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13 reasons for a single man not to date a women with kids!

OnSlaught

OnSlaught

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I'll cross this bridge IF I get there...'til then, if it doesn't concern you, why do you give a flying fuck??? :smh::dunno:
 
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xfactor

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LoneStar29 said:
WOW ... same old X-Factor ... still breaking down every word out of my mouth and trying to disect it:lol:
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Same old? Do you know me? :confused:

Now, out of all you said, this was the only thing I was concerned about -

LoneStar29 said:
So if a single man and woman decide to settle down and have kids of their own does that mean he still wants to be her top priority ... the kids are supposed to come in second to him ...
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Obviously you are confused here. It would be extremely difficult for a man to want to seriously date a woman, knowing that the child will always come first. Can your little mind not comprehend that point?

And are you insinuating that in a new relationship, where the single mother gets married than her new husband is supposed to come before her kids?

LoneStar29 said:
Kids raising kids???:lol:The most ignorant comment of all ... I'm more woman than alot of the girls you come into contact with trust me:)
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:lol: Being over 18 makes you a legal adult but it does not make you a grown woman. You may be there physically but you've yet to prove you are there mentally.
 
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xfactor said:
Same old? Do you know me? :confused:

Now, out of all you said, this was the only thing I was concerned about -



Obviously you are confused here. It would be extremely difficult for a man to want to seriously date a woman, knowing that the child will always come first. Can your little mind not comprehend that point?

And are you insinuating that in a new relationship, where the single mother gets married than her new husband is supposed to come before her kids?



:lol: Being over 18 makes you a legal adult but it does not make you a grown woman. You may be there physically but you've yet to prove you are there mentally.
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Yeah I know you ... silly ass ... you down on so many people on here that you don't even remember them huh??? It's all good ... I know you kid ... wether you know me or not:lol:

Can you read or are you too busy looking for reasons to argue that you can't pay attention ... FOCUS PLEASE:
If a man with no children ... marries a woman with no children ... then they together have children ... does that mean he still wants to be her top priority ... are the children that they share together not more important than him??? I hope you understand now ... GEEZ:smh:

And you're all grown up right???Your lack of respect and narrow minded views tell me otherwise but as always your opinion is so appreciated by me:rolleyes:
 
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xfactor

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LoneStar29 said:
Yeah I know you ... silly ass ... you down on so many people on here that you don't even remember them huh??? It's all good ... I know you kid ... wether you know me or not:lol:
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:rolleyes: Because every time someone disagrees with you, it's downing them or being a hater right?

LoneStar29 said:
Can you read or are you too busy looking for reasons to argue that you can't pay attention ... FOCUS PLEASE:
If a man with no children ... marries a woman with no children ... then they together have children ... does that mean he still wants to be her top priority ... are the children that they share together not more important than him??? I hope you understand now ... GEEZ:smh:
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Well, thanks for clearing that up in a conversation about single men that may be interested in dating women with kids :)

But that still does not answer the question I posed to you

LoneStar29 said:
And you're all grown up right???Your lack of respect and narrow minded views tell me otherwise but as always your opinion is so appreciated by me:rolleyes:
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Lack of respect?

I hope you spend as much time with your son, helping with his scholastic and social development, as you do making moot points on BGOL.

Because if you do, the kid could easily become the next Barack Obama. :eek:
 
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xfactor said:
:rolleyes: Because every time someone disagrees with you, it's downing them or being a hater right?



Well, thanks for clearing that up in a conversation about single men that may be interested in dating women with kids :)

But that still does not answer the question I posed to you



Lack of respect?

I hope you spend as much time with your son, helping with his scholastic and social development, as you do making moot points on BGOL.

Because if you do, the kid could easily become the next Barack Obama. :eek:
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:lol:So you do remember me:lol:Having a discussion is always very difficult with you because you are not open to what any person with a diffrence of opinion says to you ... you keep putting that on me but it's funny that we always seem to be going back and forth about my points and not yours:rolleyes:Anyways you are getting too personal now and I don't feel like listening to you down play my parenting skills when you do not know me and having nothing to base your opinions of me on ... before I get really mad I'm just gonna stop when I'm feelin' alright:)
 
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LoneStar29 said:
:lol::lol::hmm:
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:smh:

the flash said:
13 reasons for a single man not to date a women with kids! and the same applies to women also!

By Peezy Head (aka Jumpig Mack Flash)


1) Baby Damage - Birth has a traumatic effect on the female form. Pregnancy leaves stretch marks, saggy breasts, and c-section scars. I've also heard that the nookie is even stretch out and it isn't the same anymore. Then there's the weight gain. Most women NEVER LOSE IT or they never get their former hot shape back.

