Are Single BLK Mothers DESTROYING their sons?

[RoadRage]

Women don't conceive children by themselves therefore its impossible for a woman to bring a child into the world by herself. When you figure out the solution to that end of it then you got something.

So many points are problematic and would be a nonstarter politically and socially. Progressives and liberals would kill it but I'll tell you who would be onboard... conservatives...ANYTHING that can used to control and dictate to the poor and especially black and brown... they are down with that program or really POGRAM.

Also if you put in a clause that a parent can give up parental rights to their kid (and that does exist already) and you can't be upset that she's claiming how their father doesn't care about them...also the sheer knowledge of that by the kid can't be a good feeling. Especially if the father goes on to have other kids and a family with another woman somewhere else.

In any case....all of that could be bypassed by him just using a condom or wait for it...waiting till marriage since its so important for children to be born in wedlock. How many men especially black men agree to do that?? How realistic do you think that would be?



both of your arguments are more concerned with the financial burden "illegit" kids either put on the man or put on the system.. none of them address the notion that black women are essentially bad single parents...something apparently racist cacs and many black men here agree on.

Also those solutions really don't encourage or incentivize men to get married or stay in the home...at least for the reason of staying with her long term. I looked at what you wrote and none of it incentivizes black men to change their behavior. You all concede that. If the threat of JAIL or GARNISHMENT doesn't change his mind then nothing will and oh well lets just concentrate on getting HER to change shit. In the HOPES that he will play along...how realistic is that??

But NONE OF THAT addresses the contention that single black mothers damage their children, black sons in particular. Where that comes from and why theres a cycle?

It seems to me to that the two biggest issues by far in a couple breaking down are financial and fidelity. We ALL know that a major component of break ups is cheating. I said this before two pages back and you called it whataboutisms

You want the state to incentivize marriage when its hard to maintain a happy union when dudes got side bitches...last I checked that tends to be a deal breaker for most women for some reason.. .. hell half the married dudes on bgol brag about how many side bitches they have... then mofos wanna act surprised when wifey is burning their clothes and trying to leverage the kids against them. What did you think the reaction was going to be for cheating on your wife or "main girl" you led to believe was only one?

maybe if HE makes better choices the rest of that bullshit CAN'T happen...no pregnancy...no babymomma drama..no family court...no custody issues....how about we try that for a minute and see how it works?

your response:


show me a dude thats willing to wait because SHE wants to wait until marriage....hell DID YOU?? IS THAT A DEAL YOU WOULD AGREE TO?? BE HONEST.

Yeah its fucked up when women get pissed off because their men cheated on them so they leverage the kids against him but she's hurt so she wants him to feel the same level of pain and betrayal she feels.. Thats not a female thing thats a HUMAN reaction cuz men do it too. Ya'll need to stop thinking this women are from Klingon and men are from Vulcan bullshit that men are all logical and thought processing and women are purely emotional. If you found out your wife or significant other was cheating on YOU and had the other nigga around your kids how would YOU react?? I GARANTEE you its NOT gonna be you telling the kids how their mommy and you dont agree right now but she's a good person tho.

So in order to break the poverty cycle and prevent single black female parenting these issues have to addressed in some way?

Not reading all that shit till you answer the following question, do you think that the decision to have children should be a fair even, and equal process or do you think men should continue to be unjustly crucified for doing what the rest of the world is doing, without legal punishment, that's having sex with a willing partner?

 

[playahaitian]

What are BLK mothers?

 

[godofwine]

Think of every woman you know. Is it easier to count the ones who are married or is it easier to count the ones who are single mothers?

You know what the answer is and you know it.

Now, no, This Woman's actions are not indicative of every single mother. However, the actions of most single mothers are of Reckless, irresponsible, fucking with no rubber Behavior not just with a man that's not her husband, but more often than not is not even a man that's husband material.

Yes, these dudes leaving women to be single moms are terrible people too, but do you know why I don't co-sign on a car with any chick but my wife?

