board. But anyway, I appreciate the good rational discussion around it that we've been able to have at least.
I am someone that believes marraige can be a good thing provided you are married to the right chick...for us regular dudes who have 9-5's.
But this shit is why I always say I don't think marraige is necessarily a good thing if you are famous and have a job that requires a lot of time/effort/travel...like athletes, musicians and actors. And that's for the men and women.
We all know what the deal is for us...for those who have reached the pinnacle of their professions and are legit professionals, they have gotten there because of the focus and devotion they give to perfecting their craft...the practices, the performances, the sacrifices that are made that don't allow them to live normal lives...it just doesn't leave time for any real relationship building. I'd imagine if I were a sports star, I'd spend so much time not just at team practices, but working out hard on my own to go along with the games...may only wind up with an hour or 2 of downtime. Same with musicians that spend so much time in the studio. Actors etc... And in the end, that one or 2 hours, I'll be honest, I'd like just want a bad bitch for a short period of time to get my nut off and then that'd be it. So little time for romance/courting/cuddling/having quality talks or any of that shit.
And for the women...your dude is likely the object of every women's affection out there, is hardly home and isn't able to give the physical and emotional attention you want, probably alone with the kids in the house a ton, and usually know that you are second to your man's life to his career. No amount of a paycheck is going to keep most women happy when their man isn't around for 8 out of 12 months.
These famous divorces probably aren't usually just because money isn't flowing in like it used to. It's likely because now dude is home all the time, and they realize that they never really, truly knew each other and find out they are incompatible because they essentially lived apart for 10 years.
Ayesha saying this shit publicly is no bueno IMHO...as a man, if I were Steph, I'd be embarrassed as fuck...but she's speaking her truth and probably a lot of women's truths. She obviously is dealing with a lot of insecurities despite "having it all" with regards to what society would try and have you believe relationships are all about.
But this shit is why I always say I don't think marraige is necessarily a good thing if you are famous and have a job that requires a lot of time/effort/travel...like athletes, musicians and actors. And that's for the men and women.
We all know what the deal is for us...for those who have reached the pinnacle of their professions and are legit professionals, they have gotten there because of the focus and devotion they give to perfecting their craft...the practices, the performances, the sacrifices that are made that don't allow them to live normal lives...it just doesn't leave time for any real relationship building. I'd imagine if I were a sports star, I'd spend so much time not just at team practices, but working out hard on my own to go along with the games...may only wind up with an hour or 2 of downtime. Same with musicians that spend so much time in the studio. Actors etc... And in the end, that one or 2 hours, I'll be honest, I'd like just want a bad bitch for a short period of time to get my nut off and then that'd be it. So little time for romance/courting/cuddling/having quality talks or any of that shit.
And for the women...your dude is likely the object of every women's affection out there, is hardly home and isn't able to give the physical and emotional attention you want, probably alone with the kids in the house a ton, and usually know that you are second to your man's life to his career. No amount of a paycheck is going to keep most women happy when their man isn't around for 8 out of 12 months.
These famous divorces probably aren't usually just because money isn't flowing in like it used to. It's likely because now dude is home all the time, and they realize that they never really, truly knew each other and find out they are incompatible because they essentially lived apart for 10 years.
Ayesha saying this shit publicly is no bueno IMHO...as a man, if I were Steph, I'd be embarrassed as fuck...but she's speaking her truth and probably a lot of women's truths. She obviously is dealing with a lot of insecurities despite "having it all" with regards to what society would try and have you believe relationships are all about.
I’ve been there before
From a small town of mainly white folk. Grown up around white film until I was in 7th grade. White kids were changing and didn’t want to hang around me much anymore. Because I spent most of my time around white people, I had adopted a lot of the shit they liked and that didn’t translate well at all when I started hanging around black folk. That’s shit was tough trying to figure out how you belong.
Eventually I said fuck both groups, I’m going to be me. Once I gained a better sense of myself, then I learned to navigate PEOPLE much better.
Sounds like Mrs. Curry is struggling to find herself instead of just being.
Yoooo what is wrong with these women?
Ayesha was a cute chick. Annoying but cute.
She looks like a cute Skelletor now
Ayesha was a cute chick. Annoying but cute.
She looks like a cute Skelletor now