2) "I Can't Find A Baby Sitter" - Women will use this as an excuse to get out of date with you or they may legitmately can't find a baby sitter. Either case it isn't your problem and you shouldn't have to deal with it.

3) Babies Interrupt Sex - I've had this happen to me. I was banging a woman and her kid interrupted my sex. Needless to say I was pissed. If some kid is going to interrupt the meanest head you've ever gotten, that kid should have your last name.

4) Baby's Daddy - When your dealing with a woman and your getting know her, you shouldn't have to deal with kid's father. Some guys can't get over the fact that their ex has moved on. Before he was an un-attentive jerk and didn't give a jolly damn about her. Now that you've entered into the picture, the dude wants to be the ideal boyfriend and a "father of the year," nominee." The guy stars stalking her and wants to fight you. Even if the woman and guy are on good terms, the guy feels as if he can always smash. He knows her. He knows what she wants to hear and what makes her happy. The next know you your having this conversation- "I've decided to try and make it work with Jimmy's dad". Best way to avoid the situation is to avoid single moms.

5) Rent-A-Daddy - Realizing her mistake, realizing that kids (especially boys need fathers,) The woman gets desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be "daddy." You're out trying to get some, not inheirit a family.

6) The Kids Are Still Up - This is only a problem if your trying to pursue something other than a booty call. Wanting to spend time with you, but not wanting to bring strange men around her kids, you find yourself only seeing this female after 10 or 11PM. You want to move forward, but she has to make sure your the "one." This could take months. I suggest dealing with women that are readily available to hang out.

7) Double Heart Break - You are with the woman, then everything falls apart. You not only do you have to deal with losing the woman, but you've formed a bond with lil' Jimmy. You and Jimmy play HALO together, watch the Wizards' hoop it up, go to the zoo, and things dads do with sons or daughters. On top of maybe missing the woman, you miss the kid.

8) Your Not My Dad. - You hook up with the woman, eventually the issue of discipline is going to come up. Some kids being resentful or just being a bratty prick is going to eventuallly pull the "YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!! YOUR NOT MY DAD!!!" card. Personally if I did date single mothers and some dumba$$ kid pulled that stunt on me, I would say, "Your right. I'm not your father. Since I have no authority over you and you refuse to listen to me, you need to pack your sh*t and go live with your dad." This would be a deal breaker for me. In addition some mothers or the dad would have problem with you disciplining their kid. I'm sorry, if some kid broke my laptop, I'm whooping his a$$.

9) You Know What She Going To Do - She already has one kid, if you knock her up, it's safe to assume she's going to have another one.

10) Bad Judge of Character - This female got knocked up by somebody that she was "supposely in love with." Not only is she a bad judge of character, she's GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guy that's an a$$hole now, is the same guy she thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

11) Unneccessary Expeditures - Eventually you'll get to meet the kid(s.) Soon those dates turn into family outings. Instead of paying for two people, your paying for three or more. The same goes if you move in with her.

12) You'll Never Be #1 - When your trying to build a relationship with somebody, you should be the focus of the woman's life. It should be about you and her. If she has a kid, you'll NEVER BE #1!!! That's not a bad thing either, but it's something I don't want to deal with. Neither should you.

13) Tag, Your It! - This should be the BIGGEST deterrent to EVER dealing with a single mother. In some jurisdictions, I think California is one of them, if you start dealing with a female with kids, move in with her and things go south. THE FEMALE CAN SUE YOU FOR CHILD SUPPORT!!!! She can claim that the her and child have "become a customed to you supporting the child." YOU COULD END UP POSSIBILY PAYING CHILD SUPPORT FOR A KID THAT ISN'T EVEN YOURS! Imagine being extorted money because you were doing what you thought was the "right thing." The state doesn't give a rat's a$$ about the relationship being over or you being a "good guy." They just don't want the chick on welfare. So as far as your concerned, it's "TAG, YOUR IT!"
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SinaminDelite said:
It won't be discussed by me, because I don't have kids, so I could care less how ya'll feel about it quite honestly. I don't date men with kids for my own personal reasons. Some people don't mind it, some do; to each his/her own. There were a few good points in that article though.
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:yes: c/s
 
the flash

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LoneStar29 said:
You're nitpicking ... by single I meant neither of them already has a child ... DANG:hmm:



By the mother and father of course ... why should any child be limited to only one parent if he/she doesn't have to be ... what about if the woman is widowed ... does she fall under your silly list rules???
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yeah if she dosent conduct herself according my personal standards
 
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the flash

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LoneStar29 said:
OH GIMME A BREAK ... that was never your point ... you're just trying to dick ride the first sort of sensible post you read:smh:Think for yourself Flasher:hmm:
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lol i m just agreeing with a valid piont and about ridding you need to look at yourself

with your qoute "I should have listened to the other girls when they said not to bother with you cuz you talk shit"
 

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