Ask a black man a question thread (for the ladies that want to know)

[Naha-Nago]

OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!

1. It depends on the individual... For every woman that complains that her man is "weak" in the sack there is a man who complains that fucking his old lady is like fucking the mattress. You might just be attracting lame fucks


2. As far as making the first move women are notorious for giving off mixed signals. I don't need to go any further on this one but the Kobe Bryant situation comes to mind.


3. Look REEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL hard at the last sentence of 1. again.... There lies your answer. Straight up.


*two cents*

 

[Naha-Nago]

I like this thread and idea!

I hope it stays positive
It better stay positive dayum it!!!!

I hope that some of the other fellas chime in and post in response to questions.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?

Women dont handle rejection or negative comments well at all and if I'm trying to fuck you or want to continue fucking you and don't want you legs to close up like a timers lock I'm.... not going to tell you...


- That your have no business wearing those pants.

- I really don't give a shit about your feelings when the game is on.

- Your girlfriends are miserable slut buckets that want to see you fail... at life... so that they can have an enternal wingman at the club.

- You can diet all you want, but your ass still needs to hit the gym

- Any girl that you point to me and say "do you think she is sexy?" 99% percent of the time not only would I fuck her, but I would fuck her on top of you.

- Half the shit that comes out of your mouth I don't think you believe yourself... the other half I HOPE you don't believe.

- That your looks/freakiness/big ass/ dick sucking ability/ is keeping me here. Your wits are a bonus... and anytime you nag me with some trivial shit Im slowly looking at the door. So the stuff that pisses me off.... Don't do that.



You know... shit like that.


*two cents*

 

[swiftandsilent]

Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

goes to the "thrill of the chase" no sport in a easy laydown.

Plus, if you give it up on the first date, more then likely you've done so for a multitude of others (the logic we go by) hence being labeled "hoe" or "slut"

NOT ALL MEN RUN WITH THIS THEORY

 

[BrownTurd]

should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

Only concern should be if he is addicted to sex

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

Sometimes he has your best interest in mind.

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

The same reason women flaunt their body by wearing sexy outfits, getting nails done, hair ect. Plus this is a trap. Most men do this to try to bait the woman. 99% of chicks fall for this maneuver and disqualify themselves.

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

Swallowing it means you a real freak

is it true most men want a woman like their mother

Hell naw..lol That is just game we spit...lol Men just want a women to be simple

how important is lingere

Depends on the guy

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

Nope...just means she is a freak

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

Men could care less about that. This has zero meaning

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

Just giving you a compliment. He is saying you look good and should have some type of man. Plus some woman lie anyway so we go ahead and address that lie up front

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

That is only a few men. Most men good give a damn what she did with her hair as long as it is groomed

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

Easy. Stop listening to words. Words are a play on your fantasies. Men never listen to words. If a chick said some smooth shit. Men call up their boys and be like "Man I got this silly as chick saying _______"

thanks for answering

....

 

[BrownTurd]

OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!

Either you got some bad pussy and brothas just catching a nut or you fooling with the wrong men

 

[BrownTurd]

This one is not as complicated as it is about to sound!

See men have priorities in life. Let's say this is a question about food just to make it easier. You are on your way home and you say "What do you want me to bring you to eat." Your man responds with "I don't know. Whatever you want is fine." With me...

Ok the man's thought process ended right there! Especially if you two have been together long enough to establish a pattern of fast food eating. What your man is expecting you to say next is "I had a taste for KFC." to which he would reply "Bring me the usual. No better yet bring me the chicken strip dinner with macaroni and baked beans" Annnnnd back to whatever the hell he was doing case closed.

The way this conversation will go though is...(the male will be highlighted for emphasis on the pain!)

"I don't know."...
"Well I don't know either that's why I asked you."...
"Well whatever you want baby is fine with me."...
"See we go through this shit every damn time. Why won't you just tell me what the hell you want."...
"Cause I don't know what I want goddamn it. KFC then. Bring me a chicken..."...
"I don't want no damn KFC."...
"Checkers then."...
"Is that all you want to eat is some damn burgers and chicken. Goddamn can we try something else?"...
"Well what the hell you want then. I said I don't care."...
"I guess you don't care about this relationship either now do you?"...
"What the fuck..."...
"Fuck you nigga. You'll eat whatever the hell I bring home."...
Click...
"Didn't I just say that muthafucking shit like ten minutes ago. Man what the fuck?"