Cuz I'm gonna be the one stuck with it.

Single mothers are the ones stuck with the result of the irresponsible behavior of RAW FUCKING so they should be more careful of dudes who ain't shit the same way I'm careful not to co-sign on a car with bitch I'm fucking that's not my wife.

 

[Eclipse99]

Do we need to define what a "single mother" is first? ...I mean I get what society says about the shit but she didn't have the child by herself.

Anytime I see a troubled young man, I always ask about the father and whats that situation. If the father deliberately does not want anything to do with the child, then you can't really blame the woman. Shes probably doing the best she can....

Now if she's being a bitch about the father being in his son's life then thats another story. Shes definitely the problem.

 

[RoadRage]

Do we need to define what a "single mother" is first? ...I mean I get what society says about the shit but she didn't have the child by herself.

Anytime I see a troubled young man, I always ask about the father and whats that situation. If the father deliberately does not want anything to do with the child, then you can't really blame the woman. Shes probably doing the best she can....

Now if she's being a bitch about the father being in his son's life then thats another story. Shes definitely the problem.

The first thing she and guys like you need to do is stop equating fucking with automatically having babies because we sort of found a cure for unwanted pregnancies a long time ago.
Next, these women need to find out if the guy only wants to smash or be the father of her kids. Now if he says the latter, then she should demand they get married first, just to protect herself and her unborn child.
But if she ignores all of this shit, (simple things that most women around the world, and what women in the past used to and still do) then she should expect to be a single mother and all the poverty that comes along with it.

 

[darth frosty]

However, the actions of most single mothers are of Reckless, irresponsible, fucking with no rubber Behavior not just with a man that's not her husband, but more often than not is not even a man that's husband material.

Well stated GoW.

One nugget I would like to add that has not been addressed...Most of these women are getting knocked up by the same dudes!

How many women are sharing the same baby daddy?

How many women hear their girlfriends tell them about sex with the guy that knocked them up and than seek to lie with that same dude?

How many women see that a guy is not taking care of the kids he has by multiple women yet continue to seek relations with him?

 

[geechiedan]

Think of every woman you know. Is it easier to count the ones who are married or is it easier to count the ones who are single mothers?

You know what the answer is and you know it.

Now, no, This Woman's actions are not indicative of every single mother. However, the actions of most single mothers are of Reckless, irresponsible, fucking with no rubber Behavior not just with a man that's not her husband, but more often than not is not even a man that's husband material.

Yes, these dudes leaving women to be single moms are terrible people too, but do you know why I don't co-sign on a car with any chick but my wife?

Cuz I'm gonna be the one stuck with it.

Single mothers are the ones stuck with the result of the irresponsible behavior of RAW FUCKING so they should be more careful of dudes who ain't shit the same way I'm careful not to co-sign on a car with bitch I'm fucking that's not my wife.

These are just questions based on observations of human behavior period.


How do you tell a good one from a bad one??

How do you know that the person talking and acting like they the one is actually NOT the one?

if your thirsty but all you have is dirty water to drink...

if you've grown up eating garbage do you think you'd recognise or appreciate a healthy meal if one is presented to you?

Well stated GoW.

One nugget I would like to add that has not been addressed...Most of these women are getting knocked up by the same dudes!

How many women are sharing the same baby daddy?

How many women hear their girlfriends tell them about sex with the guy that knocked them up and than seek to lie with that same dude?

How many women see that a guy is not taking care of the kids he has by multiple women yet continue to seek relations with him?

you guys keep hittin me with colin but thats was already brought up... I said like 4 pages back:

She needs to make better choices...she needs to think...she needs to consider... well what the hell does he need to do??? It doesn't matter if one man impregnates 100 women that man STILL has a responsibility. And for some reason you all think all these women either know each other or know of each other and are doing all of this on purpose because black women are just stupid like that.

