Are you checking your best friend for cheating?

[tallblacknyc]

Intergaty, character, trustworthyness are all questionable. If he does that to her...what would he do to me & we not fukin & dont have kids together. ‍

He’s smart enough not to fuck up his money has nothing to do with him not wanting some random head from a chick that’s not his wife

 

[yasky777]

Yes! You definitely wouldn’t want him as a business partner.

Man that’s apples and oranges in my book… Jeff Bezos and JZ come to you and say they want to run a business with you and you’re going to hold up in front of them their infidelity????

In what world?

 

[mailboxpimp]

He’s smart enough not to fuck up his money has nothing to do with him not wanting some random head from a chick that’s not his wife

True.... but do not involve me in it, don't make that part of ya life my life...

If he is willing to run the risk of getting herpes & giving it to his wife that's on him.

 

[geechiedan]

Speaks volumes in what way? Because a person chooses to cheat on their spouse they’re now untrustworthy???

What kind of shit is this!?

logic??? cheating by definition means untrustworthy....otherwise it wouldn't be called CHEATING. Ya'll are applying some man-ho logic to justify that shit

 

[geechiedan]

He’s smart enough not to fuck up his money has nothing to do with him not wanting some random head from a chick that’s not his wife

But he IS risking fucking up his money..thats what divorce court is. Thats what men complain about... in fact thats the biggest factor in what men complain about. Child support and alimony. And whats divorce court? A legal means of settling a dispute in the marriage CONTRACT. And when you get married you sign a literal contract..on top of making a public pledge... and that contract and pledge spells out the responsibilities of both parties and a violation of the terms of that contract is what divorce is all about. And ALL OF THAT is based on TRUST.

If you had a business partner who went behind your back and made a deal with someone else in clear violation of your agreement you could SUE them in court for breaking the terms of your partnership. Any of this sound familiar???

This isn't feminine logic....this is legal procedure that you all either outright ignore or you try to apply some mental work around (man-whore logic) to justify what basically amounts to a lack of impulse control. Then you blame her or the world for a mess YOU created.

Ya'll got more excuses that a nigga going to the electric chair.


You want to truly avoid all that...then stay single. Problem solved.

 

[Texas Catdaddy]

something is zesty about ol boy......

nukka talking out his pussylips, bet them wings ain't even hot .....

 

[tallblacknyc]

But he IS risking fucking up his money..thats what divorce court is. Thats what men complain about... in fact thats the biggest factor in what men complain about. Child support and alimony. And whats divorce court? A legal means of settling a dispute in the marriage CONTRACT. And when you get married you sign a literal contract..on top of making a public pledge... and that contract and pledge spells out the responsibilities of both parties and a violation of the terms of that contract is what divorce is all about. And ALL OF THAT is based on TRUST.

If you had a business partner who went behind your back and made a deal with someone else in clear violation of your agreement you could SUE them in court for breaking the terms of your partnership. Any of this sound familiar???

This isn't feminine logic....this is legal procedure that you all either outright ignore or you try to apply some mental work around (man-whore logic) to justify what basically amounts to a lack of impulse control. Then you blame her or the world for a mess YOU created.

Ya'll got more excuses that a nigga going to the electric chair.


You want to truly avoid all that...then stay single. Problem solved.

So I guess you don’t support biz that men who cheat on their wives since if they cheat on their wives they will more likely cheat their consumers.. no matter the product or service even if it’s great those cheaters bound to screw you over like their wives smh with this pussywhipped logic.. cheaters have created many great things in this world.. the bigger the product or the service the more likely the success he has achieved. The more success the more likely the larger the money he made.. the more he made the more likely he has access to females.. guess what the more options the more likely he gonna catch a body or 2.. go worship that pussywhipped I’m gonna eat nothing but tuna fish for the rest of my life even though there’s 4 billion diff recipes/ plates of food in front of me. That’s right I’m not gonna eat this lobster, steak, shrimp, lasagne, or other recipes just eat this tuna fish every single day for the next several decades and than die..let’s see how many products or services you can survive on that’s only been made by faithful men.. you would basically own nothing

 

[yasky777]

logic??? cheating by definition means untrustworthy....otherwise it wouldn't be called CHEATING. Ya'll are applying some man-ho logic to justify that shit

One could easily say you’re injecting a bucket load of sweet feminine infested hoe logic.

 

[geechiedan]

One could easily say you’re injecting a bucket load of sweet feminine infested hoe logic.

then dont call it cheating call it something else..