Get it now...

That is so true happen to me lastnight. Men really like shit simple. Because if I was your homeboy and asked you the same question "What do you want" and you said "I don't know" As men we would have been like cool. Keep your phone near I will let you know where I stop.You would have been like cool....case closed

 

[Adam Knows]

I like this thread and idea!

I hope it stays positive
It better stay positive dayum it!!!!

I hope that some of the other fellas chime in and post in response to questions.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?

because men know, no matter what women are only going to hear one answer. wrong answer = no pussy.

you know like the "do you think i'm fat"... most don't want to answer questions like that anyway since it puts them in the spot (like those twix commercials) so they lie to make you happy.

 

[Adam Knows]

*raises hand


If I specifically say I want what you want, and you want "I don't know", what the fuck am I to do? Am I suppose to know what you want? Am I to read your mind? Why all the "I don't know" or "I don't care" when you could just tell me? I mean seriously, If I SPECIFICALLY want to know, for your own benefit, WHY WON'T YOU TELL ME!?!





Sorry.

That's my question.

honestly? we don't usually care or have an opinion on what's considered by us "mundane questions"

my wife asks me everyday, "what do you want for dinner"

my answer is the same...."i don't know"

 

[Adam Knows]

should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

Yes

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

because every man wants to be don juan and one up the next man.

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

this answer has two parts.

1. it's bait. i got you yet you can't have any of it.

2. a lot of times women consider certain actions flaunting money when it's really not and get puzzled when inquiring about it and get what they consider the wrong answer.

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

be straight forward with your opinion on it. "hey i'm not happy with all this that's going on and if it hampers me in anyway i'm gone...first and last warning" the thing is do most women hold to their guns and do just that. as long as i know you'll keep coming back, my baggage is just fine.

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

my sex lingo is a lil off but if i remember catching is just that it's dropped in your mouth or shot into your mouth where swallowing is dick is inserted into your mouth already and semen is released

is it true most men want a woman like their mother

a woman that they witnessed cook, clean, baby them...sure

how important is lingere

to most very. remember we are visual as far as how we see are women.

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

depends on the guy. me i could care less about a woman who watches and/or likes porn. but the next joe may love the notion.

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

me dating down? or in a lot cases men dating up?

me dating down....i kinda don't have a choice in the matter.

men dating up? it depends on the man...

a. the no good, never working, on the couch eating bon bons type of kat loves a working women regardless of appearance and whatnot (the fat white women syndrome for example)

b. the middle income hard working brother may see it one of two ways... a plus in his book, or a form of intimidation.

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

to see if you have a man or not.

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

we have a lot of folks on here who like to display the armchair militant attitude so it's black power this, black power that. while others prefer what's considered white standard of beauty which is the long shoulder + length hair. it does seem strange that there is no balance between there huh? men are going to like what they like, or give the "impression" of what they like.

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

tell him your a born again virgin and you won't have sex anymore until your married.

thanks for answering

your welcome

 

[Adam Knows]

OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!

you answered your own question. because some are lazy. some men can't hump more then ten times then their ass is tired.

 

[Adam Knows]

Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

NOT ALL MEN RUN WITH THIS THEORY

but most do.

 

[thighsneyez22]

I'll bite.

What one quality is the common thread for all your past (real) loves? This could be physical traits or "otherwise"; however, I am mostly looking for "otherwise".

What hooked you?

 

[Adam Knows]

I'll bite.

What one quality is the common thread for all your past (real) loves? This could be physical traits or "otherwise"; however, I am mostly looking for "otherwise".

What hooked you?

attitude. as in lack of. friendliness, etc. you know the whole positive look on things not the lip curled, snarling, always on the defensive ready to bite your head off vibe.