Man 1 lives in NY and gets woman A pregnant....then fucks woman B...well woman B may know woman A but thinks he's going to be different with her.

Then he fucks woman C...well woman C doesn't know about A and B...then he visits his cousin in Florida and meets and fucks woman D well she lives in another STATE and has no clue about A, B, and C.

We're up to at least 4 kids by four different women and you all say ALL FOUR of those women are stupid for fucking Man1....well what about Man1? well he's just dumb.

And you guys don't see the issue here??

 

[geechiedan]

The first thing she and guys like you need to do is stop equating fucking with automatically having babies because we sort of found a cure for unwanted pregnancies a long time ago.
Next, these women need to find out if the guy only wants to smash or be the father of her kids. Now if he says the latter, then she should demand they get married first, just to protect herself and her unborn child.
But if she ignores all of this shit, (simple things that most women around the world, and what women in the past used to and still do) then she should expect to be a single mother and all the poverty that comes along with it.

you know this doesn't work in the real world right...

 

[Tito_Jackson]

But your controlling her body and her decision on what to do with her body in a direct way for your own benefit even if she doesn't agree with it. How is that any different from the welfare office (the state) making the decision to manipulate her body regardless of her consent?

Simple.

It is not just her body. There is a body inside of her. It's incredible that people always ignore that fact. Second, that body inside her body was created not just by her, the male as well. Exactly half of the chromosomes and 51% of the DNA. You can not name any other possession where a person can destroy a person's possession without their consent. If you and your girl had a pet, and you decided to put that cat down, you could be sued and possibly jailed.

A woman should be able to do whatever she wants to do with her body, not the body inside if her.

 

[RoadRage]

you know this doesn't work in the real world right...

Been working for thousands of years, and with birth control and the morning after it should be ten times easier today.

 

[geechiedan]

Simple.

It is not just her body. There is a body inside of her. It's incredible that people always ignore that fact. Second, that body inside her body was created not just by her, the male as well. Exactly half of the chromosomes and 51% of the DNA. You can not name any other possession where a person can destroy a person's possession without their consent. If you and your girl had a pet, and you decided to put that cat down, you could be sued and possibly jailed.

A woman should be able to do whatever she wants to do with her body.

then its all the more reason why dudes should be careful and mindful about who gets their seed right??

 

[Tito_Jackson]

then its all the more reason why dudes should be careful and mindful about who gets their seed right??

Correct

 

[geechiedan]

Been working for thousands of years, and with birth control and the morning after it should be ten times easier today.

easier?? okay would you take the pill for men if one was on the market??

in TWO DECADES theyve been trying to develop the PILL for men but so far none have come out the trial stage yet...

There are two main areas of research into male contraception:

• hormonal contraception – where synthetic (man-made) hormones are used to temporarily stop the development of healthy sperm
• non-hormonal methods – where other techniques are used to prevent healthy sperm from entering a woman's vagina

Hormonal contraception
In fertile men, new sperm cells are constantly created in the testicles. This process is triggered by the hormone testosterone.

The goal of hormonal contraception research is to find a way of temporarily blocking the effects of testosterone so testicles stop producing healthy sperm cells. However, this needs to be achieved without lowering testosterone levels to such an extent that it triggers side effects, such as a loss of sexual desire.

Male contraceptive gel
In 2019, a year-long trial was launched amongst 80 men in Edinburgh and Manchester to study the effects of NES/T.

NES/T is a gel that contains synthetic forms of progesterone and testosterone. The progesterone “switches off” sperm production in the testicles, and lowers levels of natural testosterone – the synthetic testosterone in the gel counters the effects of this.

The gel is designed to be rubbed into the shoulders and chest every day, and absorbs quickly into the bloodstream through the skin. With correct usage it should prevent pregnancy in the vast majority of cases.

At the time of writing, the results of the trial are unknown. However, the professor leading the study, Richard Anderson, claims that the method is likely more effective than male condoms.