 

[geechiedan]

So I guess you don’t support biz that men who cheat on their wives since if they cheat on their wives they will more likely cheat their consumers.. no matter the product or service even if it’s great those cheaters bound to screw you over like their wives smh with this pussywhipped logic.. cheaters have created many great things in this world.. the bigger the product or the service the more likely the success he has achieved. The more success the more likely the larger the money he made.. the more he made the more likely he has access to females.. guess what the more options the more likely he gonna catch a body or 2.. go worship that pussywhipped I’m gonna eat nothing but tuna fish for the rest of my life even though there’s 4 billion diff recipes/ plates of food in front of me. That’s right I’m not gonna eat this lobster, steak, shrimp, lasagne, or other recipes just eat this tuna fish every single day for the next several decades and than die..let’s see how many products or services you can survive on that’s only been made by faithful men.. you would basically own nothing

thats not what was brought up....

If he's prepared to do that in his marriage to his wife. How will he treat the relationship he has with you? That speaks volumes about a person's character.

Yes! You definitely wouldn’t want him as a business partner.

Integrity, character, trustworthiness are all questionable. If he does that to her...what would he do to me & we not fukin & dont have kids together. ‍

now rework your food analogy

 

[yasky777]

then dont call it cheating call it something else..

It’s called infidelity.

 

[geechiedan]

It’s called infidelity.

What is the difference between cheating and infidelity?

Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant other, breaking a commitment or promise in the act. Each case of infidelity is different and fulfills a different need.

What is infidelity in a relationship?

: the act or fact of having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone other than one's husband, wife, or partner. : unfaithfulness to a moral obligation : disloyalty. : lack of belief in a religion.


take your pick on what explanation sounds better to you....

 

[jawnswoop]

My friend was about to get married and we went to the bachelor party and was doing some wild shit with the strippers but we never told and till dis day, he's still married to his lovely wife.

 

[Politic Negro]

REMEMBER marriages was mainly about consolidating and accruing power. Love was a possible byproduct.

Know a bunch of guys getting that extra credit. If their lady is borderline crazy, I'll tell them don't be out there a keep it quiet and keep it pushing.

Not my thing and not my business. Dude in video worried about his 'investment' GTFOH

 

[geechiedan]

My friend was about to get married and we went to the bachelor party and was doing some wild shit with the strippers but we never told and till dis day, he's still married to his lovely wife.

but if he was about to do that TODAY...IN marriage...would you call him on it to stop it??

 

[geechiedan]

REMEMBER marriages was mainly about consolidating and accruing power. Love was a possible byproduct.

Know a bunch of guys getting that extra credit. If their lady is borderline crazy, I'll tell them don't be out there a keep it quiet and keep it pushing.

Not my thing and not my business. Dude in video worried about his 'investment' GTFOH

said that years ago....

I think the concept of marriage of the modern era should definitely be rethought. Long before the romantic idea of marriage..the concept was always as part of some business arrangement..either for alliance or more land etc. The romantic notion of a man and woman getting married purely for love has always been secondary if considered at all for MOST of the history of marriage.

Back a few decades ago if people got married for business reasons...ie healthcare or career goal purposes, green card or even as beards and skirts people called those "marriages of convenience" and looked down on people for doing that...but those unions are at least honest and upfront about WHY they are doing it (at least to each other). Romantic interests can wane...shit you got the groom saying I do while looking at the bridesmaid he wants to fuck in a broom closet after the ceremony. That means he's not taking what he's doing seriously..who's fault is that???

Both parties have a responsibility as well to what they bring to the marriage and expectation and ideas..

 

[jawnswoop]

but if he was about to do that TODAY...IN marriage...would you call him on it to stop it??

 

[D24OHA]

Mfkr seems real selfish talking about "I spent MY money on YOUR wedding!" "ALL this money, on YOUR wedding".....

Mfkr did you want to marry his wife?!

Y'all had a good time right?!

He then said "have me lying to this woman....."

That's cool, I can respect that....but he mentioned "his" money wayy too much for me.

Now I'm saying let your boy cheat in your face, but....his main reason seem really sus....

 

[geechiedan]

 

[yasky777]

What is the difference between cheating and infidelity?

Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant other, breaking a commitment or promise in the act. Each case of infidelity is different and fulfills a different need.

What is infidelity in a relationship?

: the act or fact of having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone other than one's husband, wife, or partner. : unfaithfulness to a moral obligation : disloyalty. : lack of belief in a religion.


take your pick on what explanation sounds better to you....

I don’t give a shit, you’re the one playing judge and jury. We obviously don’t agree and I believe your view is coming from some kind of personal experience. Men and women aren’t wired the same and that logic doesn’t belong in business.

 

[tallblacknyc]

Who would you trust with your life or money more a man that cheated on his wife or a snitch that would backstab somebody who would save his life, give the shirt off his back to his friend, share the same plate with his boy, share his last with his boy , over a chick he don’t really have a connection to


I’ll take the cheater anyday over the snitch nig who would backstab his own boy

 

[geechiedan]

I don’t give a shit, you’re the one playing judge and jury. We obviously don’t agree and I believe your view is coming from some kind of personal experience. Men and women aren’t wired the same and that logic doesn’t belong in business.

what logic are you talking about?? honor? loyalty? faithfulness?? these are the basis of all relationships personal or professional.

