After 4 years of curving him... She finally saw something in him (or she settled, you be the judge)

She’s wack and he’s a bird! Four years is too damn long but hey we all wanna be a love story
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Thanks. I forgot about the ones who just want to eat well and have a place to crash. My point tho is its funny watching all these folks in here with the faux outrage clutching their pearls like they haven't done the same or worse and bragged about it on here, some with homegrown pics to boot. Some of these folks want to be the only ones who play games and get over on folks and that's not reality. The don't recognize it outside of IG tho, and they aren't really mad about IG just that women won't give access for FREE.
I'm no saint. I smashed a trailer load of chicks in my day. Used many of them, but never let them feel that way.

But it takes a special kind of somebody to publicly say, online, hey I'm marrying this person, after I made them wait, having no interest in them, used them to get me stuff I wanted, then, hey, you know what, I guess I'll marry him, then later cant wait to tell my kids how I used him.

She will have a child, that will manifest that same mentality most likely to their future partner.

She has some deep rooted kinda evil in my mind with maybe some past abuse/neglect mentally as a child. She has no love for her partner, it's just his turn til something better comes along, never satisfied.

Even if dudes posting their past exploits on here, if they're posting faces and IG links, then idk, I just smh to that. I've never seen that. But you're a mod and see more than what most of us do
 
I'm no saint. I smashed a trailer load of chicks in my day. Used many of them, but never let them feel that way.

But it takes a special kind of somebody to publicly say, online, hey I'm marrying this person, after I made them wait, having no interest in them, used them to get me stuff I wanted, then, hey, you know what, I guess I'll marry him, then later cant wait to tell my kids how I used him.

She will have a child, that will manifest that same mentality most likely to their future partner.

She has some deep rooted kinda evil in my mind with maybe some past abuse/neglect mentally as a child. She has no love for her partner, it's just his turn til something better comes along, never satisfied.

Even if dudes posting their past exploits on here, if they're posting faces and IG links, then idk, I just smh to that. I've never seen that. But you're a mod and see more than what most of us do
Phenomenal job buddy. :clap::clap::clap:

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If I was an established man before I met my wife, I would definitely have a tougher mindset towards women. Me and my lady connected when I was still trying to find myself.

I was an easy catch when I was younger, but most chicks I dated didn’t want a guy with a potential future. They wanted guys that had shit together right then and there. I couldn’t compete with that and I didn’t try either.

Real shit
 
Thanks. I forgot about the ones who just want to eat well and have a place to crash. My point tho is its funny watching all these folks in here with the faux outrage clutching their pearls like they haven't done the same or worse and bragged about it on here, some with homegrown pics to boot. Some of these folks want to be the only ones who play games and get over on folks and that's not reality. The don't recognize it outside of IG tho, and they aren't really mad about IG just that women won't give access for FREE.

Brutal breakdown.

"That's the game"
 
Most chicks isn’t going outright and say she curved a guy she ended up with. I don’t expect them to.

That type of honesty is best left unsaid.

I’m blessed to have my wife as well and if she did curve me, I would rather continue living life not knowing. It’ll be 14 years together this August. Lol
Been knowing the ol' lady longer than these fools been alive. Most she can say to the kids is :eek: "your daddy was a wiiiiiiild boy"Before we got together, knocked off 3 of her friends. That's what I can think of as I type this. Might be more, but I stayed fucked up in the 90s.

:lol: @ curved. Peace the fuck out.
 
I'm no saint. I smashed a trailer load of chicks in my day. Used many of them, but never let them feel that way.

But it takes a special kind of somebody to publicly say, online, hey I'm marrying this person, after I made them wait, having no interest in them, used them to get me stuff I wanted, then, hey, you know what, I guess I'll marry him, then later cant wait to tell my kids how I used him.

She will have a child, that will manifest that same mentality most likely to their future partner.

She has some deep rooted kinda evil in my mind with maybe some past abuse/neglect mentally as a child. She has no love for her partner, it's just his turn til something better comes along, never satisfied.

Even if dudes posting their past exploits on here, if they're posting faces and IG links, then idk, I just smh to that. I've never seen that. But you're a mod and see more than what most of us do

Lmao. So in other words you did the crime but believe there is no injury because the victim doesn't know they were robbed? I swear I love y'alls rationalization to excuse poor behavior. That's like bragging after the fact for a well executed con. You used women but were so smooth you didn't piss anyone off. Whatever helps you sleep well. Most likely they knew and either kept up the facade for their own mental health and self esteem or at the same time they were using you to some degree. You want a pass tho because you didn't say the quiet part out loud and the woman in the OP did? Lmao.

This is not an attack on you, I'm just amazed at the logic.
 
If I was an established man before I met my wife, I would definitely have a tougher mindset towards women. Me and my lady connected when I was still trying to find myself.

I was an easy catch when I was younger, but most chicks I dated didn’t want a guy with a potential future. They wanted guys that had shit together right then and there. I couldn’t compete with that and I didn’t try either.
 
Been knowing the ol' lady longer than these fools been alive. Most she can say to the kids is :eek: "your daddy was a wiiiiiiild boy"Before we got together, knocked off 3 of her friends. That's what I can think of as I type this. Might be more, but I stayed fucked up in the 90s.