 

[melonpecan]

Melon I specifically said no pills until after the ... nevermind lol

Melon's crazy but I still e-love her

"I don't know."...
"Well I don't know either that's why I asked you."...
"Well whatever you want baby is fine with me."...
"See we go through this shit every damn time. Why won't you just tell me what the hell you want."...
"Cause I don't know what I want goddamn it. KFC then. Bring me a chicken..."...
"I don't want no damn KFC."...
"Checkers then."...
"Is that all you want to eat is some damn burgers and chicken. Goddamn can we try something else?"...
"Well what the hell you want then. I said I don't care."...
"I guess you don't care about this relationship either now do you?"...
"What the fuck..."...
"Fuck you nigga. You'll eat whatever the hell I bring home."...
Click...
"Didn't I just say that muthafucking shit like ten minutes ago. Man what the fuck?"



Get it now...

The convo's usually go that way in the beginning. I try to be sensitive...

honestly? we don't usually care or have an opinion on what's considered by us "mundane questions"

my wife asks me everyday, "what do you want for dinner"

my answer is the same...."i don't know"

Thanks for answering you guys.

I guess I should just make all the decisions, huh?



But I don't wanna...

 

[Mo-Better]

OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!

You got to be kidding with this rant. If the man makes the first move then all he's thinking about is getting his...

As for who's on top it depends, I prefer being on top especially if you have a good tight headboard. Legs up on shoulders arms extended to grasp headboard. Now there's no scooting away for you. Your head is an inch away from the headboard nowhere to go, the legs are locked in an upright position, next stop the cervix. Did I hear you say oooooh?

 

[Andeyhollawho]

The convo's usually go that way in the beginning. I try to be sensitive...






Thanks for answering you guys.

I guess I should just make all the decisions, huh?



But I don't wanna...

Nah that's not it. What we are saying is that if you ask a man a question and he responds with "I don't know" it means he has no opinion on the subject. Seriously. If you were to provide options then that may spark an idea but the way you just stated your question doesn't envoke any feeling one way or another.

That's why I gave the example of "What do you want to eat?" It's universally a vague question. You either have sat around thinking about McD's all day (which would be weird) or you honestly don't have an answer. It doesn't mean he doesn't care. It just means there isn't an immediate comeback and would have to be thought about at length.

Ask him "Baby can I fuck Rico from my job tonight before I get home?" and I am pretty damn sure he won't say "I don't know. Whatever."

 

[DeSiRe]

thanks for answering don and swat

i got a few more

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them

is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?

is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach

what makes a woman special to u

is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?

what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate

i would like to elaborate more on dating outside your socio-economic status...expecially u don...what were some of the problems as a man u experienced...and being u end up having to do it more often are there things u do make the situation work??

i love picking yall's brain

 

[dwnsouth]

should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

hell yeah. unless its things like cuffs and whips...but still a red flag

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

cause we do dumb shit...her asking is like she wants some money....its a power trip thing....somebody who see money as something to show off

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

leave....let some other women who want to deal with it have him...unless you really want to

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

is it true most men want a woman like their mother
uh...no. unless the man is a mamas boy

how important is lingere
very...men are visual. we like to see things....like cars, construction equipment and explosions

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?
its acceptable....if she really into it more than me then i would ask why...


how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus
it depends....i have talked to women who i would basically be saving with my cape and didnt see a problem with it. sometimes in life you have to reach your hand out and help someone who deserves it

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line
keep moving....dont acknowledge him

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard


whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear
thats a hard one cause i have done this without knowing it.....just tell him like i was told...."dont say things you really dont mean or wont be true in the next few weeks or months...dont start with the good stuff and then fall off a few weeks later"

 

[Adam Knows]

thanks for answering don and swat

i got a few more

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them

i can't answer that one..this is a new breed type of nicca that concerns me. i see it more in the south then i do in ohio. just don't want to do anything but sleep late and hang out all night

is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?

no. of course not.

is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach

for the bulk of the men in this world, yes.

what makes a woman special to u

to me myself? (not in this order) physical attributes, similarities in interests, our responsiveness to each other's needs, etc.

is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?

my opinion? i think a man who's self secure would have no probs with a more sexually experienced woman

what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate

attitude. dirty kids. kids. poor hygiene. demanding. spoiled. brattiness. foul mouth.

i would like to elaborate more on dating outside your socio-economic status...expecially u don...what were some of the problems as a man u experienced...and being u end up having to do it more often are there things u do make the situation work??

i could tell you story after story after story. none of them good. unfortunately all the bad stories were with black women.(not condemning all women, just my experiences) it had nothing to do with where they were at, or their socio-economic status all ended up doing the same thing.

i will say this though i learned that (what worked for me) is a woman who "filled in the blanks" is the best way i can describe it. and she was on a socio-economic status i guess you can say was below mine at the time.