Male contraceptive pill

One pill is called 11-beta-MNDTC and works in a similar way to NES/T gel, by blocking sperm production. In a small trial it caused the hormones required for sperm production to drop, and some men experienced side-effects such as acne, fatigue and headaches.


MEANWHILE IN THE LAST 50 YEARS OF THE PILL FOR WOMEN

Birth control pills affect a person’s hormone levels, leading to various side effects. These effects usually resolve within 2–3 months, but they can persist.

In the United States, around 12.6% of females aged 15–49 years take oral contraceptive pills. They are safe for most females to use.


The sections below will look at some common side effects of oral contraceptives.:

1. Spotting between periods
Breakthrough bleeding, or spotting, refers to when vaginal bleeding occurs between menstrual cycles. It may look like light bleeding or brown discharge.

Spotting is the most common Trusted Source side effect of birth control pills. It happens because the body is adjusting to changing levels of hormones, and the uterus is adjusting to having a thinner lining.

Taking the pill as prescribed, usually every day and at the same time each day, can help prevent bleeding between periods.

Learn more about spotting and birth control here.

2. Nausea
Some people experience mild nausea when first taking the pill, but this usually subsides. Taking the pill with food or at bedtime may help.

Birth control should not make people feel sick all the time. If the nausea is severe or lasts for a few months, it is best to talk to a healthcare provider.

3. Breast tenderness
Taking birth control pills often causes the breasts to feel tender, especially soon after a person starts taking them. Wearing a supportive bra can help reduce breast tenderness.

Along with increased breast sensitivity, the hormones in the pill can make the breasts grow bigger. Learn more here.

A person should talk to their healthcare provider about severe breast pain or other breast changes, especially a new or changing breast lump.

4. Headaches and migraine
The hormones in birth control pills can cause or increase the frequency of headaches and migraine.

Changes in the female sex hormones (estrogen and progesterone) can trigger migraineTrusted Source. Symptoms can depend on the dosage and type of pill. For example, low dose pills are less likely to cause this symptom.

On the other hand, if a person’s migraine is associated with PMS, taking the pill may actually reduce their symptoms.

5. Weight gain
Birth control pills often list weight gain as a possible side effect, though research has not yet confirmed this.

In theory, birth control pills could lead to increases in fluid retention or water weight. They could also lead to increases in fat or muscle mass. However, some people may instead report weight loss when taking the pill.

According to a 2017 articleTrusted Source, there has not been enough research to confirm whether the hormones in birth control pills lead to weight gain or weight loss.

6. Mood changes
Hormones play an important role in a person’s mood and emotions. Changes in hormone levels, which taking the pill may cause, can affect a person’s mood.

Some research, including a 2016 studyTrusted Source of 1 million females in Denmark, suggests a link between hormonal contraception and depression.

If a person is concerned about mood changes, they can talk to their healthcare provider. If the symptoms are linked to taking the pill, changing pills may help.

Learn more about the link between depression and birth control here.

7. Missed periods
Taking birth control pills can cause very light periods or missed periods. This is because of the hormones they contain.

Depending on the type of birth control, people can use the pill to safely skip a period. Learn more here.

If a person suspects that they may be pregnant, it is best to take a pregnancy test. The birth control pill is very effective, but pregnancies can occur — especially with improper use.

Many factors can cause a late or missed period, including:

• stress
• illness
• travel
• hormonal problems
• thyroid problems

Learn about the possible causes of late periods and some reasons that birth control causes missed periods here.

8. Decreased libido
The pill can affect sex drive, or libido, in some people. This is due to hormonal changes.

Other people might experience an increased libido by, for example, removing any concerns they may have had about pregnancy and easing any symptoms of PMS.

9. Vaginal discharge
Changes in vaginal discharge may occur when taking the pill. This may be an increase or a decrease in vaginal lubrication or a change in the nature of the discharge.

If the pill causes vaginal dryness and a person wants to engage in sexual activity, using lubrication can help make this more comfortable.