Doesn't matter whose wired what way... a mans word is his bond right?? what do you think marriage vows are?

And EVERYONE'S perspective on life is based on their personal experiences....yours included. Those experiences inform you on how you should conduct your relationships personal and professional. Clearly you believe its cool to cheat on a spouse. I don't.

If my BEST FRIEND is making a move to cheat on his wife in front of me..I would remind my BEST FRIEND that he shouldn't fuck up his situation. What he does on his own is his thing but I'm not going to cheerlead him to do some shit like that. Thats not judging thats helping. You failing to see that shows an immaturity in yourself.

 

[tallblacknyc]

what logic are you talking about?? honor? loyalty? faithfulness?? these are the basis of all relationships personal or professional.

Doesn't matter whose wired what way... a mans word is his bond right?? what do you think marriage vows are?

And EVERYONE'S perspective on life is based on their personal experiences....yours included. Those experiences inform you on how you should conduct your relationships personal and professional. Clearly you believe its cool to cheat on a spouse. I don't.

If my BEST FRIEND is making a move to cheat on his wife in front of me..I would remind my BEST FRIEND that he shouldn't fuck up his situation. What he does on his own is his thing but I'm not going to cheerlead him to do some shit like that. Thats not judging thats helping. You failing to see that shows an in immaturity in yourself.

Geech: so what you saved my life when I was drowning, let me sleep on the couch when I was homeless, I’m gonna snitch on your ass to a female I barely know and who would’ve let me drown and die outside in the cold

 

[geechiedan]

Geech: so what you saved my life when I was drowning, let me sleep on the couch when I was homeless, I’m gonna snitch on your ass to a female I barely know and who would’ve let me drown and die outside in the cold

dude...seriously. WTF are you talking about? All the question in the OP is Are you checking your best friend for cheating?

all that dude did in that video is REMIND OLD BOY HE WAS MARRIED..thats ALL that happened. For that his friend stopped speaking to him.

nothing youre saying has anything to do with that.

 

[lazarus]

But he IS risking fucking up his money..thats what divorce court is. Thats what men complain about... in fact thats the biggest factor in what men complain about. Child support and alimony. And whats divorce court? A legal means of settling a dispute in the marriage CONTRACT. And when you get married you sign a literal contract..on top of making a public pledge... and that contract and pledge spells out the responsibilities of both parties and a violation of the terms of that contract is what divorce is all about. And ALL OF THAT is based on TRUST.

If you had a business partner who went behind your back and made a deal with someone else in clear violation of your agreement you could SUE them in court for breaking the terms of your partnership. Any of this sound familiar???

This isn't feminine logic....this is legal procedure that you all either outright ignore or you try to apply some mental work around (man-whore logic) to justify what basically amounts to a lack of impulse control. Then you blame her or the world for a mess YOU created.

Ya'll got more excuses that a nigga going to the electric chair.


You want to truly avoid all that...then stay single. Problem solved.

one is a decision made by your dick.

when men make side deals with business, its not because they have a hard on. equating the two is disengenious.

 

[keone]

If its just a girl cool
If its wife and kids are involved
Then yeah dont do that shit around me
Dont want the kids growing up hatin me

 

[geechiedan]

one is a decision made by your dick.

when men make side deals with business, its not because they have a hard on. equating the two is disengenious.

men control their dicks not the other way around. Again dont get married and certainly dont make promises you have no intention to keep.

But doing a side deal behind your business partner's back is still a violation of a contractual agreement which speaks to the basic trustworthiness of the person.

At its core it comes down to is this person a man of their word or not..personally or professionally.

 

[lazarus]

men control their dicks not the other way around. Again dont get married and certainly dont make promises you have no intention to keep.

But doing a side deal behind your business partner's back is still a violation of a contractual agreement which speaks to the basic trustworthiness of the person.

At its core it comes down to is this person a man of their word or not..personally or professionally.

nope. you dont get slide away from that difference.

one is about you controlling your sexual desires. that has nothing to do with a business contract with another man.

you think single or faithful men wont screw you on a business deal? lmao

 

[geechiedan]

nope. you dont get slide away from that difference.

one is about your controlling your sexual desires. that has nothing to do with a business contract with another man.

you think single or faithful men wont screw you on a business deal? lmao

we're talking about the character of a person.

Cheating on ua wife is a huge charachter issue. Id rather you didnt tell me, especially if she is a good woman.

If he's prepared to do that in his marriage to his wife. How will he treat the relationship he has with you? That speaks volumes about a person's character.

Speaks volumes in what way? Because a person chooses to cheat on their spouse they’re now untrustworthy???