 

[dwnsouth]

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them

is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?

is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach

what makes a woman special to u

is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?

what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate

i would like to elaborate more on dating outside your socio-economic status...expecially u don...what were some of the problems as a man u experienced...and being u end up having to do it more often are there things u do make the situation work??

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them
your with the wrong man. when me and my ex moved in, i told her all she had to pay was her car, her ins, and buy groceries. I paid everything else and stayed broke.....happy, well fed and broke. if a man keep trying to find a woman to take care of him...eventually he will find her and he knows it.

is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?
sometimes. if her head is all about the Bible, or she let one bad experience mess her mind up, then yes. If she is cute, pretty, fine, or anything close to average....and over 30, unmarried.....she has to be messed up in the head...there is no other reason.


is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach
yes, I like to fuck but I love to eat......the ex i lived with fed me on the regular.....real food.

what makes a woman special to u
that would take too much typing

is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?
naw.....as long as she hasnt had a lot of boyfriends or a lot of male friends....

what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate
to much clubbin. not washing hands often. bad kids. kids as a result of no condom. attitude towards other people...like people who might work the counter at burger king

 

[onyxfemme]

Sean & BrownTurd after reading your response I feel like I have been pimped-liked..........How much money am I supposed to give you????

Oh. This is easy. I got this one.

Because women can't handle the truth but they can handle what it's not and not that they want not to handle it, it being what not isn't the truth, but what the truth might be and possibly not be depending on the answer of the later.

Advice is Logical and woman tend to be more emotional. That is like taking a program that was designed to run on a mac and placing it on a PC. It just will not work. So giving advice which is logical to an emotional person is a waste of time. This is why we lie. We figure most of the time she aint gone listen any way so we let her make a fool of herself

I like your style

Women dont handle rejection or negative comments well at all and if I'm trying to fuck you or want to continue fucking you and don't want you legs to close up like a timers lock I'm.... not going to tell you...


- That your have no business wearing those pants.

- I really don't give a shit about your feelings when the game is on.

- Your girlfriends are miserable slut buckets that want to see you fail... at life... so that they can have an enternal wingman at the club.

- You can diet all you want, but your ass still needs to hit the gym

- Any girl that you point to me and say "do you think she is sexy?" 99% percent of the time not only would I fuck her, but I would fuck her on top of you.

- Half the shit that comes out of your mouth I don't think you believe yourself... the other half I HOPE you don't believe.

- That your looks/freakiness/big ass/ dick sucking ability/ is keeping me here. Your wits are a bonus... and anytime you nag me with some trivial shit Im slowly looking at the door. So the stuff that pisses me off.... Don't do that.



You know... shit like that.


*two cents*

@The Twix Commercial

because men know, no matter what women are only going to hear one answer. wrong answer = no pussy.

you know like the "do you think i'm fat"... most don't want to answer questions like that anyway since it puts them in the spot (like those twix commercials) so they lie to make you happy.

 

[sean69]

The REAL answers ...

thanks for answering don and swat

i got a few more

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them

It's the woman's fault.


is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?

Depends. Is she mixed?


is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


what makes a woman special to u

If she's retarded.


is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?

Depends on the "stretch-mark to age" ratio


what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate

To many to list, but here's one.
If she's a CAC.


i would like to elaborate more on dating outside your socio-economic status...expecially u don...what were some of the problems as a man u experienced...and being u end up having to do it more often are there things u do make the situation work??

You mean dating poor ugly people?


i love picking yall's brain

you're welcome.

 

[bgque12]

Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

goes to the "thrill of the chase" no sport in a easy laydown.