These changes are not usually harmful, but alterations in color or odor could point to an infection.

Learn about what the different colors of vaginal discharge indicate here.

10. Eye changes
Some researchTrusted Source has linked hormonal changes due to the pill with a thickening of the cornea in the eyes. This does not suggest a higher risk of eye disease, but it may mean that contact lenses no longer fit comfortably.

People who wear contact lenses can talk to their ophthalmologist if they notice any changes in their vision or lens tolerance.

then theres cycling on and off... Its not like popping tictacs theres its a whole regimen to doing it...

so apparently its NOT as simple as you think it is...

but the question is if there were possibilities of those side effects for men and our pill...WOULD YOU STILL TAKE IT??

OPEN QUESTION FOR ANYONE. AND ITS A YES OR NO QUESTION

 

[RoadRage]

easier?? okay would you take the pill for men if one was on the market??

in TWO DECADES theyve been trying to develop the PILL for men but so far none have come out the trial stage yet...

There are two main areas of research into male contraception:

• hormonal contraception – where synthetic (man-made) hormones are used to temporarily stop the development of healthy sperm
• non-hormonal methods – where other techniques are used to prevent healthy sperm from entering a woman's vagina

Hormonal contraception
In fertile men, new sperm cells are constantly created in the testicles. This process is triggered by the hormone testosterone.

The goal of hormonal contraception research is to find a way of temporarily blocking the effects of testosterone so testicles stop producing healthy sperm cells. However, this needs to be achieved without lowering testosterone levels to such an extent that it triggers side effects, such as a loss of sexual desire.

Male contraceptive gel
In 2019, a year-long trial was launched amongst 80 men in Edinburgh and Manchester to study the effects of NES/T.

NES/T is a gel that contains synthetic forms of progesterone and testosterone. The progesterone “switches off” sperm production in the testicles, and lowers levels of natural testosterone – the synthetic testosterone in the gel counters the effects of this.

The gel is designed to be rubbed into the shoulders and chest every day, and absorbs quickly into the bloodstream through the skin. With correct usage it should prevent pregnancy in the vast majority of cases.

At the time of writing, the results of the trial are unknown. However, the professor leading the study, Richard Anderson, claims that the method is likely more effective than male condoms.

Male contraceptive pill

One pill is called 11-beta-MNDTC and works in a similar way to NES/T gel, by blocking sperm production. In a small trial it caused the hormones required for sperm production to drop, and some men experienced side-effects such as acne, fatigue and headaches.


MEANWHILE IN THE LAST 50 YEARS OF THE PILL FOR WOMEN

Birth control pills affect a person’s hormone levels, leading to various side effects. These effects usually resolve within 2–3 months, but they can persist.

In the United States, around 12.6% of females aged 15–49 years take oral contraceptive pills. They are safe for most females to use.


The sections below will look at some common side effects of oral contraceptives.:

1. Spotting between periods
Breakthrough bleeding, or spotting, refers to when vaginal bleeding occurs between menstrual cycles. It may look like light bleeding or brown discharge.

Spotting is the most common Trusted Source side effect of birth control pills. It happens because the body is adjusting to changing levels of hormones, and the uterus is adjusting to having a thinner lining.

Taking the pill as prescribed, usually every day and at the same time each day, can help prevent bleeding between periods.

Learn more about spotting and birth control here.

2. Nausea
Some people experience mild nausea when first taking the pill, but this usually subsides. Taking the pill with food or at bedtime may help.

Birth control should not make people feel sick all the time. If the nausea is severe or lasts for a few months, it is best to talk to a healthcare provider.

3. Breast tenderness
Taking birth control pills often causes the breasts to feel tender, especially soon after a person starts taking them. Wearing a supportive bra can help reduce breast tenderness.

Along with increased breast sensitivity, the hormones in the pill can make the breasts grow bigger. Learn more here.

A person should talk to their healthcare provider about severe breast pain or other breast changes, especially a new or changing breast lump.