:lol: @ curved. Peace the fuck out.

Rigghtt?... Curved...??? Dueces hoe... :lol:
 
nah he aint meet nobody that could put it on his ass like that....

in four years...

some chicks sex game are a thirsty dudes dream come true...

youd be surprised how my dimes are wack as fuck behind closed doors..

if you aint creative and know how to position them hoes, you gonna get bored...

truth....

had a fine as hell ex a few years ago....

i had to bring my A game every single time or else shyt was WACK....
 
This is actually a VERY common thing amongst women when you think about it. There is always going to be that one dude that will thirst after her regardless of her looks. Many just don’t announce it.

She was just trying to see how far she should go.
Never getting anywhere with her is the challenge that drove his thirst for her..... gonna be like wtf did I do? in a couple of years....


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If I was an established man before I met my wife, I would definitely have a tougher mindset towards women. Me and my lady connected when I was still trying to find myself.

I was an easy catch when I was younger, but most chicks I dated didn’t want a guy with a potential future. They wanted guys that had shit together right then and there. I couldn’t compete with that and I didn’t try either.
Real shit here.

I got married old (in my 40's). I was lucky enough to by a 4br/4ba new construction house in a hot, in-town neighborhood during the housing crash. After having a 6 yr live-in girlfriend, I'd have chicks over dayum near auditioning for the role of "wifey" . Shit was a sport. Found my queen and locked it down, but can't lie...I reminisce about those days every single day.

Young brothas...have your shit together before getting married. Then you will have the pick of the litter.
 
Lmao. So in other words you did the crime but believe there is no injury because the victim doesn't know they were robbed? I swear I love y'alls rationalization to excuse poor behavior. That's like bragging after the fact for a well executed con. You used women but were so smooth you didn't piss anyone off. Whatever helps you sleep well. Most likely they knew and either kept up the facade for their own mental health and self esteem or at the same time they were using you to some degree. You want a pass tho because you didn't say the quiet part out loud and the woman in the OP did? Lmao.

This is not an attack on you, I'm just amazed at the logic.
I'm not broadcasting it online and airing chicks out if I did XYZ with a chick is my point. Plus the majority of dirt I did was long B4 I was even 20.

Think you're missing the point I'm trying to convey.

You can't have this stigma that all men or all BGOL men think like "this".

Nothing like that.

But in that same notion there's hoards of chicks who gladly tease guys along with the carrot they they never plan to give.

ie: I have friends who live on these dating apps. There's teams of women on there who use dudes only to line them up for their weekly eating plans in upscale restaurants.

Mike - lunch Mon
Tom - dinner Mon

Bob - lunch Tues
Harry - dinner Tues

Sam - lunch Wed

And so on and so forth.

Do I categorize all women in the same boat? No.
I can't, it's just majority of the dating circles apps, my single friends constantly tell me the same stories of majority of the women who lurk there are users. We've had threads on here about it.
 
I'm not broadcasting it online and airing chicks out if I did XYZ with a chick is my point. Plus the majority of dirt I did was long B4 I was even 20.

Think you're missing the point I'm trying to convey.

You can't have this stigma that all men or all BGOL men think like "this".

Nothing like that.

But in that same notion there's hoards of chicks who gladly tease guys along with the carrot they they never plan to give.

ie: I have friends who live on these dating apps. There's teams of women on there who use dudes only to line them up for their weekly eating plans in upscale restaurants.

Mike - lunch Mon
Tom - dinner Mon

Bob - lunch Tues
Harry - dinner Tues

Sam - lunch Wed

And so on and so forth.

Do I categorize all women in the same boat? No.
I can't, it's just majority of the dating circles apps, my single friends constantly tell me the same stories of majority of the women who lurk there are users. We've had threads on here about it.


The comments I made were general based on BGOL observations of actions you've said you haven't engaged in, but you seem to be taking this personally. Whether or not YOU are airing folks out, when you corrected my post you proved my point. So obviously you've seen this before and didn't take issue with it enough to call anyone out in the past or call the menfolk around here evil.

It's interesting that I find the moral breakdown occurs with the using of a person, and you find it occurs should they find out first hand.

You're going off on all sorts of tangents and all I'm doing is making a glass house example.


Edit: moral breakdown is the wrong phrase. A better word is injury.
 
The comments I made were general based on BGOL observations of actions you've said you haven't engaged in, but you seem to be taking this personally. Whether or not YOU are airing folks out, when you corrected my post you proved my point. So obviously you've seen this before and didn't take issue with it enough to call anyone out in the past or call the menfolk around here evil.

It's interesting that I find the moral breakdown occurs with the using of a person, and you find it occurs should they find out first hand.

You're going off on all sorts of tangents and all I'm doing is making a glass house example.


Edit: moral breakdown is the wrong phrase. A better word is injury.
Feel you, but not taking it personal. Was just discussing it. You cool peeps, was just having a convo. Interesting discussion
 
I had a long post ready to go but ain’t nobody trying to read all of what I was gonna say so I’ll just say this...

She emasculated the shit out of him.

He better get used to her wearing the pants in their relationship and having to walk on eggshells around her...she will never fully respect him.
 
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