Plus, if you give it up on the first date, more then likely you've done so for a multitude of others (the logic we go by) hence being labeled "hoe" or "slut"

Bullshit answer! It's just that most men are hypocrits,

 

[SWATLANTA]

thanks for answering don and swat

i got a few more

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them

I don't deal with anybody that is looking for a handout. No woman should either. I was taught as a child that a man is weak if he let's a woman take care of him. That still holds true in my book...

is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?

It depends on whether or not she is single because of baggage or maybe she was pursuing educational and career goals that she focused on instead of trying to be in a relationship. Each woman has a different story and it is ignorant to assume that every woman over 30 is damaged goods...

is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach...

Most men would say yes, it is a plus for me, but definitely not a must that she be an expert in the kitchen.

what makes a woman special to u...

A woman who is intelligent, passionate, considerate, thoughtful, funny, who has a sense of community, likes kids, cares about you as a person, challenges you mentally, and can make your toes curl every night as if it was your first time...amongst other things...

is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?

Definitely not...

what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate

Bad attitude, materialistic, no table manners, dirty home, too many male friends, immature, no sense of humor....I can go on and on LMAO !

i would like to elaborate more on dating outside your socio-economic status...expecially u don...what were some of the problems as a man u experienced...and being u end up having to do it more often are there things u do make the situation work??

i love picking yall's brain

*brushes hair thrice and sips goose...*

 

[patience54]

should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

A: It depends on the nature of the toys. If he has more dildoes or a strap on, I'd be worried.

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

A: What is cockblock?

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

A: One is volunteered, the other is being extracted. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

A: Turn and walk the other way (BTW - same for a woman with alot of baggage).

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

A: the calorie intake

is it true most men want a woman like their mother



how important is lingere

A: Depends on how well you wear it. If you wear it well, that'll put the libido into overdrive.

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

A: Depends on what it is about porn that's tickling their fancy

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

A: not a primary concern

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

A: cause he's got something caught in his teeth

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

A: it's a silly preoccupation, and a darn good companion when it comes to being pretentious

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

A: Challenge him with probing questions that scratch beyond the surface. But don't be obvious about it.

thanks for answering

 

[LoneStar29]

Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

well...no.

it's not so much of a game. yes we DO want to have sex, no question. BUT if your willing to give it that easily, then yes we will take it. In the end though most will look upon you as an easy conquest which you've probably done many times with other men. so there goes the respect.

But if his only intention with her is sex then wether she makes him wait or not he will end up just fucking her and leaving right???

So how is a woman supposed to differentiate between a guy that is "testing" her and a guy that is a straight up dog???

 

[LoneStar29]

The REAL answers ...





you're welcome.

You are a FOOL

 

[LoneStar29]

As men we would prefer to be honest and say we just want sex. But women tend to force us to lie. Even if a woman is thinking about having sex. Most are condition to not be upfront about it because it is not lady like. So indirectly it forces men to lie to set the mode. Cause walking up to a female saying "Hey I want to fuck you" will not get him far.

So you're saying it's our fault that some of ya'll try to dog us out

I think guys who think like that is stupid.

NOT ALL MEN RUN WITH THIS THEORY

Bullshit answer! It's just that most men are hypocrits,

I'm happy to see that some men do not agree with that

 

[DV8ed]

Oh this is a good idea

Ok ok I got one

Why is it that men want to have seen so soon after you meet them but then label you a hoe if you do it???

This guy I met wanted to have sex with me on our first date and after I told him no he said "good cuz then I wouldn't have respected you" ... so then I was like "but if that would make me a hoe and we fuckin' each other that would make you ... ???"

I figure that if an ugly, no game having, no convo having, mf like me can tap the ass on the 1st night, ANYONE can and probably has.

I have one:

Why do men tell women what they want to hear when they know they are telling them wrong. I know a dude that gave a sista wrong advice that made her look foolish and stupid and she doesnt even have a clue
But now dude is laughing at her behind her back at how gullible she is.....WTF?

Because a lot of times women (and men) only want to hear what they want to hear. I had a friend that used to call me crying about her no good boyfriends and ask me what I thought. I'd tell her, she'd do everything BUT what I advised. I finally told her I wasn't doing it anymore because she never listened to me anyway. He simply gave her the answer she wanted and saved himself the hassle.

should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does
YES!!!!