4. Headaches and migraine
The hormones in birth control pills can cause or increase the frequency of headaches and migraine.

Changes in the female sex hormones (estrogen and progesterone) can trigger migraineTrusted Source. Symptoms can depend on the dosage and type of pill. For example, low dose pills are less likely to cause this symptom.

On the other hand, if a person’s migraine is associated with PMS, taking the pill may actually reduce their symptoms.

5. Weight gain
Birth control pills often list weight gain as a possible side effect, though research has not yet confirmed this.

In theory, birth control pills could lead to increases in fluid retention or water weight. They could also lead to increases in fat or muscle mass. However, some people may instead report weight loss when taking the pill.

According to a 2017 articleTrusted Source, there has not been enough research to confirm whether the hormones in birth control pills lead to weight gain or weight loss.

6. Mood changes
Hormones play an important role in a person’s mood and emotions. Changes in hormone levels, which taking the pill may cause, can affect a person’s mood.

Some research, including a 2016 studyTrusted Source of 1 million females in Denmark, suggests a link between hormonal contraception and depression.

If a person is concerned about mood changes, they can talk to their healthcare provider. If the symptoms are linked to taking the pill, changing pills may help.

Learn more about the link between depression and birth control here.

7. Missed periods
Taking birth control pills can cause very light periods or missed periods. This is because of the hormones they contain.

Depending on the type of birth control, people can use the pill to safely skip a period. Learn more here.

If a person suspects that they may be pregnant, it is best to take a pregnancy test. The birth control pill is very effective, but pregnancies can occur — especially with improper use.

Many factors can cause a late or missed period, including:

• stress
• illness
• travel
• hormonal problems
• thyroid problems

Learn about the possible causes of late periods and some reasons that birth control causes missed periods here.

8. Decreased libido
The pill can affect sex drive, or libido, in some people. This is due to hormonal changes.

Other people might experience an increased libido by, for example, removing any concerns they may have had about pregnancy and easing any symptoms of PMS.

9. Vaginal discharge
Changes in vaginal discharge may occur when taking the pill. This may be an increase or a decrease in vaginal lubrication or a change in the nature of the discharge.

If the pill causes vaginal dryness and a person wants to engage in sexual activity, using lubrication can help make this more comfortable.

These changes are not usually harmful, but alterations in color or odor could point to an infection.

Learn about what the different colors of vaginal discharge indicate here.

10. Eye changes
Some researchTrusted Source has linked hormonal changes due to the pill with a thickening of the cornea in the eyes. This does not suggest a higher risk of eye disease, but it may mean that contact lenses no longer fit comfortably.

People who wear contact lenses can talk to their ophthalmologist if they notice any changes in their vision or lens tolerance.

then theres cycling on and off... Its not like popping tictacs theres its a whole regimen to doing it...

so apparently its NOT as simple as you think it is...

but the question is if there were possibilities of those side effects for men and our pill...WOULD YOU STILL TAKE IT??

OPEN QUESTION FOR ANYONE. AND ITS A YES OR NO QUESTION

I know gold diggers and sugar babies who eat right and work out every day, knowing damn well t if they get pregnant by the wrong guy their career would be over, so they take the right birth control with no problems. Meanwhile, those fugly chicks all complain about getting fat and all types of excuses, yet five years later they all wind up fat with kids. But but I thought it was the pill that gets you fat!
By the way while you at it list the possible side effects of having babies!

 

[dHustla]

If the father deliberately does not want anything to do with the child, then you can't really blame the woman.

She usually plays a role in that

 

[dHustla]

I know gold diggers and sugar babies who eat right and work out every day, knowing damn well t if they get pregnant by the wrong guy their career would be over, so they take the right birth control with no problems. Meanwhile, those fugly chicks all complain about getting fat and all types of excuses, yet five years later they all wind up fat with kids. But but I thought it was the pill that gets you fat!
By the way while you at it list the possible side effects of having babies!