What kind of shit is this!?

Yes! You definitely wouldn’t want him as a business partner.

Give you an example....ever see the show Industry? Its about stock traders...Earlier in the show its revealed that Eric failed to get a client to come on to his company and the reason was because he said something to his own wife in front of the client that offended him at a dinner party. Well in this clip we see Eric with his wife at the office xmas party and he's talking to his underling.. watch how he acts.



he called his wife a cunt in public..doesn't matter thats how they play. Its clearly offputting to witness and it puts people in a position to judge his character based on how he publicly treats his wife. A client declined doing business with him behind shit like that.

The point: People watch your behavior and how you conduct yourself and make their decisions on whether or not they want to fuck with you based on that...personally AND professionally.

 

[easy_b]

I don’t want to sound like an asshole, but if he is dating my sister or a close family member, I have to check him. If he is dating some random chick, I don’t know then it’s none of my business.

 

[daddyfatsacks9000]

I keep seeing cats in here referring to "checking". "Check this" and "I'm gonna have to check him". These aren't children y'all talking about. These are other fully grown men. I don't know about y'all, but tread lightly with that "checkin" shit around me. I don't know what the internet is showing you niggas, but if you come at me too strong you liable to get chin checked. Whether you right or wrong. Day ones might get a slight pass, but they've know me for long enough to know how to broach certain subjects. Just something to keep in mind with this "discussion". Even though I don't understand why this is even a "discussion".

 

[jawnswoop]

I don’t want to sound like an asshole, but if he is dating my sister or a close family member, I have to check him. If he is dating some random chick, I don’t know then it’s none of my business.

I agree, that's law!

Everything else, I'll mind my business and keep it moving.

 

[Camille]

Hilarious. So if a woman wants to know if you'll lie to protect your boy all she has to do is corner you and say he said y'all were together at a time he was with her to see if you take the bait. Good to know.

Now, if it was a woman who's friends were encouraging her to cheat or passively watching it happen and they help her cover up, you'd be insisting she get new friends because they are a bad influence only wanting to cause division in the household. Well, actually that's a non issue because most of y'all would probably leave if you found out she cheated.

Carry on...

 

[lazarus]

we're talking about the character of a person.









Give you an example....ever see the show Industry? Its about stock traders...Earlier in the show its revealed that Eric failed to get a client to come on to his company and the reason was because he said something to his own wife in front of the client that offended him at a dinner party. Well in this clip we see Eric with his wife at the office xmas party and he's talking to his underling.. watch how he acts.



he called his wife a cunt in public..doesn't matter thats how they play. Its clearly offputting to witness and it puts people in a position to judge his character based on how he publicly treats his wife. A client declined doing business with him behind shit like that.

The point: People watch your behavior and how you conduct yourself and make their decisions on whether or not they want to fuck with you based on that...personally AND professionally.

you moving goalposts and clips that have nothing to do with an individual just cheating on his wife. Any business deal doesn't involve fucking someone else so it says nothing of his character when it comes to business. he's either a shady business person or not. And you didn't answer the question. Are single people and people that have never cheated better business partners because they don't have the ability or need to fuck someone else?

Pure stupidity.

But let's test your theory.

Would you rather do business with George Bush or Bill Clinton?

 

[peterlongshort]

So I guess you don’t support biz that men who cheat on their wives since if they cheat on their wives they will more likely cheat their consumers.. no matter the product or service even if it’s great those cheaters bound to screw you over like their wives smh with this pussywhipped logic.. cheaters have created many great things in this world.. the bigger the product or the service the more likely the success he has achieved. The more success the more likely the larger the money he made.. the more he made the more likely he has access to females.. guess what the more options the more likely he gonna catch a body or 2.. go worship that pussywhipped I’m gonna eat nothing but tuna fish for the rest of my life even though there’s 4 billion diff recipes/ plates of food in front of me. That’s right I’m not gonna eat this lobster, steak, shrimp, lasagne, or other recipes just eat this tuna fish every single day for the next several decades and than die..let’s see how many products or services you can survive on that’s only been made by faithful men.. you would basically own nothing

Let me ask you this Boss. Random pussy, 9/10, is a liabilty . Correct?QUOTE="tallblacknyc, post: 23941463, member: 40965"]
Who would you trust with your life or money more a man that cheated on his wife or a snitch that would backstab somebody who would save his life, give the shirt off his back to his friend, share the same plate with his boy, share his last with his boy , over a chick he don’t really have a connection to


I’ll take the cheater anyday over the snitch nig who would backstab his own boy
[/QUOTE]
It ain’t backstabbing. If you stood next to your boy and his wife and you cosigned that shit it’s a wrap. That’s his wife/family and you will protect them when he can’t. The goal is to be the first one she calls when he’s fucking up. “Come get your boy”. I’ve had a few of those….