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship
Goes back to the old "survival of the fittest" instinct. "If I can't win, I'll be asumbitch if I'll let you win."

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it
For the same reason a woman with huge tits will wear a low cut top with a pendant hanging between them an get mad because men aren't looking in her eyes.

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage
With honesty. tell him how you feel about it and when you can't handle it anymore.

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it
Swallow = in the mouth & down your throat
Catching means INTENTIONALLY letting it hit you somewhere on your body and NOT trying to dodge or freaking out afterwards.

DeSiRe, for more info on the difference, come holla at me so we can set up a few private tutoring sessions.

is it true most men want a woman like their mother
Yes. It is ingrained in us just like most women seek out a "father figure".

how important is lingere
Waste of money to me. I'm only taking that shit off if it does what its intended to do.

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?
turn on

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus
All Oprah & Halle gotta do is call me. I'll be their bitch!

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line
You need to stop hanging around little boys & thugs.

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard
Because most of the guys on the main board are FOS.

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear
There is no easy way.

thanks for answering

You're welcum!

OK why y'all seem to be so fucking lazy about sex? You never want to make the first move, never want to be on top, want the woman to do everything(which is a HUGE turnoff BTW)???!!!

Ya ever think that maybe it ain't them, its YOU? As in, they ain't attracted to you, and only fucked you because you were there.

I'll bite.

What one quality is the common thread for all your past (real) loves? This could be physical traits or "otherwise"; however, I am mostly looking for "otherwise".

What hooked you?

They were as intelligent as they were beautiful (at least to me).

thanks for answering don and swat

i got a few more

so whats up with these guys that feel comfortable (and sometimes expect) for a woman to financially support them
Can't speak on them. Not my style.

is a woman ages 30 and up unmarried "damaged goods'?
HELL! ALL women are damaged goods to me. But there are "damaged goods" and "DAMNFUCKEDUPINTHEHEAD goods".

is it really true a way to a man's heart is thur his stomach
For me, yes. I want a woman that I feel could be a god "home maker" for my daughter and our future children. Not a deal breaker if she can't cook, but is a definite plus if she can.

what makes a woman special to u
By treating me like I am special to her, and not like she's killing time with me until something better comes along.

is a sexually experienced woman intimadating or a turn off?
I don't want a virgin.

what are some redflags/turnoffs/deal breakers u do not tolerate
A woman that flips moods like a waffle House cook flips pancakes.


i love picking yall's brain

 

[Machete]

Re: Ask a man thread (for the ladies that want to know)

But if his only intention with her is sex then wether she makes him wait or not he will end up just fucking her and leaving right???

So how is a woman supposed to differentiate between a guy that is "testing" her and a guy that is a straight up dog???

You may never be able to differentiate. Some of these cats out here have perfected their game. And can lie / deceive with the best of them. Decide what you want, and don't give up on it. If you just want some ass, then it doesn't matter whether or not he's testing you. If you're looking for something more, then make him wait, if he's just looking for pussy, he will move on. Honestly, pussy is easy to get, for those who know how to get it. I can't say how long, everyone has different levels of comfortability. But along with waiting, watch his actions, make sure that he keeps his word, watch how he deals with people. Eventually, u'll find the truth.

 

[LoneStar29]

Why do men say they don't like gold diggers but when they meet a woman willing to pay her way they take advantage of it and try to make her pay for everything all the time talkin' about "well I've never met a girl like you so let me enjoy this"

 

[LoneStar29]

Why are men so ungrateful when you do something nice for them??? This guy I was seeing told me how he loves lazagna ... I went out of my way to learn how to make it and cooked it for him ... he takes his first bite and says "next time put some more cheese on it" ... he didn't say thank you for trying or I appreciate you going out of your way for me or nothing

 

[LoneStar29]

Why do men treat us like sex objects but if we do the same to them we are hoes???????????????

 

[Thrill3Seeker]

Why do men treat us like sex objects but if we do the same to them we are hoes???????????????

You can treat a man like a sex object....you just can't tell him that he's your sex object. Brothas like a good ego strokin.

 

[melonpecan]

Damn Lone...you DO need a new caliber of men...