Fam, stop going back & forth with meechie, it's fucking up our ability to live our best lifes.

How & why he know or care about ALL. THOSE. SIDE. EFFECTS. of birth control? I know how the pussy work enough to control it, please myself, and plan around its cycle.

 

[geechiedan]

I know gold diggers and sugar babies who eat right and work out every day, knowing damn well t if they get pregnant by the wrong guy their career would be over, so they take the right birth control with no problems. Meanwhile, those fugly chicks all complain about getting fat and all types of excuses, yet five years later they all wind up fat with kids. But but I thought it was the pill that gets you fat!
By the way while you at it list the possible side effects of having babies!

Yeah and there are guys who use condoms every single time and never have any of these issues themselves...whats your point?

 

[RoadRage]

Yeah and there are guys who use condoms every single time and never have any of these issues themselves...whats your point?

Condoms suck, if you had a dick you would know!

 

[geechiedan]

Fam, stop going back & forth with meechie, it's fucking up our ability to live our best lifes.

How & why he know or care about ALL. THOSE. SIDE. EFFECTS. of birth control? I know how the pussy work enough to control it, please myself, and plan around its cycle.

your best life is living in an echo chamber where every thought is repeated back to you in agreement?? oookay

 

[geechiedan]

Condoms suck, if you had a dick you would know!

so YOU don't want to do what it takes to avoid the babymama drama.... got it...leave it all up to her then pout when she wants to keep it (tho why she'd want to bring your gremlins into the world is anyone's guess)

 

[RoadRage]

so YOU don't want to do what it takes to avoid the babymama drama.... got it...leave it all up to her then pout when she wants to keep it (tho why she'd want to bring your gremlins into the world is anyone's guess)

I good, one kid, my biggest technique is to avoid fucking women who I know are likely to be reckless with not only what they allow in between their legs, but also reckless about what they let out.

 

[darth frosty]

These are just questions based on observations of human behavior period.


How do you tell a good one from a bad one??

How do you know that the person talking and acting like they the one is actually NOT the one?

if your thirsty but all you have is dirty water to drink...

if you've grown up eating garbage do you think you'd recognise or appreciate a healthy meal if one is presented to you?





you guys keep hittin me with colin but thats was already brought up... I said like 4 pages back:

She needs to make better choices...she needs to think...she needs to consider... well what the hell does he need to do??? It doesn't matter if one man impregnates 100 women that man STILL has a responsibility. And for some reason you all think all these women either know each other or know of each other and are doing all of this on purpose because black women are just stupid like that.

Man 1 lives in NY and gets woman A pregnant....then fucks woman B...well woman B may know woman A but thinks he's going to be different with her.

Then he fucks woman C...well woman C doesn't know about A and B...then he visits his cousin in Florida and meets and fucks woman D well she lives in another STATE and has no clue about A, B, and C.

We're up to at least 4 kids by four different women and you all say ALL FOUR of those women are stupid for fucking Man1....well what about Man1? well he's just dumb.

And you guys don't see the issue here??

Fam, stop going back & forth with meechie, it's fucking up our ability to live our best lifes.

How & why he know or care about ALL. THOSE. SIDE. EFFECTS. of birth control? I know how the pussy work enough to control it, please myself, and plan around its cycle.

you are absolutely right!

 

[geechiedan]

you are absolutely right!

another one in the echo chamber...

you guys don't want to hear anything that challenges your viewpoint.

BGOL isn't about looking at an issue (when there is a serious issue posted) and looking at different perspectives and trying to figure shit out

its an echo chamber and circle jerk of reassuring ourselves about things we've already made up our minds on.

 

[geechiedan]

Condoms suck, if you had a dick you would know!

WOW...SNL wrote a sketch with you in mind!!!

and QUOTED YOU AT 2:28!!!

 

[RoadRage]

WOW...SNL wrote a sketch with you in mind!!!

and QUOTED YOU AT 2:28!!!

So if I joke and say pussy feels good, because it was in a joke that means it doesn't? Fuck out of here with that goofy clown shit!

 

[shaddyvillethug]

you stand on your knuckles like a ape..fuckin moron.

You bout to get banned

 

[geechiedan]

So if I joke and say pussy feels good, because it was in a joke that means it doesn't? Fuck out of here with that goofy clown shit!

Stop bein so sensitive

 

[killagram]

You bout to get banned

Racist ass fuck...I'm on his ass..brah

 

[killagram]

Stop bein so sensitive

Look who's talking...bish

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Ban this nigga

he need at least 3 days

fuck a warning

he know the rules and he know what shouldn’t be said

put that nigga on deck

 

[godofwine]

These are just questions based on observations of human behavior period.


How do you tell a good one from a bad one??

How do you know that the person talking and acting like they the one is actually NOT the one?

if your thirsty but all you have is dirty water to drink...

if you've grown up eating garbage do you think you'd recognise or appreciate a healthy meal if one is presented to you?





you guys keep hittin me with colin but thats was already brought up... I said like 4 pages back:

She needs to make better choices...she needs to think...she needs to consider... well what the hell does he need to do??? It doesn't matter if one man impregnates 100 women that man STILL has a responsibility. And for some reason you all think all these women either know each other or know of each other and are doing all of this on purpose because black women are just stupid like that.

Man 1 lives in NY and gets woman A pregnant....then fucks woman B...well woman B may know woman A but thinks he's going to be different with her.

Then he fucks woman C...well woman C doesn't know about A and B...then he visits his cousin in Florida and meets and fucks woman D well she lives in another STATE and has no clue about A, B, and C.

We're up to at least 4 kids by four different women and you all say ALL FOUR of those women are stupid for fucking Man1....well what about Man1? well he's just dumb.

And you guys don't see the issue here??

It is a clear cut case of chicken or the egg. What came first?

White people in slavery really did a number on black people. There are spotted areas of successful dual parenting, but for the most part our entire system of parenting, finding a mate, choosing a mate and procreation is completely and totally fucked

 

[dHustla]

It is a clear cut case of chicken or the egg. What came first?

White people in slavery really did a number on black people. There are spotted areas of successful dual parenting, but for the most part our entire system of parenting, finding a mate, choosing a mate and procreation is completely and totally fucked

It really is and it's sad.
I'm convinced that the odds & statistics are against having a healthy, happy black family on U.S. soil.

 

[hardawayz16]

White people in slavery really did a number on black people. There are spotted areas of successful dual parenting, but for the most part our entire system of parenting, finding a mate, choosing a mate and procreation is completely and totally fucked

Whats crazy is immediately after emancipation black people searched high and low to reunite with their families all across the country. Families and marriages were the norm.

Most of us are middle aged. How many of us had single parent, never married grandmothers? Great grandmothers?

 

[roots69]

Exhibit A through Z

WHAT DA FUCK!!! Another reason we gotta unplug from that damn television, media/social media, cell and radio!! But aint nobody listening, so the dream/trance/illusion carries on and on!! Its all by design, now back to your regular schedule programming/conditioning!!

 

[roots69]

It is a clear cut case of chicken or the egg. What came first?

White people in slavery really did a number on black people. There are spotted areas of successful dual parenting, but for the most part our entire system of parenting, finding a mate, choosing a mate and procreation is completely and totally fucked

Right on, bruh!! The fucked up and sad part about the whole thing is, its all by design!! This corporation spends BILLION's of monopoly dollars yearly to keep our copper color people mislead, deep asleep, divided and locked on the lying ass history(EVERYTHING TOLD TO US ABOUT OUR HISTORY WAS?HAS BEEN TOLD TO US IN REVERSE) we've been told by these strangers(we were told and taught our kids not to listen to strangers but) in these so called schools aka indoctrination centers!!